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Serge Benhayon – a true role model

20/8/2017

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by Nicole Serafin

Serge Benhayon has been an incredible and intricate part of my life in many ways, both in how I am with myself, in my relationships, my family and how I now choose to live.
 
I have been blessed to know Serge for over 15 years and during this time my life has certainly had its ups and downs. When we first met, it was most certainly at a major down. I lived my days in major overwhelm, chaos and complication, seeking solace in Pilates, alcohol, marijuana, work and the isolation of my property which I saw as my haven, my escape from the world. 
My relationship was coming to an end, my body was fast giving out – suffering with fibromyalgia and unable to continue running my business or to maintain my property.

Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration for me in my relationship with my partner, always there no matter what time of day or night. He listened to me cry, rant, rave or blame, forever feeling like I was in a relationship that had no purpose, a relationship where we were constantly at each other, nit picking, highly reactive to each other. I remember one day calling Serge in absolute tears, I could barely talk, which happened many times during the early years of with my partner and my relationship, and again, he listened intently, offering simple words, ‘Be patient, give it time’. Words I had heard before from him, and all I could think was, ‘Really… again… how patient can a woman be?!’. I was waiting for the ‘I told you so’ however never in my 15+ years of knowing Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do … that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime.
It was a slow, and gradual unfolding and a choice I had to make – to begin to take responsibility for my own choices, to stop blaming my partner, to begin to deal with my own hurts, to love and accept myself, to stop trying to change or mould him into what I thought I needed him to be.
 
I had to begin to build a whole new level of understanding and acceptance, something I had never entertained before; after all I had been blaming others for why my life was the way it was for a very long time. It was HUGE and took time, and is something I am still working on, developing and deepening.
Looking back, none of this was ever expressed to me in the phone calls, cups of tea or meals shared with Serge, he only ever listened. The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself.
What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made, how I was with others and the deep hurts I had harboured for eons that I slowly began to feel, shed and let go of.
 
Taking responsibility is a big thing, we go through life blaming others for why we are the way we are, why our life, family or relationships are the way they are; but how often do we actually stop to see what we have contributed to all that we are involved in or part of?
 
Simply observing Serge and how he is with his own partner, family, friends and extended family is truly inspiring. Never had I seen or experienced such love and support, an understanding for humanity that left me feeling like I had held my partner to ransom, keeping him at bay just in case he may hurt me; when in truth I was harming myself every single moment I chose not to take responsibility for my choices, my behaviours, ideals or beliefs.
 
My relationship has gone from one that I never thought would last past the first year of marriage, to now heading into our 14th  year with many more to come. I know if it were not for the love, support and understanding Serge offered us, my husband and I would have been divorced many years ago. Serge was one of the only people who did not suggest we separate, our close friends even asked, ‘Why bother?’ but Serge constantly supports both of us to come together and build a true relationship; a relationship that is not built on needs, hurts nor ideals and beliefs.
 
Our children now have an opportunity to live with and be part of a true family, to grow up knowing there is more to a relationship than ticking the boxes. My husband and myself now have an opportunity to live together without the expectations, hurts, ideals or beliefs coming between us and from that we can parent our children together, no separation, competition or resentment but from equality.
Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not because of what he says, teaches or presents, but by what he lives, walks and breathes – which is an absolute love and understanding for all of humanity.
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​I know I would not have the marriage and family I have today if it were not for the choices Serge himself has made to live a life dedicated to love.
446 Comments
Suzanne Cox
20/8/2017 01:24:21 am

I can relate to what Nicole shares I so many ways. I would not have the relationships I have today without the inspiration that is how Serge Benhayon lives. A constant and forever inspiring role model and an absolute blessing to have in my life.

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David Nicholson
8/4/2018 04:24:43 am

Suzanne its amazing how many people feel the same, the fact is our lives have been transformed by the choices we've made but that has come about through the dedication and love that Serge presents to us in what is possible. A true role model in every way.

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Willem Plandsoen
15/4/2018 12:46:52 pm

I fully recognize this Suzanne. He sets the standards, my standards how my relations, especially with my partner can be.

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Nattalija link
28/4/2018 03:53:30 am

Showing all that the potential to love each other with a deep commitment to life and all that there is to offer one another in the forefront. A truly inspiring man!

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jennym
20/8/2017 01:41:09 am

Indeed Serge Benhayon is a true role model as he lives what he presents and presents only what he has lived. In this way he presents that we all are a living science that can be studied and observed for what represents a true way of living or not.

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Lorraine Wellman
12/9/2018 08:30:54 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true role model in all areas of life, he has inspired many in the area of relationships, ' to begin to take responsibility for my own choices, to stop blaming my partner, to begin to deal with my own hurts, to love and accept myself, to stop trying to change or mould him into what I thought I needed him to be.'

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Harrison White
20/8/2017 02:57:43 am

Beautiful Nicole. When in a relationship which has turmoil and difficulty it seems the easy option is to look for solutions like separating or arranging things / making compromise etc but not get to the root of things a discover that there actually may be Love there at the core, but we have an exterior we live and know ourselves by which is causing the conflict.

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Liane Mandalis
20/8/2017 03:21:46 am

Beautiful Nicole, love resurrected. Our movements speak louder than words. Therefore a true role model walks before he talks. This I have witnessed in Serge Benhayon. When we move in truth, the Universe listens and responds accordingly as do we listen and respond to it – one movement, one life.

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Eva Rygg
22/8/2017 11:41:33 am

How true - Serge Benhayon is a shining reflection that there is no 'off-time' from love, joy, truth, responsibility and purpose. It's all One Life.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 11:40:59 am

This concept of no down time is so foreign in a world that craves down time. We come home at night desperate to collapse on the couch and watch TV, have time at the movies, or just check out in a good book. The idea that life has so much purpose, there is no time for any of that is not greatly embraced, but is clearly a part of a life well lived.

Michelle Mcwaters
29/8/2017 03:10:54 am

The very concept that someone can be so committed to life that every waking and sleeping moment is dedicated to humanity is a concept that is hardly credible and yet here is a man who lives in just such a way. I wouldn't have credited it either until I met Serge Benhayon but here is someone who is showing us the level of love that is possible to live.

Jane Keep
12/9/2017 10:08:12 am

Purpose is medicine for the body. When I used to watch TV, endless movies, and distractions, deep inside I was craving purpose. As I hadn't connected to true purpose, I used TV etc as fillers. Nowadays I don't miss TV or endless movies and my body benefits when I chose to stay on track, purposeful and focused.

Nattalija link
4/11/2017 09:49:36 pm

His ability to hold this all without an ounce of self is what makes this man a role model and truly inspiring reflection for humanity.

Monika Rietveld
2/10/2017 09:33:22 pm

And that is why Serge 'talks his walk' and not the other way around 'walks his talk', because the movements come first and offer the truth to us and to the world. If we move in line with the rhythm of the universe there is nothing but harmony in ourselves.

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Chan Ly
13/10/2017 01:44:34 am

This is so true Liane, Serge Benhayon is deeply inspiring. It is so natural for us to respond to his movements because they are movements of love, stillness, truth, joy and harmony all rolled into One and expressed for All.

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Nattalija link
1/1/2018 05:35:12 pm

A walk and path that leads all to an equal understanding that brotherhood is for all and nothing less of that is offered by the words and work of Serge Benhayon.

Claudia Swadek
20/8/2017 05:07:47 am

Thank you, for this very open and raw sharing about your development and your apprecation for Serge.
I agree and I want to add, sometimes I was just surprised, I got an answer in a couple of minutes and he is living on the other side of the world- and as you said, the answer is always very beholding, simple, allowing me to take my full responsibilty -without holding back.
To feel that level of commitment, makes me very humble and I don`t take it for granted, but as a huge inspiration to allow that heartfelt openness with every woman or man I meet.

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Nico van Haastrecht
20/8/2017 06:37:11 pm

Indeed Claudia, my relationship with Serge has made me very humble too and made me to step down from the arrogance I was living. The arrogance of I know it all, and i do not need any help in life, as that is what living in separation of the love Serge has brought back in my life had made me to be.

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Nattalija
26/10/2018 02:36:12 pm

The arrogance we know now is built from layers of protection towards the world when deep down there is so much on offer that the world misses out. Thank you Serge Benhayon for being the catalyst for this changes for so many.

Heather Pope
29/10/2017 03:18:58 pm

The support that Serge Benhayon provides is something that is nothing short of incredible. His commitment to all of humanity, in an equal fashion is an inspiration that knows no end.

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Lorraine Wellman
13/9/2018 10:42:33 pm

I second your comment Heather, the support Serge Benhayon provides is nothing short of incredible, and I, and many of us, probably do not even realise the full extent of the support he is providing. Likewise his commitment to all of humanity know no bounds, if the press started to truly study this man that would give them more than an amazing story, a jaw dropping story, that is True.

Ariana Ray
20/8/2017 07:16:41 am

'Never in my 15+ years of knowing Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do … that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime.' What a role model that is! For how many of us can say that don't judge or criticise? The quality in this man's Livingness is extraordinary.

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Sylvia Brinkman
20/8/2017 07:56:38 am

That is beautiful to read Nicole.
It is good I was all the time living overseas when I was starting to know Serge Benhayon. As I was an ultimate dram queen and could just email him. All my emails got answered in love and always I felt a holding of love no matter what I was doing in life. My life completely changed by becoming so much more loving to myself first. My whole face has even changed. This most amazing man is a true gift to humanity.

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Nicola Lessing
21/8/2017 02:08:55 am

I completely agree Sylvia – this most amazing man is indeed a gift to humanity and one of the many amazing things about Serge is that he shows us that we are all equally amazing and the same as him and it is quite normal to be so amazing!

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Vicky Geary
8/10/2017 09:45:25 am

The equality that Serge holds everyone in is what continually inspires me. His walk says this is who 'we' are - responsibility, purpose and love for all.

Joshua Campbell
20/8/2017 08:08:49 am

Your blog has left me utterly speechless and totally inspired of the magnitude of love Serge Benhayon has held you in and offered you and your family with not an ounce of judgement, criticism or investment in you 'getting it' or changing. It really goes to show the greatest gift we can offer another is to not react to them and to simply hold them in the love of who they naturally are.

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Henrietta Chang
20/8/2017 01:01:42 pm

Spot on Joshua - the care, the love, the holding, and above all the fact that Serge can feel the potential in the relationship and supports this to blossom is absolutely amazing - something for us all to be inspired by and bring to those around us.

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Nattalija link
12/11/2017 06:15:59 am

Knowing the potential and holding another so lovingly in this is the absolute commitment Serge Benhayon has for humanity.

Nattalija link
29/11/2017 01:29:06 pm

Serge Benhayon has been so inspiring in so many ways in bringing this to my life with work, family and friends. Everything has shifted to a whole new level. Thank you Serge!

Stephanie Stevenson
20/8/2017 08:56:45 pm

Beautifully said Joshua - I too, am constantly inspired of the magnitude and grandness of love that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects equally to all 24/7. It is a simple and normal way of living to Serge and his family - it can be our new-normal too.

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Judy Young
20/8/2017 09:19:19 am

A beautiful testimonial which gives a picture of how deeply supportive Serge Benhayon is, no matter what area of life. Serge will always offer the truth without telling you what to do and will support you to grow into living the honest, open and loving person you truly are.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 11:42:33 am

The underlying tenet of Serge Benhayon's work is it is not about what we do, but what energy or quality we are in when we do it. This is universal and applies to all areas of life.

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Ruth Ketnor
19/9/2017 12:03:11 am

Yes Judy, Serge always offers the truth with no expectations or imposition and we are given the space to choose how we live from the truth we have felt. Such is the depth of love Serge holds for humanity.

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Annelies van Haastrecht
20/8/2017 11:08:46 am

Thank you Nicole for your honest sharing to point out what Serge Benhayon brought to you and your family, just holding you (and all of humanity) in love and this makes that you can say '..he listened intently, offering simple words.... ' words of truth because of the quality of the life he lives in every moment.

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Michael Brown
20/8/2017 11:24:59 am

Beautiful Nicole, and what a magnificent life you now lead because of what you describe here.

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Heather Pope
29/10/2017 03:20:07 pm

Through the inspiration that Serge Benhayon has offered, we are all now able to offer that inspiration to others, simply by how we live.

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David
21/10/2018 08:44:35 pm

And there we have a real magic, the power we all have to show the world that life can be full of love and joy.

Nikki McKe
20/8/2017 11:37:17 am

Blame seems like such an easy way to live. But blame is really just avoiding responsibility. When we step out of blame and start taking responsibility for our lives and choices, it's as though miraculous things happen - such as a relationship you thought would end can suddenly be resurrected and true love and purpose found to be waiting there all along. But miraculous may not be the right word - perhaps that should be normal and the "what is not" the not normal part.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 11:43:34 am

Self blame is potentially one of the greatest hindrances to emotional well being.

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jane keep
16/1/2018 06:44:46 am

Absolutely agree Heather - and also it is damaging to the body too as it keeps the body in turmoil and tension with no settlement.

Vicky Cooke
27/9/2017 12:52:12 pm

Blame solves absolutely nothing, I know this from experience and on reflection it was actually Serge Benhayon that helped me to see this after having a one to one session with him. He spoke very few words but those words were very poignant to me and after this one session I started to let go of the blame, stubbornness and reaction I was holding my family ransom to and contacted them. Now my relationships with them are better than they have ever been in my entire life.

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jennym
29/9/2017 06:44:31 pm

Whether we blame ourselves or others it does not help us out of the mire that we are in. Developing self care and self love in the our choices from the present moment is the only way to keep us from treading the same path over and over again.

Lucy Duffy
20/8/2017 11:42:54 am

Serge is a true friend. His love is absolute and he will never hold back from expressing truth, no matter how uncomfortable or challenging it might be for us to hear. But because he holds himself in this same absolute Love, he holds no judgements, no expectations, no blame, he simply see us for who we are, even when it's deeply hidden beneath layers of protection from being hurt. He holds us without holding on, loves us without needing anything back, gives everything, unconditionally. I will be eternally, heartfeltedly thankful that he is part of my Family.

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Henrietta Chang
20/8/2017 12:59:03 pm

What a beautiful testimonial Nicole - relationships such as yours with your husband are powerful ones indeed yet sometimes we do not know what lies ahead and when times are tough we think it is time to 'move on' instead of holding the patience to work through what needs to be worked through. It is a blessing to know you have stayed together, not because this keeps a 'family picture' but because of what you both have to bring as a power couple. Serge could sense this years ago, and so this is the beauty in his support for you both.

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Heather Pope
29/10/2017 03:23:51 pm

There is much more going on in our relationships than meets the eye. What if our unions were about evolution, about offering something to the world simply by how we live together? The bigger picture offers much more understanding to our day to day lives.

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Rowena Stewart
20/8/2017 01:04:56 pm

Serge holds such deep understanding for all humanity and sees way beyond the shallow limitations of our beliefs and ideals to the deep potential we all hold to love and honour both our selves and one another. The one thing he demonstrates consistently is the depth of responsibility he willing takes for the quality of his life, a responsibility that can be felt in the way he cares for, respects and interacts with everyone, close family, friends and strangers, one constant expression of love and integrity that inspires so many to re-claim these inherent qualities within us.

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Stephen Gammack
20/8/2017 05:34:37 pm

A beautiful testimonial to a very loving man. It can be easy to give up on things when they are tough, and it is a testimony to Serge that he never suggested that as an option. The man is able to see beyond the difficulties to the potential of everyone in every situation.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 11:46:07 am

Commitment to life by its definition allows no space for withdrawal or giving up, and this is one of the many things Serge Benhayon is a great role model for.

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Jane Keep
13/9/2017 01:09:34 am

So true Heather - Ive known Serge Benhayon for 14 years and never once felt him withdraw, or give up on any aspect of life - which is truly remarkable given what can seem the intensity of the world we live in. For that reason and many more Serge is a daily inspiration to me.

Nico van Haastrecht
20/8/2017 06:17:04 pm

What you share here Nicole is so recognizable. The unwavering support from Serge, his involvement in who you are and the relationships you have, always there to listen but never comes with any judgement only with the encouragement to choose for love in all parts of your life and to experience what true love is able to do.

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Joseph Barker
20/8/2017 07:48:27 pm

We think that miracles are large and surprising, jaw dropping events that defy belief. But what I am starting to see is that what they truly are, is when people who were relentlessly heading in a destructive direction are inspired to stop and choose Love. I've read many of your blogs Nicole, and it's stunning to consider how all the wisdom you've shared has been made possible simply by knowing Serge. When you factor in the difference he has made to so many people's lives like this, it's clear the power we each have is way beyond words.

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Stephanie Stevenson
9/9/2017 05:01:30 am

Yes, thank you for this reminder Joseph - miracles occur in the moment that we stop and and make a new choice to be more aware of our body. This is the simplicity of choosing love.

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shami
20/8/2017 09:01:04 pm

The incredible gift that Serge Benhayon gives at every juncture is to reflect back to all of us the fact that we are equal with eachother which is very empowering and enables each one of us to to come to our own resolution and actually not need him even though he is there as an everlasting support.

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Stephanie Stevenson
20/8/2017 09:02:50 pm

Nicole this is a deeply inspiring testimonial with its raw honesty and transparency from how you were living to how you live now. I have known Serge Benhayon for 9 years now and there has never been a a trace of being told what to do.

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Heather Pope
29/10/2017 03:22:16 pm

One of the many amazing qualities of Serge Benhayon is that he never ever imposes his views. He offers a way of living that is from our inner heart, and it is up to us to live according to our own inner knowing.

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James Nicholson
20/8/2017 10:02:35 pm

I have had the same experience with Serge over the years I have known him and the fact that he 'never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime' is worth appreciating. Serge also never tells you what to do but rather acts as a vehicle to reflect back to you what you are feeling and so naturally you come to the conclusion yourself. Many a time I have asked what I should do and he always says I cannot tell you which is somethign I admire and can learn from. After all we are exactly where we are because of the chocies we have made and have no one else to blame. So the moment we realise that is the moment we can take responsibility for our lives and no matter what happens or what we choose so long as we are open to learn then we will be where we need to be to see and learn what we need to.

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Vicky Cooke
7/10/2017 05:22:46 am

I got to feel last week during a mental health first aid course how sometimes we love to give advice and how it can make us feel better, like we are doing something or helping another. The truth is some 'advice' can be very damaging particularly if not discerned. The fact that Serge Benhayon holds all as equal to him in love and does not give advice but instead allows the person to feel what they need to do is a testimony to him as a person and the integrity he lives by.

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Rowena Stewart
20/8/2017 10:17:13 pm

I have never met anyone who can see right to the core of the issue in the way that Serge Benhayon does, and in doing so cleanly slices away the blame and bitterness to expose the kernel of our responsibility and power in every aspect of our lives.

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Ariana Ray
20/8/2017 10:27:00 pm

"Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration' so he has been and continues to be. He inspires everyone to by the way he lives, that is the pure magic of it all.

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David Nicholson
31/3/2018 07:14:49 am

I totally agree Ariana and more so how incredible, to see the photos of all the people who have chosen to make changes in the way they live. Incredible inspiration from them as well.

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Matilda Bathurst link
21/8/2017 01:14:40 am

This is a brilliant insight into the way Serge Benhayon supports people to deepen their relationships with themselves, with honesty, with their purpose, with the meaning of life, with others... an inspiring testimonial... thank you, Nicole.

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Nicola Lessing
21/8/2017 02:04:10 am

I too know I would not have the huge love I have for myself, my gorgeous husband and all the wonderful people I know and meet if it were not for the choice Serge has made to live a life dedicated to love.

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Carmel Reid
21/8/2017 02:24:29 am

How beautiful that you were able to take responsibility and let go of blaming anyone for what was happening in your life. I love that you were able to remain and develop within your existing relationship and not have to leave.

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Jane Keep
21/8/2017 02:53:00 am

Beautiful testimonial Nicole, brought tears to my eyes. I too have experienced the absolute love and true friendship from Serge Benhayon, and, in observing Serge for 14 years I too have been inspired to take responsibility in my own life. I am constantly inspired by Serge.

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Harrison White
21/8/2017 03:12:13 am

The most supportive words are simple, and said with true understanding. Amazing sharing Nicole.

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Michael Brown
21/8/2017 03:14:50 am

Thank you Nicole, your appreciation for how Serge held you and your partner is deeply felt.

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Lieke Campbell
21/8/2017 04:59:06 am

It is beautiful to be able to listen and only say what is needed. We are often already thinking of what to say whilst the person is talking to be able to help them but might miss what is truly needed in this way. Serge Benhayon is a true role model for this for sure, the few words he says always have an effect long after he has spoken them.

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Heather Pope
15/4/2018 11:24:06 am

Serge Benhayon sets the bar for a true conversation by being present, truly present with every person he meets.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
21/8/2017 05:48:14 am

What a gorgeous testament that to truly support another is not about clever words, providing solutions or even sympathising. It is about living as a true role model, and holding the other in love and honour, knowing that when held in such grace they will turn things round in their own time. Serge Benhayon has been such a support to thousands already, a deeply inspiring man.

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Rowena Stewart
23/8/2017 09:21:42 pm

"... when held in such grace they will turn things round in their own time". So true Golnaz, Serge Benhayon cradles us in grace, allowing us space to find our way, always presenting the bigger picture, encouraging us to go deeper within our selves so that we too can bring grace into the world. It is what we all innately want to do, so when offered the support and compassion to do so, we can take huge strides in lovingly addressing the problems in our lives and working to build true relationships in all aspects of our lives.

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David
25/8/2017 07:15:39 pm

Golnaz I love how you share the truth of the role model that Serge is and how this sets the standard for role models, the very fact that its not about words but a depth of care that he takes and lives each day is for me one is incredible as it was the first person I ever met like this.

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Aimee Edmonds
21/8/2017 06:01:35 am

Nicole this is huge, most in relationships believe the neediness, arguing, competition etc. is completely normal.... yes miserable but normal. It's almost like this is my lot in life, get married and then live like you hate each other from then on. I know this is not how everyone choices to live in partnership but it is common to hear this kind of talk. Thank goodness for Serge Benhayon and his family who reflect constantly what love is in every part of their lives including of course all their relationships. Now you and your family reflect also a relationship that is true, loving and supportive.

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leigh matson
21/8/2017 08:41:50 am

I couldn't help but smile while reading this as I too have been inspired by the understanding and love I have been held within everytime I speak to Serge for his ever open ear. Never telling me what to do but deeply inspiring in his simplicity to what I think at the time is a big deal.

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Priscila Azeredo de Souza
21/8/2017 11:47:21 am

Beautiful sharing Nicole. The way Serge Benhayon lives, consistently and unwaveringly, yet humble, real and tangibly, as you have shared above, has a ripple effect on so many people, myself included, who have been inspired to try it for myself and my life.

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hm
21/8/2017 12:19:16 pm

What a role model - and the most inspiring this is that we are never told what to do - we are simply presented the reflection of choices. This is a very personal sharing where you have been able to honour what you know and build on a relationship of purpose.

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Sarah Flenley
21/8/2017 12:26:54 pm

Stopping the blame game and actually taking the time to "actually stop to see what we have contributed to all that we are involved in or part of" is massive. I too am eternally grateful for Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine who have shown a way of how we can actually stop, look out our lives without harshness and judgement, and see where our role is in what goes on around us, and to inspire us to make more loving choices.

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Rowena Stewart
21/8/2017 09:28:15 pm

The way Serge Benhayon listens, observes and responds is a true education in itself, one that re-imprints our understanding of how to be in life, with our selves and one another. Any time that I want to get impatient with someone for 'not getting it' whatever 'it' maybe, Serge comes to mind. His immense steadiness and unwavering ability to observe the real reasons behind our behaviours inspires me to take a step back, and then several more and reconnect to who we really are, delicate sensitive beings attempting to return to our true way of living, all together. Serge demonstrates true friendship, again and again and will continue to do so for the rest of his life (and beyond) until we all 'get it'.

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Ariana Ray
21/8/2017 09:43:07 pm

'Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration' as he is. Watching him live the way he does, with dedication and commitment, that is pure inspiration.

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Carmel Reid
21/8/2017 10:11:05 pm

I agree, Serge has always presented us with consistent steady support, he dedicates his whole life to supporting all of humanity, from the way he lives and moves to the books he writes and the presentations he gives.

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jane keep
21/8/2017 11:29:05 pm

Stunning testimony - where else in the world do we get such true support, integrity and care? The care you received from Serge Benhayon is something I have observed literally 100's and 100's of times over and over again as that is consistently the way Serge lives. One day there will be a true documentary about Serge Benhayon and the work he does - there is no one else I know who is as dedicated, committed and caring as Serge.

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Michelle Mcwaters
21/8/2017 11:36:31 pm

Thank you for sharing your appreciation of Serge Nicole. Yes - Serge never judges or imposes and always holds you in the most deeply loving and respectful love. He has never said anything to me I wasn't ready to hear - he has a total knack of knowing what you are ready for and what you are not. Because of this way it supports to admit to lack of responsibility very honestly for oneself.

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Rachel Murtagh link
22/8/2017 01:10:56 am

Serge Benhayon is a true role model in very sense of the phrase. Like no other he walks his talk...he lives everything he shares and he inspires all to live more of themselves... I have witnessed so many letting go of their hurts, anger/frustration/sadness to become more loving, caring and gentle, more solid in themselves in the knowing of who they are. Your story Nicole is a clear testimony to this.

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Stephanie Stevenson
22/8/2017 03:19:47 am

Nicole, your photo says it all – there is a clarity and absoluteness in your eyes that reflects a timeless beauty and purity of the truth of who you are.

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Michael Brown
22/8/2017 03:33:56 am

Serge will listen to all you have to say, and from a place of Love, Truth and Understanding deliver a word/sentence/paragraph or monologue that hits the spot just right. On top of that, from my experience whenever Serge has shared something prophetic directed to me, it is always beneficial to All, and never just about me. Amazing inspiration!

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Joshua Campbell
22/8/2017 07:42:02 am

Serge Benhayon reminds us all that the relationship is never the issue. Even if there is no Love experienced or very little, we do have the choice to change that in every moment. Simply because Love is what makes up all of us.

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Eva Rygg
22/8/2017 11:35:54 am

Stunning testimony Nicole. I can very much relate to what you are sharing, and in particular this stood out for me - 'Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do … that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime.' - That is one of the things that is so extraordinary with Serge, he never ever imposes on anyone.

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Fiona Lotherington link
22/8/2017 12:20:32 pm

How rare is it to not be advised or for the listener to take sides? The only 'side' I have seen Serge take is that of true love and reminding us that that is our foundation and true essence also. He is one of the few people in this world who actually do offer this reflection and a powerful one it is. Without any force or convincing you know what is possible and what you are missing out on.

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Caroline Francis
22/8/2017 08:31:53 pm

Beautiful Nicole and it is equally the same inspiration from Serge Benhayon that is supporting me to live responsibly in my relationship with my husband. I am not sure where I would be now in my marriage if it were not for the love, wisdom and quality of living with which Serge lives by that inspires me no end to be and live in my own life.

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Rowena Stewart
12/10/2017 01:15:47 pm

I agree wholeheartedly Caroline. I too wonder how my relationship would be had my husband and I not met Serge Benhayon when we did. The unerring teachings that pour forth have supported us both to heal our wounds and transform the quality of our relationship beyond all recognition. What an immense gift Serge brings to us all and one that is so easily shared when we make life about Love and nothing else.

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Rowena Stewart
22/8/2017 08:58:43 pm

True empowerment is not telling another what to do, but in making a people more aware, aware of the energy we are choosing to live in, aware of the choices we can make, aware of the impact we have on the world and those around us. Serge Benhayon is a Master of Awareness, shining a light on those grey and dingy areas in our lives where we are reluctant to take responsibility, in the knowing that when we do, we will experience the most amazing love that we never anticipated could exist.

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Ariana Ray
22/8/2017 09:22:00 pm

'I was waiting for the ‘I told you so’ however never in my 15+ years of knowing Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do.' I love how these testimonials show every facet of how Serge lives and works with people. With each one we see a side of Serge that would would not otherwise have seen. What we see is truth exposed to show the love and integrity of this man.

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David
22/8/2017 10:04:20 pm

Nicole I love all of what you share, this reflects and confirms everything that I know about Serge and my complete experience. The absolute love to the highest degree. As you say through what is even more amazing is that he is a role model "by what he lives, walks and breathes", no words but lived truth in each moment.

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Ruth Ketnor
23/8/2017 02:29:55 am

When absolute love and understanding is there for all humanity as it is lived as with Serge Benhayon it is deeply inspiring and totally life changing, as you have so openly shared Nicole. Thank you.

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Carmel Reid
23/8/2017 03:30:42 am

Serge is always careful not to tell us what to do, he simply talks his walk - tells us how he lives and it's up to us to choose...

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jane Keep
23/8/2017 11:41:54 am

On the subject of role models - Serge Benhayon is the truest role model I have met - it totally blows out of the water what a role model is in daily life as Serge lives a whole new level of being a living example of a role model - Serge talks his walk, in that he is what he says, and his integrity and authenticity is solid.

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Eva Rygg
23/8/2017 12:36:35 pm

I never knew what true generosity was until I met Serge Benhayon and experienced the way he connects with people, not just some, but ALL. He meets and offers everyone equally, unconditional love, care and the deepest respect.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
23/8/2017 12:37:35 pm

Deeply inspiring to hear words that describe everything that your heart has ever wanted, and to know that this is not theory, ideal or wishful thinking, because you can see the evidence of it being lived in the person who is speaking.
The fact that Serge Benhayon is unwavering in the way he lives and presents from his Soul and he is so transparent in how he lives, makes him immensely inspiring and the greatest role model ever.

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Vicky Cooke
23/8/2017 12:55:36 pm

Serge also helped me to stop blaming ... my family, my life etc but instead inspired me to take more responsibility for all the choices I had made no matter how uncomfortable it felt at times. And you are so right when you say this 'he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime.' Nor does he ever tell anyone what to do ... but he does live truth and love to a level I have never seen anyone before live and that, that is what is inspiring and got me to start to take more responsibility for my life.

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jane keep
25/8/2017 09:17:32 am

Yes, Vicky, I agree - I used to blame the world and feel a victim of circumstances until I met Serge Benhayon - when I realised my health and my life is in my hands, and it is up to me and my daily choices. Not only did this dispel the 'victim' in me, it also felt really empowering to realise I am at the helm of life and my body.

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Melinda Knights
23/8/2017 01:20:11 pm

Serge offers so much that is truly supportive of relationships, it’s definitely there by reflection in the way he lives and is with himself and others, but I’ve also found the Universal Medicine therapies very supportive to heal my relationships. The therapies have supported me to heal my expectations, beliefs, ideals and pictures about how relationships (of all kinds) “should” be, which means I am more able to accept, enjoy and love people without imposition, to take responsibility for myself, and as a result feel the richness that’s there between myself and others.

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Gabriele Conrad
23/8/2017 02:15:33 pm

Serge Benhayon is a walking inspiration by the way he lives, walks and does everything. He breathes humanity and he is the best friend one could ever have.

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Joel
23/8/2017 02:33:00 pm

Thanks for sharing this Nicole. The depth of understanding Serge brings cannot but touch every part of life.

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Sarah Flenley
23/8/2017 02:55:16 pm

Serge Benhayon is definitely in for the long-haul of life - there is no quick fix for this man. He is consistent, steady, wise, patient, and steadfast in his commitment to truth, and presenting a true living way to humanity.

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Jane Keep
23/8/2017 11:54:03 pm

I agree Sarah, Ive known Serge Benhayon for 14 years and he has always been absolutely consistent in every way. Ive seen him at home, at work, in life and he is unfalteringly consistent - what you see is what you get - absolute dedication and commitment to humanity.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
24/8/2017 06:04:04 am

As well as the amazing example he provides through the love, integrity, dedication and wisdom which he consistently walks, the fact that Serge Benhayon will only ever relate to you as an equally divine, precious, powerful and wise Son of God, after a while provides a profound reminder that this is in fact your true essence.

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rosanna bianchini
24/8/2017 11:28:38 am

The truth, appreciation a wisdom in these words about Serge, touch very deeply Nicole, "The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself." an observation of a life lived in full, with love, is all we need for us to clock there is another way to be with life.

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Fiona Pierce
24/8/2017 12:02:16 pm

To know someone who constantly supports you to not give up, to take true responsibility for yourself and how you are with others is priceless. Serge Benhayon's commitment to life and humanity is second to none and shines a light for us all to remember what is truly within us too.

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Ariana Ray
24/8/2017 12:31:44 pm

The dedication and openess you share your life with us is gorgeous and you show so clearly the huge impact Serge Benhayon has on people - it's a real inspiration - thank you.

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HM
24/8/2017 02:11:26 pm

A beautiful sharing about the power of responsibility. It is a big thing - it does ask as to look at our own choices, but it also provides us with a true and solid foundation of which to take things forward with. And as a result you have a strong relationship with yourself and your partner.

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Rowena Stewart
24/8/2017 07:25:41 pm

The biggest shift in my life has been in learning to accept responsibility for everything that happens to me to the minutest detail. At times it is hard to accept, but studying with Serge Benhayon has enabled me to see the grace in whole process, that even the seemingly bad things that happen are bringing a deep healing and clearing eons of neglect.

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Heather Pope
29/10/2017 03:25:00 pm

Embracing responsibility shows us all a new way of living, and that responsibility has not an ounce of blame in it, thus it empowers rather than burdens.

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Jane Keep
13/1/2018 10:18:38 pm

Well said Heather. I used to think I was responsible until I met Serge Benhayon, then I realised how much irresponsibility I was living in my life - not through being shamed or blamed, but through the inspiration of meeting Serge where responsibility is lived in every moment. Not only is it refreshing, and empowering, it is life changing too to embrace responsibility.

Ariana Ray
24/8/2017 10:30:17 pm

'The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself.' This is the gold of Serge Benhayon - his inspiration has produced life long change.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
24/8/2017 11:31:40 pm

Every one of us deep down know and feel pulled to love, truth, joy and oneness. Some of us are caught in momentums that make it not so easy. But there are always through history those like Serge Benhayon who through constant love and dedication have built a foundation that supports the expression of Soul in human life.
When we are ready to be responsible for turning our lives and our world round, we find individuals like Serge Benhayon are our greatest role models ever.

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Michelle Mcwaters
25/8/2017 01:18:14 am

'The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself.' I have learned so much from Serge, one of them not least being the science of reflection. When we live in truth it is enough simply to turn up to offer someone a deep understanding or revelation about themselves without any words necessarily having to be communicated.

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Ruth Ketnor
25/8/2017 10:30:18 am

Every conversation with, every presentation, every audio listened to of Serge Benhayon I have experienced to be deeply healing and inspiring. Such is Serge's livingness, his absoluteness and his love for humanity, giving us the space to make our choices at our own pace.. to return to the divinity we are.

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Viktoria
25/8/2017 12:37:03 pm

Serge understands us all so well, to me he constantly repeats "don't hold back", these words mean so much to mean, they can bring me to tears each time I connect to them. He is so spot on when he says that because this is something I have found difficult for a very long time, and the only time I feel like I am content with myself is when I don't hold back, when I don't hold back my love nor what I feel is true.

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Aimee
25/8/2017 06:35:59 pm

How Serge is with everyone is the ultimate parent, allowing, holding with the utmost respect and love, patient, supportive and never ever imposing or telling anyone what to do. Offering that reflection to others is true brotherhood, as it shows we are all one and are not only responsible for healing ourselves but completely capable and powerful beyond measure.

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Vicky Cooke
26/8/2017 12:03:16 am

Observing Serge is and has been always deeply healing for me. I have learnt so much from Serge just by observing him, how he is with others .. consistently, how he is with his body, how he walks ... every moment, even putting a pen back in its holder on a whiteboard or putting his hand on a chair. Why, because he is living 150% aligned to truth, purpose, love, service, integrity - physical and energetic and so much more. He continually reflects to all a different more easier, more loving way of living to all. Stunning ✨

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Jonathan Stewart
28/8/2017 09:41:59 pm

So true, Vicky, observing Serge at every opportunity in everything he does is a lesson in how to live lovingly and in harmony in the world.

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Ariana Ray
26/8/2017 12:20:58 am

With regards to Serge Benhayon 'that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime.' His consideration of everyone is ever inspiring.

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Ariana Ray
26/8/2017 10:20:38 pm

'That is the beautiful thing,' about Serge Benhayon 'he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime.' He is a man who see's past all our 'stuff' and see the truth of who we are. To be met with that absolute lack of judgement is simply gorgeous.

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Jonathan Stewart
26/8/2017 10:42:36 pm

"Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do … that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime." In the 11 years I have known him he has never ever told me what to do and I have never heard him tell anyone nor have I heard anyone say he had told what to do or how to live.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
28/8/2017 11:35:45 am

Yes Serge Benhayon never tells you what to do or how to live. Yet the love, honouring and wisdom with which he relates to everyone, naturally offers the space and support for you to connect deeply with the awareness and understanding within yourself, and to deepen the level of love, appreciation and responsibility with which you live your life.

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Jonathan Stewart
26/8/2017 10:46:35 pm

Serge Benhayon is the role model of role models.

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Mary
27/8/2017 12:40:14 am

I agree with you Nicole taking responsibility is huge and it is something that I feel we don't do enough of. I was given a lesson in life the other day, I met an old Fiancé of mine haven't seen him for years. I was immediately struck by how sweet and gentle he is and of course I knew this at the time of knowing him, but I was in such an emotional wreck that I wasn't able to appreciate the gift I had been given. I was too busy blaming others for the mess I was in not willing to take responsibility for my contribution to it all.
So how blessed are you to have someone you could rely on and trust to help you take your full part in your relationship with your husband and grow it into a true relationship built on deep trust and respect for each other. Thank you for sharing it can be done.


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Michelle Mcwaters
27/8/2017 03:03:37 am

'Serge constantly supports both of us to come together and build a true relationship; a relationship that is not built on needs, hurts nor ideals and beliefs.' The level of love and truth Serge brings to all areas of life is inspirational.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
27/8/2017 07:49:12 am

Each of us have a huge impact on everyone else around us by how we live whether we are conscious of it or not. Every choice and action either confirms our divine and loving essence, or it colludes with the wayward aspect within us to create a world that is far from a reflection of the Sons of God that we all are.

Those who choose to dedicate their life living the light of the Soul in every moment, as does Serge Benhayon, provide the greatest source of inspiration and support anyone could ever wish for.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 11:37:44 am

One of the great blessings offered by Serge Benhayon is the ability to heal your hurts. The childhood hurts the relationship hurts, and so on. It is such an immense freedom to live life without carrying those hurts.

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Ingrid Ward
27/8/2017 11:57:06 am

If I had never attended a workshop or event presented by Serge Benhayon, but just simply observed him in his everyday life, I know that my life still would have changed in the miraculous ways it has as “The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself.” There are not enough words to express my appreciation for what Serge has brought into my life so I know that the best way to thank him is to live my life to the fullest in every moment

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Mary
27/8/2017 10:38:42 pm

Not only is Serge Benhayon a remarkable man but the modalities that he has brought through from the hierarchy are life changing they all have their differences but they all have the same end game to bring us back to the truth of who we are.

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Ruth Ketnor
27/8/2017 11:12:20 pm

'What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made' When I first heard Serge Benhayon present about our choices in life it was a huge turning point for me, so empowering to know I could change how my life was by changing my choices. Life transforming beyond what I could have imagined.

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David
28/8/2017 03:18:49 am

"It was a slow, and gradual unfolding and a choice I had to make" Nicole this sums up something very significant for me, it was that Serge or anyone else was not going to do this for me. They were not going to fix me and neither could I fix myself but through a series and consistency of ongoing loving choices my life has healed from one of deep hurts to one of purpose and rich enjoyment that inspires others.

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Kim Weston
28/8/2017 12:02:08 pm

The truth in your last line stands for us all, this man has and does lead the way for us all to walk in his incredibly inspiring wake. Showing us, that we too can make a choice to bring love to our every move.

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Amita
28/8/2017 12:22:34 pm

Serge reflects a true role model of relationship in marriage, it is his reflection that has supported me and inspired me to go deeper in my marriage. It is through his support and love that has allowed me to appreciate my marriage and build a deeper relationship with my husband.

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Sarah Flenley
28/8/2017 12:25:16 pm

It's quite amazing the miracles that can occur when you stop blaming the world and other people for your woes. It is a loving work in progress for me as well, learning to take FULL responsibility for my life but by gosh I am glad I am doing it. And I too thank Serge Benhayon for this inspiration to make this a reality, and to see that responsibility is a very loving - and much needed - action.

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Monica Gillooly
28/8/2017 12:43:19 pm

What I love in what you share Nicole is how you began to take charge in your own life and understand and live the fact that your choices brought you to where you were and being presented with loving understanding and no judgement from Serge Benhayon allowed you the space and support to know that was possible - that is indeed what true role models do, support you to see what you can do and how you can help yourself, and Serge is a master with this, without any judgement or direction, just a constant showing of love lived no matter what.

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Victoria Lister
28/8/2017 12:56:54 pm

There is something very lovely about being encouraged to 'be patient' in a world where we want things to happen in the blink of an eye... and to be encouraged to feel the potential beyond the immediate chaos.

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Rowena Stewart
6/9/2017 11:36:12 am

I agree Victoria. We live in a fast food, instant entertainment culture. Being encouraged to develop our patience is very character building and over time becomes a steadfast quality in our bodies that enables us to see through all the drama and chaos and choose the simple route instead.

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Michael Brown
28/8/2017 01:03:48 pm

It’s just breathtaking how many lives this one man has touched by living who he is and being overjoyed to present it to All.

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Rowena Stewart
28/8/2017 01:04:31 pm

What a breath of fresh air Serge Benhayon is, in a world where we rush to judge, blame and punish each other, Serge calmly holds a space for us to come back to our selves and our wisdom, supported by a few precise sentences, the truth of which may take a few years for us to fully appreciate and understand, but understand we will.

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Lucy
28/8/2017 01:14:49 pm

What a great learning, be patient, bring understanding, none of this is rocket science, but Serge talks what he lives in his every day, therefore you have a role model of what patience and understanding look like. There is no attachment to anyone getting it, it is about who you are and how you live, not about anyone else.

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Gabriele Conrad
28/8/2017 02:14:53 pm

Without taking responsibility, change is not possible – we can only change ourselves and not control everyone and everything around us, no matter how hard we try. Without taking responsibility and without making different choices we stay stuck in solutions that only ever act as bandaids.

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Jonathan Stewart
29/8/2017 10:08:48 pm

So true, Gabriele, and Serge Benhayon enables one to lovingly to acknowledge, accept and live this.

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Mary-Louise Myers
28/8/2017 04:17:43 pm


I can totally relate to what you are saying Nicole, I would not have the relationships with the women I live with if not for Serge Benhayon encouraging us to not get stuck in our hurts, ideals and beliefs. Serge’s relationship with Miranda has always inspired me, not from what he says, but from observing them together over the years

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Mary
28/8/2017 09:14:03 pm

I have never heard Serge Benhayon tell anyone what to do, but rather support them to come to their own understanding in their own time. Too be honest I just wish I had known him when I was say 15 years old I know my life would have turned out completely differently just watching how supportive he is with all the youngsters including my own daughter supporting them with non imposing advise. Looking back I so longed for someone to help me make sense of the world as a teenager but there was no one there so had to make the choices for myself which often lead me down a dead end.

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Jonathan Stewart
28/8/2017 09:33:21 pm

"​I know I would not have the marriage and family I have today if it were not for the choices Serge himself has made to live a life dedicated to love." By his dedication to Love he shows humanity the true power of love.

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Vicky Geary
29/8/2017 02:00:41 am

How wise are the words, be patient. In that patience we have the opportunity to learn, to heal and focus on our part in any relationship. Making the focus about the other is the distraction to avoid the gift of healing that is being offered.

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Carmel Reid
29/8/2017 04:28:41 am

Serge Benhayon is indeed a true role model, he truly walks his talk and talks his walk - how he lives and what he shares with us is a constant inspiration for hundreds of men and women world-wide.

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Samantha
29/8/2017 11:00:07 am

I can so relate Nicole, My husband and I now enjoy and amazing, loving totally awesome relationship and really non of this I am sure would not be possible with out the loving inspiration we have both received from Serge Benhayon. We love each other to the bone and I know it will continue to grow and grow. We have seen and felt Serge Benhayons love for his family, this world and humanity and we have been left deeply and utterly touched.

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Leonne
29/8/2017 03:30:32 pm

Your story is amazing because it reminds me that true love is not about perfection and never having issues. I can see that a commitment to love is the foundation of an incredible relationship not just with ourselves or one other, but with all others.

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Kev McHardy
29/8/2017 08:40:03 pm

Awesome testimony to a truly awesome man, all I can say that us without meeting Serge I would either be dead or very, very unhealthy. It is so very true that Serge never tells anyone what to do, but is so very inspiring in the way that he lives he make anything seem possible.

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Tricia Nicholson
29/8/2017 09:27:40 pm

Serge Benhayon is an inspiration to all humanity by the way he lives and his love for humanity and a true role model for us all. This was evident from my first meeting with him and has been expanding growing ever since in every aspect of life there is with the deepest love respect and integrity for and a lived understanding ,humility. and presence.The true gift of healing is offered to us for our own evolution and way in life with our soul and the greatest inspiration ever.

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Rowena Stewart
29/8/2017 09:28:46 pm

Serge Benhayon is master at cutting the blame game and empowering us to reclaim our authority and power by taking responsibility for our choices and actions rather than dumping them on each other. The consequence is that many couples who have attended his workshops and courses have completely transformed the quality of our relationships with the most amazing results.

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Jonathan Stewart
29/8/2017 10:04:41 pm

"he [Serge] only ever listened" I never stopped being amazed how he enables one to come to the truth for themselves and by doing so are empowered rather than telling them the answer/truth which he reads so completely.

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Mary
29/8/2017 10:37:16 pm

I am amazed at just how much hurt we all each and everyone of us carry around and how this colours how we see and interact with life. Once we can look honestly at our hurts and start to unpick them then we can truly heal and are far less reactive to life and other people.


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Vicky Cooke
29/8/2017 11:04:00 pm

I can very much say this as well as I am sure many many other people can 'Serge Benhayon has been an incredible and intricate part of my life in many ways, both in how I am with myself, in my relationships, my family and how I now choose to live.' I am truly blessed to know and have such a role model in my life, my life has positively changed in many ways and right now, on reflection, feel I do not appreciate Serge half as much as I could naturally do. This appreciation is living my life to the full with what I have been both taught and shown through observing Serge’s reflection and lived way. This is but a choice so what do I truly choose? This is something for me to lovingly ask myself and great to stop and do a stock take in what I am living right now to what has been presented, taught and reflected to me by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.

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Carmel Reid
30/8/2017 04:47:09 am

Relationships can be so very challenging and thanks to the presentations of Serge Benhayon so many more women and men are able to understand what is going on in their relationships. Some break up and some stay on, but either way there is a greater awareness of the energies at play and I have seen many divorced people thrive in their new lives and finding great joy in new relationships.

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Leigh Matson
30/8/2017 06:44:18 am

Blame is a huge, ugly, interwoven part of everyday life currently. And reading this I do wonder where it still hides in my life. To have the reflection of Serge Benhayon, someone who lives and breathes responsibility it has supported me to see and feel the grandness that comes to life when I stop blaming and start taking responsibility.

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Natalie Hawthorne
30/8/2017 01:00:16 pm

- The dedication Serge Benhayon has for love is beyond and out of this world. Never wavering and consistently expressing it even if sometimes it is something you don't want to hear, Serge loves everyone so much that he only speaks the truth in such a loving and understanding way, with no judgment or critic and this I totally agree has been a huge inspiration. To see that we can actually communicate and be love all of the time and not compromise. Dealing with our stuff and taking responsibility is the realisation that I too had to make and continue to learn each and every day. What a blessing for humanity to have a man on this earth walking with such real and practical ways but with the wisdom and science that magnifies our truth.

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Stephanie Stevenson
2/9/2017 12:30:47 pm

Hear Hear Natalie. Everything Serge presents is very practical and related to everyday living, making the Ancient Wisdom Teachings very accessible to all.
"What a blessing for humanity to have a man on this earth walking with such real and practical ways but with the wisdom and science that magnifies our truth".

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
30/8/2017 01:29:31 pm

"Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not because of what he says, teaches or presents, but by what he lives, walks and breathes" I absolutely love what Serge Benhayon teaches and presents, it is beyond anything in this world - yet I agree that the personal example he provides with how he lives, walks and breathes is quite exceptional.

It has been through witnessing the consistency with which he lives the deepest level of love, care, integrity, commitment and responsibility I have ever seen that has inspired me re-trust, re-connect and re-commit to humanity once again.

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Michelle Mcwaters
30/8/2017 10:51:09 pm

Serge has inspired me in so many ways. With his support I have been able to deepen my relationships but none more so than with myself. Before I met Serge I was riddled with lack of self worth and honestly believed I was less. This is no longer the case. I have a lot to thank him for.

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Jonathan Stewart
30/8/2017 11:08:40 pm

Without the loving support and guidance of Serge Benhayon and all that I and my wife learnt through Universal Medicine it is very unlikely that we would be still together and have the intimate loving relationship that we have.

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Ariana Ray
31/8/2017 01:26:39 am

'Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration' as he has to thousands of people world wide and he is that because he lives a way of life that is not of the ordinary but a life lived with a depth of love and integrity this world has not matched.

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Willem Plandsoen
31/8/2017 07:23:44 am

Beautiful and very touching Nicole. I can feel the difficult times you have been trough with your partner, and recognize that in my relationship as well. And as you say, Serge is true source of inspiration by the way he lives, together with his wife Miranda, always offering support and never ever telling me what to do.

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Rik Connors
31/8/2017 11:42:57 am

I found some very old email exchanges with Serge and I from 12 years ago and sooner when we first came together. What is brilliant about Serge is his ability to read life. This is normal and something I'm refining and being accustomed to myself having the keys to life – my responsibility. This is why he is my role model too to know and live again and meet and know all people by their essence to understand and love them for who they are not what has been imposed on them.

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Rowena Stewart
31/8/2017 11:51:18 am

"The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself." True teachings always stem from a tangible living experience that allows us to observe and re-learn the true way to behaviour in this world, with utter respect and harmony.

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Ariana Ray
31/8/2017 08:44:52 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true role model in every sense, he is a true man, true teacher, presenter, writer, healer who lives what he presents and lives it in a world which lives the opposite. His life is lived with dedication and commitment to the nth degree.

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Matilda Bathurst link
2/9/2017 11:22:58 pm

This is absolutely my experience of Serge Benhayon too - a life simply and humbly lived to serve and inspire others.

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Sandra Vicary
31/8/2017 09:59:56 pm

What an inspirational story this is Nicole, and absolute proof that when we allow true love in, relationships can be healed when both parties are willing to be open to what is on offer. Serge Benhayon is indeed the most remarkable man, in that he offers such a divine, wise and true reflection to anyone who asks for his help and support.

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Jonathan Stewart
31/8/2017 10:21:45 pm

No longer blaming another for what is occurring but instead to take responsibility for one's input is so empowering and every time is an opportunity to grow and evolve.

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Ruth Ketnor
31/8/2017 10:32:12 pm

What a solid foundation you have set Nicole for your children to grow up from, within a true family. It is remarkable the changes you have made with the unwavering absolute loving support of Serge Benhayon.

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Alison Valentine
31/8/2017 11:31:54 pm

I feel your blog is relatable for so many, it certainly is relatable to how I have been in my relationships. I love the fact you have managed to turn your life around and in this it has supported you in your relationship and marriage. Serge Benhayon understands implicitly what is needed for each relationship and is able to support us in a super loving way. He is able to feel the potential that we are not always able to feel ourselves especially when caught up in blame and how we think things should be.

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Natalie Hawthorne
1/9/2017 12:27:14 pm

When we keep hitting a wall in relationships and feel the frustration and exhaustions from it - it is so easy to say no and walk away. What you so beautiful share here Nicole is that with the dedicated support from Serge Benhayon you have been able to see past that and actual take stock and reflect on your part in it and how there is things that you can be working on which inevitably has an impact on your relationship with your partner. Super inspiring and thanks for sharing.

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Stephanie Stevenson
2/9/2017 12:25:42 pm

Serge Benhayon Offers a powerful reflection of the true art of listening.

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David
5/11/2018 08:12:28 pm

Stephanie I know what you mean, I've certainly learned a lot about how to listen from observing Serge and seeing how he is not their listening for himself but to truly be there for another.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
2/9/2017 12:45:59 pm

It is ta huge gift when we observe someone live with absolute love, tenderness, integrity, wisdom and honouring of everyone, and when through the way they relate to you offer the awareness that this is also your true essence. I have never seen Serge Benhayon live any other way.

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Rowena Stewart
2/9/2017 12:55:56 pm

What I love about Serge Benhayon is that he never tells anyone what to do, but masterfully confirms people in our strengths and encourages us always to seek understanding and appreciation our selves and one another.

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Sarah Flenley
2/9/2017 01:02:58 pm

Serge Benhayon makes responsibility cool. I have shed so much irresponsibility since meeting him and re-connecting to the Ageless Wisdom that he presents. I never really realised how much I played the 'blame game' and it was quite exposing to see it. It still gets me from time to time but am glad that I am living a live of less blame. It is prety cool.

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Susan Green
2/9/2017 01:08:33 pm

It seems so easy to throw the towel in when things get tough in relationships. The 'why bother?' approach is a popular one but it takes great commitment and strength to 'see things through' and work things out together. 'Never give up' has been one of my favourite quotes for some time now!

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
6/9/2017 09:45:19 am

I find also that there tends to be many who are too willing to side with one party and fuel the discord. Yet Serge Benhayon has shown me that the greatest support we can offer anyone is to inspire them to deepen that "commitment and strength to 'see things through' and work things out together". I have heard so many stories of relationships flourishing as a result of such a loving reflection and inspiration.

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HM
2/9/2017 04:31:38 pm

Such an awesome story. Serge offers absolute love to everyone - regardless of their situation or choices. He has been a huge support to my husband when it has come to relationships, as he puts love first. It speaks volumes of the love Serge holds for humanity.

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Ariana Ray
2/9/2017 09:36:16 pm

A man who has the highest standards of integrity, the deepest commitment and dedication, the grandest capacity to love, this man IS a truly great role model, and yes, this IS Serge Benhayon.

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Matilda Bathurst link
2/9/2017 11:20:51 pm

It is very inspiring to hear someone appreciate and celebrate the impact another person has had in their lives... it is this unashamed appreciation that is part of the foundation of equality, respect and love in relationships

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natalie hawthorne
2/9/2017 11:35:28 pm

This is what is so incredible about Serge Benhayon is that the love, devotion and respect that he has for everyone is unwavering. To be held in this love we are reminded that this is what is possible in all our relationships and that it is our choices to be self reflective and be open in our relationships.

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caarmel reid
3/9/2017 02:24:45 am

Whether we stay in a relationship or decide to divorce, there is always support from Serge Benhayon on how to be, with love.

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Vanessa M
3/9/2017 11:33:34 am

I love what you have shared here Nicole and how much you have been supported to see what was worth putting in the long yards for! Love, and love with out all the hurts. Very inspirational. I love what you share of Serge's support and your no doubt inner knowing that you did have a relationship worth dealing with your own hurts and protections for.

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Rebecca Wingrave
3/9/2017 09:09:59 pm

Nicole, it is very inspiring to read this article and to feel the importance of us taking responsibility in our relationship rather than blaming the other person, and how amazing that you worked on your relationship with yourself and your husband and that you now have a loving and true relationship with each other.

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Rowena Stewart
3/9/2017 09:49:30 pm

The steadiness with which Serge Benhayon holds himself is perpetually inspiring, never colluding, sympathising or judging, just perpetually observing and holding a clear light in all situations. Whenever I get irritable with someone, Serge always comes to mind and while not perfect, certainly inspires me to take some big steps back to look at the whole picture, not just a narrow segment.

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Rowena Stewart
4/9/2017 09:49:56 pm

We are so used to being told what to do, right from little kids, that it can seem very odd to meet someone who allows peole complete freedom to make our own choices. The ultimate choice is the quality of the energy we wish to alignment to, energy that impulses our every thought and action. We have a choice between our Soulful energy that supports us to be wise, loving, appreciative and patient or our spiritual energy that prompts us to be critical, judgmental and righteous. Serge Benhayon steadfastly adheres to the former and thereby holds a quality of energy we can re-orient ourselves back to, our true nature that holds everyone absolutely and equally in love.

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Jonathan Stewart
4/9/2017 11:18:44 pm

"Simply observing Serge and how he is with his own partner, family, friends and extended family is truly inspiring." To do this is to be at university for relationships.

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Rachel Murtagh link
5/9/2017 01:24:11 am

The inspiration Serge Benhayon offers doesn't stop at the end of a workshop or course, but for me, is felt daily in every action, and every moment of my day.

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Carmel Reid
5/9/2017 04:21:20 am

Serge is indeed a true role model - his ability to treat everyone as equals is very confirming for all of us, the way he lives shows us what's possible.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
5/9/2017 04:23:24 am

So many people have shared how Serge Benhayon has been the greatest friend to them whenever they have had relationship issues. I have not once heard about him taking sides, judging anyone or putting someone down in any shape or form. Everyone has always felt deeply understood, loved, empowered and inspired to deepen the level of love, understanding and responsibility they have in their relationship.
This I call true support and true friendship.

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chris james
5/9/2017 10:46:30 am

Yes indeed… true role models that are able to be totally transparent and have integrity to the core are ….well… quite rare! Serge is indeed a blessing for us all.

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Carmel Reid
5/9/2017 05:24:20 pm

'Serge constantly supports both of us to come together and build a true relationship; a relationship that is not built on needs, hurts nor ideals and beliefs.' whether we are single or in a relationship, what Serge Benhayon offers is a true guide to how to be in life and in all our relationships.

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Harrison White
6/9/2017 03:41:17 am

It's amazing how certain periods of our life can feel treacherous, and then some time later we look back and reflect and have clarity on exactly what was going on, the small amount of space it takes to make true and meaningful change in our lives should never be undervalued , as when we decide to make a few small changes the universe is behind us in full supporting the way.

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Mary
6/9/2017 07:12:58 am

Nicole what you have written here is echoed by me
"Serge Benhayon has been an incredible and intricate part of my life in many ways, both in how I am with myself, in my relationships, my family and how I now choose to live."
I'm currently away traveling and I am impressed with myself I am so easy and open with people all around me. Serge Benhayon by the way he lives his life has shown me and thousands of others what it is to live in a way that is harmonious with others no matter who they are and never mind that they don't feel harmonious themselves, it doesn't matter. I always lived my life as an outsider not wanting to be part of humanity, what a complete turnaround to how I live my life now! Sleeves rolled up and in the thick of it all and loving every moment of it. And I have Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine to thank for all the support that they have given me to turn my life around literally 360 degrees.

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Jennifer Smith
6/9/2017 12:00:48 pm

Nicole the changes you have made to you life have been really incredible and something not even imagined in the general population. How often to we simply accept that something is normal for that person even though at some level we know things could be different. Serge Benhayon sees us for who we truly are first, magnificent beings that are no different to him and knowing that we all come from the very same place and the only difference is the choices we have made. He is that same love for everyone, A wonderful man who lives who he is in full without exception and from a place of complete understanding, knowing that we are also so much more that our current choices have lead.

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Carmel Reid
6/9/2017 04:23:34 pm

The teachings of Serge Benhayon provide us with such a good foundation for how we can be in all our relationships

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Heather Pope
15/4/2018 11:31:17 am

Its true what you say Carmel, and they also offer development that never ends, so the quality of our relationships is continually deepened.

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David
16/8/2018 11:43:22 pm

Heather that is the magical part of it, the development never ends, it builds and builds allowing us to get a glimpse into the never ending depth of the universe and life.

Adele Leung link
6/9/2017 04:43:42 pm

Love is ever so patient. When blaming others and the outside world for our misfortune we can easily react when we smell the slightest hint of blame from another, but love is ever so patient for us to see our hurts and to stop giving our power away by taking responsibility for ourselves. All our reactions come from knowing our responsibility and not living it yet. Between partners, the true reflection we can offer to each other is to deepen our own responsibility, and when we do, love unfolds in all directions.

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nattalija link
6/9/2017 05:55:00 pm

The respect and decency that is held by Serge Benhayon for all is the true markers of what is often missing in our world today. He talks and walks this truth and his words are inspiring and humbling for all who have met him.

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Rowena Stewart
6/9/2017 08:55:41 pm

When a person listens deeply to us, they afford us the space to discover our own resolutions, true empowerment in action.

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Ingrid Ward
7/9/2017 12:35:14 am

I know without a shadow of doubt that I would not be living the amazing life “I have today if it were not for the choices Serge himself has made to live a life dedicated to love.” Since I first met him in 2005 Serge Benhayon the man, the presenter, the author, the husband, the father and the friend has inspired me in a myriad of ways. This is a man who lives the truth of what he knows but always allows you the freedom as to whether you choose the same way of living, and if you don’t he stills hold you in an endless embrace of love.

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Michael Brown
7/9/2017 12:43:18 am

Serge is a role model that should be celebrated. In fact, he should be our celebrity that is on TV and radio etc. This is the man who’s life we should be celebrating and watching for inspiration.

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Ariana Ray
7/9/2017 10:53:38 am

'Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration' and so he has and is each day, his livingness is what lifts us all.

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Willem Plandsoen
7/9/2017 12:31:41 pm

You outline one of the parts in Serge Benhayon's life which is very inspirational. The way he is in relationship with his wife Miranda, is a true inspiration for anybody who wants to see. That he shares with people about relationships, he clearly lives himself.

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Caroline Francis
7/9/2017 10:05:31 pm

We cannot truly be inspired unless one is living it. We can listen and hear what another has to say but unless they are truly living love I am not inspired. In my life I have met many who have tried to pretend they are something they are not but it wouldn't be long before I was out the door. When I met Serge Benhayon I knew this was a man who knew what he was talking about. His commitment, dedication, wisdom, integrity and love were palpable from day one and I could not be no other than inspired by him.

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Carmel Reid
8/9/2017 02:02:00 pm

When Serge Benhayon presents, there is absolutely no imposition at all - he does not insist we believe anything of what he says, but we can feel the truth of it in every word

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Ruth Ketnor
8/9/2017 11:22:36 pm

Nicole I too would not have the life I live today 'if it were not for the choices Serge himself has made to live a life dedicated to love.' which is so deeply inspiring. My life was a mess before I met Serge I had looked in many directions for the truth but did not find it until I found Serge and all he lives and presents, then I knew instantly, I did not need to search any more.

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rosanna bianchini
9/9/2017 12:03:52 pm

What is presented by Serge, whether that is through philosophical questioning, religious teachings, or the science of life, I have felt superbly supported to stop and examine life, to feel, and to express. Aspects that I'm taking deeper and deeper and which I can say for sure have helped me to let go of hurts that were influencing the way I was with my day to day life and relationships.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
10/9/2017 12:47:16 am

It is amazing how many people Serge Benhayon’s inspiration has fundamentally supported, and how many different issues this support has completely turned around.
The thing is it never ends up being about the issue which you think you need to eradicate, but about you being supported to free yourself from the trap of our hurts, issues and protection strategies, to reconnect with the deep awareness and wisdom within your heart and return to a place of love and purpose, which honours yourself and all others equally. And then life starts to be also transformed in alignment to that.
This is a significant point everyone interested in changing the world, or their personal lives should reflect on, as it shows that what is going on in the external world is fundamentally connected to what is going on within people.

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Elaine Arthey
10/9/2017 01:08:56 am

Thank you for sharing this Nicole, it is a great example of how huge the changes can be when we have the support of Serge Benhayon and the presentations from Universal Medicine. I also commend you on your commitment and appreciate how integral that is to the process.

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leigh matson
10/9/2017 02:22:32 am

Taking responsibility for my ideals, beliefs, expectations and reactions towards others and myself rather than ignoring them or not questioning their truth has completely changed my life. Serge hasn't done this for me but lived it himself and I have been inspired to try it myself. And the results are continuously amazing.

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Michael Brown
10/9/2017 05:04:19 am

Serge is my Role Model, a True Father Figure, my Hero.

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Danna Elmalah
10/9/2017 09:20:45 am

Beautiful Nicole, a testimonial that share a truth about a man I know well too Serge Benhayon. He has and is a support in my life, extremely patient and truly loving being, that has inspired me till this very day - that living love with oneself is possible.
Basically, this is all we need, and he is by living inspiration not only walking his life, but reaching out by setting up a company that shares this way of living and the very practical tools of how to connect and supply this way of living to our lives. How truly truly supportive is that to humanity. Well out of a scale of 10 - the absolute 10. Thank you Serge Benhayons - words are not enough !

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Matts Josefsson
10/9/2017 10:26:32 pm

When someone says something and it is not lived you can easily feel it and you are not very inspired to change your life around either. Serge however inspires you to change if you are up for it.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
10/9/2017 11:38:23 pm

It is true "we go through life blaming others" for everything "but how often do we actually stop to see what we have contributed to all that we are involved in or part of?"
I am immensely grateful for Serge Benhayon to support me to connect with my own responsibility, not as a reprimand, but as a deep understanding and recognition of the love, power and purpose within my heart.

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Carmel Reid
11/9/2017 03:26:37 am

Responsibility is a word that comes up time and time again in Serge's presentations and it has inspired many of us to change our ways of living and to be more aware of the energetic imprints we leave behind wherever we go, how we affect other people with our expression and how we affect the whole planet with every single breath we take.

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Lieke Campbell
11/9/2017 12:04:47 pm

Serge is a true role model for us all to see how we can serve other people by living loving and understanding with ourselves so we can offer this true reflection to others when they need it. When we are har on ourselves, even though our words are those of understanding, it will never be truly serving as our bodies tell differently.

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Heather Pope
15/4/2018 11:30:09 am

There are very few people in the world I would call a role model, as the world of celebrities, sports stars, politicians is devoid of substance in my experience. Enter Serge Benhayon, a man of the people, and you have a role model for life in every way.

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Carmel Reid
11/9/2017 05:57:16 pm

Serge Benhayon never judges and never tells us what to do - we can feel in our own bodies the difference between the way he lives and the way we live and from there we can choose what to do.

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Jennifer Ellis
11/9/2017 08:13:00 pm

Nicole this is such a powerful testimony to what occurs through inspiration. It is testimony to the inspiration true love actually offers and the space it holds us in to come to our own awareness and truth, never judging, critiquing nor imposing the need to have someone 'get it', even though what needs to be 'gotten' might be as plain as the nose on your face.

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Ariana Ray
11/9/2017 10:55:11 pm

Serge Benhayon is a living example of what is possible in relationships, the way he lives with his family is exemplary, in a way that has taken integrity, love and joy to a whole new level this planet has not seen in many years.

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Sandra Williamson
12/9/2017 11:52:38 am

The qualities of love, understanding, appreciation and allowing of ourselves ad absolutely everybody in any relationship as shared and lived by Serge Benhayon are absolutely life changing.

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Ariana Ray
13/9/2017 12:35:32 am

You write 'I have been blessed to know Serge', and I feel exactly the same. His commitment to work is second to none, I have been consistently inspired by his work ethic. I can honestly say that it has changed my life.

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Carmel Reid
13/9/2017 03:20:34 am

Some of the presentations by Serge Benhayon are very simple sharings of his own life combined with explanations of what is going on for all of us in relationships, the energy that is in everything and our reactions. Everything is down to earth and helps us to understand and make changes for the better so that as we choose differently all our relationships naturally improve.

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Mary
13/9/2017 08:57:38 am

I totally agree with what you have written here
"Serge Benhayon has been an incredible and intricate part of my life in many ways, both in how I am with myself, in my relationships, my family and how I now choose to live."
The more I deepen my connection to me and observe how this then affects everyone around me I appreciate my responsibility to life and others. And as Serge has always maintained this responsibility is a joy not a burden or something to resent.

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Kerstin Salzer
13/9/2017 06:36:42 pm

I can confirm that Serge Benhayon never has judged, critisized or imposed anything on me. However he always tells truth with deep love.

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Rowena Stewart
14/9/2017 08:47:03 pm

Gorgeous to see how beautiful and vital you look and feel in your photo Nicole, evidence that joins the ranks of many others who have flourished on all levels as a consequence of having Serge Benhayon in our lives.

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David
14/9/2017 11:06:14 pm

From my perspective their are very few true role models, and at the same time we are all a role model, therefore with so many untrue role models we should really appreciate and celebrate Serge for the true role model he is. As I write this what stands out is that to truly appreciate this is for us to also choose to live in a way that we are also true role models.

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Vicky Geary
15/9/2017 02:41:13 am

Serge has consistently reflected true commitment to life, without an ounce of holding back how grand we are and the truth that we all know.

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Vicky Cooke
15/9/2017 01:50:16 pm

From knowing Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine I can say I also know what true family is now.

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Carmel Reid
16/9/2017 04:39:17 am

The presentations of Serge Benhayon help us all to understand what is happening in all our relationships so that we don't run away or project our needs onto people, but appreciate who we all are, and celebrate each other instead of arguing, reacting and generally creating mayhem.

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Matilda Bathurst link
24/9/2017 09:46:35 am

A quiet, unwavering relationship with responsibility and how so much can change when we accept that how we are with ourselves, impacts everything.

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Carmel Reid
16/9/2017 05:12:54 pm

The supportive family feeling we get amongst Universal Medicine Students is a reminder that we are all connected, that it's not just blood ties that bind us together, we are all one humanity and Brotherhood is for us all as a way of life.

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Michelle Mcwaters
16/9/2017 09:05:24 pm

Whenever I see a picture of Serge Benhayon I always smile. I am reminded always of the potential of life he has shown and how to get there. I am reminded of the commitment and dedication that any human can achieve. I am reminded of the fact that there is no perfection. I am reminded of the fact of true expression and what true love in expression looks and feels like. All encompassing but humble.

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Ariana Ray
17/9/2017 05:35:46 am

Nicole, you write that 'Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration for me in my relationship' and I can understand that as he his a master of relationships. We may tie ourselves in knots with our relationships, yet he is as solid as a rock in all of his and is a living inspiration.

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Michael Brown
17/9/2017 12:17:52 pm

The truest of role models for humanity. Words cannot do justice to what Serge represents.

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Susan Green
17/9/2017 12:30:20 pm

...'how often do we actually stop to see what we have contributed to all that we are involved in or part of?' I was speaking to someone today about how we are so quick to react to situations but rarely stop, if at all, to understand what is going on for us first. When we react it is often because it has brought something up for us to look at. The reaction turns it away from us onto others and we miss the opportunity that was there to learn from.

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Gabriele Conrad
17/9/2017 02:00:36 pm

As you say, Serge Benhayon listens unreservedly and from an equalness that is unparalleled; this supports others to come to their own understanding and truth. And there is no investment in the outcome, ever.

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Rowena Stewart
17/9/2017 09:16:29 pm

Serge Benhayon has empowered so many people, self included, to freely and willing relinquish our 'safe havens' and return to life in full, hearts wide open with total commitment. No longer do we need to seek refuge from life, but welcome it with open arms, re-connected to our inner wisdom and ready to serve in whatever capacity is required. An awesome achievement by one man who has never walked away from Love.

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Carmel Reid
18/9/2017 12:13:18 pm

Thanks to the presentations of Serge Benhayon I have come to see just how often I judge others and judge myself as well, and how destructive any kind of judgement can be on any relationship, how imposing it is. Serge never judges, he observes and says what he knows, presenting the absolute truth of how we have all been and are living. He is a true role model for all of us, reflecting that there is another way to be.

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Matilda Bathurst link
24/9/2017 09:42:24 am

Life without judgement will become our norm; and this potential in us is something that inspires me hugely, knowing that in truth we all yearn for the same unity and quality in our relationships.

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Natalie Hawthorne
18/9/2017 01:25:36 pm

Such an amazing opportunity for everyone, you, your husband, your children and how each of these relationships are then taken into all the other areas of everybody's lives and then these people get to feel the freedom that has been offered when we are just being us and appreciating all that we bring and have to offer.

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Simon Williams
23/9/2017 08:52:15 pm

An opportunity for all of us, if we but let the love in.

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Michelle Mcwaters
18/9/2017 09:25:56 pm

My love for Serge Benhayon as a dear friend and his endless capacity to love and support makes me feel truly, truly blessed. I have never known anyone like him. The fact that he is in my orbit is pretty amazing; to be able to call him a dear friend adds new deep wells of appreciation and love. Thank you so much Serge for simply being all of you and showing me what love really is - the depth of it yet I haven't fully grasped - but where you are helping me get to has already been way beyond what I thought possible.

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Michael Brown
19/9/2017 01:36:20 am

Serge has always been there for me, and has always delivered what I needed to hear.

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Jonathan Stewart
19/9/2017 11:00:23 pm

"never in my 15+ years of knowing Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do". Although this can be challenging when one wants someone else to tell you what to do, to fix a problem for you, you know that Serge will never do that for you. This is the best support that one can ever receive as you learn and develop to take full responsibility for one's life and that is so empowering.

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Carmel Reid
20/9/2017 01:13:28 am

There never is an 'I told you so' just an endless presentation of the facts told in different ways until we all get it. Each one of us is in complete control of whether we act now or in delay - the choice is always ours.

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Mary
21/9/2017 08:46:35 pm

I feel that most people could relate to what you have written here Nicole
"I had to begin to build a whole new level of understanding and acceptance, something I had never entertained before; after all I had been blaming others for why my life was the way it was for a very long time. It was HUGE and took time, and is something I am still working on, developing and deepening."
I feel that there is a vast majority of people who feel they are a victim of life and it is very easy to blame others or life for our woes. But having true support to look at actually what is really going on is actually very freeing because when we can admit that our life is made up of the choices we have made then we can make the changes because it puts us back in charge of our destiny.

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Joseph Barker
21/9/2017 11:52:00 pm

It's easy to say responsibility is the way we should live today, it's simple to extol the virtues of integrity - we all agree that we deserve to be treated with decency and respect, but it's another to live this way and consistently do so every day. Serge Benhayon shows us it's absolutely possible with dedication, application and care. He is a man who talks his walk and makes the way he moves his number one priority - for he know all the choices we make flow right from here. We might not all be able to live the consistency Serge can right now, but we can certainly bring care and attention to the quality we choose to move in. Thank you Nicole for a fitting tribute to this inspiring man.

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Carmel Reid
22/9/2017 12:13:23 am

'What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made, how I was with others and the deep hurts I had harboured for eons that I slowly began to feel, shed and let go of.' I have been learning recently how my reactions to issues in all my relationships are in fact me feeling old hurts and blaming the person who just reflected back to me. Knowing this has enabled me to stop and observe what I actually feel and to track back to the original hurt, or at least to register the truth of the situation and stop blaming others for my apparent misery! Interestingly when I do this, the situations never arises again and if I don't clear it fully, then it comes up again in a slightly different situation. We can learn a lot from our own reactions.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
22/9/2017 10:52:33 pm

So true that "Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not because of what he says, teaches or presents, but by what he lives, walks and breathes – which is an absolute love and understanding for all of humanity."

I am understanding more and more that the way we live and the reflection we offer, is a far greater and deeper support to others than anything we may may say or do.

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Ariana Ray
22/9/2017 10:58:17 pm

You write about how 'Serge has been an absolute support', and I too can attest to that. He is never 'nice' but always real and true.

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Carmel Reid
23/9/2017 04:11:47 am

We can all be role models for a different way of living, many hundreds of people around the world are developing a healthy lifestyle and, although many businesses are springing up in the Healthcare sector, unless we are living what we talk about, people will not be inspired to truly change their lives.

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Simon Williams
23/9/2017 08:50:48 pm

What Serge has to share is enormous. There is a depth of wisdom no question when having a conversation with him, but more powerful than that is the lived example. The amount I learn from seeing his relationship with Miranda, or his kids, or other people..... the love, the respect, the call to truth and responsibility. These inspire beyond words.

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Heather Pope
15/4/2018 11:32:38 am

To be inspired by another is possibly the greatest compliment there is for a life well lived, and Serge Benhayon is inspirational in a myriad of ways.

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Matts Josefsson
24/9/2017 12:55:59 am

I feel that is how it has been throughout the ages with true masters. They have presented with a living way that resonated with people.

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Matilda Bathurst link
24/9/2017 09:39:06 am

I have learnt unfathomable amounts from what Serge has shared in presentations and even more from seeing how he lives and commits to a quality of life and service.

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Matts Josefsson
29/9/2017 08:14:49 am

And I would also say that how he lives is actually psychology in its truest form.

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Ruth Ketnor
24/9/2017 10:18:25 pm

Amazing testimony Nicole, and the love, care, support, listening that Serge gave you is equally there for everyone, and many many people have changed their lives because of this. Every presentation, book, audio, TV presentation offers us so much. So much to appreciate.

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Michael Brown
25/9/2017 10:06:11 pm

Boy oh boy where would I be without my role model! In a pub somewhere withdrawn from life seeking sexual relationships just for the sake of it, hating work and life, surviving and being severely miserable. Thank God for Serge Benhayon and thank myself for sticking around him.

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Ruth Ketnor
25/9/2017 10:14:12 pm

'The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself.' this proves how powerful how we live affects others. For Serge to be living the absolute love that he does has inspired many to bring love to and live love in their lives, we in turn can inspire others and so it ripples out.

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Vicky Geary
26/9/2017 03:03:10 am

Serge Benhayon delivers true education. He teaches us that only we can connect with the wisdom of our soul and walk the steps required to return to living the glory of our divinity.

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Kerstin Salzer
26/9/2017 06:30:22 pm

This is a very beautiful and appreciative sharing of a relationship where there is true intimacy felt in just how deeply understanding Serge Benhayon listens to the story of your life.

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Meg Valentine
26/9/2017 08:50:00 pm

Serge Benhayon and his family taught me that having a relationship with someone can be the most amazing magnificent experience, there's so much dysfunction and awful stuff that goes on with relationships but observing the Benhayon family and how Serge talks about relationships has given me a very high marker of what is possible. You could say it's changed my whole approach to my relationships with people.

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Michael Brown
26/9/2017 11:52:01 pm

I too have know Serge through my ups and downs, and one of the most amazing things for me is that his love was always there, consistent and unwavering.

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HM
27/9/2017 12:08:42 am

What an amazing gift is shared here of looking at what there is for us to learn and take responsibility for in the situations we are presented with. It an be very easy to blame others or the world on circumstance, but Serge Benhayon has always supported others including myself to look at the bigger picture and what else is at play here.

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Sandra Vicary
27/9/2017 12:39:24 pm

Serge never fails to see beyond what the majority of us see when our lives become so complex that all we want to do is to run away. He always offers such wisdom and truth, that even if we choose to not consider what is being offered, there is no denying that we cannot ignore the fact that we have felt the absolute truth of what has been given to us.

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Esther Andras
27/9/2017 09:41:06 pm

This is a beautiful story Nicole, it not only shows the power of true counselling but the power of one's own willingness to work on the relationship with oneself.

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Fiona L
28/9/2017 01:38:13 am

1. Nicole’s story is not unfamiliar as I have seen hundreds of people’s lives transformed from their contact with Universal Medicine modalities and application of the teachings from their own body wisdom. It doesn’t seem to matter how you come across this holistic way of living. The outcome is the same with vast changes in health, self-worth, relationships etc. and re-connection to purpose, meaning and the divine aspect of life.

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Carmel Reid
28/9/2017 10:54:07 pm

Sometimes it is hard to assess the difference Serge Benhayon has made in our lives, because he touches on all aspects of how we are living and as we embody new ways of being, it is easy to forget how things were. Seeing so many slim, smiling and confident men and women is testimony to some of the changes, but it goes further than that because so many relationships are blossoming with greater understanding.

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Jenny Ellis
29/9/2017 12:38:20 pm

Nicole I love what you've shared, in particular the fact you took responsibility for where you found yourself and started healing the things that had affected you. My experience is the same, when it comes to any relationship. If there is any issue and I don't look at my part in why it is that way, then nothing truly shifts or resolves. I have discovered that this applies to every aspect of my life.

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JennyM
29/9/2017 06:47:59 pm

Address one area of our lives such as our relationship and connection to our selves and others and many other areas naturally start to change as well. Serge Benhayon walks the talk of wellbeing in all areas of life.

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Mary
30/9/2017 01:12:23 am

When things start to go wrong it's so easy to look for solutions and fixes, but to stop and look at what is being presented and see it as an opportunity to grow is not something I am familiar with too be honest. However since knowing Serge Benhayon and observing the way he and his family live, this has been a big life lesson for me. To not react but to stop and have the guts if you like to check out what is really going on, and be honest enough to call out what doesn't feel right, rather than pretending everything is okay and glossing over the bad bits in the hope that they will go away. They never do and if left un dealt with comeback much worse the second and third time round ...ouch!

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Shami
30/9/2017 01:10:17 pm

I understand this chaos that you write about and I understand pushing through the day against all the body's messages just to get to the end and rest. I also understand the transformative inspiration that is Serge Benhayon, with his unwavering commitment to quality in life and in not settling for less but actually asking for more all of the time, more love, more awareness, more work. He is the living embodiment of how we can all be.

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Stephen Gammack
30/9/2017 09:30:09 pm

One of the greatest qualities in Serge is his ability to allow and accept people to be as they are, not try and change them or get what it is he knows. His level of intelligence is vast, and that is felt in his presentations, but it is very much allowing everyone to progress at their own pace. The words of support are there when it is needed, but ultimately he is teaching self care and support, not a reliance on him or anyone else.

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Joseph Barker
1/10/2017 11:48:41 am

We tend to think of role models of people who say great things, or who’ve done great acts. But what I love about Serge Benhayon is that it is the choices that he has made that have laid the foundation for others to choose truth. As you show Nicole, we all have the power to transform ourselves and change life just in the decisions we make. Let us never underestimate the great power our way carries. Greater than any protest or petition the way we move and hold ourselves is the key.

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Carmel Reid
1/10/2017 04:06:32 pm

I've been in relationships where we were nit picking at each other and it doesn't feel great. These days, thanks to the presentations of Serge Benhayon I am so much more aware of the energies at play and can detect it in my expression, so I do it less often. I have been appreciating that appreciation of myself and others takes away the judgement, which leads to more harmonious relationships.

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Rowena Stewart
1/10/2017 08:55:19 pm

Serge Benhayon restores an innate grace to the world that we long to have once more, but have lost touch with in the way we are currently choose to lead our lives. Witnessing this grace simply brings us back to our own, a natural expression that once connected with, becomes a sincere and honest guide in all we do.

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Lieke
2/10/2017 10:57:51 am

I love how Serge Benhayon supported you in your relationship to stay together and learn to heal your hurts through which you now have an amazing relationship. Nowadays way too often relationships are broken up just because it does not work straight away and even though we should never accept abuse there is a lot we can work through if we are really open and willing in a relationship.

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Carmel Reid
2/10/2017 11:59:55 am

The information Serge Benhayon presents is no more than we ourselves have access to, but they way we live is getting in the way of that access. What is so great about the way he presents is that he is constantly showing us how to access that information - not through books, not just through him, but for ourselves, through the wisdom of our own body.

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Melinda Knights
2/10/2017 01:36:11 pm

Serge has the most extraordinary way of working with people, he lets you completely be, but despite the problems one might experience he sees past it all to the essence of the person, and every part of you is held in love. It’s such a powerful experience and one I have found very healing, as it’s not so much about what is said, although that is helpful, it’s about being held in love and known for who you truly are, without any expectations or impositions.

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Matilda Bathurst
2/10/2017 08:20:23 pm

Understanding and building true relationships, inspired by the lived example of Serge Benhayon, is one of the most incredible invitations I have been offered whilst working with Universal Medicine.

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David
2/10/2017 08:39:12 pm

What i Love with what you share is the way in which Serge inspires in each person that they are the son of God, that they are equal to him in every way and we all have a choice to live a deeply loving life.

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Monika Rietveld
2/10/2017 09:37:15 pm

'I was waiting for the ‘I told you so’ however never in my 15+ years of knowing Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do … that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime.' And that is what I call a role model! To see and experience this an example forever changes you and restores the truth of our divine nature.

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Michael Brown
3/10/2017 12:31:05 pm

You can get so much wisdom from Serge even when he just listens let alone responds! The reflection he offers gives you all the answers you need. But not all that you may want.

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Carmel Reid
3/10/2017 06:29:15 pm

It is very easy to think the teacher is telling us off but in fact Serge Benhayon never does - he shows us a different way to live, which is how he lives, and he will always answer our questions, but he never tells us to do the same, it is always our choice, and we can feel for ourselves what is true or not.

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Monika Rietveld
3/10/2017 10:56:43 pm

I agree with what you write about ‘a true relationship; a relationship that is not built on needs, hurts nor ideals and beliefs.’ If any of the before mentioned is part of the relationship this claim will interfere and won’t allow for true love.

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Heather Pope
15/4/2018 11:35:02 am

Even the word relationship has been turned on its head by the work of Serge Benhayon. It is now a normal thing to consider how we are with each and every person we meet, not just our romantic partners or family.

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Elodie Darwish
4/10/2017 11:49:59 am

Well, that blows the published lies about Serge being a homewrecker out the door! I have only ever heard first hand stories like this that suggest just how normal yet committed and completely loving Serge is. And in that he is constantly reminding us to be responsible for ourselves which is the key to moving through life.

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Henrietta Chang
4/10/2017 12:09:02 pm

"...that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime." The absolute level of beholding of this man is amazing - Serge Benhayon is the father/mother/friend/confidante role model...and never is there any instruction of what to do, but always a holding of your hand with the utmost tenderness. What a blessing to encounter.

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Monika Rietveld
5/10/2017 10:19:44 am

'Taking responsibility is a big thing, we go through life blaming others for why we are the way we are, why our life, family or relationships are the way they are; but how often do we actually stop to see what we have contributed to all that we are involved in or part of?' I absolutely agree, we are responsible ourselves and contribute to every aspect of our lives. The way we live and our livingness not only create our own lives we contribute to everything and everyone in the world. This level of responsibility is something we shy away from or think it is too big. Serge is an perfect example of how this is lived.

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Shami
6/10/2017 06:50:20 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true role model in the truest meaning of the word because he shows everyone how to live in brotherhood.

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Natalie
7/10/2017 12:42:02 am

Undrestanding and acceptance towards ourselves and others is such a big one only in the sense that we have lived in a way that is so foreign to us. We have to start to breakdown our default mode of functioning in life and start to bring more awareness to how we can let go of behaviours, patterns and habits that we rely on for security. We have it all within us we only need to say yes to this and step by step we will come back. Thanks to Serge Benhayon this has been my new way of life, The Way of The Livingness and I wouldn't want it any other way.

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Carmel Reid
7/10/2017 02:47:58 am

It is so beautiful to hear about relationships that are blossoming as a result of the inspiration and support of Serge Benhayon.

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Carmel Reid
8/10/2017 03:43:00 am

It has been great learning about our reactions and the truth of what is going on. For me it has helped to explore the underlying hurt that ha been triggered and to work on being less emotional and more understanding.

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Carmel Reid
8/10/2017 12:47:03 pm

Learning about Reincarnation and Karma has taught me about responsibility and given me the awareness of how much life reflects back to us the lessons we need to learn so that we come back time and time again until we get it. It is very simple and so beautiful.

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Jennym
8/10/2017 01:12:43 pm

The fact that Serge Benhayon never tells you what to do but lives in such a way that is true means there is always an opportunity for us to choose to live more of who we truly are.

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Heather Pope
8/10/2017 01:30:38 pm

In a world where relationships seem to be one of our greatest challenges Serge Benhayon offers a way of living and loving that provides a foundation from which joy and harmony can be built.

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Jonathan Stewart
8/10/2017 09:49:12 pm

The zenith of the art of listening is exemplified by Serge Benhayon

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Andrew Mooney
8/10/2017 10:01:12 pm

Beautiful Nicole and I can say also that my relationships with my wife, my siblings, and my parents have been tremendously supported and enriched also by the inspiration and teachings of Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.

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Stephanie Stevenson
8/10/2017 11:13:59 pm

Every movement and action Serge Benhayon makes brings the opportunity for everyone and everything around him to be open to the living stillness, harmony and grace that we naturally are – just not living it in full, as Serge reflects.

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Gabriele Conrad
9/10/2017 01:45:19 pm

Serge Benhayon supports in a way that offers no solutions or directives but opens the doors to more understanding; this in turn creates space for our own wisdom to be accessed and the next step or steps become much clearer.

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Tricia Nicholson
10/10/2017 08:39:04 pm

A beautiful very real testimonial of Serge Benhayon and his incredible dedication to humanity with his every movement as a reflection and inspiration for us all. His love and understanding is enormous for everyone equally with no one left out and my life ,relationships and inner contentment would never have been like it is also without the presence and love of Serge Benhayon over the last 15 years and the amount of love is so beautiful to feel.

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Samantha Davidson
10/10/2017 10:05:14 pm

Role models, we really need some true ones in society and Serge Benhayon is just that, I have observed how he is with myself and other people and he is so consistent, there is no doubting the foundation off love and integrity that he lives with, this inspires, it has deeply inspired me.

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Ariana Ray
10/10/2017 10:34:54 pm

'Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration' and that is what he is - pure inspiration. To see a man living the way he does is life changing in itself.

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Shirley-Ann Walters
12/10/2017 12:37:50 am

It is very inspiring to be reminded of just how unimposing Serge is, and how he just reflects from his own livingness a way you can feel and understand if you choose to. Initially as I read this I must admit I thought 'gosh you were lucky to have so much first hand support from him' (being local) but then I remembered Serge giving me his card so many years ago when I was going through it rather, and realising it was that I didn't feel worthy of taking up his time that I didn't really take up that support, and that was my choice, again he did not impose. Today I feel very inspired to look at my own 'helpfulness' and to re-assess that I do not impose help on others, whist being there for them, listening, in the same way.

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Carmel Reid
12/10/2017 03:56:08 am

Serge Benhayon never gives us deadlines but we do get a sense of urgency and an awareness of how much we ourselves are delaying our own evolution.

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Sandra Vicary
12/10/2017 12:34:51 pm

Serge Benhayon is showing so many couples that just because a relationship may falter and break, it doesnt mean that the true and loving friendship that was once there is irretrievable. He is an enormous inspiration to so many, who are finding a way to either stay together or to at least remain close and true friends who continue to love and support each other.

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Alison Valentine
12/10/2017 09:42:25 pm

"Our children now have an opportunity to live with and be part of a true family, to grow up knowing there is more to a relationship than ticking the boxes." The is so important Nicole, our children are our future and while they naturally can feel what is true or not, if we don't offer a reflection that is honest, open, and loving they will learn to accept less than what they know in their hearts to be true.

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Mary
12/10/2017 10:21:01 pm

From all the presentations and workshops of Serge Benhayon my biggest take away is that there is always more. That there is such a wealth, depth of beauty in love that is never ending and I can feel in my body that this is true. To now live in connection to the universe why would I choose anything different? My life has been completely transformed from one where I always felt depressed and anxious to one where I can feel the joy in everything I do. It has taken a lot of hard work but the payoff has been enormous and so worth the effort. Thanks to the support of Serge Benhayon his family and Universal Medicine.

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Matilda Bathurst
8/1/2018 05:19:32 am

And the thing is Mary that walking alongside you now is an inspiration in itself... your innate qualities expressed more and more openly and freely, blessing the many people you interact with in life.

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Mary
12/10/2017 10:24:08 pm

Serge Benhayon lives a way of life that is simple and completely transparent and it is that transparency that was everything to me. Here at last was someone who lives a truly open life, open for all to see and connect to. As I feel there are so very few people who can live in such a way. How often do we see in the media famous people that we think are leading the so called ‘perfect life’ but actually their lives are full of falseness and turmoil and what we thought was ‘perfect’ was just a charade, that leaves one feeling somehow let down, in as much as if they have everything and are still not happy what chance have I when I don’t have those privileges. It’s all a set up to keep us all feeling less and miserable.

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Leigh Strack
13/10/2017 01:18:50 am

The openness and honesty with which this article is shared is a true reflection of what Serge Benhayon offers every one of us. How can we begin to deal with our issues in our relationships if we do not stop hiding and shying away from them?

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Carmel Reid
14/10/2017 11:52:32 am

Serge is a great role model for how to stay steady - I have never seen him react to anything, he is always calm no matter what is going on around him.

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Andrew Mooney
14/10/2017 11:16:53 pm

What an amazing relationship counsellor!...someone who does not tell you what to do but simply inspires you to go deeper in your relationships by living a quality in his relationships that is undeniably amazingly rich and consistent. This example or inspiration then brings out the natural wisdom we have within rather than needing advice to come from outside. Very self-empowering and no ounce of imposition or interference or coercion. This is the depth and quality of support that Serge Benhayon offers all who ask for support.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
16/10/2017 10:18:29 am

Nicole, your beautiful testimonial brought tears to my eyes as I was reading it - because you share with such a humility and honesty on something that is so very true. I have witnessed time and time again the endless understanding and holding Serge has for everyone and for any situation, ever judging, inspiring or pushing, but simply offering and inspiring by his now living way the love that we so sorely need to bring to whatever the situation at hand is.
In a world where judgement, impatience and dismissal are part of the furniture of life, this reflection is beyond words in what it is offering us. And the ripple effects cannot be underestimated - that same inspiration and holding is now something we can offer others also - for as we are inspired by Serge, we can now inspire others.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
17/10/2017 02:28:33 am

We are naturally made to love - to be loving with ourselves, and one another. And yet in this world today we are not that - often we are the exact opposite in fact. Serge Benhayon reminds us of what we all know and miss, and what we can all claim in our lives once again - the endless love that is within us to express towards ourselves and the All.

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Carmel Reid
17/10/2017 02:38:37 am

A lot of people have no idea how hard Serge works - he is tireless in his commitment to humanity and offers a role model of a way of living that most of us would run a mile from, and yet he is always joyful, caring and an inspiring man to be around.

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Otto Bathurst
29/10/2017 04:16:08 am

And is always there for whoever needs him, whenever and whatever the situation. I have never, ever seen and, nor do I expect to see that level of consistency in any one else in the world that I have met. It is truly extra-ordinary.

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Samantha Davidson
19/10/2017 02:29:16 am

My relationships have been deeply enhanced by being aware fo my responsibility with them, true empowerment to make our own choices for how we are with ourselves and others. Deeply healing and empowering to be aware that we have these choices. Serge Benhayon and what he shares changes lives, but not because he does anything, he shares the way he lives and offers that as a reflection, a true world teacher.

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Heather Pope
19/10/2017 09:12:02 pm

The relationships we can have with one another can be so much more than we are used to, if only we are willing to put our personal beliefs to one side and be open to a truly loving relationship whether that be as friends or family.

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Jenny Ellis
23/10/2017 01:21:03 pm

A stunning testimony to the power of inspiration... what you've outlined Nicole is how we change the world, one person at a time, through living the truth of who we are. Serge Benhayon is one such man and the thousands of lives that have been inspired through the way he lives and interacts is astounding when you hear each individual story like this.

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Ingrid Ward
25/10/2017 09:18:26 pm

My life before meeting Serge Benhayon was rather a mess on many levels although there was always a part of me that knew it didn’t need to be the mess it was, but I simply did not know how to change it. It only took one workshop with Serge to wake me up to the fact that my life was the mess it was as a result of the choices I had made; there was no one to blame for the mess. I also discovered that, yes, there was another way to live, a way which I willingly began to embrace and which today I am fully committed to living. Serge inspired me to make different choices in my life from the moment I met him and still continues to do so today. He is the ultimate role model that everyone in this world needs.

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Michael Brown
27/10/2017 05:04:21 am

You hit the nail on the head Nicole, it is not in what Serge say that is the key but his movements.

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Otto Bathurst
29/10/2017 01:48:21 am

Another testimony to the astonishingly dedicated love, support and inspiration that Serge Benhayon lives and breathes for all of humanity.

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Matilda Bathurst
8/1/2018 05:16:33 am

I am in bed today feeling pretty poorly and pondering why I still put things in the way of simply being unconditionally inspired by lives lived with a quality and dedication that I can see, feel and recognise as supportive and developmental for us all. Serge Benhayon lives one such life and my resistance diminishes ongoingly as he continues to live with a quality and consistency that is properly remarkable.

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Otto Bathurst
29/10/2017 04:10:57 am

I love my life; in a way that I never imagined possible or in a way that I never even knew existed. Thank you Serge Benhayon.

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Joseph Barker
29/10/2017 11:13:10 pm

One of the deeply beautiful things about Serge Benhayon is the way you don’t have to discuss everything with him, but what he does share with you supports and assists you in every way. He offers a couple of words and yet they reverberate throughout your whole life. Just the way he carries himself tells you everything you need to know about truth. Thank you Nicole for this fitting testimony and timely reminder that we are not here to blame anyone and that includes ourselves.

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Richard Mills
5/1/2018 04:42:27 am

So true Joseph. There is a depth of love and wisdom that comes through Serge's words - and his movements too. Sometimes, even words are unnecessary.

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Alex Braun
31/10/2017 12:19:29 pm

It is the absolute acceptance offered and the fact of never being imposed upon by Serge Benhayon that has allowed me to develop trust – trust into myself and towards others and Serge Benhayon.

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Heather Pope
7/11/2017 09:30:34 am

I feel very much the same. There is no doubt that Serge Benhayon offers all the same, which is an understanding of life and the way energy works. From that relationships that are based in love and truth are possible.

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Sandra Vicary
4/11/2017 04:19:08 am

"What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made, how I was with others and the deep hurts I had harboured for eons that I slowly began to feel, shed and let go of." It is this willingness to stop and look at how we have been living, to become aware that it is our own individual choices that are what shapes our lives, and then to accept responsibility for those choices which is so significant when it comes to the truth of the healing possibilites that are offered by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.

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Helen Elliott
6/11/2017 10:57:11 pm

Every word you write reflects the true role model that Serge is through every action and interaction in his forever purposeful life, always open to sharing with others without judgement and with a beholding love that allows others to come to their own decisions and choose to take responsibility for their lives as you have Nicole. Thus the ripples of reflection continue to your children, your community and around the world.

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Alison Valentine
7/11/2017 12:10:18 pm

A true role model is not about doing or saying anything. Live in a way that reflects the love that we come from and no words are needed. Thank you Serge you are and forever will be a true role model supporting us to return to who we truly are.

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Suzanne Anderssen
9/11/2017 12:12:15 pm

How awesome to have a friend like Serge Benhayon when you need true advise with your own relationship. I totally get how having a '...new level of understanding and acceptance...' has supported you, because the very same thing has supported me too with my own relationship. We're another couple who are thriving together still, because we decided to seek understanding not blame, and deal with what we needed to. This is one of the many gems that Serge inspires in all people.

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Carola Woods link
16/11/2017 10:59:07 am

Beautiful to feel your return to love Nicole. We, our bodies and being, all are deeply and innately attuned to the movements of love. As such when we are met by the movements of love often words are not needed, as our Soul instantly knows. Serge Benhayon is the personification of love, through which the way he lives speaks volumes of what our true potential is here, as a humanity. With every move an inspiration and a confirmation of the love we innately are, our future, that which we are all here to return to.

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Sarah Flenley
17/11/2017 11:41:30 am

When something is expressed or presented from a true living way, the inspiration it offers is universal.

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Samantha Davidson
18/11/2017 10:36:01 pm

Reflecting for even moment on our responsibility in life is the stuff of true healing, we blame others so much that we get a fog before us, not understanding or seeing the we have the choices to make about how we live, who we are with, and what we say. and how we move....all of these things matter, and when responsibility is considered it becomes a constant practice to deepen that responsibility, knowing that it is not a chore but a chore, because it brings true freedom and empowerment.

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Tricia Nicholson
18/11/2017 11:00:13 pm

A beautiful knowing and sharing Nicole of Serge Benhayon and the true role model he is for us all as humanity and the best friend one could ever have . The responsibility and absolute love he walks and his movements say it all and his reflection is our ever lasting imprint on this earth to live here as who we really are .

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Alison Valentine
20/11/2017 08:44:09 am

Serge has an amazing way of supporting relationships by building on what is already there, he never takes sides, but gets us to see what is there in truth. He really is a walking body of love and everything he offers, is already lived and expressed.

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Sandra Vicary
2/12/2017 09:32:46 am

What Serge Benhayon reflects to us all by the way he lives and the relationships he has with his family members is far beyond anything I had ever come across before I met him. He and his family are exemplary examples of how anyone can live together in perfect harmony, by virtue of the commmittment, love and purpose they each bring to the way they live.

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Ray Karam link
2/12/2017 10:52:21 am

We are often caught in giving people advice that we may not follow ourselves. It's true we can see what is needed for someone and what is needed for them to do but do we bring this forward as a point for us to show the world in how we live or do we just keep speaking to people about it as a should do. As this article presents and as we all know when someone is truly living something you can not only hear their words in a different way you get to see the action of the words or the action or movements support the words and as is said about Serge Benhayon, "The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself."

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Samantha Davidson
3/12/2017 02:36:04 am

I have been so inspired to be there role model I can be through observing the power of Truth and Love expressed through Serge Benhayon. When you see him walk and talk with people, you observe someone who holds another in Love, a beholding quality that allows space to heal and learn for oneself with clarity. This is now what I am learning to express, behold, not react, judge or blame. It is deeply empowering to have role models in this world who offer the space to learn, while calling out that which is not love and truth.

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Andrew Mooney
3/12/2017 03:24:34 am

Letting go of the 'blame game' is such a key thing to having deeper more fulfilling relationships. The blame game goes nowhere except driving further divisions and creating a million reasons to not open up to others. When we stop this momentum and actually take responsibility for our own reactions and hurts it completely breaks this cycle and I have witnessed it completely transform many a relationship, including most of mine.

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Nattalija link
12/12/2017 02:03:31 pm

I have been so inspired by this man in how I live my life. The teachings show another way of living that truly heals and supports another in the same quality that Serge Benhayon offers the world.

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Rachel Murtagh
13/12/2017 01:55:58 am

Simply in the observing of Serge Benhayon and how I lives his life, I know through lived proof by him, that there is another way to life. I am constantly inspired to be more, and to live with greater truth and love. This requires a dedication and commitment, but with Serge lighting the way that dedication and commitment doesn't have to be a heavy burden-ous thing, but simply a development moment by moment.

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Shami
15/12/2017 11:06:08 pm

"Be patient... give it time." What beautiful words. So much understanding and love for each person involved. No right or wrong. No need to be the saviour or the righteous one. Just a simple offering. Be patient and give it time, perhaps a great lesson for us all.

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jennym
16/12/2017 07:07:16 pm

What a beautiful reflection you bring Nicole, in showing how it is so very possible to reconnect and live the love that we are by dropping our hurts, pictures and pictures.

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HM
17/12/2017 12:01:41 pm

Playing a victim is one thing that Serge Benhayon has brought to light - in the sense that it is a lack of responsibility. I used to be very good at playing this card and just as good at not wanting to see my role within the situations I was caught in. But as is shared here, there are always 2 sides to a story, and being able to truly understand what we get out of being a victim can help us to break this pattern of hurt.

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Jacqueline McFadden link
20/12/2017 07:09:44 pm

'that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime'. I love this about Serge, when I was ill and looking to be told or guided what to do, Serge only ever said a few simple words that held me deeply and from that space I knew what my next steps were which actually supported me to grow my confidence to make for myself other important decisions.

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Elaine Arthey
21/12/2017 05:20:37 am

'Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not because of what he says, teaches or presents, but by what he lives, walks and breathes – which is an absolute love and understanding for all of humanity.' Most of my time spent with Serge is at presentations and courses but from the time I first met him till now he has always been such a role model. I have observed him, as much as I have been able, outside these times and in his ordinariness he is quite extraordinary and the energy felt in communication with him is always deeply healing.

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Alison Valentine
24/12/2017 08:45:15 pm

I have been blessed to know Serge Benhayon for 13 years and through him I have been able to turn my life around from someone who had given up on life and had succumbed to comfort and making my life as easy as possible, doing just enough to get by but with no purpose or joy. I know there are many that have changed their lives too and the beautiful thing is and what is so different from any so called role models that the media use, is that Serge lives and breathes all that he expresses and this is what inspires us all, no empty preaching or need to prove anything he is offering to us what he knows in absoluteness works for him.

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Samantha Davidson
25/12/2017 01:21:21 am

I have felt deeply healed by the lack of investment in me getting it and absolutely no judgement that Serge Benhayon lives, there is no push, he shares what he lives and knows that is enough, and is already for the next step in life. I love this it offers space for those around him. We often feel crushed and constrained by life space is exactly what is required to support people to reconnect with what is within them.

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Matilda Bathurst
8/1/2018 05:04:47 am

Yes I agree, Samantha, there is huge respect, understanding and care in the way Serge lives and relates to people... no judgement or expectation, which is super unusual in the world today, although it feels more natural and confirming than anything I have encountered before. It is gorgeous to be in relationships with people without all the agendas, hurts and complication.

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Kathleen Baldwin
26/12/2017 01:59:10 am

Wow Nicole, what a great testimony to both you and Serge Benhayon! And what a power couple you and your husband are today! Well worth being inspired by the livingness of Serge Benhayon whose every movement inspires me and many others to be more of who we truly are.

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Esther Andras
27/12/2017 11:16:57 am

What is clearly and deeply felt in your words is the absolute love Serge Benhayon holds everybody in, and from my own experience that is the best support one can be given as it allows oneself to observe, discover and see for oneself the choices one has made and are to make.

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Andrew Mooney
30/12/2017 11:44:26 pm

Yes I agree Nicole one of the most remarkable things about Serge Benhayon that I have also witnessed many times is that he really observes the situation and has tremendous understanding in that he does not get drawn into the emotions or reactions of others but gives them space, time and understanding to come to their own realisations when they are ready to do so.

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Richard Mills
5/1/2018 04:31:20 am

Utterly gorgeous Nicole, so much to appreciate. Truly accepting responsibility is an act of self-love and hence love for others. How awesome. And this is the foundation of true relationships, built on that choice to be responsible and self-loving. A philosophy that offers our world the opportunity for true change and a very different future.

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Matilda Bathurst
8/1/2018 05:01:32 am

Meeting Serge Benhayon is one of those moments when you see a life lived with a quality and dedication that is remarkable and inspiring and you have the opportunity to be inspired and say yes or to be jealous and resist... the yes takes you on a path of self discovery like the one Nicole has shared and whilst resistance persists, I am still inspired and saying yes.

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Elaine Arthey
9/1/2018 04:52:45 am

Serge gives us the space to deepen pour relationship with ourselves in connection with the Universe and from that all else comes.

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vicky cooke
11/1/2018 12:40:58 pm

This is AMAZING 'My relationship has gone from one that I never thought would last past the first year of marriage, to now heading into our 14th year with many more to come.' Serge has also helped me with my relationships, not partners but helped me to heal the bridges I created with my family. When we are stubborn so much damage can be done and we miss out on truly loving both ourselves and others. Amazing testimony and I completely concur .. Serge Benhayon is an absolute true role model for all.

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jane keep
14/1/2018 07:55:40 pm

Until I met Serge Benhayon I didn't realise what a true model was - as Serge lives, breathes, walks and talks the real deal - consistently so, and I have observed this for 14 years.

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Michael Brown
15/1/2018 11:32:40 am

What I loved about Serge as a kid was seeing just how real he was in a world full of people whose words didn't match their movements.

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Kim
16/1/2018 02:16:13 am

Beautiful Nicole, it is not just wise words that Serge Benhayon offers, he offers movement for us to feel and know by how our body responds. I would not have this incredible life I do now if it wasn’t for the choices of Serge Benhayon. That’s an enormous statement but not as enormous as the love shared by this man.

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Janet
21/1/2018 11:50:23 pm

I agree, Nicole. My family and I have been blessed like many many others to be held by Serge Benhayon and his family with absolute love and constant support. There is so much that they offer behind the scenes, without any fuss or payment...it is just what they do.

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Janet
22/1/2018 11:20:19 pm

Yes, it is incredible how Serge Benhayon naturally presents as a world teacher and is equally natural as a father, partner and dear friend.

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Michael Brown
23/1/2018 01:19:29 am

A role model who does not consider himself higher or on a pedestal, but sees himself equal to all he walks with.

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Janet
23/1/2018 11:18:59 pm

Yes, Nicole, I too tried a myriad of substances and solutions in my search of the truth, only to be guided by Serge Benhayon back to the inner knowing within my own body.

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David
26/1/2018 12:49:36 am

Nicole when I look at the relationships that I have in my life there is no doubt they have completely changed since meeting Serge and being inspired in the way I kook after myself, as you say "Serge constantly supports both of us to come together and build a true relationship; a relationship that is not built on needs, hurts nor ideals and beliefs."

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Joshua Campbell
31/1/2018 07:22:29 am

On top of this mind boggling, heart opening and deeply inspiring change in your life Nicole all inspired by Serge and his living way, Serge also inspires further as he does not ask or want anything not even recognition for what he has offered you. His reward is the joy of you being you and that in itself is phenomenal and very rare.

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HM
2/2/2018 09:52:52 am

This is a huge sharing of allowing people to be who they are - holding them in love with no judgement, and healing the hurts we carry. In effect, what Serge Benhayon reflected to you, you were able to bring this into your relationship. What an amazing reflection.

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HM
4/2/2018 06:50:23 am

The quality that Serge Benhayon reflects to others is a call for us to be more. He is not in it to be 'the best or the wisest' but to love and support us to the point where we naturally make loving choices for ourselves based on the connection we develop with ourselves and the world.

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Nico van Haastrecht
16/2/2018 08:39:41 pm

Yes HM, I experience that too, it is like a call or an invitation to reconnect to that same love he is reflecting to us continuously. And my experience is once you say yes to this call the invitation continues but then invites us to be more, to go deeper in that connection. The support I do experience in this is endless and always at the right time to confirm I am okay and absolutely equal to him.

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Mary
6/2/2018 11:27:50 am

For those of us who have been fortunate to meet Serge Benhayon we are able appreciate how he is with each and everyone of us. Never a word of judgement or criticism; just a reflection that may be the life model we are living is not it. And this makes sense to me as how can we say we are all living vital and healthy lives when illness and disease are sky rocketing it doesn't make sense that we can tout our current life style as being 'it' when it seems to be it is anything but 'it'

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Shami
13/2/2018 10:10:35 pm

It can seem like a big set of words - to live a life dedicated to love. And perhaps this is outside of what many people believe is possible for us. However, the more I get to know Serge Benhayon, his family and the people who have known him closely for so long, the more I can see with my own eyes how very normal and real he and all these people are, that love is not something unattainable, nor is it revered as being reserved for the special few, nor is it aligned to some magical and mystical force. It simply is a beholding presence. Love, is an emanation that comes from the core centre of every person if we so let it out and express it. We are loving beings, with enormous amounts of love for eachother and just because the world is not functioning in a way that supports or honours this, does not mean that we, the beings who hold the light of love, cannot still remain steady and true to the callings of our inner-hearts.

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Ariana Ray
13/2/2018 10:39:47 pm

Nicole, you write how 'Serge has been an absolute support and inspiration'. I too have found this to be the case. I see how he lives, moves, presents and talks and I am so inspired to be more of me than ever before. It doesn't stop, just deepens each time I meet him.

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Nico van Haastrecht
16/2/2018 08:32:55 pm

Why is Serge so special you may ask, because he is just an ordinary man, living with his family and running his businesses, all the temporal things we do too. But it is about his commitment to love, the love we all origin from but he is living to its full extend. That is what makes him so special, while he is just an ordinary man he connects to us from this love and with that is a role model for many to give it a try and start living this love for themselves too.

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Rachel Murtagh link
18/2/2018 12:19:07 am

'What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made...' I have found this to be a great support to and to be a growing up period f. In the past I would play the victim and 'poor me' without looking at how the choices I made affected the situation before me. It has been liberating to take greater responsibility and has freed me of resentment and bitterness.

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Michael Brown
26/2/2018 02:29:34 am

The lack of judgement in Serge is quite something when I look at how much I judge, even though I would consider myself non-judgemental relative to what I see in the world.

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Natalie Hawthorne
28/2/2018 10:06:05 am

This is so true Nicole how we go through life looking and blaming others and not wanting to take responsibility for our choices. I absolutely love how Serge Benhayon is 100% responsible with every choice he makes and considers the absolute all in everything that he does.

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Samantha Davidson
1/3/2018 07:03:15 am

I absolutely get this, the true evolution hat we are all capable of has to come from ourselves "It was a slow, and gradual unfolding and a choice I had to make – to begin to take responsibility for my own choices," It is insisting to observing someone living their potential, such as Serge Benhayon, be he nore anyone else can do it for us, it has to be a choice of our own to come back to a life of responsibility. It is something t had not consider the power of, it was like I had a veil over my eyes and I could not see the simplicity of it, when someone walks in living it, then we all feel it and that is the inspiration Serge Benhayon.

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Adele Leung
1/3/2018 03:44:55 pm

To come back to Living the truth and love that you are—in not blaming anyone and taking back the responsibility and power, this is so worth it to be patient for.

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David Nicholson
1/3/2018 07:59:13 pm

"What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made" this is one of the single most amazing things that I have learnt from Universal Medicine, the choices I make and the difference that makes in my life and in other peoples lives.

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Sandra Vicary
2/3/2018 09:48:49 am

"The absolute love, support and understanding he lives both with himself and in his own relationship was enough to inspire me to begin to make changes in my life for myself." When we are offered such a depth of love, support and understanding we cannot not be inspired. We may not necessarily make any changes for ourselves, but on some level what we have experienced will stay with us nonetheless.

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Rowena Stewart
13/3/2018 09:48:10 pm

I always love the way, just when we want Serge to take a side he gently brings us back to our own responsibility and power within the relationship that enables us to give one another space to grow. Relationships are always about openness and reflection and so often what bugs us is a direct mirror of our own attitudes, choices and sticking points. Serge Benhayon holds us in such an immense love that empowers to learn how to hold others equally so.

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Jonathan Stewart
18/3/2018 07:04:19 am

So true, Rowena, both in Serge's ever loving and insightful response and in "so often what bugs us is a direct mirror of our own attitudes, choices and sticking points".

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Natalie Hawthorne
18/3/2018 02:50:13 am

Serge Benhayon is a man of his word, no matter what every word spoken comes from his authority of what he has lived and it is this that I have felt consistently and is what we have built our relationship on, a friend that speaks the truth.

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Jonathan Stewart
18/3/2018 07:01:41 am

"Taking responsibility is a big thing, we go through life blaming others for why we are the way we are, why our life, family or relationships are the way they are; but how often do we actually stop to see what we have contributed to all that we are involved in or part of?" Taking the step to stop and evaluate how we have contribute to a situation rather than blaming another is the first step to regain being responsible for one's life rather than being a victim of life.

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Tricia Nicholson
21/3/2018 09:58:11 pm

Beautiful Nicole I would also not have the live and relationships i have if it were not for the inspiration and reflection of Serge Benhayon and what he lives walks and breaths with his absolute love and understanding for humanity.A true role model.

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Tricia Nicholson
21/3/2018 09:58:42 pm

Beautiful Nicole I would also not have the live and relationships i have if it were not for the inspiration and reflection of Serge Benhayon and what he lives walks and breaths with his absolute love and understanding for humanity. A true role model.

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Ruth Ketnor
21/3/2018 11:47:06 pm

Serge Benhayon - A True Role Model.. Absolutely. All he lives inspired me to step out of chronic fatigue, which I had had for many years.. for good. He is God sent, with huge love for humanity.

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Eduardo Feldman
30/3/2018 03:19:45 am

There is no escape from the world, without escaping from oneself first. When this happens, committing to a relationship with another one cannot but prove to be very elusive. The process of coming back of ourselves, learning to be in a relationship and enjoying it is not an easy one and requires support. What Serge Benhayon offers in every way and regarding every step is simply immense.

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Zofia Sharman
31/3/2018 11:58:15 pm

Transformational Nicole, it is with understanding that the way always becomes clear. This [learning to have understanding through observation] is what Serge provides en masse and what I have learned (and continue to learn) from Serge. Understanding has made me more open and far less reactive which has brought ease to life, to living and to relating with others too.

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Lucinda Bathurst
2/4/2018 10:26:11 pm

Absolutely agreed Nicole, the life that Serge leads is the might & purity of the mirror he reflects; in relationship with Serge Benhayon we are offered a window to reconnect to our innermost purpose & power and in turn become aware of the energy that we call in to not live this in every moment.

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Tricia Nicholson
4/4/2018 11:46:12 pm

Serge Benhayon is indeed a true role model and is "by what he lives, walks and breathes – which is an absolute love and understanding for all of humanity." A this is a beautiful glimpse into the all he brings and reflects to the world .
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Hm
5/4/2018 06:50:09 pm

Serge Benhayon continues to present to us everything, with the knowing that we will hear what we are ready for - and he supports us in that. His wisdom and love is like no other, such is the example shared here of presenting the truth and the potential but never the answer.

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Liane Mandalis
9/4/2018 03:45:42 am

To be held in love and not judged should be the normality and not the rarity is sadly is today. We need more reflections of this in our world and it is up to us to hold each other in this light and this love. Serge Benhayon once again paves the way for all that is true and naturally divine to be lived once again in full expression and in honour to the source that delivers such wisdom – the light of our true self, our Soul.

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Natalie Hawthorne
13/4/2018 11:20:17 pm

Nicole this is a beautiful testimonial of Serge and I too have been blessed in witnessing hundreds of peoples lives change from being just surviving and generally in an uncomfortable way to living with vitally, joy and commitment to life. I too am deeply appreciative in walking along side Serge, a man that is so down to earth yet shares a wisdom that is beyond our imaginations inspiring us all to connect to the same divine source. That we all equally are connected to and impulsed form.

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Willem Plandsoen
15/4/2018 12:44:55 pm

Serge Benhayon is indeed a role model on many levels. But also a role model that is very transparent in showing the world how he lives as he does. So that we can duplicate, because as he shares so many times: we are all equal. An on the topic of relationships, he shows that relationships can be issue free, and slowly slowly I see in my life this can be lived as well.

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Michael Brown
16/4/2018 04:50:33 am

I've felt for some time that a lot more is communicated non-verbally than verbally when it comes to Serge, and your testimony confirms this, Nicole.

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Melinda Knights
2/5/2018 08:14:35 pm

It's a great comment Michael, being love with people and holding them in our love is a very healing experience - no words needed.

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Jennifer Smith
13/6/2018 01:10:15 pm

So true Michael. I recall the first time I spoke with Serge, I don't remember anything about what he said, but I remember exactly how he moved and I knew that those movements were specifically for what I needed to 'hear'.

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Natalie Hawthorne
18/4/2018 02:49:00 pm

If I was to be told 14 years ago that you will be deep in a relationship with yourself and how everything matters you would be blown away. What best to follow and be reminded how much of the Universe there really is.

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Danna Elmalah
1/5/2018 12:35:01 pm

Serge has been one of the people that have supported me in my relationships in my life. He was the first one who shared with me that It is super important to know who I am and bring that in full into my relationships with people. And that I need to love myself first and foremost. Which I felt straightaway that it was true as a hammer on the nail. The reason why I felt at times messy in relationship, has so not been because I cant handle relationships, but simply because I have been not so connected to myself and truly known myself! A big relief this was, and a huge empowerment to actually connect more to myself and get to know myself in full. Hence, Serge Benhayon has been my dear inspiration to actually start living myself again and coming back to the whole and full me. Thank you Serge Benhayon for your endless support.

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Melinda Knights
2/5/2018 08:11:04 pm

Before I came to the work of Serge Benhayon I must admit that I found relationships really confusing at times, as I did the regular feelings of hurt and the emotional reactions I didn't understand within myself. As I have cleared the hurts out of my body through the healing workshops and clinic sessions provided by Universal Medicine my relationships have completely changed for the better, including the one I now have with myself. Letting of of the effects of painful experiences from my past has made space within me to approach relationships now from a place of steadiness and stillness within me, as well as love. It's truly amazing what Serge offers in terms of support for relationships, as well as every other area of life.

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Shami
3/5/2018 08:48:28 pm

I love how, through making changes in our own lives we can see the most exquisite changes in the relationships that we have around us. And watching the beautiful mastery with which Serge Benhayon has shown this to be true time and time again, is very inspiring.

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Nattalija link
5/5/2018 10:41:32 pm

Serge Benhayon offer the world a true understanding that we are more than our hurts and beliefs and when we come to realise our true potential the quality in how we live is offered to others in abundance.

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Jennifer Smith
13/6/2018 01:06:34 pm

I love your sharing Nicole. You were so open in sharing what was going on for you. You allowed yourself to be so vulnerable or was it that you felt so safe with Serge? Both? It's very rare that when we share with someone that we are deeply listened to and that we are not given advice, for that is always tempting. In the simply and gently loving way that Serge supported you, you were eventually able, step by step to completely turn your life around. Now you are supporting people in the same way that Serge has supported you. This is magic to me.

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Rachel Murtagh link
16/6/2018 10:09:23 pm

'...after all I had been blaming others for why my life was the way it was for a very long time.' Serge has supported so many of us to take responsibility for our choices and our lives and to let go of blaming the world, family, work and everything else. He brings understanding to the table so that we can accept and heal the choices we have made and make new ones instead. It's very empowering.

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Sandra Vicary
23/7/2018 08:34:48 am

"What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made, how I was with others and the deep hurts I had harboured for eons that I slowly began to feel, shed and let go of." And this is what is different from any other 'healing modality', certainly that I know of, as it asks nothing of you other than to reflect on your own life, the choices you have made and how they have impacted your life. And when you start to feel for yourself the effects of your choices, the truth of what you feel simply cannot be denied.

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fiona lotherington
13/8/2018 12:58:44 pm

I had never much thought to role models before Universal Medicine. When you are growing up you don’t consciously see your parents or teachers as role models. It was more the glamourous role models like movie stars or sportsmen that I associated this word with. Yet the everyday role models have a huge impact on our development especially in framing what is acceptable and normal in society. Serge Benhayon and his family have been offering role models that keep breaking down these false versions of self and encourage the essence to come out.

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Carola Woods link
19/8/2018 12:29:32 pm

It is ever inspiring the have a role model such as Serge Benhayon that inspires each and every one of us to explore how to live the greatness we naturally are, founded and guided by our connection to love and truth within and not by any means of being told what to do or how we should do it. We all are Souls in body and through our connection to our divine inner-most we have access to an all-knowing intelligence or wisdom that guides us to be more of who we truly are. Serge Benhayon through the way he lives and all that he presents never backs down from holding each and every one as an equal and in the knowing the we are capable of living with far greater love than we currently are as a humanity.

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Willem Plandsoen
20/8/2018 08:58:11 pm

Beautiful and very inspiring sharing Nicole. I too had a relationship, where blaming, reacting and not taking responsibility was my normal: but I looked at the way Serge is living, how he lives with his wife Miranda, and saw: a very different way of having a relationship is very well possible, a relationship which is based on true love, and then not only moments, but 24 hours a day. Serge is also a true role model for me as a man in a loving relationship.

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Adele Leung
25/8/2018 06:00:21 pm

Be patient, give it time—is to be patient to ourselves, to re-develop the deep beholding first to us, and with a body of love—everything we see on the outside changes.

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Leigh Matson
27/8/2018 12:15:49 am

So many relationships never get past the hurts/issues/ideals/beliefs, often assuming that this is all that can and will ever be. But Serge Benhayon and the rest of his family and now many more are showing that thats not the case and there can be true love and joy and harmony between people.

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Lorraine Wellman
12/9/2018 08:36:36 pm

Serge Benhayon is always offering us inspiration by how he lives, moves, relates etcetera, we are then able to offer this inspiration to others by how we live.


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Anna
18/9/2018 11:20:39 am

'Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not because of what he says, teaches or presents, but by what he lives, walks and breathes – which is an absolute love and understanding for all of humanity.' So true Nicole, Serge Benhayon is a man dedicated to serving humanity, he lives love and truth in an absolute and consistent way.

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sue queenborough
6/10/2018 08:36:26 pm

I agree Anna. It is easy to pronounce from knowledge, but Serge walks his talk. He is the real deal. He is a total inspiration as to the way life can be lived in this world.

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Annelies van Haastrecht
23/9/2018 07:24:32 am

I meet Serge twice or three times a year when he is in England and I have the same feeling as you've described. The support Serge has offered and still is offering to me and my family is not something we are used to, and he is doing this without asking anything back or imposing something upon us. He just presents the truth and is indeed a true role model. He is an amazing inspiration for how I can live the love that I am with myself and everyone else, actually it inspires me to walk my path and return to my origin.

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Jill Steiner
26/9/2018 11:41:04 am

Beautiful to read Nicole of the loving support provided to you over the years by Serge, who in his life walks talks lives and breathes divine love with an amazing commitment and equality, inspiring in us the changes that you have chosen to make in your life.

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Natalie Hawthorne
3/10/2018 01:13:21 pm

The deep hurts that we have harboured onto is such a debilitating way of living and we wondering around wondering why illness and disease is growing even with the advancements with Western medicine. Healing our deep hurts, ones we don't even realise we have is the get out of jail free card and then we have the space to feel and know how magnificent we really are.

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sue queenborough
6/10/2018 08:34:04 pm

Serge Benhayon has " never in my 15+ years of knowing Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do … that is the beautiful thing, he never judges, criticises or imposes anything at anytime." I agree Nicole. The patience, understanding, wisdom and love of the man is astounding. It is no wonder he has become a world-wide phenomenon.

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Natalie Hawthorne
9/10/2018 06:34:04 am

Feeling the power of you sharing how not seeing past being married for a year and now you are 14 years on going from strength to strength. Such a testament to the support and reflection Serge Benhayon offers us all equally and how the teachings of the Ageless Wisdom present a true way of living.

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Willem Plandsoen
10/10/2018 10:26:44 pm

Serge Benhayon sets standards in life, that I did not even know that existed or were possible. Like the standard he sets on relationships, which, as he shows, is very well possible to be 24/7 about love. Without perfection of course.

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Willem Plandsoen
15/10/2018 11:58:57 am

Serge Benhayon shows us that relationship based on 24/7 true love is very possible. But you Nicole show the world that even relationship is in deep trouble, you can work towards living the standards he is living. Super well done, you are a true source of inspiration.

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Sue Queenborough
17/10/2018 06:43:31 am

Building a true relationship that has lasted for fourteen years is no mean feat, especially when you doubted you’d last even one year. To commit to love and deepening and to forever unfolding is something we can all do too, regardless of whether we are in an intimate relationship or not. Serge Benhayon is an inspirational role model.

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Tricia Nicholson
25/10/2018 10:08:28 pm

Serge benhayon is indeed a shining reflection for us all in the way he lives and the appreciation of life he offers us all with the quality and love in every movement he makes speaks and emanates.

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Joshua Campbell
9/11/2018 08:00:08 am

I look forward to the day when humanity collectively recognises and values how truly grand the contributions of Serge have been to us all.

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andrew mooney
15/11/2018 10:52:38 pm

This beautiful art of listening and supporting someone without trying to fix anything and allowing another to come to their own conclusions and answers in their own time, is one I have witnessed many times myself from Serge Benhayon and it is something I have been inspired to do myself with others and it so much less imposing and more empowering for the other person when we support them in this way.

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Ariana Ray
22/11/2018 11:31:30 am

A great call Nicole, to say 'never in my 15+ years of knowing Serge has he ever told me what to do or what not to do.' All Serge Benhayon does is live integrity and commitment (if you can call that 'all'). His love is constant and for everyone. Thank God for Serge Benhayon who shows us a living way of love.

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Lorraine
15/12/2018 10:45:22 pm

Serge Benhayon lives what he talks about, he is a true role model, 'Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not because of what he says, teaches or presents, but by what he lives, walks and breathes – which is an absolute love and understanding for all of humanity.'

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Caroline Francis
30/12/2018 09:53:34 pm

We cannot change another; it is for us to change ourselves by letting go of our hurts so that we hold another to be themselves. Sometimes it is not easy when we see the choices another makes but it is the greatest love we offer another when we love them for who they are and observe. This way of being I am hugely grateful and forever inspired by Serge Benhayon through his way of living in the world.

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Mary
1/2/2019 09:54:50 pm

I can totally relate to everything you have said Nicole, years of psychotherapy left me blaming everyone but myself for the given up state I was living in. I was definitely ticked off with the world in general it was a huge chip on my shoulders. Meeting Serge Benhayon slowly changed all that I totally agree with you when you said “What was shared through Universal Medicine supported me to begin to stop and look at the choices I made, how I was with others and the deep hurts I had harboured for eons that I slowly began to feel, shed and let go of.” It has been for me a long slow process as I had to learn to re trust the world and trust myself. The support I have received from the entire Benhayon family has been exemplary, they illustrate to me true family, true love and having built this for myself I can now share it with others just as they shared their love and absolute truth with me.

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LE
2/3/2019 12:34:58 pm

Ah the blame game, I know it well!

Before I met Serge Benhayon I blamed everyone and everything other then look at my own choices.

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Amparo Lorente Cháfer
1/4/2019 09:12:50 pm

It is only the lived truth that can inspire and change lives, like Serge presence did with you, Nicole.

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Viktoria
6/4/2019 09:04:17 pm

We all know that words are cheap & the actions of a person mean so much more. The teachings of this wise man are definitely put to the test by a way of life, if he is not walking his talk - it will be very obvious as it is impossible to present all that he does if it is not backed by a way of life.

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Mary
19/4/2019 11:11:38 pm

Nicole it has also be a slow unfolding for me too, I have tested many things that I have heard over the years of attending the workshops and presentations of Serge Benhayon and I realised it does come down to responsibility of how we are with ourselves as this does have a knock on effect of how we are with other people. We actually do feel everything around us and this can be very difficult to handle which is why many of us use all sorts of tricks and stratagems not to feel life.

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Vicky Cooke
10/7/2019 10:48:22 pm

Serge is a true role model indeed ✨ For all the right and genuine reasons as you share 'not because of what he says, teaches or presents, but by what he lives, walks and breathes – which is an absolute love and understanding for all of humanity.' Also it is really important for all of us to take responsibility for our lives and our choices. Important because we then start to claim back who we truly are and clear a path/past of disregard but also because then we reflect to others just what is possible.

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Leigh M
1/10/2019 11:20:50 pm

My relationships have completely changed since knowing Serge Benhayon. My family has extended beyond bloodlines and the quality we share is like nothing I had beforehand.

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Leigh M
16/10/2019 10:57:59 am

Never before meeting Serge Benhayon did I see someone living in such a level of responsibility, unburdened by hurts, ideals and beliefs all designed to fail then create further hurt from unmet expectations. Since meeting him I've learnt to free myself from self created miseries and take more responsibility for my life. It's been a huge blessing.

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