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Serge Benhayon – a man who can be completely trusted, leading the way for us all

17/1/2016

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Victoria Warburton on Serge Benhayon the leader's leader
by Victoria Carter  |  AUSTRALIA

​I write this testimonial, in honour of a truly great man, and in the wake of a hate campaign and media articles that have polluted our print and broadcast media in recent years. Articles fuelled by a very small few intent on smearing and tarnishing the name and reputation of Serge Benhayon, the health and wellbeing organisation he founded, Universal Medicine, and basically anyone associated.
“Brush it off” many say, and may well yet say. “Turn it off”, “don’t read it”, “don’t pay it any heed”... My response, and that of many, many others, is a categorical ‘no’ to such an approach. For it is categorically not ok that a man of such calibre, implicit integrity and deep care for all be so willfully tarnished in any way, shape or form. To resort to apathetic blinkered vision would offer no true way forward, for anyone.
 
Our societies and relationships today are plagued with a congenital level of distrust. We expect others to be fallible and ‘imperfect’, yes. But far deeper than that, we also harbour deep hurts that lead us to be ever wary, and commonly in expectation of being harmed, betrayed, impacted upon and all too frequently abused – including in our most intimate of relationships. ​
Many of us indeed willfully harm each other. Cyber-abuse has become normalised, and is engaged in with increasing fervor – highly abusive and explicit language has become ‘everyday’. Domestic violence tragedies litter our headlines, the list goes on…
 
We hold walls to each other and thus walls to ourselves. In the millennia of history of which I am aware, these walls we hold to protect our hurts, and the willful harm of each other we have engaged in, have not assisted us in getting anywhere at all…
 
And so, the question must be asked, how many of us truly and deeply TRUST in humanity, in each other? How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love? Not for selfish gain, but for the raising of awareness and evolution of all – that we may actually have the opportunity of building towards getting things right, at the most fundamental levels of how we relate to each other.
 
For the ‘micro’ is reflected in the ‘macro’. Are we willing to be fully responsible for how we are living in our homes, our workplaces and our communities? For how we behave online? For at the ‘macro’ level, the enormity of conflict, fear and distrust in our world today makes it plainly obvious that there is a deep call for us to address the way we relate to each other – and at a grass-roots, fundamental level.
 
Enter Serge Benhayon – a complete game-changer in this world of fractured relationships. And I do not say this lightly.
 
Here is a man who, in knowing him for over 14 years now, has never once said a word, exhibited a behaviour, or in any way, shape or form made me feel that I could not trust him at the deepest level. For the past 9 years in particular, I have attended with regularity, countless workshops, teachings and sessions offered by Serge. I have had conversations with him, worked on projects with him, laughed with him, sat at his family’s dinner table and been a guest in his house. And not once has any part of me ever felt anything but the most tremendous and powerful love, deepest of respect, tender care, and support for all that I am that I know to be possible.
Trust is built by such unwavering consistency.
​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades.
Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone. This is something I have embraced deeply in my life. I now live in a marriage and in close relationships with many today, where love and the responsibility of living it has indeed become the bottom line. For I have been inspired to ‘get it right’ at these most fundamental levels in my life, that is, be responsible for making the real deal of love the bottom line. And today, I appreciate the responsibility of living in this way more than ever. The riches and joy I live every single day in this regard are beyond measure, and are a far cry from the struggle, diminishment, lack of confidence and empowerment I lived for many, many years of my life.
 
The deepest inspiration for living in such a way has come from this man of whom I speak, Serge Benhayon, the relationship I have with him, and the way I see him consistently and without fail, interact with hundreds of others.
 
This is what the ‘headlines’ should be celebrating. That here is a man who can be truly trusted, who is inspiring many, many people to live with such deep integrity, deep care and love in our societies today. And yes, amongst all the cavernous separation, pain and abuse that exists.
 
I will state here also, that as a woman, this is indeed a very special relationship to have with a man, and it has been a catalyst for changing my relationships with all the men in my life. In knowing Serge Benhayon, nought whatsoever has ever caused the slightest flinch, let alone recoil or urge to self-protect from any aggressive, imposing or predatory energy. I say this with the utmost of understanding and respect for all men and women, for we have each been so tarnished by harm and our want to protect ourselves. Until we truly heal, we are yet capable of hurting and manipulating each other in some way, shape or form – from the harsh reactive word, to more serious forms of physical, mental and/or emotional abuse. And I say this, from the knowing in myself that I have in no way been ‘perfect’ – harmful words have left my lips on many an occasion in my life. Through taking responsibility for the way I live and making love the bottom line, this is a rarity today, and there are many relationships in my life inclusive of my marriage where the trust is very deep indeed.
 
And so, to truly trust another in a personal relationship, and then also in the way they are seen and constantly observed to relate to many, is a magnificent thing that is not to be taken lightly.
 
In the way of our world today, this is worth shouting from the rooftops, that all may know it is possible to live lives of fullness, beyond the hurts and cycles of harm that have crippled us for millennia and led to such endemic difficulties in all of our relationships and interactions with each other, to the scale of ceaseless conflicts upon our globe.
 
Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take. Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs. For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is.
 
Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement, and not apologise for stating that yes, such people do walk amongst us. For in so doing we open the door to our true nature which does hold such a greatness of love. It’s time to stop shying away from the fact, drop the walls and commit to healing what hinders the expression of our love, and let it be known.
 
I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love.
609 Comments
Marika Cominos
12/1/2016 01:35:52 am

There is so much I could say here, but this last line below does encapsulate the immense love that Serge Benhayon holds...including those that would throw mud his way...that in itself is remarkable!

'I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love.

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Fiona Cochran
14/1/2016 08:40:01 pm

When we consider how easily we can be knocked back by an unpleasant remark or even just an unpleasant look we can start to feel the enormity of Serge Benhayons solidarity and unwavering commitment. Serge Benhayon and his family have put up with relentless abuse for the last 3 years and throughout this time Serge has continued to hold all equally in love including the abusers.

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lorraine Harris
16/1/2016 10:21:39 am

I agree Marika and Fiona and wonder how many people could hold all equally, including the abusers! Not many I feel but at least we have the example of Serge Benhayon, a person who walks his talk and shows love to all, a beacon of light for all to see that this is the way to be.

Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:14:51 pm

Agreed entirely and my observation also Fiona. What we see so commonly both online and off, is abuse and reaction begetting abuse and reaction, more of the same. And so we ‘go around’, cycling abuse with no-one getting anywhere. Serge Benhayon has not lost himself to such triggers wanting of his reaction one iota, whilst holding a solid and firm stance in the truth of the matter – yet more of the depth of inspiration he offers.

Vanessa
3/2/2016 10:44:03 am

I agree Fiona Serge has not only stood fast in everything and every way, he has become even more loving and more amazing in my eyes - he 100% walks his talk.

Rik Connors
4/2/2016 12:26:34 am

Great comment Fiona, it is quite remarkable how Serge Benhayon and family hold themselves. I can feel dismissed by another quite easily and I am much much stronger then I used to be. They are not perfect like we all are and I am not speaking on behalf of the Benhayon family, I am speaking for me, what I do know is how their consistency will withstand and see right through where these degrading actions come from. Living a life of truth you get to see what is not true more easily, and therefore detach from the irresponsible behaviour.

Joan Calder
13/2/2016 11:33:18 am

I agree Fiona, and it does not mean that he does not feel it like everyone else, he is not a super hero but an ordinary man who feels hurts and abuse like everyone else, but has chosen a way of life that enables him to hold all equally and with love. This is by having healed those past hurts that would trigger reaction to the abuse if he had not cleared them. This is truly remarkable in our society.

Esther Andras
7/3/2016 11:09:07 pm

Very beautifully said Fiona, we can only but glimpse the enormity that Serge Benhayon holds in love.

Amina Tumi
11/3/2016 08:04:39 pm

I agree here Fiona, this is certainly remarkable and something that many would not be able to handle with such integrity and grace. The solidness that is in Serge Benhayon and his family reveals the strength that we all innately have but have stepped away from. And this reminder is crucial as it supports us all to understand just how precious we all our.

Rosie Bason
17/3/2016 04:25:21 pm

Yes good point Fiona, most would have gone crazy and committed suicide by now if they had to deal with the abuse that Serge Benhayon has had thrown at him.

Michelle McWaters
27/4/2016 02:44:07 am

I couldn't agree with you more Fiona! It really is remarkable how steady they are. In their choice to commit to making love the bottom line in all that they are, say and do without wavering they are offering a beautiful reflection to everyone about how life can be lived, not in reaction but in loving response.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh
19/1/2016 07:36:41 am

It is a such a gift and blessing that Serge Benhayon lives the qualities that I associate with heaven in physical life, and yet I also see a human with a body, with feelings, and everything else just like me, so I know it is possible for me to return to that way if I commit to do so. Whilst so much in society is constantly telling me otherwise, his unwavering reflection lets me know without a shadow of a doubt that I too am of that divine essence, as is everyone else on the planet.

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Vicky Cooke
25/1/2016 11:42:07 pm

Golnaz, what you have expressed here is simply beautifull and also very true.

Ingrid Ward
26/1/2016 10:39:35 pm

I too love what you have expressed here Golnaz ", as I also see Serge Benhayon as representing "heaven in physical life". The loving way he lives so consistently has inspired me for many years and has shown me an alternative to the way I lived (existed) for so long; a way that I now embrace every single day.

Leigh Matson
1/3/2016 04:37:59 am

I have also experienced this Golnaz, where the whole world is working hard, constantly changing its face but all the meanwhile trying to maintain the belief that we are not divine/more than human Serge Benhayon's unwavering reflection just takes away all doubts that may come from outside of who we truly are.

Esther Andras
8/3/2016 03:51:40 am

This is most exquisitely expressed Golnaz, Serge Benhayon is living heaven on earth in the most natural way. No big fanfare just an ordinary life that is however through its true nature of living very extraordinary as it brings the quality of heaven to earth.

Amina Tumi
11/3/2016 08:08:37 pm

Beautifully expressed Golnaz and straight to the point, your expression is divine. The commitment part is the key part that I wanted to highlight as it is what this worlds needs to see.

Lorraine Harris
10/4/2016 09:42:59 am

Beautifully said Golnaz and yes, Serge is heaven on earth, yet very real and totally inspirational.

Eva Rygg
19/1/2016 09:52:56 am

I agree Marika – this line alone says it all, Serge Benhayon does not disfavour those who throw lies and severe abuse his way, his unwavering love for people regards everyone equally.

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Nattalija link
16/9/2017 01:52:55 pm

Yes the unwavering equality he holds everyone in is the marker of love he lives and reflects to others. This is inspiring to the deepest levels knowing the rates of lies and abuse that are not considered "norms' in our society.

Nattalija link
18/12/2017 04:23:18 am

This is what shows the world that the harm is not a barrier to the endless power of love.

richard Mills
26/1/2016 11:36:57 pm

True. Such is the power of the absolute knowing of who we are - demonstrated fully in this one man.

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Nattalija
26/10/2018 02:43:26 pm

You can't deny what this impact has on another - whether you choose to ignore or embrace what is on offer!

Rik Connors
3/2/2016 11:33:12 am

Yes Marika, it is the most inspirational act to hold another in equal love when they are devoted constantly to defaming your name all over the internet and social media making up lies and false allegations. You don't find love and responsibility higher than this ...

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Marika
26/2/2016 10:34:02 am

Yes and I have never met anyone like Serge Benhayon who has such a beholding love for the all - it is truly an inspiring model of loving integrity. And alongside this hate campaign towards Serge Benhayon by these detractors, his businesses have gone from strength to strength! Truly amazing in every way.

Katerina Nikolaidis
27/3/2016 12:42:22 pm

Ditto Rik. Too good to be true for some who will dismiss and worse still try and taint the messenger who brings them the reflection that the deepest love they yearn for is very possible to have in this life. But it is unequivocally true, the love I live with now, and the joy that comes with this is nothing short of amazing -- and this has been as a direct result of the inspiration and dedication of Serge Benhayon.

Amina Tumi
3/4/2016 04:27:16 am

I agree Rik, and Serge Benhayon has demonstrated much in how he and his family are simply just themselves and in time you never know the world may choose to be themselves also, I know we as Universal Medicine students have been developing this and what a honourable and loving choice to make.

Amina Tumi
15/4/2016 08:32:14 pm

Beautifully said Marika, and the word beacon is absolutely app for Serge Benhayon as this is precisely what he is and how he has come to be so very treasured by so many all around the world. I am one that feels this way about Serge and he I will always treasure.

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Michelle McWaters
27/4/2016 02:38:32 am

I agree Markia. The level of love Serge Benhayon holds humanity in, including those that do the mud slinging is a true inspiration to me and humbling also. As Victoria says he is an absolute beacon of love and strength, and I honestly don't want to think about where I would be without his example. This example is turning hundreds if not thousands of lives around and through their example many more thousands will be inspired in their turn.

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Doug Valentine
12/1/2016 01:42:07 am

Awesome testimonial Victoria. I agree with every word. By his consistency with holding everyone in the same love, there are many now like yourself who thanks to Serge Benhayon are mastering this and like him becoming the role models the world needs.

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Nicola Lessing
14/1/2016 09:35:32 am

Yes, indeed I agree with Doug. Awesome testimonial Victoria and I absolutely agree with everything you have shared and stated.

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Nicola Lessing
14/1/2016 09:42:52 am

Serge Benhayon is the most truly loving and decent man you could ever meet. To many (including myself) he represents the very best of what is possibly in human form. Those that maliciously attack him and spread lies on the other hand represents the ugly side that down the ages has attacked and crucified those that present love and truth. It is the responsibility of each and every one of us to say no to any attack on love and truth both at the individual level (ie against Serge Benhayon in this case) and throughout our society where we see it. There is no middle ground. By not saying no to abuse we are saying yes to it. The illness, disease, war and many atrocities we see in our bodies, societies and world today are the consequence of us choosing to accept corruption and abuse over love.

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Loretta Rappos
15/1/2016 06:07:23 pm

So true Nicola- the sad state of affairs that our world is in today is in fact due to us "accepting corruption and abuse over love".
It is definitely time to say "NO!" to abuse, and make love our true foundation from which we live from.
Serge Benhayon and his family have been unrelentlessly attacked by 3 known cyberbullies for over 3 yrs now. Enough is Enough!
Serge Benhayon who I have known for 7 yrs now is an amazing man- he tirelessly dedicates his life to making positive changes to the world, by presenting absolute lived truth and coming from love.
Because of him I have a deeper level of trust and openness towards men and a renewed commitment to life. I am so appreciative of the power-full healing modalities he has brought to the world for us to heal our most deep hurts, so as to connect to who we truly are, and live from our divine essence.

Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:20:43 pm

Hear, Hear Nicola Lessing."By not saying no to abuse we are saying yes to it."
More than anyone I know, Serge Benhayon has opened my eyes to this fundamental truth. The world is endemic with corruption and abuse, and every one of our voices and reclamations of the true love we all know within is needed for tides to turn.

Jane Keep
20/1/2016 11:40:37 pm

So well said Victoria and Nicola and so many others on this thread. It is remakrable that cyber trolls can spread so many lies about someone they hardly know - as if they did get to know Serge Bennayon they wouldnt be able to express any of those lies - as Serge Benhayon is the real deal in every way - and after 12 years of observing this I have never seen other wise - purely the absoluteness, simplicity, integrity, dedication, truth and love that Serge Benhayon is that continues to shine day in day out no matter what.

Carmel Reid link
26/1/2016 02:17:24 am

'he represents the very best of what is possibly in human form.' I agree, he is constantly evolving himself and showing us the next step of how we too can be.

Rik Connors
4/2/2016 01:06:44 am

True Nicola I am with you all the way on this.. in all honesty I was not aware of how deep corruption was / is in our societies until it was presented by Universal Medicine. Corruption is in everything. The fact is we have all experienced this as Nicola has right-fully expressed, standing up to it is just the beginning of a huge mess we as a mass have allowed for aeons. One by one, and I have seen what just one man can do, we all can say no, and start to live and be who we are. Serge Benhayon is leading the way, and its worth every step to follow in the steps he has left before us!

Henrietta Chang
2/3/2016 10:27:38 am

Spot on Nicola, when we put the blinders on and we ignore abuse then we are actually agreeing with it. It is about speaking up and saying "no" and clearly expressing that this kind of behaviour is not ok. As you have said, there is no middle ground, and many people will not like hearing this as it exposes a complacency that runs deep in our society. But without exposing this, we cannot make choices and make changes that will actually be lasting and truly make a difference.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh
15/1/2016 12:14:33 am

The love, wisdom and integrity with which Serge Benhayon lives is truly inspiring. And the understanding, love and equality with which he relates to everyone lets us feel without a shadow of doubt that what we see in him is also what is within every one of us equally. All is required is for us to choose and live it. This is one of the greatest gifts – an unwavering reflection of our true essence. What a blessing for the world that more and more people are inspired by him to live the same in their lives.

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Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:18:04 pm

Thank-you Doug. Every step every one of us takes in speaking the truth and living 'the real deal of love' deserves to be claimed in full and celebrated. This is the inspiration every one of us can offer each other.

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Heather Pope
9/2/2016 06:20:10 pm

The self-appreciation needed for making choices that are loving, and tender of ourselves is a path of development in itself.

Rachel Mascord
9/3/2016 11:23:47 am

It is only through Serge Benhayon and his unwavering inspiration that I have learned to see truth again and to express it with a never before experienced degree of freedom. Our world is run on lies and corruption - no, not the conspiracy theory type paranoia that fills the internet. It is more overt than that. The evidence for this statement was amply provided just this week by the ever deepening exposure of the endemic sexual abuse of children by the Catholic Church - ignored by the church hierarchy and its parishioners.
If this were not enough, the insurance arm of one of Australia's oldest and most respected banks was exposed in horrific levels of corruption. They had allowed, encouraged in fact, a culture of deliberately manipulating criteria to avoid paying out life insurance benefits to terminally ill people.
This is just the extreme stuff that we learn to ignore until it is so extreme we cannot avert our eyes.
It is only through the example of Serge Benhayon, a man who sees it and says it like it is, that we come to understand that we all have the potential of clarity and its expression.
Inspired, we become true participants in society, not passive recipients of its short comings.

Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:28:18 pm

Deeply inspiring words Rachel Mascord. Not only does Serge Benhayon continually inspire many, many people to open our eyes to the truth of what is going on once again, and remove our comfortable blinkers to the endemic corruption that permeates our societies – but that the truth can now be expressed "with a never before experienced degree of freedom" is the deepest, true liberation. Without such expression, we are doomed to remain in a cesspit of ever-rising corruption and abuse. For far too long we have held back calling out what needs to be called, and thus we have such rampant giving up and abuse of trust and integrity as our 'norm'. We trudge through the cesspit, accepting it as our lot, until someone stands forth, founded in the real deal of love, and states loud and clear that the state of things is no true 'norm' at all.
When we open our hearts to all again – a love that is surrendered to once again, via our willingness to open to trust in another/others – the truth cannot be held back.

Katerina Nikolaidis
27/3/2016 12:44:19 pm

Full agree Doug, this testimonial Victoria is stunning and every word you write is true. I see this from my own lived experience of knowing Serge Benhayon and knowing the enormous turnaround my own life has had, as well as for countless others as well.

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Amina Tumi
17/4/2016 08:38:42 pm

This is true Doug and it is great to feel those who are stepping into their own power and grace and feeling confident in sharing this with the world.

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Amina Tumi
24/4/2016 01:14:38 pm

I agree Doug and with more and more men and women holding each other with there own love this means that the world will receive the reflections that they need.

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Carmel Reid link
12/1/2016 01:53:43 am

'Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take. Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs. For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is.' This is a great reminder that we too can lead the way and be trusted by all as great teachers of how humans can live in harmony with each other.

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Alexandre Meder
12/1/2016 02:40:49 am

I agree with all the above Victoria, Serge Benhayon is an amazing man, deeply caring for humanity.

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Nattalija link
14/2/2018 02:27:09 am

A renowned marker of truth that stands out with the current levels of ill truths in all corners of the globe.

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Marianna
12/1/2016 02:49:49 am

Dear Victoria, I agree with every word...and I know that hundreds of others do also.Serge has brought inspiration to all people who not only wish to live deeply loving and trusting lives, but in fact do. Trusting and knowing humanity can experience a different way of life - different to the vast misery that we all see all too apparently in indeed real - thanks to Serge Benhayon.

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Lucinda Bathurst
12/1/2016 02:54:21 am

"For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is."
I stand beside you Victoria, for no where else have I felt or witnessed this magnitude of absolute trust - as this site tells Serge Benhayon walks amongst us and you will see there is a sound purpose in everything that he is, a rainbow, bridging us back to the magic and glory from which we all equally come.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
17/1/2016 10:25:03 pm

"a sound purpose in everything that he is, a rainbow, bridging us back to the magic and glory from which we all equally come". This is a gorgeous way of describing the fact that Serge Benhayon lives 24/7 impulsed by the light of his Soul and so clearly reflects that not only can all of us live that in our daily lives, but also anything less than that is not our true essence and creates all the ills and discord we have in the world.

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Eva Rygg
20/1/2016 04:25:48 am

This is true Lucinda - Serge Benhayon, a rainbow that reflects all of the universe and beyond.

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Ingrid Ward
6/2/2016 07:04:39 pm

Such beautiful words Lucinda: "he is, a rainbow, bridging us back to the magic and glory from which we all equally come."I absolutely love rainbows, as I do Serge Benhayon, and yes, he is the brightest one of all, lovingly lighting our way home, back to us.

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Amina Tumi
17/4/2016 08:41:55 pm

Very Beautifully said Lucinda, you are yourself a reflection of such a rainbow and one that I have come to treasure immensely.

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Rebecca Turner
12/1/2016 04:32:13 am

Victoria, this is a stunning testimonial of a man who's consistency in living a life full of love does indeed enable trust to be re-built in a world that desperately needs it.

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Jane Keep
20/1/2016 09:47:17 am

I agree Rebecca, Victoria and all the other comments on this thread. Serge Benhayon is extraordinary man who I have known for 12 years and he has consistently shown an ever deepening integrity, dedication to humanity, and presenting the absolute truth relentlessly. I am forever appreciative of Serge Benhayon for showing us there is another way.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
30/1/2016 10:34:17 am

I agree Jane and everyone else who has expressed here. In all the years i have known Serge Benhayon I have been consistently amazed at his never-ending depth of love for humanity and his commitment to serving his fellow brothers and sisters. He does this tirelessly and joyfully, an absolute inspiration which turns around any notion that we get drained or exhausted in working long hours, that love has to have a cap on it in the world we live in, and that there's no one truly trustworthy around. Serge blows all these misconceptions out of the water simply by the way he lives. He inspires the re-awakening of the enormous love within us all.

Heather Pope
9/2/2016 06:22:32 pm

Having been inconsistent over the last couple of weeks, it has become very clear to me how true the statement is that "consistency builds trust", and Serge Benhayon has been a stand out role model for consistency in my experience for more than a decade. Extraordinary!

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Rik Connors
2/3/2016 01:43:45 am

I agree Heather, Serge Benhayon has given meaning to the word consistency. He receives hundreds of emails a day on top of all the other work he does and no one I know replies like he does within 24 hours. He has done this since I have known him for 10 years. Also, I might add his emails stop me to deeply feel where I am at. He is solid and a marker of what trust is.

Amina Tumi
17/4/2016 08:44:30 pm

I agree Heather, and consistency has become a point of absolute importance in my life as without it everything falls apart.

Helen Elliott
12/1/2016 05:38:18 am

'How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love?' It never occurred to me that this was possible until I met Serge Benhayon and witnessed the consistency in every aspect of his life that has inspired me and many others to start taking responsibility for our lives and our contribution to society. In the face of truly horrendous attacks he has never wavered from the love that he holds everyone in and this deserves our respect and gratitude for surely this is the way out of the current morass that humanity finds itself in.

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Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:28:41 pm

Of that fact Helen, I have no doubt. Before I met Serge Benhayon and got to know the depth of commitment to all humanity, and the integrity with which he lives, I had no idea of how given up I was on life, and on society ever truly changing... I most surely knew of the great void of true love, true respect and true integrity in our relating, our systems and more, but saw and swallowed so much of it as 'how it was'. Serge has touched a part of me that did not realise how powerful a reflection of change and making a true difference 'I' could also be. There is most definitely a 'way out of the current morass', if we all stand up to be counted and realise the responsibility we play in not contributing further to it.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
1/2/2016 07:29:08 am

I completely agree with "There is most definitely a 'way out of the current morass', if we all stand up to be counted and realise the responsibility we play in not contributing further to it." And it has become more and more clear that a lack of saying 'No' to any degree of lovelessness, a failure on our part to take a stand in itself is actually contributing to the morass.

Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:56:16 pm

My eyes open to this truth every day Golnaz.

Rik Connors
1/3/2016 09:33:36 am

Yes Golnaz, and saying no is just the beginning of actually never allowing it again.

Vicky Cooke
29/1/2016 02:25:59 pm

It is so true Helen. Serge Benhayon and his family and friends have been under really horrendous attacks for over three years. I know if that happened to me to the extent it has happened to Serge I would find it really hard and on some level it would affect me. Yet while all of the attacks have been going on Serge has carried on living in a highly loving, responsible way with energetic integrity helping and supporting many many others. This alone, how he has dealt with this, is a huge testimonial to him.

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Anne Hishon
12/1/2016 07:19:50 am

Victoria, what you have shared here touches me very deeply and I can only but echo the sentiments expressed. I do not get to see or share with Serge Benhayon very often because of geographical distance but this does not stop me feeling the awesomeness of this man through the audios, his books and many writings and through these blog sites. On the rare occasions I have emailed him he has always been there and answered with integrity and honesty and I have had the support I have needed-baring in mind that he gets hundreds of emails per week. He is a truly inspiring, very ordinary but divine man.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
6/3/2016 03:33:02 am

Anne I too only see Serge Benhayon in person 2-3 times a year when he visits the UK, however like you feel the immense love, support and inspiration he provides for thousands of people by simply the level of love, wisdom, truth, integrity he lives with and the deep level of love and honouring he holds every single person in. I am constantly blown away by his level of love, dedication and commitment to humanity, and inspired beyond words.

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Danielle Pirera
12/1/2016 07:47:51 am

Serge Benhayon is the first person I have ever met that puts the genuine love and care for people and the need to live harmoniously ahead of his own wows or hurts. Majority of my existence I have experienced the imposition, manipulation and control in people's words and behaviors in an attempt to protect themself from being hurt. Growing up around such behaviors results in a distancing and lack of trust in others that most of the time I was not aware was there. The way Serge Benhayon consistently lives his life in full responsibility, harmlessness and absolute love has allowed me to open up to the possibility of living life without the protection or pretending that life is ok and normal the way it is, when there are clearly many barriers in the way of self-love and self-harmony, let alone with others or in community..

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Rachel Andras
12/1/2016 08:59:51 am

Very beautiful Victoria and I am with you in every word and I too "thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love."

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Katerina Nikolaidis
30/1/2016 10:38:26 am

Yes Rachel, the steadfastness and absoluteness of Serge Benhayon's commitment and love is unshakeable. Whatever is thrown at him is water off a duck's back; and not because he has toughened himself u to cope -- far from it. Serge is a living example of how powerful it is to claim and be all that you are, to let yourself be deeply sensitive, fragile and open to feeling everything. These qualities we tend to dismiss as weak, are what Serge displays every day as an enormous strength.

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Rik Connors
2/3/2016 02:02:41 am

It is extra-ordinary how he holds himself Rachel, he is such an interesting man what he has lived and what he knows. Every presentation comes with the wisdom from the universe. There is nothing more beautiful to feel what is like to have a relationship to the universe and divinity like he does. All is known, and all I want to do is have the same relationship - very inspiring!

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
29/3/2016 11:01:06 am

I agree Rik. What Serge Benhayon shows clearly for everyone to see is a gorgeous reflection of the love, truth, wisdom, harmony that we can all live with as a natural expression. And it is immensely inspiring.

Ingrid Ward
12/1/2016 09:38:01 am

Thank you Victoria for a most magnificent testimonial to Serge Benhayon, with every word resonating with a truth that needs to be heard far and wide. This beautiful man has made it his life's work to assist others to make changes in their lives for the better; to support them to break through the barriers created by hurts and pain so they able to re-join the world and to live a life with true meaning, and in turn to offer that opportunity to others. He is a man who I too trust implicitly and he is showing so clearly that there is another way to live in this world that is in turmoil, by first addressing and healing the turmoil that is within us.

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Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:31:36 pm

A beautiful testimonial in itself Ingrid.
To 'live with true meaning, and in turn to offer that opportunity to others' – yes, this is not only possible, but REALITY.
Hear, hear.

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Henrietta Chang
12/1/2016 09:59:12 am

Thank you Victoria - what you have written is exquisite! And I could not agree more that the strength of this man (Serge Benhayon) lends us all strength and that the greatness of his love holds us all deeply despite all that is hurled his way.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 12:09:01 pm

Serge Benhayon shows us the way through his daily commitment to truth and love.

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Zoe Sherrin
12/1/2016 10:04:35 am

I heartily agree Victoria. We should be shouting from the roof tops, there is a way to live that is loving, free from abuse and mistrust.

I know personally for me without my absolute trust in Serge Benhayon (which has been built from observation and interaction with Serge over the past 9 years) I would never have started to break down the wall of distrust I had constructed to get through life.

The grab for sensationalist lies in our newspaper and media is a testament to how messed up our society has become, the normalisation of cyber abuse is the the same...it is clear that humanity is in a desperate state and I thank Serge for standing up and never wavering from love, from demonstrating that there is another way of living that is inclusive for all.

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Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:36:19 pm

We are indeed in desperate need of that which can be truly trusted – to confirm this trust and how it changes our lives is simply something we cannot do enough of Zoe.
The true teacher is one who awakens such great love for all within our own hearts – how absolutely amazing to know one, and now many people who have been inspired to move beyond the endemic giving up on that which we can truly trust and the difference this makes in our societies. Wow.

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Liane Mandalis
12/1/2016 10:22:16 am

Every morning we wake to a rising sun and every evening we sleep after it sets. Our days follow a rhythm that is set according to the cycles of life we are held in and by, as do our weeks, months and years. When we are in tune to the grand order that holds us, we feel safe and secure because we know and can feel that we are an innate part of something far greater than just our tiny self. Yet this ‘self’ is a very important and vital piece in terms of how the whole will function. If there is not harmony being lived in each and every piece, that is, the each and every one of us who make up the whole that is humanity, then what we reflect as a whole will not be the Grand Order that we come from and are held in, our true Whole, but will instead reflect all that runs counter to this. Thus, we end up creating a way of living that is the complete antithesis to our essence, the very love that we are. However, at any time we may return, if we so choose, to feeling the divine simplicity and order that reminds us that life is not as complicated as we tend to make it. Just as the sun sets and the moon rises in perfect unfailing rhythm, so too does our love live when we allow it. Serge Benhayon is a man who is dedicated to living this truth so that we all can see that this truth lives within us all. “Trust is built by such unwavering consistency” and we are a humanity who have lost their way and their trust in the inherent beauty as to the true nature of all things. All is not lost, it is we who have lost sight of the All. And so, it is we who must find it, live it and reflect it once more. A deeply beautiful testimonial Victoria, I stand by all you have shared here.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
14/1/2016 08:09:49 am

Great description Liane of us living in rhythm and harmony with the cycles of life and the love we are held in, or living in opposition to it. Beautifully said "we are a humanity who have lost their way and their trust in the inherent beauty as to the true nature of all things" and that since we were the ones that chose this in the first place "it is we who must find it, live it and reflect it once more" And I can’t imagine any greater role model for us getting there.

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Marika Cominos
14/1/2016 11:33:18 am

Love what you have expressed here Liane, especially this line of gold...'All is not lost, it is we who have lost sight of the All. And so, it is we who must find it, live it and reflect it once more.'. And Serge Benhayon is here to remind us of this so that we can find our way home.

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Kate Greenaway
14/1/2016 01:51:52 pm

Thank you Liane for this beautiful reminder of the big picture we all belong too and the cycles of daily life connected to the cycles of the moon and sun and onward from there. There is simplicity and order in all that and a great unwavering love that holds us all. As Victoria shared in her powerful testimony Serge Benhayon is a man amongst us who walks his talk. He lives his unwavering love in simplicity and humbleness of knowing his greatness is no more or less than everyone else's greatness. He lives his greatness in celebration of us all that we may let ourselves feel his great love so that we can connect to that same love in all of us equally. I have known Serge for over 15 years , he is my closest friend, my brother, my colleague, my mentor and teacher. Through his unwavering love I have learned to trust in love and people again and open up to others in a way I was never able to before. I am now developing truly loving and honest relationships including a far more loving and appreciative one with myself.I have closely observed thousands of people over these years whose self love, health and well being in themselves and in their relationships have grown hugely from the inspiration and reflection of Serge Benhayon. As Victoria wrote to have a man such as Serge walking and living a simple loving life amongst us is a blessing we can celebrate and be inspired by rather than go to humanity's old default position of mistrust and deminishing criticism.

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Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:42:31 pm

Exactly Kate Greenaway. Are we willing to let go the 'default position of mistrust' and actually change its setting? That is what has occurred for me, and thus its importance and relevance for us all has become all the more paramount. True greatness is desperately needed, and must never be held back.

Judy Young
25/1/2016 11:25:18 am

So beautifully said Kate, a testimonial in itself and I agree wholeheartedly with every word you have written.

Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:44:01 pm

Powerfully delivered Liane. Whatever 'happens', the sun rises and it sets. How we are in this is everything.

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Rachel Mascord
21/1/2016 02:33:53 pm

Even when the daytime sky is filled with clouds and we cannot see evidence that it is there, the sun has risen as it has every other morning since the dawning of time. We are part of a great series of cycles, as inescapable as they are beholding of us... until we remember who we are and where we come from. Serge is the great living reminder on this earth. Even when the clouds of despair blind our vision, he is there as the sun is behind the clouds on a dreary day. It is for us clear the clouds that obscure our vision to see what is being reflected to us - reminding us to look within to the light that light us from inside.

Rachel Murtagh link
11/2/2018 12:14:56 am

'Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement, and not apologise for stating that yes, such people do walk amongst us.' For those that know him, what you write here Victoria cannot be denied or refuted. Here walks a man among us, as constant in his integrity and way of being as the sun is constant in its daily rise.

Stephanie Stevenson
16/1/2016 09:50:40 pm

Liane Mandalis your beautiful descriptive comment has my heart singing with joy with the knowing of the natural rhythms and cycles of the grand Universal Order we are part of. Serge Benhayon's presentations have inspired me beyond measure to make choices to continue to return to the Divine origins we are all from.
"Serge Benhayon is a man who is dedicated to living this truth so that we all can see that this truth lives within us all. “Trust is built by such unwavering consistency” and we are a humanity who have lost their way and their trust in the inherent beauty as to the true nature of all things. All is not lost, it is we who have lost sight of the All. And so, it is we who must find it, live it and reflect it once more".

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Vicky Cooke
19/1/2016 11:02:00 pm

Very wise words Liane that leave the reader expanded feeling just how easy it is to respond to the call and live this harmony, trust and truth once chosen.

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Benkt van Haastrecht
5/3/2016 07:16:57 am

Deeply beautiful Liane, what you write brings to me a deeper understanding of what living love is about, and that that is what Serge Benhayon constantly presents, thank you for this, and Thank you Victoria for this beautiful testimonial.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 12:12:20 pm

We all live by rhythms, whether we like it or not. We wake and we sleep. Without those rhythms we will wither very quickly. Through Serge Benhayon my understanding of those rhythms and how they apply to life has unfolded so my world is now much grander and well lived.

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Bernadette Glass
12/1/2016 10:26:56 am

Thank you Victoria for such heartfelt expression on your experience of your relationship with Serge Benhayon and how you know him to be with others. What he offers to humanity by way of example in his living and his relationship is desperately needed as you say. I absolutely endorse your support for appreciation of this truly humble servant of humanity.

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Jane Keep
24/1/2016 09:23:48 am

I agree Bernadette, Serge Benhayon without a doubt is a living example that there is another way - one which makes absolute sense in a world full of busyness, tension, atrocities, illness and disease etc. I feel deeply blessed to know Serge Benhayon at this time, and that he is in our world today shining as a bright bright star for all who choose to see him.

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Heather Pope
9/2/2016 06:25:20 pm

The way of living that Serge Benhayon presents on, and is a living example of, is transformative in every way. Many might think this would be a contraction away from so called "normal life", but the opposite is true, I am more engaged with relationships, work, family and the community that I ever have been before, thanks to Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.

Rik Connors
2/3/2016 02:22:15 am

That's True Jane, you could call Serge Benhayon ‘The World Teacher’. That is what it feels like to be in his presence both personally and participating in a large audience. He has the answers to the World problems. I appreciate every second I am with him and honestly have been jealous on what he knows that I too could have that.

Amina Tumi
19/4/2016 09:23:21 pm

5 years ago this would have just been words that I would have read and not understood fully, however having made huge changes in my life since attending many Universal Medicine workshops I can now fully understand that the way we live each and everyday impacts our lives and our ability to be our true selves. So Serge Benhayon's presentation are now no longer words they are my lived experienced.

Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:37:18 pm

Which is so deeply worthy of sharing Amina. This testimonial was written from my own lived experience – to share some of it with others, as the immense value of what Serge Benhayon has inspired in my life, is something I today know to the bone to be exactly that which is needed on a global-scale – by all humanity. And I know that I am not alone in feeling so – as evidenced by the comments on this blog.
Not so many years ago, I never would have considered such 'reach' and significance – what the work and inspiration of one man could actually be to all – but through my own lived experience, my own healing and re-awakening to trust and love (the real deal of it) in my life, this is all there to share. And it is but the tip of what we are all here to bring – to and for all.

Leonne Sharkey
12/1/2016 10:29:05 am

Thank you Victoria. Your words leave no room for comfort in 'brushing it off'. To do so is to stand by and allow horrific abuse. This abuse is aimed at each and every human being and is a direct attack on all that is true.

There is no doubt that Serge's focus on responsibility at the micro level i.e. our responsibility for the energy of each and every thought and experience we have and every action we take is confronting.

Serge is a whistleblower on the falseness of the way most of the worlds population lives, however, it makes absolutely no sense to shoot the messenger for we have all felt the truth all along. Those that attack Serge are in reaction to their own choices and again choose (not wisely) to direct their fury outward.

The truth Serge shares is delivered with absolute love and care for humanity, including those who seek to degrade him and his message. There is absolutely no excuse for this behaviour and it must be addressed.

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Carmel Reid link
14/1/2016 11:58:06 pm

Great phrase, Leone, 'Serge is a whistleblower on the falseness of the way most of the worlds population lives' exactly and why would someone want to shoot the one man who is showing the world what is happening? Of course, if you have a vested interest in keeping it that way i.e. if you get off on hate, war, torture, murder, drugs, paedophilia, sex slavery, pornography gambling, misery, grief, and all the other horrors that keep us separate from our true selves and each other, then you will. Personally I am grateful that Serge Benhayon is here to show us our own part in what's happening in the world and how we can choose a different way of living - one that has harmony, joy, love and stillness - the Way of Truth.

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Rachel Mascord
21/1/2016 11:24:55 pm

It is also correct to say that if you have a vested interest your own misery and need someone as the focus for the blame for that misery you will attack Serge Benhayon.
What amazes me is that we have men actively promoting, encouraging and teaching the rape of women, abuse of women and the physical intimidation of women. Men are paying thousands for these lessons in maltreatment of women.
Esther Rockett has nothing to say about this horrendous case of genuine abuse. Nothing. Fantasy is her realm - with her fictions about Serge Benhayon. A disgrace in a world full of genuine harms.

Ray Karam link
12/1/2016 11:00:11 am

I loved this quote and agree entirely, "Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. Serge Benhayon brings it in spades." I have known Serge for about 6 years now and this is also very true for me. In fact there is thousands of people that will say the same thing. People will brush this aside as something other than it truly is but from where I stand this is as a part of life no different to the sun coming up every morning and how the sun is the same for everyone, it's just like that every day, Serge Benhayon is like this everyday to everyone.

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jeanette macdonald
30/3/2016 09:14:54 am

"Trust is built by such unwavering consistency." For me, 13 years on from when I initially met Serge Benhayon, I agree. The consistency of his way of being is exactly like that, like the sun pouring forth its rays every single day, 24hrs a day without fail. This in itself is quite remarkable. This I trust.

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Amina Tum
19/4/2016 09:26:56 pm

I agree Ray and having known Serge Benhayon for the same amount of time it is without question the best year of my life and each year continues to improve and become more and more loving. I am in awe of Serge Benhayon and all that he has brought to us.

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adam warburton
12/1/2016 11:12:44 am

What a game changer of a testimonial!!!! This is not just about Serge Benhayon - which is a tribute in itself to what Serge Benhayon is about, for as this piece of writing attests to, Serge Benhayon is about everyone.

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Fiona Cochran
14/1/2016 08:43:21 pm

Well said Adam and perhaps this is what the abusers forget - Serge is not here doing what he is doing for himself, he is here doing what he is doing for people.

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Lorraine Harrris
1/2/2016 11:34:29 am

Totally agree with what you have said Adam and Fiona. Serge is about everyone and for everyone.

Joel Levin
12/1/2016 11:34:02 am

My simple response to the amazing testimonial Victoria, is that I stand with you, as I share many of your experiences.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
12/1/2016 11:36:39 am

Having known Serge Benhayon for over 5 years i echo every word you express here Victoria about his unwavering integrity, consistency and care. Absolutely what is needed to rebuild trust in a humanity that has been hurt by the lack of trust that exists. It is absolutely the news story that needs to be written again and again. It is a very exposing point of where humanity is at and what the media's agenda really is, that instead of expressing the truth about Serge Benhayon, lies are perpetuated instead.

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Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:47:20 pm

Exposing in full Katerina... And hence we find ourselves at yet another juncture, where we have the choice to either 'stand silent' in the face of lies and abuse, or speak and share the truth and say a categorical 'no' to it.

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Beverley Bulmer
12/1/2016 11:56:58 am

I agree wholeheartedly Victoria - In knowing Serge Benhayon I have come to understand the truth of living love and what this looks like to live it on a daily basis. I have been inspired by Serge Benhayon and his presentations to make changes in my life that have truly offered support within my life and all those around me and beyond, and so I echo your words Victoria
"I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love."

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Amelia Stephens
12/1/2016 11:59:38 am

A powerful testimonial Victoria, that truly encompasses the quality of trust that Serge reflects and brings to all his relationships. I have been equally inspired by this, and can feel the very real difference it makes when people feel they can truly trust in another once again. Our world is so filled with manipulation - from the subtle to the overt. People are affected by this on a daily basis so having a solid marker to come back to - to see this is not the way we all need to operate as human beings is key.

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Simon Voysey
12/1/2016 12:05:39 pm

Thank you Victoria it is very evident through all sorts of media outlets that being abusive, at least in critical judgement of another, as well as opinionated and speaking what we think is right as if it is the only way to think and behave, is the norm in todays world. Only under this circumstance can Esther Rockett and Lance Martins cyber abuse be seen as even remotely ok. The totally fabricated nature of their accusations and downright sleazy innuendo. The fact that there is no substantiation of any claims - not one. You speak the truth Victoria that in speaking up for Serge Benhayon we are speaking up for a great truth that this status quo demeans and injures us all and the word evolution can not be uttered in any seriousness while this reality remains.

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Victoria Carter
16/1/2016 08:51:49 pm

Well said Simon Voysey. We have so deeply lost our way that abuse, online & off, is rampant. And so we have a choice – to 'let it be' and make all efforts to pretend it ain't so, or commit to the restoration of true relationships and respect for all. I would far prefer the latter than to be lost in the mire, knowing that in silence I would be a contributor to its existence.

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Arianne Kasi
12/1/2016 12:10:37 pm

Thank you Victoria. It truly is news worthy the way Serge Benhayon lives - this is to be studied by us all. When one truly walks love, commitment, and integrity on this planet, compared to the mess we are otherwise in, let's not dismiss this as 'not being normal/possible' - let's open our hearts and embrace that there could just be a way forward that is beneficial for all.
Serge Benhayon, you are an inspiration in every way...Thank you for showing us that there is a different way. With love, Arianne

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Sally Scott
12/1/2016 01:06:25 pm

Victoria, a powerful love packed piece. I agree with you about Serge Benhayon being someone that you can trust completely and like you because of this reflection all of my relationships are deepening and the trust I hold for myself and others has returned and is very deep.

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Harrison White
12/1/2016 01:08:44 pm

Absolutely brilliant Victoria! A deeply powerful testimonial. Serge Benhayon is a light in the world (and consistently so), a world where mistrust, doubt, un-fulfillment, hurt, abuse, violence etc is the norm. He is a living example that a true way of living with oneself, in relationships and in community is possible and is very achievable. What he stands for is the grandness that held together such societies such as Ancient Egypt. We have known this way of living before and it would be not so silly to suggest humanity has lost its way, and not really advanced at all, because with all of the increase in violence, mistrust etc now on a global level how can we say we have evolved? What Serge presents is our actual future and love is the way, we all know it is possible but haven't taken the same stance that Serge Benhayon has made to make it a living reality. Thank you again Victoria for writing this deeply inspiring testimonial.

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Victoria Carter
17/1/2016 12:04:07 am

Your words are equally powerful Harrison White. To be inspired to take such a stance as Serge Benhayon has taken ignites the deepest commitment to life any one of us can know and live.

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Sally Green
12/1/2016 01:11:32 pm

Victoria, your self and many other students of Universal Medicine are also beacons of light along with Serge Benhayon that have begun to live a life leading the way for others. The leading light that Serge Benhayon is has become the way for many others and thus the inspiration in cities, countries, villages and towns for living a loving life is growing around the globe. This is news that needs to be reported.

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Victoria Carter
17/1/2016 12:40:55 am

We must celebrate this in ourselves and where we find it in others Sally, I wholeheartedly agree. Or else we hold back on the greatness of potential with us all.

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Lee Green
12/1/2016 01:18:23 pm

A testimonial such as this is so rich with the truth of Serge Benhayon and his relationship with many. Thank you.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
12/1/2016 01:36:35 pm

I agree that it is not okay to stay silence when abuse is going on. It is not an option to just let it carry on and take root. Love does not attack, it is understanding, but it does not pretend to be okay with what is not loving, and will not stay silent when there is something to be said. Love inspires and supports us to drop the false and embrace the truth of who we are, just as Serge Benhayon does. I am often moved by the his level of love, patience and understanding that even when under the malicious attack of cyberbullies, the severity of which would cause many to quit, he "stands as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love." He is the most loving and generous man I have ever known.

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Rosie
12/1/2016 03:14:46 pm

Thank you for writing this beautiful testimonial Victoria. You have stood like a beacon too and have been an inspiration to me just like Serge Benhayon has.

I agree with you when you write;

Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take. Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs. For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is.

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Josh Campbell
12/1/2016 03:40:16 pm

Serge is no doubt the man that has testified for many the truth of love and life. He has restored the trust and surrender in people's hearts simply by not holding back in any way the love he truly is. It is a power-full testimony you share here Victoria. One that vibrates deeply in my body the richness of truth in your words. There is no doubting truth when it has been presented through the living love of another.

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Victoria Carter
17/1/2016 12:47:31 am

"There is no doubting truth when it has been presented through the living love of another." Absolute truth Josh Campbell.
We may react to the presence of truth, we may block our ears, fight it, make up lies in a vain attempt to block the power of its light and even turn others away... and yet it stands, timeless and, unassailable.

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Abby Hinchcliffe
12/1/2016 04:41:43 pm

I had no idea how insidious the undercurrents of mistrust within ourselves and society were until I actively decided to learn to trust again. A choice for me that was inspired from meeting Serge Benhayon many years ago. I thank you for all you have written here Victoria. Serge Benhayon is a man of utter integrity, with a love and wisdom beyond measure - there is so much we can learn from Serge Benhayon and others alike.

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Leigh Matson
12/1/2016 08:47:26 pm

Thank you for sharing this Victoria. To love another in the face of their choices towards themselves and towards others and even the individual themselves is simply not of this world that we know it to be today. And the way in which this love is delivered in the sense that everyone is on the same playing field/on the same level and capable of this same expression of love without requiring feedback to maintain our walls is again amazing considering how the world has been made to be perceived. We live in a world that would have us all believe that it is heartless, loveless, cruel and miserable and yet we have a human being known as Serge Benhayon, his family and those willing to question and address their hurts are going against this tide and showing us how we can all trust and love again.

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Mary A"dler
12/1/2016 09:17:54 pm

there is a deep call for us to address the way we relate to each other" Serge Benhayon is a living inspiration to respond to the call of true love for all. His consistent way of living love and integrity is a call to humanity that we too can live in harmony with ourselves and each other.

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Fiona Cochran
12/1/2016 09:22:36 pm

Power, strength, clarity and undeniable truth come to mind as I read your article about the one man who can be truly trusted. Victoria, your testament is superb and I agree 100% with all you have written. What particularly struck a cord with me is how through the consistent love and trust you have felt from Serge your relationship with all men has changed. This is true for me too. I have completely changed how I communicate with men, some of the barriers of protection have dropped away and for the first time in a long time I am beginning to truly appreciate that love starts with me. If I am truly loving towards myself and another then the investment of love to be returned drops away and I am left with feeling the love that I am in my body even if the love gets rejectect. For me, this is something I appreciate when I choose to live this and appreciate how freeing it feels. Serge Benhayon is a man that lives this consistently with EVERYONE ALL THE TIME, he does not waver, pick and choose regardless of they way he has been treated. He has no investment in others showing love in return, there are no conditions, there is only a consistent love that can be fully trusted presented for ALL to feel.

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Fiona Cochran
12/1/2016 09:38:04 pm

This is what the ‘headlines’ should be celebrating. That here is a man who can be truly trusted, who is inspiring many, many people to live with such deep integrity, deep care and love in our societies today. And yes, amongst all the cavernous separation, pain and abuse that exists.' It is utter madness that there is not article after article about Serge Benhayon in the mainstream media. There is not one topic that Serge is not an expert on. He can bring a depth of knowledge and wisdom to all subjects regardless of sensitivity or obscurity. He is the only person I know that turns everything 'as we know it' on its head, he always comes from an entirely different angle to the one you have previously understood and when he does everything always makes sense. Nothing is left compartmentalised into pockets of understanding as you are left appreciating the bigger picture. We have heard many a great man interviewed on television and radio but here is a man who is doing more for humanity than has been seen for generations and it is extraordinary that we are not seizing the moment to hear all he has to offer.

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Victoria Carter
17/1/2016 02:07:52 am

Utter madness indeed Fiona, and deeply exposing of our reticence to celebrate greatness. So... we don't wait for 'mainstream media', but continue to write our experiences about what truly matters in forums such as this and so many more. Most of all, we take Serge Benhayon's lead and live in a way as to equally inspire.

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Gyl Rae
12/1/2016 09:45:54 pm

Dear Victoria the power, clarity and strength in your words is amazing i for one know you and know every word you write is absolute truth.

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Fiona Cochran
14/1/2016 08:29:55 pm

Gyl, the three words that came to me whilst reading this blog were power, strength and clarity, Victoria's words stop you in your tracks because as you say she is writing the absolute truth and from this truth comes the power, clarity and strength we can feel.

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Gyl Rae
12/1/2016 09:55:04 pm

I conform every word you say, I had never met a man, let alone a person in my life until I met Serge Benhayon who I trusted implicity and completely. There is not one ounce of self, need, gain, judgement , or anything untoward, simply absolute love, deep care, wisdom and pure integrity, for everyone , equally. Some people may say yeah whatever to the equally part, because maybe it hurts to much to feel that there is a person and people out there who are living this way and you can trust completely. They have absolutely no ulterior motive, their only purpose in life is to heal and support us all to do the same.

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Janet Williams
12/1/2016 10:11:25 pm

Thank you, Victoria. Your words of truth ring out with strength and clarity, as a testimony to the great life of Serge Benhayon, who is turning the tide of lovelessness and inspiring thousands to follow suit.

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Eva Rygg
12/1/2016 10:16:37 pm

Thank you Victoria, for this powerful testimony on Serge Benhayon - this man really is one of a kind, by the nonstop consistency in wich he is living his life with integrity and responsibility - yet, he is equal to each and every one of us and not ever does he make anyone feel less. Serge Benhayon is indeed a man to be truly trusted, and I speak with the authority of someone who had NEVER trusted anyone in my whole life - until I was met by Serge Benhayon. To truly be met by someone, as opposed to the superficial and or protected way most people relate to each other, makes a significant difference - for me, it was life changing.

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Sandra Dallimore
13/1/2016 12:53:10 am

Wow, Victoria, I have tears in my eyes reading this touching and inspiring testimonial. It says as much about you as it does Serge Benhayon and his unwavering and unshakeable love of humanity. You too are a great light in the world showing many a way of living that is so very normal, but far from usual.

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Otto Bathurst
13/1/2016 01:15:53 am

"This is what the 'headlines' should be celebrating". Agree with you 100% Victoria. That said, your expression here is a glorious and deeply powerful celebration that rings loud and clear from the highest of rooftops. Massive appreciation of you for everything that you are. You are a headline - and I celebrate you.

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Eva Rygg
14/1/2016 06:25:09 am

Hear hear Otto - I join this celebration.

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Amina Tumi
19/4/2016 09:29:00 pm

As do I Eva and Otto, what a celebration.

Anne McVeigh
13/1/2016 02:22:48 am

Victoria thank you for this blog and I felt strongly in my body as I read it confirmation of 'The Amazing beacon of Light and Truth to the Whole World that is Serge Benhayon. Serge has helped me 'to trust and love myself and other people for the first time in my Life and has inspired me to keep committing to living a life of Love and Truth every day.
I KNOW he speaks and lives the Absolute Truth and is a True Role Model in a world where so many have lost trust in themselves and humanity. Words do not describe my heartfelt thanks to Serge since I met him in 2008.

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Lynda Marinelli
13/1/2016 09:03:13 am

Thank you for your honest and beautiful testimonial Victoria.
Serge Benhayon is truly a great man, a true inspiration and reflection of love, integrity and trust.
"Serge Benhayons lead is one we can all take. Everyone of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs. For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is."

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Rachel Mascord
13/1/2016 09:33:40 am

There is so much to said in response Victoria that it is impossible to know where to start....yet start we must for Serge Benhayon's name is one to be proclaimed in full and heartfelt voice.
The point you have powerfully made, yet is one that is easily overlooked in life, is the fact that Serge has been treated with nothing short of the worst kinds of abuse by cyber-abusers and trolls, and certain elements of the media who have applied a narrative to him to make cheap sales. Yet, and this continues to astound me, he is unchanged in the absolute love and openness he brings to every situation, every person.
Absolutely unchanged.
How many of us could do the same? How many of us could continue to love and express the greatest of trust having been so appallingly treated?
This is something to be studied intently for inspiration, something to be wondered at...and perhaps even made into the next headline -"Man continues to be the greatest love seen on Earth - in spite of press vilification". OK...perhaps that is going too far and asking for a degree of insight the press are not yet willing to undertake. One day though, they too shall see what you have seen Victoria, what many of us see so very clearly.

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Marika Cominos
14/1/2016 11:51:25 am

Yes it is quite extraordinary how Serge has not only stayed unaffected by such apalling cyberabuse, but he has expanded his love and inspiration that just keeps getting stronger and reaching more and more people across the globe. He is a remarkable beacon of love that can be absolutely trusted and many are following his lead, knowing that they too can do the same.

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Victoria Carter
17/1/2016 02:06:30 pm

When we are seemingly 'betrayed by life' – such as being falsely portrayed, judged and effectively 'trialled' by trolls and journalists willing to take up such false narratives... most would harden to life and people, our distrust deepen, a bitterness and cynicism take root in our being that is one hard thing to get past.
I agree entirely Rachel. In no way does Serge Benhayon see or deal with any of this through rose-coloured glasses (I can't even imagine him wearing them for a millisecond!), but rather he understands the depths from where this all comes and does not blinker himself to it – to a 'reality' where we can be so wilfully harmful towards each other. As you say, he remains "unchanged in the absolute love and openness he brings to every situation, every person". Such is the nature of a consistency that can be truly trusted.

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Monika Rietveld
13/1/2016 09:42:42 am

“My response, and that of many, many others, is a categorical ‘no’ to such an approach.” By ignoring or saying nothing we are accepting the energy the tries to undermine and destroy the work of Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon. The truth of our wellbeing offered by Serge is there on offer for each of us.

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Monika Rietveld
13/1/2016 09:44:56 am

“Cyber-abuse has become normalised, and is engaged in with increasing fervor – highly abusive and explicit language has become ‘everyday’.” This is so far away from our divine nature where love is who we are and what we long for. The students of the Way of the Livingness are demonstrating that this can be lived and what the effects are for each of them and for their environment.

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Monika Rietveld
13/1/2016 09:47:17 am

“For the ‘micro’ is reflected in the ‘macro’.” This statement is so true. Most of us are willing to look at the big picture and condemn it all, but don’t take it back to ourselves and claim our part and responsibility in it.

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Eva Rygg
14/1/2016 06:21:35 am

Well said Monika and something for us all to reflect on - are we willing to look at our own part and take responsibility for it?

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Victoria Carter
17/1/2016 02:12:06 pm

Thank-you for highlighting this point Monika and Eva. I agree in full. The 'big picture' will not change until we truly take responsibility for our own lives – our behaviours, our words, and the quality in which we hold each other. We cannot pass the buck on this and wait for 'the world' to bring us what we are all craving for – i.e. absolute respect, love and a treasuring of the depth of our being, each and every one of us. It all starts with the way in which we hold and regard ourselves.

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Heather Pope
27/2/2016 02:00:30 am

By starting with ourselves and taking responsibility for being loving equally with all regardless of race or gender, we can one by one address the macro issues.

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Katie Walls
13/1/2016 10:05:56 am

Awesome blog Victoria, stating it as it is, every word a reflection of how Serge Benhayon lives and what he offers in this. Just because we live in a world where this way of living is so far from what is considered to be normal, just because it is different to what is seen does not automatically mean there must be something sinister at play. This is the approach that has been taken with the hate campaign instigated by a few people of which can be counted on one hand. Versus the hundreds of testimonial from all over the world from people that actually know Serge Benhayon and the integrity in which Universal Medicine works. If someone was truly interested in researching what is being offered here, the results of Serges work speak for themselves. My husband and I often acknowledge and appreciate the transformations we have experienced in our family that are only present because of what we have instigated from the presentations and workshops that Serge offers. Our lives are so very much reacher, it's been life changing... Thank God for Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.

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Angela Perin
13/1/2016 10:23:43 am

Awesome testimonial Victoria. I have known Serge Benhayon for just under 6 years and every quality you have described here is what I have equally felt. Serge is a truly inspiring role model for all of us, and especially in the current state of the world, absolutely worth "shouting from the rooftops" (!)... not because Serge is any more special than any of us, but that he provides us a clear, loving and ever constant reflection of all we truly are and an inspiration to live life in this fullness.

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Christine Hogan
13/1/2016 10:30:54 am

Hi Victoria - you have posed questions that invite true reflection, honesty and personal responsibility. Serge Benhayon has shown how to live an honest response to all these questions, never wavering from his love and trust in Humanity, regardless of the articles intent on smearing and tarnishing his name and reputation, the health and wellbeing organisation he founded, Universal Medicine, and anyone associated. The truth of what is written here can be felt, Thank you for confirming the 'Love' all that know Serge Benhayon have for this humble and gentle man.

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rosanna bianchini
13/1/2016 10:34:32 am

What you've raised here Victoria and beautifully scrutinized is Trust. Or should I say lack of trust; I know that before I met Serge Benhayon I didn't trust people, it wasn't in an obvious, paranoid kind of not trusting, in fact I could say that such was the nature of this 'lack of trust', that I didn't realise it was there until I discovered I could start to trust again! "such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is." There was no one in my 40+ years up to that point, who had reflected the love and consistency that Serge brings, his willingness to redefine what it means to love another and to bring that to all interactions and relationships. The unwavering consistency and commitment to love is something that brings us to healing the deepest hurts and scars – on both the personal level and the world scale.

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Eva Rygg
14/1/2016 06:06:27 am

True Rosanna - Serge's unwavering love for humanity supports us to heal our deepest hurts and scars - and that is what mankind so sorely needs, to be able to restore harmony, not just in our lives but on a global level. Serge supports us to see the bigger picture and the role we all play in it.

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Lieke van Haastrecht
13/1/2016 10:37:35 am

"Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone." Yes well said Victoria. Serge Benhayon truly shows that it is possible to live with love and 100% integrity in todays world. It has inspired me too that this way of living is possible and learning to live this way is absolutely beautiful and truly fulfilling my heart with joy. Therefore it is needed to call out all of the lies spread about him as they are absolutely not true. Thank you for doing so in this article and I stand with you.

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Sarah Flenley link
13/1/2016 10:55:48 am

Wow Victoria. A stunning testimonial to Serge Benhayon. It is so true what you write as that has been my experience as well and countless others as well. When you write "these walls we hold to protect our hurts, and the willful harm of each other we have engaged in, have not assisted us in getting anywhere at all…" I know this is true because look at our history. We are still at war and committing great atrocities (large and small) within our own human race and have been doing so for centuries. On a micro level, people walk around in incredible distrust of each other. I thank God for Serge Benhayon as well because he is showing us (consistently and unwavering) that we dont have to have these walls up around us any more...that we can live in a a way and heal our past that allows us to be fully present and committed, in love, to this world. It is the Way of the Livingness.

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Victoria Carter
18/1/2016 06:41:37 pm

This is the essential core of the Way of the Livingness Sarah, beautifully said – to live a life committed to love – in full.

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Sarah Schürch
13/1/2016 11:34:05 am

Truth delivered with the absolutness and the strength of a truely claimed son of God. Nothing can shake this.

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Fiona Cochran
13/1/2016 11:55:35 am

'Trust is built by such unwavering consistency' . There is no doubt that Serge Benhayon lives this way and by doing so has inspired others to do the same and this can easily be felt in sessions with other Universal Medicine Practitioners.

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Alison Braid
13/1/2016 11:55:38 am

'such people do walk amongst us' What a line - we too can choose to walk our talk integrity is what we are all looking for in another human being let us show the way.

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Victoria Carter
18/1/2016 06:43:33 pm

Hear, hear Alison Braid. 'Walk our talk' and most definitely 'walk tall' in the constant celebration and knowing of who we truly are, and that all are in the truth of their essential selves, equal and the same.

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Heather Pope
27/2/2016 02:02:24 am

At times is seems impossible to walk with integrity, care and love on a daily basis, but this is where we all can take our lives if we are willing to choose it. It will happen, and change will come, one choice at a time.

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Amelia Stephens
13/1/2016 12:20:31 pm

Knowing Serge Benhayon and observing all I have observed over the past 4 years with the online and media lies, I have learned how it is everyone's responsibility to stand up and say something when they observe something out of order to the true harmony that can otherwise be in our societies. Through connecting with the support, love and never wavering integrity of Serge and his family I now have a strength and consistency in my life that serves me and all I do to no end. This will be ongoing, so who knows what is next!

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Nadine Wolfsberger
13/1/2016 12:25:40 pm

Dear Victoria loved to read this amazing blog. It is sooo strong :)

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Cathy Hackett
13/1/2016 01:30:23 pm

Wholehearted agreement on all you've said here about Serge Benhayon. His unwavering consistency throughout all that gets thrown his way is truly exceptional and inspirational. He's a real beacon of truth and love, always.

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Heather Pope
27/2/2016 02:03:41 am

If you had told me 12 years ago that I would never once have seen Serge Benhayon angry or frustrated, or even not present with someone, I would have thought you were crazy. But here we are 12 years later, and that is exactly what has occurred.

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Kylie Connors
13/1/2016 02:39:27 pm

I love this testimonial Victoria. It speaks volumes of the woman you are, the powerhouse, the openness and joy you live as a result of your choices and the inspiration Serge Benhayon is to us all. I fully concur and celebrate everything you have shared here. A stunning confirmation of how it is.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
14/1/2016 01:39:52 am

I fully agree. You really do shout the truth from the rooftops Victoria with enormous love and grace. Very inspiring and joyful to read and feel.

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Victoria Carter
18/1/2016 06:46:10 pm

Thank-you Kylie and Katerina. The power of your words awakens yet more in me, and a tear is shed in the depth of acknowledgement. It's time we broke the shackles of holding back our confirmation and celebration of the greatness in each other. You both rock at this, thank-you deeply.

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Fiona Cochran
13/1/2016 09:03:41 pm

'Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take. Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs. For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is.' This sentence really hit home for me as I felt how complacent I am and how I shy away from the responsibility of being a role model myself. We all have the capacity to be a true role model and that includes me. We all have a part to play so why do I feel it's OK to leave the all responsibility to one man and his family?

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Judith Andras
13/1/2016 09:32:43 pm

"I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love."
This sums it up for me Victoria, Serge is a beacon in our world today with a grand capacity to love all even the ones that hurl abuse towards him.

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Lorraine Harrris
14/1/2016 01:03:40 pm

I too thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life Victoria and Judith and wonder how many would show love to those that hurl abuse towards them. Serge truly is a beacon in our world, shining a light brightly for all of us to see.

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Judith Andras
13/1/2016 09:41:26 pm

"Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take. Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs."
This is a great call Victoria, by his example Serge Benhayon shows us what is possible and with that reminds us of our responsibility, a responsibility that some resist and fight and therefore want him to go away. That is why we have killed many messengers down the ages, because we do not like the reminder that we can be so much more than what we live.

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Victoria Carter
18/1/2016 06:51:12 pm

Such a depth of understanding you have shared Judith... We seek to not only denigrate, but at times wilfully annihilate that which reflects our own greatness back to us.
And yet, true teachers keep coming – and with this depth of understanding that this is all 'par for the course' as we wretch ourselves out of the self-imposed tethers of denial and refusal to see and live all that we truly are. Until... the point where the balance tips and the greatness of our love can simply no longer be held back or denied.

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Janet Williams
13/1/2016 10:13:42 pm

This is a great exploration of why we distrust each other so much nowadays, to the point of not being able to recognise a universally loving man right in front of us. Such great lives have been opposed in the past, but it has never stopped their inspiration from lighting the way forth for humanity.

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Coleen
16/1/2016 02:36:03 pm

So true, Janet, that our collective levels of trust have fallen so low that we refuse to recognise and acknowledge true love when we see it and some may even abuse it, try to wipe it out so as not to have exposed the deep hurts that lay within; and yet this true Love, reflected by Serge Benhayon, remains constant and unwavering even in the face of such abuse. Surely that is what we need to post as global headlines?

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karoline schleifender
18/1/2016 10:29:17 am

Beautifully said Janet '...but it has never stopped their inspiration from lifting the way forth forth for humanity.' And it will never stop Serge Benhayon, a man of truth as truth cannot be stopped.

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Victoria Carter
21/1/2016 04:42:15 pm

That is exactly the point of deepest inspiration here Janet – the beacon of truth and integrity that Serge Benhayon stands in, regardless of the abuse and misrepresentation that has come (and may yet come) his way. His unwaveringness shows us all what is possible, and that an absoluteness of serving all and standing by the truth are far more valuable than succumbing to abuse and attack.

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Josephine Bell
13/1/2016 11:13:00 pm

Victoria, this is a beautiful, eloquent and profound testimonial to Serge Benhayon the absolute integrity he holds and the unwaveringness of his commitment to stand as a shining example of what is possible in a man or woman willing to commit absolutely to the love and truth within us all. He certainly is a remarkable role model. Thank you.

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karoline schleiffelder
18/1/2016 10:33:07 am

I never knew what the meaning of role model meant until i met Serge Benhayon, a man who lives his words. Words of love and deepest care for humanity - all of us. Serge Benhayon does not live for himself but for love and truth!

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Heather Pope
27/2/2016 02:05:13 am

Serge Benhayon is a role model for humanity, through is consistency and commitment to us all equally.

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Josephine Bell
13/1/2016 11:20:38 pm

Serge Benhayon is the true embodiment of a leading light. In being all that he is, he challenges our most intimate preconceptions of ourselves and what we are capable of. He dares us to lift our gaze high and expand way past anything we had conceived for ourselves – in fact to expand beyond our tiny selves and return home to our grandness taking the rest of humanity with us.

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Gabriele Conrad
15/1/2016 08:41:45 pm

I couldn't agree more – "Serge Benhayon is the true embodiment of a leading light" and he does it with such grace and ease and in the most ordinary of ordinary ways showing us all that it is possible for all, is already living in us all.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
17/1/2016 04:55:35 am

Serge Benhayon indeed does "challenge our most intimate preconceptions of ourselves and what we are capable of". There is an irony here in that most of us walk around in life disgruntled since nothing seems to satisfy a deep ache and we keep saying "there must be more to life than this". And here we have an expression not only saying there IS more, but also living it, consistently so. Interesting the hurt and mistrust within us that has some of us run a mile, some of us dig our heals in and refuse to see that what Serge Benhayon is showing is our own true reflection and a few of us attack. What a blessing that he is undeterred by all these games and keeps shining and presenting loving truth, without expectation or judgment, simply offering an opportunity for each person to can come to and be inspired when they wish in their own time.

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Victoria Carter
21/1/2016 04:46:45 pm

That Serge Benhayon is undeterred as you say Golnaz, reveals the depth of understanding he holds all in, and that we can all hold all in. The restoration of trust and willingness to acknowledge 'the more' that does live within us all, can most surely take some time to say yes to exploring, when we have protected ourselves so.

Josephine Bell
13/1/2016 11:33:18 pm

I'm glad you picked up the subject of trust Victoria, as this is a massive problem of our times individually and of course then globally. Serge Benhayon has inspired me to start trusting again in relationships and that starts with my relationship with me. I could say he has restored my faith in the actuality that true unconditional love exists here on planet earth, and it is something that is here inside all of us just waiting to be lived as Serge is doing – an invitation to us all to do the same. To have been able to ignite that spark in so many by example is extraordinary.

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Eva Rygg
14/1/2016 03:23:58 am

'Serge Benhayon has inspired me to start trusting again in relationships and that starts with my relationship with me. I could say he has restored my faith in the actuality that true unconditional love exists here on planet earth....' This is very well said Josephine - Serge's unconditional love is the number one remedy to regain the long lost trust, in ourselves and everyone else equally.

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Lorraine Wellman
15/1/2016 10:06:51 am

I too am learning to trust again, to let go of my protection and let people in, and all due to Serge's consistent love, his integrity and his commitment to humanity.

Samantha Westall
14/1/2016 12:43:06 am

An incredible testimony that is an absolute blessing to read. I am in awe of the ease and beauty in which you have captured the words that encompass so sublimely all of who Serge is and what he offers all who meet him... It is so truly gorgeous and I am deeply appreciative for the truth of him being out there for the world to read through such an undeniably magnificent expression of love.

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Heather pope
27/2/2016 02:07:47 am

Serge Benhayon could keep to himself, not present in public, and have a comfortable life. Instead he is out in the public helping us all see there is another way to live. A way that is living from who we are, and not what we do. A way that lets us know we are all valued and part of the whole.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
14/1/2016 01:34:59 am

This is a stunning testimonial Victoria. You express with such beauty, power and grace the depth of inspiration and healing that Serge Benhayon brings to everyone, and how our world en masse absolutely needs more of these reflections, more of the appreciation of what you express here about Serge, because this pure love is in us all. Serge Benhayon and the many who now live amazing lives where love is the bottom line are beacons of light and inspiration that reflect that to the world.

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Jane Keep
14/1/2016 02:33:12 am

Wow, an incredible testimonial for an extra ordinary man - Serge Benhayon. Victoria - so well said, and I absolutely agree. There is much of what you say that deeply resonates. Here where you say - "Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone." - I couldnt agree more.

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Dean Pirera link
14/1/2016 11:29:06 am

This is a timeless article carrying a universal message and Victoria's words are a true account of what our world needs past, present and future.
Victoria has appropriated highlighted the unique and magnificent man that is Serge Benhayon, one with whom humanity and brotherhood are regularly felt in his every word, movement and gesture.

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Judy Young
14/1/2016 12:33:47 pm

Beautifully said Victoria and I totally agree I have met few men with the wisdom and love shown to all by Serge Benhayon.

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adam warburton
14/1/2016 07:53:15 pm

Truly, deeply, powerful.

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Fiona Cochran
14/1/2016 08:53:38 pm

Serge Benhayon - the one man who can be completely trusted leading the way for us all. I agree with you 100% percent. Through attending Universal Medicine presentations I am learning to trust again. I have watched and decerned for myself that I can see a practitioner and know without fail that what I have shared will not be shared or discussed with another. The level of confidentiality, understanding and sensitivity is second to none. This trust started with one man, Serge Benhayon, as you say Victoria, leading the way for all of humanity.

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Leigh Matson
14/1/2016 09:28:32 pm

I don't know anyone in my life or in the world that could hold their ground and love everyone in the face of what Serge Benhayon has been met with. Never have I known him to be anything less than loving in such a way that is not perfect but then the love that is expressed through this man is so amazing perfect can't cope, it's far too big to be squashed into a box for held back for only friends or family. It comes out for all.

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Andrew Mooney
14/1/2016 09:52:43 pm

Victoria you have called it as it is. On a global scale our relationships are not healthy and this is the root of so many of our problems. We have been all hurt so many times that we have given up on love. The only way to heal this is to have someone rise above this and actually present true love consistently to all. Serge Benhayon has done this and made it look easy.

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Andrew Mooney
14/1/2016 09:55:21 pm

Serge Benhayon has shown us all that it is very possible and simple to have amazing relationships with ourselves and each other. Through his example and inspiration he has shown that we all can do this, not just him. And many already are. Perhaps this is why he is attacked? Some would rather not face the fact that the responsibility lies with them if they want to change their lives.

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Victoria Carter
21/1/2016 04:53:27 pm

An apt word to introduce here Andrew – 'responsibility'.
The lived example of 'the real deal' that Serge Benhayon offers, is absolutely a call to responsibility for us all. In what way do we contribute to the endemic mistrust and conflict in the world? Are we willing to deal with our own story, our own hurts and pasts, and truly make our own lives about love?

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Janet Williams
14/1/2016 10:01:22 pm

If there was ever a man to celebrate and acknowledge for his unrelenting service to humanity, it is Serge Benhayon. Thank you, Victoria, for expressing in full what so many of us feel. Books and movies will be produced about this great man in the future - we are blessed to walk beside him and learn more each day about what love truly is.

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Joel Levin
17/1/2016 12:11:43 am

Its true Janet, It is a level of service unequalled and worthy of recognising for the dedication it represents and show other was is possible

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Karin Barea
24/3/2016 03:41:50 am

Yes Janet, we are so blessed to be walking beside him. Brings tears of appreciation.

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Emma Danchin
27/3/2016 12:20:21 pm

Profoundly felt appreciation, to walk beside Serge Benhayon and his family.

Jane Keep
14/1/2016 11:28:25 pm

I absolutely agree with what you say here Victoria - "Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. Serge Benhayon brings it in spades...
...Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone." On meeting Serge Benhayon I too began to trust once again.

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rosanna bianchini
14/1/2016 11:30:22 pm

Powerful writing Victoria, and I 100% concur. That Serge lives with such integrity, love and care in a world so torn by mistrust, pain and war, is testament in itself to the strength and commitment he holds. Serge is an inspiring example without which, the world would be in far greater separation and pain. The healing we are all capable of is walked everyday by Serge in his very ordinary way.

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Karin Barea
31/3/2016 10:32:05 am

'Serge is an inspiring example without which, the world would be in far greater separation and pain.'

Rosanna this is so true. I wouldn't like to fathom the depth of what he brings because I know it is huge, beyond my comprehension. But when I consider just myself and the trust he's engendered in my life the inspiration has been huge. One man has shown me I can trust my fellow man no matter how much pain and suffering is inflicted upon each other. How I am with people has profoundly changed and this does not go unfelt. I am so aware there is so much more to bring whereas before I met Serge Benhayon my life was more about how to get to the other end unscathed.

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Shami
15/1/2016 01:13:19 am

We can say and clearly see that it only takes one person to stand up and choose love as the core and only base line factor in their lives to make changes that affect a great many people. Victoria is such a person, and the people she inspires, the relationships she has are enjoying a bountiful time, because it is she who is there, giving it her all.

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Simon Voysey
15/1/2016 01:31:53 am

People see someone as role model who has a talent, who excels at something in their life while other aspects remain private, are ignored or appear contradictory to how they are seen in the public eye. Even before the cyber abuse negative the media attention, Serge Benhayon opened up his whole way of life to scrutiny and for over fifteen years, has reflected with complete consistency all of the grand ideas he has been presenting. He is the only person I have known to be a true role model and even despite the most cynical and demeaning abuse, he has not wavered.

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Janet Williams
15/1/2016 10:32:17 pm

Yes, Simon, so many hundreds of people are willing and able to testify to the integrity of Serge Benhayon, because they have witnessed him in every part of his professional and personal life over a period of 15 years, how his days are filled with a profound level of love and responsibility that is lived with every breath.

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Karin Barea
24/3/2016 03:44:47 am

Yes Simon, serge Benhayon has redefined what a true role model is. He has inspired so many to become true roles models too and know what a responsibility this is, beautifully, gracefully so.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:48:45 pm

Not wavered one iota Simon, I agree.
And I would add, that today there are other true role models, of such consistently lived love and integrity are there, dedicated to all. Natalie Benhayon and Michael Benhayon, to name two who have also made indelible imprints of inspiration on my own life and that of many, many others, and continue to do so.

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Luz Helena Hincapie
15/1/2016 06:21:35 am

This is such a magnificent piece of writing, one that exposes very clear the `lack of trust` we live with in this world and that is not addressed in true depth in society but that is eating ourselfs away in the inside constantly. After reading this, I can feel how all of that ´lack of trust` just crumbles in an instant, but surely this woudn´t happen if your words weren´t carring the true divine quality of heaven, which Serge Benhayon has been bringing to this world since many years already and inspiring eveyone he meets to bring the same (as you are doing in this article). I too know Serge Benhayon and have always felt exactly the same that you describe here. EVERYTHING.
The people that attack such Love and Trust in the lowest possible ways, are truly very deeply hurt and twisting everything to keep the lack of trust, hurt and waryness perpetuating in this world. Thankfully there is already a huge amazing community of people (in comparison to 2 or 3 deeply hurt selfs coiling in their rage) that are saying this is not OK, and showing the world what truth really is about. Thank you for bringing this through Victoria. I just love it.

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Victoria Carter
21/1/2016 05:05:15 pm

Well said Luz. In order to truly heal where we stand as a world in so much conflict, from the 'micro to the macro', we do need to fully see and understand the machinations of those who would seek to perpetuate the lack of trust, decency, love and respect that exists. We cannot blinker ourselves to it.
The inspiration of Serge Benhayon is exactly as stated here, that his foundation within and in the way he lives his life is of a solidity that few have mastered but many are stepping towards. From the strength of his foundation, the forces which seek to keep us hurting each other and in conflict and chaos, are seen for what they are – responded to with the power of truth and real love that does not waver. This is greatness personified in my books, and clearly, many, many people agree and are as equally inspired as we are.

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Lorraine Wellman
15/1/2016 09:54:17 am

Wow Victoria, this is an eloquent, true and powerful testimonial that I whole heartedly agree with. Serge Benhayon is The greatest Teacher, consistently inspiring and leading us to be the glory and the love we innately are. I cannot even begin to thank Serge Benhayon enough for all he brings for our Universe and humanity.

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Deanne Voysey
15/1/2016 11:24:57 am

'Cyber-abuse has become normalised, and is engaged in with increasing fervor – highly abusive and explicit language has become ‘everyday’.' Victoria Carter this is so true and sadly so, there are many places we can interact with each other online and I am often shocked and appalled by how rudely and harshly opinions are put forwards that clearly denigrate and have an edge in the most benign places such as a forum exchanging advice and experience about home renovation or an online newspaper article. It is actually harder to find interactions on the internet free of abuse than it is to find abuse - read just about any comment thread and it is clear people are at war with each other and hence at war within themselves. You go to the heart of this here Victoria Carter - thank you.

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Victoria Carter
22/1/2016 06:22:09 pm

It IS that bad Deanne, and it can't be denied or avoided. Enter any seemingly 'innocent' youtube comments thread, for example, and the abuse can be rife. So much to be said about this... but in essence we have lost the very fundamentals of respect in our relating to each other. There is no room for us to trust each other here, none whatsoever.

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Deanne Voysey
15/1/2016 11:28:40 am

The truth of everything you share here Victoria Carter can be felt to the bone and beyond.

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zofia sharman
15/1/2016 12:49:33 pm

Victoria, your testimony of a true man, Serge Benhayon, who is so deeply loved, respected and treasured by so many, myself included, carries the epitome of love and true truth beyond measure. In its highlights of the stark realities of our world, what we do to each other, the lost trust in ourselves and humanity, and in all this those who are prepared to take a stand and make life another way - the way of love, supporting others in the process, is a testimony of the highest order.

"I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love" - yes, Serge knowing what is hurled his way and yet continuing to never waiver shows the completest dedication he truly has for humanity, and for the love we all are.

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Giovanna Dalle Rive Carli
15/1/2016 01:37:12 pm

Gorgeous Victoria, this is a stunning expression of your love and appreciation for a man who, through his unshakable love for humanity, is leading the way for us all to return to be who we truly are. It is with the utmost grace and beauty that you offered the whole of humanity an accurate testimonial of the infinite blessings we have all received through Serge Benhayon's unwavering love and integrity.
As you expressed, most of us have experienced imposition, aggression and different forms of abuse throughout our lives, either as a recipient or because we acted them out. But never, absolutely never, have we experienced any imposing energy from Serge Benhayon. And, this is an undeniable truth. If there is a man on this planet I can entirely trust that man is Serge Benhayon. As "trust is built on consistency", I can confirm here that I have consistently experienced been met by him with the deepest respect and honouring of who I am as a human being and as a woman. Coming from a country and culture where women are not respected let alone honoured, my antennas for any imposing or predatory energy from men were very well developed. It was only through Serge Benhayon's impeccable behaviour that I have come to trust that it is indeed possible to be met, respected and honoured in full as a woman by a man. Like you Victoria, I thank God every single day for being here with him this time around and for all that he brings to a humanity that is desperate to find its way back to true love.

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Victoria Carter
22/1/2016 06:26:22 pm

An outstanding testimonial in itself that you have shared here Giovanna. And one that deserves to be shared.
We are indeed craving to 'find our way back to true love'. And it's here if we are willing to do our own work and take responsibility in our lives for all that this means.

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Janice T Mooney link
15/1/2016 02:49:13 pm

Awesome testimonial, Victoria. I unequivocally endorse what you have expressed so powerfully. Serge Benhayon consistently inspires me to live in truth with a commitment to love, trust, respect, care for and to support myself and others. His Way of Living reflects the potential we all share to choose to live and be the true role models and teachers needed in our world of mistrust, disharmony and conflicts. I agree, Victoria, Serge reflects an amazing example of how to live with integrity and responsibility; to live a life of love and fullness beyond our hurts that only harm ourselves and others. What a blessing to claim and appreciate. Thank you, Victoria.

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Peta Lehane
15/1/2016 04:59:41 pm

This is a tremendous endorsement for Serge Benhayon and I wholeheartedly agree with you in every respect, Victoria. Serge, who in my reckoning is simply living a truly loving way, without perfection but with a commitment that is rock solid, who is completely open and transparent, willing to share all with humanity for our true benefit. He has an amazing sense of humour as well, but most of all he engenders trust....that most eroded of qualities in society today. I particularly appreciated this call, Victoria:

"It’s time to stop shying away from the fact, drop the walls and commit to healing what hinders the expression of our love, and let it be known."
I, for one, am committed.....as a micro within the macro, may the ripple effect be in the true expression of Love.

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Gabriele Conrad
15/1/2016 08:34:21 pm

You write about "calling to account that which is not love" and to do so "not for selfish gain, but for the raising of awareness and evolution of all" – and that sums up perfectly what Serge Benhayon came here for to do and has done so very well. So incredibly well that he cannot be faulted, cannot be faulted to such a degree that there are those who have to make up lies about him – because, to repeat myself, what he represents and stands for cannot faulted.

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Victoria Carter
22/1/2016 06:29:35 pm

The 'repetition' is absolutely worth it Gabriele. Serge Benhayon cannot be faulted.
What does one do then, when they want to 'bring down' such a reflection of true greatness? Yep, invent lies – not only 'small ones', but the most heinous and insidious that can be conjectured. Absolute irresponsibility.

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Andrew Mooney
16/1/2016 12:45:29 am

Serge's commitment to integrity, truth and love are unwavering and very inspirational. Ever since I have known him he has always put love and truth first ahead of any self gain, self promotion or self preservation.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
24/1/2016 08:06:49 am

Very true Andrew that Serge Benhayon is deeply committed to an unwavering expression of integrity, truth and love. And I must say when I consider Serge Benhayon alongside those words self gain, self promotion and self preservation I want to laugh because I have not come across an ounce of those in him. The way he talks about 'self' is not one of needing to look after our own interests, but is one of deep responsibility for our choices to ensure to the best of our ability that we express the divine we are from and serve the whole.

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Vicky Cooke
16/1/2016 01:32:04 am

It is inspiring what you see, have felt and what you claim, express and publish with regards to the truth of an incredible man, Serge Benhayon. And asking us to question ourselves and our values and whether we are willing to changed our micro in order for the macro, something that Serge Benhayon tirelessly, lovingly and consistently does. Thank you.

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Simone Lewis
16/1/2016 11:54:18 am

Victoria, your testimonial emanates the quality in which you live and the inspiration that Serge Benhayon has offered - one of trust, respect and a deep, unwavering love. Thank you for what you have shared here.

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Abby Hinchcliffe
16/1/2016 01:05:55 pm

'For it is categorically not ok that a man of such calibre, implicit integrity and deep care for all be so willfully tarnished in any way, shape or form. '
Hear hear Victoria this website and all the testimonials show the untoward behaviour for what it is. Serge Benhayon is a man of upmost integrity who can be deeply trusted.

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Coleen
16/1/2016 02:25:52 pm

This is a description as equally beautiful as it is exquisitely accurate, Victoria. Thank you.

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Coleen
16/1/2016 02:27:47 pm

Why are the headlines not written thus: "For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is."??

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Victoria Carter
22/1/2016 06:33:50 pm

A question deservedly asked, again and again and again Coleen...
And until our mainstream media promotes such headlines, we bring them regardless – all the more powerfully so in this age of social media and blogging. Truth is not to be held back.

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Stephanie Stevenson
16/1/2016 08:39:38 pm

What a profound and powerful testimony to the truth of Serge Benhayon, the humble family man who is an absolute beacon of light and game-changer in life for all who choose to see this and live this 'new-normal' way, .
Victoria Carter you are an inspiration beyond measure and deliver fully from the joy, love and grace thou art. You are also a beautiful beacon of light in this world living from love on a daily basis.

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Carmel Reid link
16/1/2016 11:13:26 pm

it is thanks to Serge Benhayon that we can restore trust in each other, in ourselves and in humanity. He is one man, we are many - it is for us to live the same integrity as he is showing us, so that we can take our livingness out into the world for all to see and feel.

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Gretel Willis
17/1/2016 05:08:40 pm

Serge Benhayon has indeed been the catalyst for me to trust people, life and myself again, and as you have said Victoria, we can then bring this known level of trust, truth and love to the world around us and lead the way for others. Thank you Serge and Victoria, we can take so much for granted and accept and become numb to abuse at many different levels.
Thanks to the support of Serge and Universal Medicine I too am in the process of healing and letting go of my many layers of mistrust and abuse which I had accepted as normal and am now beginning to claim and live what I know and can feel is right and true.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
19/1/2016 08:43:01 pm

Gretel it was similar for me. It was witnessing the unwavering deep love and integrity in Serge Benhayon and listening to him day in day out share about all aspects of life with the greatest level of care and responsibility I had ever come across, which slowly got me to start realising that my giving up on humanity was unfounded. I had proof right in front of me that what I ached in my heart for all those years did in fact exist, even if it seemed in that moment that it was only in one man. Since then I have been inspired to heal many issues and to start developing the same consistency in my own life as have thousands of other people. This shows so beautifully that each one of us can inspire many and this is how our world will start to reflect the love and integrity that is our true nature.

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Victoria Carter
22/1/2016 06:38:26 pm

Truly poignant and powerful sharings Gretel and Golnaz. I agree in full, and hence could not but write this testimony. For this IS how we restore true connection with each other – every step we take in our own healing and willingness to let go the distrust and hurts and open to love again, offers inspiration for others. And so it goes... A delicate yet oh-so-powerful 'unfolding and evolving' process to be appreciated deeply.

adam warburton
17/1/2016 09:23:12 pm

Trust is a huge topic for conversation. As we grow up many of us become wearied by life and the betrayal of those we once were open to. What we do not realise is that to not trust in the world is to give up deeply on not only humanity but ourselves, and it can only ever lead to deep grief. Best to learn to trust again and accept that occasionally you will get hurt, for at least that way you do not miss out on the glory that is inbetween.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
2/3/2016 07:23:10 am

I was in that place you describe Adam. I looked to the world for proof for love, care and brotherhood, and instead I saw callousness, greed and selfishness. Deeply given up with humanity and angry for not being able to make a difference, it was a blessing to meet Serge Benhayon. His reflection has been like the Sun shining on the tentative growth of a new shoot, and the consistent love, support and honouring related by him and his family has been like the rich soil for my roots to rebuild their foundation. Consistency of love does rebuild trust and turn lives round. Fills my heart with joy knowing that there are now thousands who have been inspired to build such consistency and offer the such inspiration to the world.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:45:55 pm

This simply cannot be stated enough Adam and Golnaz. That so many people are finding themselves re-emerging from centuries-long grief and giving-upness on humanity, is absolutely astounding.
The power of one man to change the course of a generation, and reignite the flame of true love for all in our hearts once more is amazing.
Until I met Serge Benhayon, I had no idea how deeply lost I had allowed myself to be...

Karoline Schleiffelder
18/1/2016 10:18:22 am

Serge Benhayon walks his talk, he lives his words, his words are not an intellectualized concept that sounds impressive or good, but the living of it – the livingness. All my life I have carried a sadness of the state of the world and the state of me. I had such a love and care for people but I didn’t know how to really live it, because I had so many hurts and was in protection to be strong in this dangerous world. But know I’ve come to know that the way Serge Benhayon lives and who he is, is a true role model that you can live with integrity, a deep care for people, and true love that is married to truth.
That we can trust and love without protecting ourselves and let the walls come down. This can be perceived to be a big step to take, but when we do, only to find we’ve come back home, to our true nature – when we live in love, it becomes our strength and truth holds us, protection becomes redundant a past life of dullness. Serge Benhayon is like the SUN, he brings the light which shows a way! I am deeply appreciative of this gentle loving man whose sunshine has awakened the sun within me!

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Karoline Schleiffelder
18/1/2016 10:27:03 am

Thank you Victoria for sharing the way you do! In knowing Serge Benhayon, you have expressed with such love and truth what Serge Benhayon is like and what he brings. As you have stated ‘Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement, and not apologise for stating that yes, such people do walk amongst us.’

This man Serge Benhayon has been under severe and nasty attacks online and offline, never once has he reacted and said a nasty word against the abusers. He only shows love, but does not accept the abuse. Why is he been attacked with such vicious lies, because he brings a way that reflects to us as humanity, that we can actually live in loving ways. True we can, Serge Benhayon does not make himself special, his love for us is calling us to know we are all the same in essence and our essence is loving. This man walks in responsibility, a responsibility that for many of us, it would scare the ‘h…’ out of us.

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karoline schleifender
18/1/2016 10:34:12 am

The true meaning of inspiration was found when i met Serge Benhayon!

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Heather Pope
31/1/2016 10:14:56 am

Its true Karoline, I didn't even use the word inspiration in the years before I met Serge Benhayon, there was no person in the world to be inspired by. Now I know MANY people I am inspired by - all the result of working with Universal Medicine. Such is the depth of Serge Benhayon, he inspires many to be the fullness of who they are, and so the ripple in the pond begins.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
31/1/2016 11:16:10 pm

Great point Karoline and Heather. Before meeting Serge Benhayon, the word inspiration did not mean what it does for me today.
Two major areas started to shift when I met Serge Benhayon as a result of his reflections were: (i) I started to notice that the expression which my heart longed to see in humanity but had given up on CAN be lived because someone was clearly living it and (ii) I started to realise profoundly that despite of all my past choices the qualities I held within my heart were also own my true essence and all I needed to do was to heal and clear everything that blocked my connection to and expression of it.
The moment these two realisations came together was the moment my life changed forever. I am now able to be inspired by what is within my heart and the reflection of it I witness outside of me. And I can categorically say that I have not come across anyone who so consistently reflects what is in my heart, and helps me deepen my awareness more than Serge Benhayon.

Sue Goodson
19/1/2016 07:51:33 am

"Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone". I absolutely agree Victoria, thank you for your awesome testimony. I am learning to choose love every minute of the day ( as best I can )as a commitment to truth. I would not be where I am today if it wasn't for Serge Benhayon.He has inspired me in all areas of my life including the health and the wellbeing of me and my family.I trust him 110percent.

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Elizabeth Trenear
19/1/2016 06:15:57 pm

I wholeheartedly agree and support your beautiful, and truth-full testimony Victoria Carter, and by the veritable erruption of replies It is also a truth and knowing shared by many, many people, who know and love Serge Benhayon, his family and associates.
This is such a timely reminder for me to remember who we all really are and how we can be with each other, in every moment when we choose it.
Thank you for all that you have shared and all who are taking part in our wonderful conversations and those yet to join in.

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Carmel Reid link
20/1/2016 12:08:22 am

Victoria writes about the walls we hold:- 'We hold walls to each other and thus walls to ourselves. In the millennia of history of which I am aware, these walls we hold to protect our hurts, and the willful harm of each other we have engaged in, have not assisted us in getting anywhere at all…' When we let those walls come down we can release emotions of resentment and fear and truly learn to trust ourselves and each other, live in true brotherhood and thereby evolve.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
20/1/2016 10:30:44 pm

And whilst whenever we feel a hurt putting up walls seem like an obvious thing to do, it is a blessing to witness someone like Serge Benhayon who even when for 3 years under the attack of cyber-abusers spreading the vilest lies about him, has unwaveringly lived a steady humble, open and deeply loving life. I have noticed how most of us seem to focus on the hurtful instances and build our life in reaction to those. Whilst by witnessing Serge Benhayon I have learned that it is possible to focus on and build our life in honour of the divine within every person, noticing and lovingly calling out that which does not represent the divinity and causes the hurts. It has been very freeing to remember that such hurtful acts represent neither me nor the true essence of the person who perpetrates them.

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Carmel Reid link
24/1/2016 11:54:23 pm

Understanding that hurtful acts are not the person but the behaviour (energy) that comes though them makes a huge difference in our understanding of situations of conflict. And the same with ourselves, we may not like the things that we do, but once we see that it was because of the choice we made about what energy we allowed in, then it is possible to reconnect with our true selves and release everything that is not us.

Jenny Ellis
20/1/2016 11:38:24 am

This is stunning Victoria, so superbly capturing the enormity of what Serge Benhayon lives and brings to the world. You are spot on in what you've shared about trust... ' Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. ​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades. ' That he certainly does!

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Heather Pope
31/1/2016 10:12:25 am

Those in the media who report in a derogatory way about Serge Benhayon have obviously never met him or listened to what he offers. HIs consistency is unwavering, as is his commitment to love. He is without doubt a true role model for the world.

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Victoria Carter
9/2/2016 06:18:43 pm

An absolute true role model, hear, hear Heather Pope.
Though there are those in the media who have reported on Serge Benhayon and met him in order to do so – and still been derogatory... From my view, they have not truly listened or seen the truth, their eyes already closed or blinkered by the lure of sensationalism, bias and pre-made opinion (commonly having been fed lies by documented cyber-abusers purely intent upon extending their reach through such unethical journalism). Stories are written well before any fair & balanced research occurs. Serge Benhayon deserves not one iota of this irresponsibility.

Michelle M Ryan
20/1/2016 06:50:20 pm

'Here is a man who, in knowing him for over 14 years now, has never once said a word, exhibited a behaviour, or in any way, shape or form made me feel that I could not trust him at the deepest level.' Apart from in being close to 10 years for me, I can say that I too have had the same experience of Serge Benhayon, and that I trust him deeply. I can talk to Serge about the 'worst of my behaviours' and I do not feel judged, just blessed with an opportunity to see the reason behind it.

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Michelle M Ryan
20/1/2016 06:53:15 pm

Seriously, how many people in the world could or would say something like this until Serge Benhayon began doing presentations...
'And today, I appreciate the responsibility of living in this way more than ever. The riches and joy I live every single day in this regard are beyond measure, and are a far cry from the struggle, diminishment, lack of confidence and empowerment I lived for many, many years of my life.'

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Victoria Carter
25/1/2016 11:49:29 pm

I agree Michelle. I would never have imagined writing something like this so effortlessly before coming to the work of Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine, nor a ton of other things in my life now that express the richness of what I live within.
The inner changes and reclaiming of what is truly strong, full of love and powerful within would simply not have occurred had I not come in contact with this man. And yet, not one iota of him takes appreciation for his work as a 'medal on his chest' or allows anyone to give their power away to him. He simply says 'yes', in confirmation of all that one is, and gets on with it. The most astounding servant of mankind that I know. (feel another blog in the making...)

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Lorraine Harrris
8/2/2016 09:32:57 am

I look forward to the next blog Victoria - as you happened to mention it!
I totally agree that Serge is the most astounding servant of mankind that I know too. When I am at a workshop, it feels an enormous privilege to be there hearing such words of wisdom and empowerment when Serge presents and seeing changes all around me in the students who are walking the talk, taking steps to be all that they are. It's great to be a part of Universal Medicine.

Samantha Davidson
4/2/2016 10:16:53 pm

Great point Michelle Ryan, "Seriously, how many people in the world could or would say something like this until Serge Benhayon began doing presentations..." New normals arise, this has occurred in my life, and so great to appreciate how I would have related to life and expressed myself 10 - 15 years ago. 'Joy and riches' where not something I related to, I found life 'hard'. Serge Benhayon presents his truth, his lived experienced with a consistency which is awe-inspiring and yet very tangible, real and achievable. A true role model and some one I can relate to.

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Karin Barea
21/1/2016 02:10:49 pm

Victoria thank you for expressing what I have felt too. Knowing Serge Benhayon has transformed my relationships with men and women and myself. I believed as a woman I had to protect myself so I related to men and women from a distance. I had never before experienced being met or felt the opportunity to relate to another, let alone a man, from who I am.

I have lots of protective layers still but that's ok as I know who we truly are can be trusted implicitly because I see Serge Benhayon living this himself so consistently This inspires me to choose love over protection more and more.

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Victoria Carter
25/1/2016 11:57:02 pm

Your words deserve to stand as a testimonial in their own right Karin. Thank-you so much for sharing here.
How many of us have come from such deep sensitivity, to the point of saying that it's actually ok to acknowledge the protection I put around myself, and drop the walls...
That someone inspires so deeply, that it's not only ok, but actually empowering to trust more deeply, is truly astounding. Through knowing Serge Benhayon, I continue to drop walls of protection I've long held also – entirely by my own volition, and so deeply inspired to do so, not just 'for me', but for the impact this has upon all I come in contact with.

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Rachel Murtagh link
21/1/2016 10:21:52 pm

"Enter Serge Benhayon – a complete game-changer in this world of fractured relationships. And I do not say this lightly." Victoria, Serge Benhayon is a game changer of this there is no question. It is understandable that because there are so many in the world today that choose self gain, those who are untrustworthy and corrupt it can be a challenge to trust honesty, integrity and love when it is presented. It is possible to sit in disbelief that someone like Serge can be so true...yet here he is showing us all the possibility of how to live, in full, with these qualities that reside in us all. Serge shows us how to bring down the walls of protection we create that lead us to live with self gain, dishonesty and corruption to rebuilding lives of integrity, love and trust. This is game changing on a massive scale.

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Victoria Carter
26/1/2016 12:01:51 am

Hear, hear Rachel. The game is changed from one based upon self – self-gain, self-preservation, self-protection, keeping one's head above the torrent of struggle and despair... to being not truly a 'game' at all, but a life led in consideration of and service to all.
The more deeply we heal the hurts we hold, re-open to trust and truly love each other, the more our lives are not about 'self' pursuit, but a confirmation that we are all in this together, and there is much work to be done.

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Simon Voysey
28/1/2016 11:01:03 am

So true, Serge Benhayon is a game changer and this is because all who embrace the beautiful simple wisdom he offers also begin to fathom the game and how we are all game changers (or possibly game enders if living in the responsibility of truth and love can be viewed that way).

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Heather Pope
31/1/2016 10:10:17 am

Having attended workshops and presentations from Serge Benhayon for 12 years, I can see what he presents, and how it is presented is a game changer. The way I see myself, and life is now through a lens of loving support, rather than bitterness and anger. What Serge Benhayon offers is nothing short of positively transformative in every sense of the word.

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Samantha Davidson
4/2/2016 10:14:43 pm


Absolutely, a 'game changer', my life has never been the same since I took stock, and realised that I could take responsibility to change, a choice to be made to support the whole and not just myself. I changed it, I was inspired because Serge Benhayon holds steady. This is confronting in the world as you say where 'self gain' often dominates and lack of responsibility is considered ‘normal’.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
22/1/2016 09:59:34 am

"Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone. This is something I have embraced deeply in my life." In a world that is set up to foster the opposite in people, where holding on to hurts, protection and retaliation are championed as the norm, what Victoria shares is indeed worth deeply celebrating. And what’s more her experience is shared by hundreds of others who are in turn inspiring many many more. From once being disillusioned with life and people, I am inspired to know the power we hold in our heart and accept responsibility once more.

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Shami
23/1/2016 08:51:57 pm

I find that I could write all day about how amazing Serge Benhayon is. However, what I would really be writing about is the universe and how we are all placed within it, our responsibilities towards it. The universe is often perceived as something out in space, but actually we are included in the space that the universe is. So, when Serge Benhayon talks he is aware that his every word is within this universal sphere and never is it not. This makes him amazing, but only by contrast to the lack of responsibility that many of us live with. Because actually this level of awareness and of responsibility is our very natural state of being. So, Serge is really quite normal, and that is fundamentally amazing.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
25/1/2016 11:17:02 pm

Shami I love how well you have expressed the fact that we are all parts of the whole and make a profound impact with our choices on everyone and everything. Serge Benhayon has a wonderful way of at once reminding us of the All that we belong too, the vastness within each of us and our true nature, and what's more this is not theory, he live sit 24/7 for all to see, feel and be inspired by. He indeed shows us what IS our true normal and we are supported to see the myriad of areas we have chosen to allow and live which are far far from normal.

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Eva Rygg
28/1/2016 05:35:32 am

Beautiful Shami - the enormity of what Serge Benhayon lives and offers to everyone is beyond what we can truly comprehend. Yet, this way of living is what is in truth normal and that is not only amazing but also availbale to us all.

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Amelia Stephens
24/1/2016 12:35:07 pm

So much is allowed in our society under the guise of 'free speech'. We are expected to brush off harsh comments and frank abuse as someone else has the right to say it. What about the right of the person who is being abused? Do they not have a right to live in a world that is harmonious and free from such imposition? We have got to the stage as a society where abuse is allowed and preferred over the true calling to account of that which is irresponsibility in dealing with ones own issues. There needs to be a system of dealing with this that brings love and understanding to the issues the person has, so the root cause can in fact be healed. Then and only then will we be able to live in a society with true love, joy and harmony at the fore.

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Jessica Williams
24/1/2016 12:37:40 pm

In this day and age this type of story is almost unbelievable - that one person could be that genuine and trustworthy is brushed off as being 'unrealistic' or a lie, which to me says something quite sad about our society. I have grown up knowing Serge and his family and they have been a rock in my life - no matter what was going on, they have always been there for me. Every word written here is absolutely true, whether you believe it or not!

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Victoria Carter
26/1/2016 12:09:39 am

That it is Jessica – 100% truth. The most powerful truth – to be celebrated deeply. Knowing Serge Benhayon, I would say that the greatest celebration of the depth of real, lived inspiration he offers all, is for those of us so inspired to also 'lead the way' ourselves. For as we emerge from our own miasmas of pain, hurt and hiding and truly heal our relationships with ourselves, others and the world, this is what we most naturally do. We say to others, it's not only 'safe' and 'ok' to take responsibility for one's own healing, but that life can be indelibly rich and full. The world so needs to know this...

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Simon Voysey
26/1/2016 01:58:38 pm

Part of the extreme abuse hurled at Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine is that is a cult. Yet what is clear from Victoria's writing is how all her relationships have been enriched through what has been learnt and experienced at Universal Medicine courses (which by the way are open to anyone without any membership or secrecy). I would strongly agree that being very social and active in my local community, all my relationships have prospered and my relationship with Universal Medicine is as with any teaching college or school where you choose courses from many on offer at your own leisure. Yet as Victoria also relates so powerfully, what can be learned in courses is about a very empowering quality of love we can all share and live in our bodies and that Serge Benhayon walks the talk in this regard. This does make him and Universal Medicine as standout, place to learn yet in a totally non exclusive way.

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Samantha Davidson
4/2/2016 10:01:44 pm

I agree, my relationships in life have developed deeply, there is more honesty, truth and love within them. The people who do see me regularly and there are a lot of them who are not connected in any way with Universal Medicine appreciate the steadiness, openness and warmth that I share consistently and through this and their own willingness our relationships are blossoming. There is nothing 'cultish' about my behaviour in life though the inspiration of Universal Medicine I have stepped out in to the community not hidden away.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:14:05 pm

Well said Samantha and Simon. The 'cult' label has been seeded by a very small band of cyberbullies intent on causing harm. Label a person a 'cult leader' and a group of people 'cult members' and you immediately discredit their voice in the public sphere – such is the tainting the irresponsible usage of such a word can bring.
It is clearly the most ridiculous insinuation. As we've all shared here, relationships are blooming – so many have opened to trust, let people in, commit to community engagement and involvement, and lives founded upon the real deal of the deepest love and respect for all.
If that's truly a 'cult' them I'm all in with both feet! The way lives have been transformed here is absolutely astounding, sustainable and real.

Otto Bathurst
13/3/2016 04:01:52 am

Absolutely Simon. The definition of a cult is a closed-door, secret society. Yet inspired by listening to Serge Benhayon's presentations, I have never been more in the world in my whole life. I now have active and committed relationships with so many people from all walks of life. Whereby previously I was only operating my now little bubble.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:58:10 pm

Testament to the power of Serge Benhayon's inspiration – 100% Otto. I don't hesitate to say that before being so deeply inspired to make life about all (i.e. more than securing 'my own patch'), and open all the more deeply and joyfully to relationships with people across the board, I was also totally in my own 'little bubble'... Doing my best to move that bubble about so it didn't get burst, and keep securing it up, and craftily hiding it, so the world would, in large measure, leave me alone and I could find a 'place to breathe'... Thing is, this breath was taken in complete withdrawal from the love that is my true nature, and withdrawal from sharing this love with others. This one man has inspired so many to burst their bubble and realise the folly of its existence – to come out of the shadows and truly participate in life, in community and with PEOPLE. Hats off the a man who can inspire this on the deepest level that he does, and reignite the flame in so many 'withholders', that true connection and meaningful engagement with others is what we all are actually looking for.

Richard Mills
26/1/2016 08:08:18 pm

Yes, let's celebrate the ultimately selfless act of love that Serge Benhayon is and lives every day that opens the door for everyone to know that we too are this very same love.

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Sally Scott
9/2/2016 06:20:35 pm

A celebration it absolutely is to have Serge Benhayon living at this time let alone the fact that we are blessed to know him.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
27/1/2016 05:42:36 am

Agree with every word Simon. I am also astounded that here we are in a society where it is every organisation's dream to build a pool of loyal satisfied clientele, to have the organisation grow organically without relying on marketing, be financially successful, have all clients sing the organisation's praises and openly share how their lives have been deeply and fundamentally enhanced by the products offered. Universal Medicine is such an organisation. So how come instead of Serge Benhayon being properly interviewed and Universal Medicine properly studied, the word 'cult' is brandies around? Simply does not make sense.

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Carmel Reid link
30/1/2016 08:47:27 pm

You make a good point here, Golnaz, a company that runs so successfully needs to be studied not abused - corporations, organisations and government bodies worldwide could learn a great deal from this way of running things.

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Heather Pope
31/1/2016 10:02:59 am

Having worked in companies for more than 35 years, including leading personal development companies, I can categorically say Universal Medicine is the only one I have seen without dynamics. Certainly one to be studied.

Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:19:38 pm

This is absolutely extraordinary. No dynamics, period.
And an absolute testament to all that has been shared in this testimonial (plus countless others) and the ensuing comments here, i.e. that living and relating with the deepest of love, respect – and re-opening to trust that this is indeed possible – IS happening... here, now and today.
This most definitely deserves to be studied and not ridiculously vilified by those who refuse to see the reality of what's occurring here, or rather, do see it, but for whatever their own disturbances, instead yet choose to promote their ill-founded hate campaign.

Shevon Simon
29/1/2016 12:42:48 am

The absolute Truth Victoria Carter spoken with so much Love. Your deep Love and appreciation of Serge Benhayon is very evident and it's no surprise; the changes that this man has inspired in so many deserves such Love. Having met you I can say that the quality and Love that you write this testimony with is the same Grace and Beauty that I have felt in my interactions with you. The Love that you have shown me is the same Love and care that you speak with Serge Benhayon about, which is further evidence (if any is needed) that EVERY word that you have written here is True.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:22:42 pm

Thank-you Shevon. Words of truth belong to us all.

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Leigh Matson
30/1/2016 09:05:22 am

We live in a world of broken relationships - a sad but true fact. What Serge Benhayon brings to the world by simply loving with and to all does need to be celebrated, as well as those who have been inspired to bring this same love into all aspects and facets of life. Broken it may be but what Serge Benhayon brings has reignited trust in ourselves and in all of us once again.

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Amelia Stephens
30/1/2016 12:06:39 pm

Serge Benhayon's commitment to living with complete love - which involves sometimes bringing 'uncomfortable' truths is unwavering. He knows what is needed, and does not hold back from this even with the abuse that may be hurled his way. He is able to do this, so consistently, as he has worked on removing any hurts that may get in the way of this true love being expressed. He knows the importance of this, and today inspires us all to do the same.

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Heather Pope
31/1/2016 10:00:06 am

The choice to be truly loving is one that any person who meets Serge Benhayon can feel. Even in the times where there is an uncomfortable truth to be said, Serge is ever present and can share the truth without the person being demeaned in any way. That is true love.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:24:59 pm

Something that I am inspired by also, and learn from every day. Well said Amelia and Heather. This is what makes someone truly Great, and the inner-work and dedication called for to live from such a place must never be discounted.

Rowena Stewart
30/1/2016 09:47:45 pm

Superb testimonial to the true strength and character of Serge Benhayon, thank you Victoria. "Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. ​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades." In order for us to heal our hurts we need to learn to trust again and Serge has taken the lead in this, emanating a rock solid trustworthiness and integrity in all he does and with everyone he meets. And this is something we are all capable of, all it requires is the willingness to take responsibility for ourselves and once we embark on this journey, we have beside us a rock solid friend who never, ever wavers in his dedication to love, first and foremost.

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Samantha Davidson
4/2/2016 09:55:52 pm

I agree Rowena, I was never one to be lead or told what to do but walking in equality I can do "And this is something we are all capable of, all it requires is the willingness to take responsibility for ourselves and once we embark on this journey, we have beside us a rock solid friend who never, ever wavers in his dedication to love, first and foremost." Equality in inspiration, as I make the choice to take responsibility, I look around me and see Serge Benhayon willing to stand for the truth and love that he feels and knows, and I know I can do this also.

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rosanna bianchini
31/1/2016 01:42:59 am

"Trust is built by such unwavering consistency." This consistency allows us to trust, to drop our guards, to allow ourselves to be seen and to let people in – to show that there is no need to hold up the high walls between each other. Consistency, in the way Serge has shown, is the way to bring harmony back to our relationships and therefore eventually to humanity.
​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades.

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jeanette macdonald
1/2/2016 12:04:46 am

A beautiful testimonial and celebration of Serge Benhayon Victoria. I have known Serge for over 12 years now and agree with all you have expressed here. If he was anything other than consistently loving and caring for all you wouldn't see me for dust. He is the most wonderful role model and inspiration, I love his common sense and his sense of humour, both have woken me up to the truth of what is true and of value in the world. People and love.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:27:19 pm

You wouldn't see me for dust either Jeanette! And absolutely agreed on the humour – Serge Benhayon can be absolutely hilarious :)

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Otto Bathurst
13/3/2016 03:56:19 am

So true about the "seeing me for dust". Serge's presentations challenge so much about how we have chosen to live. If I didn't feel, with every cell in my body, that what he was saying was the absolute truth, I'd be right out that door.

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Andrew Mooney
1/2/2016 10:16:04 pm

Serge Benhayon himself has said to me many times that consistency builds trust. These words felt very wise and profound to me when I first heard them but would have remained only words had it not been for the fact that Serge also lives in such a consistent way that he has healed many people's mistrust in humanity. This guy is the real deal - he lives everything he says. Something that earns my trust and respect in itself because it carries an authenticity and genuineness with it that cannot be denied.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:32:03 pm

Absolutely Andrew. It is the lived consistency that continues to break down so many walls that we hold towards each other. That is everything – regardless of those who say it couldn't be so. Are they just not more vehemently protecting long-held hurts?
We all contribute to the way in which humanity can open up to each other, and truly heal the hurts that have plagues us for generations and lifetimes. Deep understanding is the key...

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adam warburton
1/2/2016 10:52:37 pm

Trust is something the world is deeply in need of, for yes, the world is untrustworthy, but without trust, we cannot come to know the divine origins that lies beneath us all.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:33:07 pm

Beautifully said Adam Warburton.

The walls we hold to others, also keep us from ourselves.

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Sally Scott
9/2/2016 06:13:58 pm

Beautifully said Adam and Victoria - let all walls come down, tumbling all at once or brick one by one - it doesn't matter if we but commit to bringing them down.

Simon Voysey
1/3/2016 01:53:28 pm

It is in the very fabric of love that trust can prevail in a world that is untrustworthy.

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Rosie
2/2/2016 09:23:16 am

Victoria, I just re read your testimonial and it is so beautiful.
I especially love this paragraph and it should be on billboards everywhere.
'We hold walls to each other and thus walls to ourselves. In the millennia of history of which I am aware, these walls we hold to protect our hurts, and the willful harm of each other we have engaged in, have not assisted us in getting anywhere at all…'
I have had big thick walls most of my life and it has hurt me more than the people and the hurt that I was trying to protect myself from. I have only come to realise this since attending the courses and workshops by Serge Benhayon and realising that holding onto the hurt is more painful than letting it go and if I have anger towards anyone, it hurts me and not them.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:38:21 pm

Rosie, thank-you for your comment here.
What you've shared is a real, lived case in point of what this testimonial to Serge Benhayon is about. We do great harm not only to others but to ourselves in holding onto what has hurt us in life. And it can take a lot of trust and willingness to 'go there' and embark upon truly healing these things. That you also have found Serge Benhayon to be tremendously supportive in this process is truly beautiful – testament to his work, and a blessing to all around you as they get 'more of you' and thus someone that also opens the doors to trust again, for others.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
4/3/2016 05:14:48 am

Indeed Rosie the paragraph you have chosen is a profound one Rosie. I just imagined for a moment looking on humanity from outside. "People locking themselves behind walls and away from each other, everyone hurting as a result of the enforced separation and some reacting and hurting themselves and others as a result. Leading to thicker walls...." It is such a sad predicament feeling the impact of what this means I wanted to cry. I am so grateful for the wisdom offered by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine that the way to tackle such wayward behaviour and in fact any other problem is never from within the issue. ‘Trying to Fix' is never the way, but the return to the awareness of and commitment to the fact that none of this is our true nature. Connecting to our true nature starts a completely different conversation - like a different operating system - which supports turning it all round and once more reflecting our true expression of love, truth and oneness.

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Rik Connors
3/2/2016 11:24:14 am

The title says it all "SERGE BENHAYON – A MAN WHO CAN BE COMPLETELY TRUSTED, LEADING THE WAY FOR US ALL". Unfortunately there is not too many people I can trust. For me trust means I can intimately be open with someone about my deepest concerns and sharings, and know that it will not be repeated without my consent. I will not be rejected, not be judged, no unforeseen jealously, it will not be held in the thought of another and used against me, and I am respected for who I am and where I am at. Trust is so important!

No other has been this then Serge Benhayon has for me. The inspiration that this beholds is what I know in me too; and most joyfully I can be the same for another. As Victoria has so beautifully expressed extensively about the deep trust issues we all have as one humanity which is one major issue that leads to all else that causes harm.

This blog in itself could be a statuary guideline for our future generations to live and claim back our relationships. Thank you Victoria, as time goes on and we go around the sun we will all be able to claim what you have claimed in your relationships - the gloriousness we all rightly deserve and are, and trust ourselves in how relationships should be. Thank you Serge Benhayon for ALL that you have lived !

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
7/2/2016 02:18:08 am

I love what you have shared here Rik. What Victoria has expressed here indeed could be a guideline for our future generations to reclaim "the gloriousness we all rightly deserve and are, and trust ourselves in how relationships should be". And I am so with you in your expression of "Thank you Serge Benhayon for ALL that you have lived !"

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:42:56 pm

My heart opens all the wider reading your words Rik Connors...
It wasn't until I met Serge Benhayon, that I realised how given up I had become as to how deeply loving relationships could be – not just with those close (a partner, family...) but with many, many people.
One big YES to every single one of us being able to reclaim this in our lives, and take the steps to doing so. Our hearts are naturally designed to be open to all. And I know no other like Serge Benhayon to so consistently lead the way in the possibility of this reality for us all.

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Sally Scott
9/2/2016 06:12:05 pm

Rik, thank you for clearly saying what it means to put your trust in someone. Trust is absolutely important.

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Eva Rygg
19/2/2016 10:52:03 pm

Rik, I couldn't agree more - the title says it all. Serge Benhayon is a man that can be completely trusted, from the moment I met him that trust has been consistent. You have summed it up perfectly in these two lines - 'For me trust means I can intimately be open with someone about my deepest concerns and sharings, and know that it will not be repeated without my consent. I will not be rejected, not be judged, no unforeseen jealously, it will not be held in the thought of another and used against me, and I am respected for who I am and where I am at.' This allows us to surrender to who we truly are and not feeling the need to be cautious or protected.

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Simon Voysey
3/2/2016 12:41:27 pm

"Many of us indeed willfully harm each other." This is such a powerful if not sad truth about mankind today. Surely this fact alone begs the question with deep sincerity, what is going on? For me the power that Serge Benhayon offers in understanding and addressing the harshness of this reality, is the same power that those seeking to defend such a reality are desperate to squash and bring down. As Victoria has shared, there is much to stand up for and address in this attack and the more expressing the truth about it the less force it has - for the benefit of all.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:43:53 pm

Hear, hear Simon Voysey.

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Michael Nicholson
3/2/2016 09:39:08 pm

Thank you Victoria - everything that you say is so true and I love your final sentence because I too "thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love". Without him, quite simply, I don't think I'd be here.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
4/2/2016 05:39:16 am

Throughout life I have come across many great theories and ideals of how the world should be. There are so many great ideas and words of advice out there about life, yet they tend to stay in the realms of theory, hope, critic, blame or just good ideas. The humongous difference I have found with what Serge Benhayon presents is that he shares what he is actually already living. And not only is he consistent in living a level of love, wisdom and integrity I have ever seen, but he is also the most humble and genuine person, with a commitment and dedication to humanity that keeps blowing me away and is immensely inspiring.

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Shami
4/2/2016 09:13:35 pm

Serge Benhayon is great. He is also equally just a man, like any other, with family and friends, bills to pay, a business to run. He has neighbours, and he has to do the shopping, cook evening meals, sleep. As much as what Serge brings to life each day, it is amongst what is life each day. There is nothing especially different or special or set aside for him. Life continues as normal everyday. However, what is different, exceptional, and grand, is the quality that he does all of this in, and this quality is available to everyone, with complete equal-ness. This quality does not discern your skin colour, or the house you live in. It simply comes in to your life because you choose it, and then your life is filled with love for yourself and for people, and therein lies the potential to make it great.

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Victoria Carter
7/2/2016 08:50:25 pm

Beautifully said Shami. I know Serge to take out the rubbish and pick up rubbish at a workshop, for example, that many blindly walk past. He lives life as you say – in no way 'removed' as a small few may deign him to be, but rather the complete opposite. I know very few people who are so thorough, meticulous and complete in all of their daily interactions – whether they be household duties, business, relationships, work, communications... That's the thing about Serge Benhayon – everything he does is done with equal attentiveness, no thing or person is more than another.
This to me is the mark of a true philosopher – someone who knows that every thought, action and word has an energetic impact upon the whole. Here, we find the real deal. I couldn't agree more.

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Otto Bathurst
13/3/2016 03:51:10 am

Great. Normal. Thus normal = great.

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Samantha Davidson
4/2/2016 09:51:34 pm

This has also been my experience "The riches and joy I live every single day in this regard are beyond measure, and are a far cry from the struggle, diminishment, lack of confidence and empowerment I lived for many, many years of my life." The riches and joys exceed my own personal experience of life, they are rich and joyful because I have begun to open my heart to humanity. I no longer walk in hiding and defence. The freedom that this comes with this, there are not words for. But, I do deeply appreciate that Serge Benhayon is an inspiration for walking these steps.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:09:39 pm

Undoubtedly the greatest riches there are Samantha – when we make life about all, and what is true for all.

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Carmel Reid link
4/2/2016 11:56:04 pm

'Until we truly heal, we are yet capable of hurting and manipulating each other in some way, shape or form – from the harsh reactive word, to more serious forms of physical, mental and/or emotional abuse.' Abuse is happening on many levels and although I am way less judgemental and critical than I used to be, I am learning that even indulging in workplace gossip is harming. Inspired by Serge Benhayon, many of us are learning to heal our hurts and feel our words and how they are spoken in every moment.

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Matilda Bathurst
6/2/2016 08:45:38 pm

Serge Benhayon is a point of inspiration - a man of strength, steadiness, commitment and purpose, with an everydayness that is the personification of humility - showing us that all these qualities are ones we share equally and universally so.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
9/2/2016 09:43:46 am

Agree with every word Matilda. The steady reflection that Serge Benhayon offers is a God-sent in a world that keeps behaving as if the opposite is the norm. During the past 10 years that I have known him, whenever I have had any contact with him, there he has been as steady as a rock never wavering in the love, wisdom, integrity and dedication with which he lives - and yes the gorgeous humility he lives this magnificence, as well as the equalness he holds everyone lets you see that we are all special and those qualities are within us all.

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Sally Scott
9/2/2016 06:08:58 pm

Matilda this is such a beautiful statement for Serge and for us all, thank you.

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Carola Woods link
3/3/2016 10:42:03 am

Yes an absolute point of Light through which we all are able to see that we too are an equally powerful point of Light. A Light we can to bring to our everyday living.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 12:13:50 pm

Being inspired in a way that is something I too can live (I too have that quality of presence already within me) is an enormously precious gift.

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leigh Matson
7/2/2016 07:52:02 am

It does indeed need to be shouted from the rooftops Victoria and I'll be more then happy to shout with you. Here we have a true role model of a man who can simply love and understand everyone he meets, no judgement or criticism or expectations, just love and understanding. If he can do it, his family can do it and now hundreds more are inspired to bring more love and understanding to their lives and of those around them then this is certainly something worth talking about.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:14:13 pm

These qualities cannot be stated enough Leigh – I absolutely agree. For when truly lived and embodied, this is what changes the world – all our relationships, and the way we live in it, together.

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Sally Scott
9/2/2016 06:07:41 pm

Victoria, I love this sentence - 'Enter Serge Benhayon – a complete game-changer in this world of fractured relationships.' Serge Benhayon is absolutely a game changer - he has shown us all how to live a loving, simple and harmonious life.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
16/2/2016 01:32:07 pm

I too love that sentence Sally. Serge Benhayon has been and is a game changer on so many counts daily. One of the key ways I see him in that role is through teaching the possibility of the highest aspirations we might have in integrity, wisdom, love, responsibility and commitment, and at the same time by example showing that not only is this actually possible, but it can be lived consistently. AND again through example, he shows that there is never a stop or an "I have arrived" - we are all forever expanding, evolving and deepening our expression in every area.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:22:26 pm

There are reams of pages to write on this point you have made Golnaz. We have been inculcated with influences, beliefs and promotions that offer us a 'carrot' – an 'end point' where everything is somehow grand, we are 'set up' in and for life, and can rest in thinking we have 'made it'.
Serge Benhayon teaches unequivocally that this is not the way of a true life. God, love, and the universe we live in – His and it's nature is forever expanding. Step out of tune with this, and we are not living a true life at all, but resting in the illusion of having seemingly found our own 'get of jail free' card, whilst remaining more imprisoned than ever.
Hence we have 'the Way' of the Livingness and the teachings that a true life is about living a way of integrity, dedication and love – not seeking a comfortable prison in which to rest and forget the billions of people that remain around us.

Carola Woods link
3/3/2016 10:28:09 am

I also love this line. As it exemplifies how Serge Benhayon, though the way he lives and with what he presents, has inspired countless many to awaken to their power within and as such make changes in their lives so they too now walk and live in connection to the Love we all are born to live with.

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Amelia Stephens
16/2/2016 11:30:23 am

Indeed as you say Victoria, this level of abuse cannot be turned away from or simply ignored. Yes, we have the power to not let it affect us but the fact that it exists, and continues to do so means there is something very wrong. When we see this kind of abuse and we do not take steps to address the root cause, in whatever way we can, we allow its perpetuation for the next person chosen to be targeted. It is our responsibility when aware to ensure this does not continue in our world.

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Carola Woods link
3/3/2016 10:17:34 am

Well said Amelia I agree. It is through knowing the power of our Love that we are guided to know what is not of this Love. We then are able to call out and address anything and everything that is unloving in nature. With this we arrest the loveless momentum and instead offer the opportunity for the presence of Love to be known once again as our natural way of being in this world.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:30:22 pm

I deeply appreciate your words here Amelia and Carola. It is the expression that is all important here – for we do know Love, the truth of what real Love is. It's presence as you say Carola, can be known in this world – for it is is known within each and every one of us. Yet we have held it back. We have allowed and condoned so much that is not Love to be, that we are not used to living in the presence and confirmation of all that is known deeply within.
Only through our expression of Love, and calling out of what is not Love, can we confirm Love's presence in our world, and change the horrendous 'norms' – the abuses, the corruption, the conflict – we have permitted to be.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh
17/2/2016 01:20:25 pm

The love, understanding, honouring and equality with which Serge Benhayon holds everyone, ignites the understanding that we are far more than we have settled for and that love, integrity, truth and responsibility are our true expression.
Yet sometimes it is more confronting to accept power, accountability and responsibility than it is to remain cradling our hurts and in the comfort of seeming powerlessness. And those attacking Serge Benhayon have a huge problem with responsibility and accountability. Yet what is so gorgeous is that he does not hold back. He keeps on presenting with the same care and dedication. He simply loves and honours people much more than that.

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Anne Hishon
18/2/2016 07:37:53 am

An awesome sharing, Victoria, about a gorgeous and loving man who through his divine reflection has effected change in many of our lives. Serge Benhayon is a "game-changer" for all humanity.

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Jessica Williams
21/2/2016 12:31:15 am

"Here is a man who, in knowing him for over 14 years now, has never once said a word, exhibited a behaviour, or in any way, shape or form made me feel that I could not trust him at the deepest level" - I've seen it so many times and written it myself as well before, this is so uncommon in society but so needed as we have produced generation after generation of mistrust in government, in science, in education, and in eachother, so we need someone (preferably as many people as possible) who are trustworthy and make you feel safe and loved - but when this actually does occur, the irony of it is that we are so hurt by getting burnt by others in the past that these 'real deal' people get torn down and vilified.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
23/2/2016 08:29:06 am

I have witnessed over the years how profound it is that Serge Benhayon see everyone as a divine Son of God, inherently loving, wise and powerful – and he also honours the fact that we have the choice to live this or not. This level of deep appreciation and honouring with which he relates to each individual, reminds the person of who they truly are (the knowing of which society seems to go to great lengths to wean out of us). The blossoming and flourishing people around Serge Benhayon is an absolute joy to witness. How gorgeous that there are many who are inspired to live the same way as Serge Benhayon and are starting to bring the same inspiration to many more people.

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Carola Woods link
3/3/2016 10:03:46 am

Victoria you have magnificently expressed and as such revealed the heart of our troubles in our society today and why we exist in such turmoil, because of our lack of trust. Through the lack of being honest with ourselves we have certainly lost our way in how to truly be, living in trust with ourselves and as such with each other. Instead we exist, react and protect ourselves from hurts that we harbour and defend. When one walks amongst us, alongside us, offering all another far more loving, healing and empowering way to live it is a blessing for us all and cause for deep appreciation that is worthy without a doubt of being celebrated. For one to continue to walk in this way dedicated to loving humanity, as does Serge Benhayon regardless of the harm hurled toward him, is inspirational in itself and a testimony of the understanding and immense Love he holds for all of us.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 07:08:08 pm

Carola, your words have brought me to a deeper reflection and understanding as to why there are those who would attack Serge Benhayon and all he represents, as attack him they do, with nothing but invented fabrications in the face of his absolute integrity. For if we are not truly ready to let our own walls come tumbling down, let go our hurts and re-open to love ourselves, we fight back at that which represents love. We fight it until our internal fight with the love that we are that ever remains, no matter how buried or hidden this love has become... We fight it until our own fight is done, and we surrender to that which is and has always been – the grandness of our own love, no more nor less than those such as Serge Benhayon's, who inspire so many of us so very deeply.

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Carmel Reid link
3/3/2016 08:56:35 pm

Society is so full of distrust that even when a true man is there in front of us, we cannot see him. We can spend so much energy to deny his existence or what he is presenting because it is so far away from how we ourselves are living.

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Shami
7/3/2016 09:13:00 pm

It is this constancy that Serge Benhayon has been able to master that many of us choose to work on now in our own lives, knowing, as we do, that this work will eventually lead to the greatness that we all are being lived everyday.

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Otto Bathurst
13/3/2016 03:45:07 am

I like the use of this word; 'constancy'. It makes me think a flow of water, into a glass. With constancy, the glass will always be full, no matter, who is sucking from it or knocking it.

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Stephen Gammack
7/3/2016 09:36:08 pm

To just ignore the lies and slanders on Serge Benhayon by the media is not an option. To accept that lies are going to be said about this man is to then open up the floodgates to accept even more of the same. It is deeply offensive that someone who has inspired so much love and deep care for oneself and for many others can be so viciously and dishonestly attacked with words that do not represent the inspiration and deep care that Serge express for humanity every day. If journalist were to study the teaching presented they would get to see this for the truth it is.

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Esther Andras
7/3/2016 11:07:12 pm


'Here is a man who, in knowing him for over 14 years now, has never once said a word, exhibited a behaviour, or in any way, shape or form made me feel that I could not trust him at the deepest level.’ This alone is extraordinary in this world and speaks volumes not only about Serge Benhayon’s integrity and deep love for humanity but about our every person potential of living in deepest harmony and love with each other. 'Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. ​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades.’

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
11/3/2016 10:15:04 pm

The level of love, truth, integrity and responsibility Serge Benhayon lives as 'normal', has indeed raised the bar for what we have for a long time been reducing human life to.

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Esther Andras
7/3/2016 11:07:57 pm

I agree Victoria, the love and integrity Serge Benhayon lives on a daily basis in all areas and aspects of his life is to be celebrated and honoured for the enormity and true way it enriches and inspires all our lives.

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Simon Voysey
9/3/2016 11:30:09 am

For me this is the go to article on how to be responsible in the face of any abuse. It is deeply reassuring that one person, any person, can make a difference.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:39:19 pm

How powerful the inspiration then Simon, of just one man... And how powerful we can all be, as we say no to abuse and yes to trust, and letting others in to the power of our love, in full.

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Adele Leung
9/3/2016 01:07:09 pm

Serge Benhayon offers the reflection to everyone that we can once again trust in our own love again. This is the greatest inspiration I and the world have been offered, and the greatest gift when it is received and lived!

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
22/3/2016 02:17:55 pm

Yes Adele, in a world in which pretty much from every angle we are told we are not good enough unless we strive for whatever society has decided is the flavour of the day, being inspired to once more trust in our own love and our own awareness is indeed a breath of fresh air and so very honouring and empowering.

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Shami
9/3/2016 09:07:38 pm

Serge Benhayon is a great teacher, mainly because he does not assume that what he is presenting is not known by everyone who is hearing it. In actual fact is it very apparent that when he presents it is with the humbleness of knowing that you already know it all and are just re-awakening to the fact. This makes Serge's job that of re-awakening the truth that lives within us all, and maybe this is the role of any true teacher on earth.

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Otto Bathurst
13/3/2016 03:42:03 am

This is so true what you say Shami. And is the sign of a truly great teacher. It is why a presentation from Serge Benhayon is like no other presentation on earth. Because of the absolute equality in which he holds every single human being, we are then all inspired to walk our own steps back to what we already know. Stunning.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:45:54 pm

Beautifully said Shami and Otto.
Shami, I wouldn't hesitate to say that this IS the role of any true teacher – to know that every one of us is ever-learning, and that the same depth of knowing and access to universal truth resides within us all. In this I am inspired, as are so many others, by Serge Benhayon 24/7. He presents true education, founded in our inherent equalness, and blessed by the love that cannot by virtue of its true nature, hold any arrogance of 'I know' (& 'you don't') whatsoever. We ALL know, and what a blessing to receive such an opportunity to re-awaken to our own wisdom through a man such as this. Stunning indeed – beyond measure.

Susan Lee link
12/3/2016 10:51:05 pm

It was beautiful to read your words Victoria, that come with true inspiration - founded on love and integrity and a knowingness of the truth. The world has been truly blessed in the life of Serge Benhayon so as you say 'Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement, and not apologise for stating that yes, such people do walk amongst us'.

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Vicky Cooke
14/3/2016 02:15:16 pm

'My response, and that of many, many others, is a categorical ‘no’ to such an approach. For it is categorically not ok that a man of such calibre, implicit integrity and deep care for all be so willfully tarnished in any way, shape or form. To resort to apathetic blinkered vision would offer no true way forward, for anyone.' Beautifully said Victoria it is absolutely not okay for this to happen to Serge Benhayon or anyone. You are right, we can no longer have and live with a blinkered vision, it simply does not work and it is it okay for any man, woman, child or animal to be abused.

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Emma Danchin
16/3/2016 12:13:40 pm

Indeed, our human condition is such that we have lost trust in ourselves and the world around us, expecting it to hurt and attack us so we remain guarded, protected and ready on defense. Being presented with such solid, loving, consistency and the persistence of the incredible, amazing truth that we so consistently deny, chips away at all this protection until finally we surrender, knowing the truth with faith in humanity restored, and choose too, to live this way alongside Serge Benhayon.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
17/3/2016 12:28:11 pm

I have heard idealistic descriptions of the 'potential' of man so many times and I have enjoyed the ideals but have ended up even more frustrated and disillusioned to see absolutely no one living them. But Serge Benhayon reflects and speaks of qualities far deeper than those I was even aware of before AND he actually lives them! I can not imagine anything more confirming, encouraging and inspiring. And he is a perfect role model through his immense patience, understanding, and absolute love of humanity as well as the unparalleled level of dedication and responsibility he joyfully embraced. Very true Emma. The consistency in Serge Benhayon re-ignites the faith in humanity and inspires walking with the same love beside him.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:52:14 pm

Golnaz, thank-you for articulating so beautifully, something which I have not (as yet) been able to in your words here: "Serge Benhayon reflects and speaks of qualities far deeper than those I was even aware of before AND he actually lives them!"
The qualities lived, breathed and expressed by Serge Benhayon are something that is at once deeply familiar – as in, we all do know such love – and yet, continuously offer a call to go deeper, and deeper than I know I'd wanted to 'think' was possible also. To be honest, I did not want to believe, before meeting him, that such a depth of true love, care and service for all could exist. But here it is, and here we are, letting in its grandness, and opening our own lives to this love, that others too may be so reignited. Wow.

Emma Danchin
16/3/2016 12:14:20 pm

“Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone.”

Serge Benhayon expands the notion of capacity to blindingly bright proportions. So much so that one cannot spend regular time around him without realising that this is what we are here to do.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 05:54:13 pm

Hear, hear Emma – such is the purpose of such deep love lived, to awaken the same in each and every man.

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Emma Danchin
16/3/2016 12:14:53 pm

Yes it is essential to say and say again, that any implication that Serge Benhayon may exhibit inappropriate behaviour towards any person; man, woman or child, is a fallacy beyond proportion because it is in fact, the direct opposite of the truth.

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Heather Pope
1/4/2018 10:26:16 am

I've observed Serge Benhayon for 15 years, both in personal and professional settings. I have never once seen him be inappropriate. Never once.

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Emma Danchin
16/3/2016 12:15:15 pm

To know that it is possible to live in love, that it is not an unattainable ideal, this is worth waking up for.

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Emma Danchin
16/3/2016 12:15:42 pm

“Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement, and not apologise for stating that yes, such people do walk amongst us.”

How lost are we that historically we have consistently sought to bring down those who lead the way with the love of their soul?

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Emma Danchin
16/3/2016 12:16:08 pm

We are all here to be role models and leaders for each other. This responsibility is for each of us to take, to awaken the slumber that we exist in, to show that compromise and sliding values are not it; the absoluteness of our love is.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
16/3/2016 01:27:42 pm

There are so many presenters, practitioners and teachers that are deemed to be successful because they shine in their work and are clearly a head and shoulder above everyone else. The difference with Serge Benhayon is that he inspires and supports everyone so that we all shine together - and it is not conceivable to leave even one person less. The deep love and care with which he holds every single person reflects our true essence and is profoundly inspiring.

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Michelle McWaters
10/4/2016 11:26:07 pm

Yes Golnaz, in my experience many successful presenters, practitioners and teachers identity themselves with the knowledge of what they present. Serge is different because there is not an ounce of arrogance in him - his only identification is with the love in his heart. He doesn't leave anyone behind, has endless patience and knows with every cell in his body that we are all equal, it's just he has been making loving choices for a lot longer and is imbued with the purpose of sharing his wisdom as a result.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:01:38 pm

The hallmark of a true teacher, practitioner and presenter Golnaz. When I met Serge Benhayon, he was often referred to locally as 'the healer's healer' – because he met and treated practitioners who worked with a vast array of modalities, and was able to meet and respond to every one. In this he held not one iota of being 'above' anyone – his humility and at once depth of claimed-ness in what he shared was like none I'd ever met. To that day, I had not met a single practitioner who had held all in such absolute equalness. And I had not met one who didn't want me to put them on a pedestal. Serge's whole philosophy and depth of understanding of what healing truly is stands as testament to this – that it is we, who via a deep choice of our own will, do our own healing. A practitioner merely facilitates and practices the art of supporting this connection. For as Yeshua said, we are the more powerful when 'two or more' gather in His name.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
18/3/2016 12:17:29 pm

In a world most of which does not make much sense at all, it is a blessing to meet someone like Serge Benhayon who through the way he lives and the wisdom he shares, inspires understanding, brotherhood, responsibility and purpose in every aspect of life.

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Leigh Matson
28/3/2016 09:59:08 pm

Its so true what you share here Victoria. We have a world wide plague of mistrust and here we have an example of someone who can be truly trusted. Such mistrust has led to us fighting with each other, not just in wars but in our homes, schools and workplaces. We compete, compare and work against each other even if on the surface we can 'get along'. Even righting the words 'getting along' feels like having accepted less than what trusting each other can bring. In the mistrust and separation the word trust and its true expression has been twisted and lied about. Thank God for Serge Benhayon showing how true trust is lived.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:05:45 pm

Leigh, there is a blog to be written in what you have shared. What is 'true trust'? What lesser versions do we accept by way of 'tolerance', 'getting along', 'keeping the peace'... There is a depth of intimacy we can live with each other, if we are willing to do the work and drop the walls we hold – if we are willing to heal the hurts we harbour, however long they have remained.
For in the end, 'trust' is but a stepping stone to our surrender to love and its true nature, where trust is no longer in the equation, but the love of God is what we live in and through our being.

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jeanette macdonald
30/3/2016 09:21:09 am

Serge Benhayon is truly a gentleman/gentle man, there is much strength in this.

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Shami
30/3/2016 10:56:57 pm

In the modern day relationships between teacher and student there is a lot of room for abuse, as many people can become en-glamoured by the fact that they know something which another person apparently does not. The abuse goes both ways however, coming just as much form the student who places their teacher on an unachievable pedestal almost setting them up to fail or to let them down, forever perpetuating the belief that no one can be truly trusted. Serge Benhayon does not play ball with that kind of thinking what-so-ever, as much as I have tried to create it with him. He remains steady in his knowing that we are equal, which I can feel when I am with him, but do always like because it exposes the waywardness of how I have been living. But again this is just a part of the journey and no self-criticism is required.

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Karin Barea
31/3/2016 09:56:21 am

1. ‘Here is a man who, in knowing him for over 14 years now, has never once said a word, exhibited a behaviour, or in any way, shape or form made me feel that I could not trust him at the deepest level.’
Victoria I can agree with this completely. So deeply harbouring my hurts, I was super weary of everyone. I would detect a slight, an indiscretion, an impropriety a mile off. Serge Benhayon’s consistency has shown me who we truly are. From this, I’ve been able to feel who a person is even when they are not choosing this for themselves. My trust in myself and humanity is growing greatly. Without Serge Benhayon’s consistency I would still be asking the world to change before I allow the world to witness my vulnerability and fragility rather than inspired to be trustworthy myself.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:09:55 pm

Thank-you deeply Karin. You have articulated the whole purpose of this testimonial – yet another living example of what it is to open ourselves to trust, to life, love, God and all again. That we can move beyond our hurts and how they have imprisoned us, and let the true and fragile beauty of our love shine, and be felt by all.
Your words have opened my heart further today, and brought a welcome tear of joy. Thank-you.

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Karin Barea
31/3/2016 09:58:01 am

‘Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement’ Yes, this is so worth celebrating. It is truly amazing. I’ve been so, so inspired to come out of my hole of protection and self-gain when I witness such expressions of true love that are there for us all to feel and celebrate.

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Michelle McWaters
10/4/2016 11:15:12 pm

Agreed Karin - there is no inspiration like feeling and witnessing expressions of true love. This touches us even if not directed exactly at us - an expression of love is an expression for all so the inspiration allows for a lighter feeling and appreciation of self whether that love is witnessed or experienced directly.

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Carmel Reid link
1/4/2016 12:06:24 am

Serge Benhayon teaches us that we can trust ourselves - looking to what we feel as our guide and wisdom instead of only trusting what is outside of us, because much of that is pure illusion.

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Carmel Reid link
2/4/2016 08:52:20 pm

The Micro is indeed reflected in the Macro - when we judge the evil that is happening in the world, we can look to our own lives and see there is a similar thing we do ourselves - maybe not so extreme, but it is the same energy. So our outside lives truly reflect how we ourselves are living and only by choosing differently in our micro lives, paying attention to details, will the outer world begin to change. It starts with us.

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Sarah Flenley
5/4/2016 12:58:41 pm

So much to love about what you have shared and all of it I agree with and especially that coming to Universal Medicine and meeting Serge Benhayon, I have also completely changed my relationship with men. I am so less wary these days and much more open to seeing men as the tender loving beings that they are.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:12:47 pm

I will second that Sarah Flenley. My relationships with men have also transformed, as I have, with the support of Serge Benhayon and the Universal Medicine therapies he has founded, come to acknowledge the hurts I had harboured, and heal them at the deepest level.

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Michelle McWaters
9/4/2016 09:09:26 pm

"This is what the ‘headlines’ should be celebrating. That here is a man who can be truly trusted, who is inspiring many, many people to live with such deep integrity, deep care and love in our societies today. And yes, amongst all the cavernous separation, pain and abuse that exists." I heartedly agree Victoria.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
12/4/2016 07:48:13 am

Yes. Instead of the fabricated or blown up tales of the lack of care and love prevalent throughout society, or gossip is newsworthy, what a delightful and inspiring true story to tell “That here is a man who can be truly trusted, who is inspiring many, many people to live with such deep integrity, deep care and love in our societies today” and he has been living this way for a long time and shares and offers insights and wisdom that offer support to live that in today’s demanding, intense and full-of-abuse world.

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Carmel Reid link
9/4/2016 09:23:51 pm

'Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take. Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs. For such greatness in love and offering of a consistent quality that can be completely trusted is the greatest teacher there is.' These words are beautiful and a gentle reminder that we too can lead by example.

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Mariette Reineke
10/4/2016 07:17:42 am

There is such a lack of trust in the world, in ourselves and in others. We need men like Serge Benhayon who reflect back that deep trust and that from that trust, we can surrender to life and truly live a life of truth and love.

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Shami
14/4/2016 08:44:44 pm

Throughout history there have been many great teachers of life. There is a clear and definite lineage for this work and Serge Benhayon is amongst some of the greatest teachers to have walked this earth.

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Victoria Warburton
30/4/2016 06:16:27 pm

That there is Shami. And I for one also, do not hesitate to 'shout from the rooftops' that in Serge Benhayon, we have a true teacher for humanity – one whose work will stand for all time, and offer the deepest inspiration directly, for many, many generations to come.

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Lucy Dahill
3/5/2016 11:04:57 am

Beautifully expressed Victoria, "Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement, and not apologise for stating that yes, such people do walk amongst us. For in so doing we open the door to our true nature which does hold such a greatness of love." This is no to be criticised but appreciated and celebrated as inspirational.

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Heather Pope
1/4/2018 10:30:14 am

The wonder of a man who is willing to lead the way with love, tenderness and a wisdom beyond this world is something I will always hold dear, and will never hold back from sharing with the world.

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Jade Jamieson
3/5/2016 12:31:40 pm

Exquisite Victoria, your words truly represent Serge Benhayon the man and the true quality and integrity with which he lives. I stand with you in celebrating, appreciating and loving all this man offers with every fibre of his being. He inspires me and so many to live the all that we are.

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jenny McGee
3/5/2016 07:53:23 pm

Before I met Serge Benhayon whose integrity is of the highest order, I held the world and others to ransom because of my distrust and cynicism. I now understand that I can trust my own energetic discernment of what is true or not and do not have to write off the few that are so hurt that they lash out at others.

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James Nicholson
4/5/2016 01:02:51 am

Well said Victoria. Serges' consistency and dedication has also helped to rebuild my trust in humanity. I had pretty much given up on people. I find that people let us down when we have an expectation upon them and if we do only few deliver. Whereas with Serge he has delivered way beyond any expectation I could ever have had. As Serge has said many a time 'everything matters' and with this we can also build a consistency and also bring trust back to others.

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Susan Green
4/5/2016 02:34:17 pm

Love and Truth in all of its Grandness walks among us now. His name is Serge Benhayon.

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:43:31 am

The meaning of love and truth as been redefined (back to its true origins) by Serge Benhayon. He is the living embodiment of both.

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Lorraine
4/5/2016 09:18:21 pm

Great questions to ask ourselves Victoria, I know before I met Serge Benhayon that my answers would have been no. I did not trust full stop, and I had no idea how to truly love myself and love humanity, I have since been building trust and love, and so much more. ‘how many of us truly and deeply TRUST in humanity, in each other? How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love? Not for selfish gain, but for the raising of awareness and evolution of all’

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Fumiyo Egashira
5/5/2016 02:22:13 pm

That attitude of ‘take no heed’ – was the one I used to take, telling myself ‘I am bigger than that’ etc. while I found it impossible to contain my hurt, and I actually admired those who could take it on their chin seemingly more easily than I tried. I used to think that was a ‘grown-up’ way of dealing with things like cyber-abuse. So, when it was presented to me that not calling out the abuse was adding to it, I was taken aback, and realised the depth of compromise we have been allowing to sink ourselves very low into the lovelessness of the way of the world we see everywhere. Serge Benhayon makes sense of the world and life like no other – sure that stirs up things in many, and it's up to us to agree, disagree or critisize, but what he has been presenting and living is the truth of what we are and where we all are heading, and yes, celebrate that we now have a living example here on Earth, but no – never, ever attack or abuse.

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Fumiyo Egashira
5/5/2016 02:31:42 pm

“How many of us truly and deeply TRUST in humanity, in each other? How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love?” – these are great questions. I know for myself, life was about upping my skills on protection and survival, there was no place for trusting anyone or myself, trusting in humanity was not in my vocabulary, it seemed rather naïve. And to see in Serge Benhayon, how I could also be with myself, and with others was has touched me very deeply. I have known that the way of the world was not working, but to see and feel we all had power to start making difference has changed the meaning of life for me completely.

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Jonathan Stewart
7/5/2016 10:36:36 am

"I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love." No words can truly express the gratitude I, and so many people, have for Serge Benhayon.

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Simon Williams
7/5/2016 09:01:31 pm

'Enter Serge Benhayon – a complete game-changer in this world of fractured relationships'. This is a great sentence, very powerful and direct, and speaking as another person that has been so inspired by my friendship with Serge, 100% accurate. And he carries this incredible way about him with no hint of arrogance, but an absolute equality, showing me and so many others that we can all live this way.

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Felix Schumacher link
7/5/2016 09:28:18 pm

When we connect to truth there is an unwavering knowing that is so still, nothing on earth could falter this. That's how I know the truth about Serge Benhayon. And I am grateful for people like you, Victoria, who express poetically and straight forward for all to read who Serge Benhayon is.

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Naren Duffy
8/5/2016 12:50:01 pm

I have been inspired to explore love in my life in a way that I had never even considered before meeting Serge Benhayon. The way he presents on the subject of love is from such a deep knowing of the subject that it is impossible not to stop and reassess what we settle for as love and consider what true love actually means.

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alisonmoir
9/5/2016 09:51:54 pm

Thank you Victoria, super powerful testimonial to a man who is changing the world, Serge Benhayon has certainly changed my life and countless others.The futility of hate and jealousy of a few to try to bring him down does not measure up to the amount of love that he offers humanity. As hard as they may try may try to silence him, love is the only way forward and Serge has this in bucket loads.

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Luke Yokota
10/5/2016 04:12:14 am

And we need people who are solid in their commitment to life and people. For these people are the one's who allow us to trust once again.

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:45:56 am

Serge Benhayon is a role model of respect, honour and love, and in that we all know we too are that and can live that way. This is the ultimate trust builder, that we can trust ourselves.

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Henrietta Chang
10/5/2016 12:58:35 pm

Victoria, just the start of your testimonial says it all - we cannot turn a blind eye to the nastiness that we can see happening around us as this will not make it go away. It is important that we say NO categorically to this - be this as a single person standing up alone to say no, or be it as a group where we stand together united. In the end it all begins with one person standing up and the rest follow. But the NO must come resoundingly and felt from the body - for this is the only way that we can put an end to such things that should never have begun, behaviours that are not supportive of another.

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Loretta Rappos link
10/5/2016 01:55:25 pm

Serge is such an amazing world teacher showing us all another way of living that has it's foundation from love, were no hurts can enter. He brings a wealth of wisdom and is tirelessly committed to the harmony and evolution of the world.
I too " thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love."

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Rowena Stewart
10/5/2016 10:15:51 pm

"Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. Serge Benhayon brings it in spades." It is what we are all looking for and personally speaking the trust I was wanting from the outside world I realized actually begins with me trusting me. Serge Benhayon has empowered thousands of people, you and me included to restore the trust within our selves through the unerring trust he has in himself. The consistency with which Serge lives this is awesome, a constant beacon of integrity and trust in a topsy-turvy world. Serge commands a strong and steady reference point that empowers so many to restore our own trust so we too can hold a steady course for other people too. One cannot wish for a more trust worthy role model or true friend than Serge Benhayon.

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Lucy Duffy
11/5/2016 06:22:51 am

This is such a powerful article Victoria. Have you ever felt to run for office? You and Serge Benhayon on the same ticket would get my vote without a moments hesitation. I am in awe of the self-less work Serge Benhayon does and has done consistently and unwaveringly in the 10 years I have had the honour to know him. I too thank god every day I met him for his reflection has given me the strength and courage to change my life so I too can offer a reflection for another who may be lost in the fog.
"Let’s celebrate and not denigrate those who lead the way without one iota of seeking self-gain or aggrandisement, and not apologise for stating that yes, such people do walk amongst us. For in so doing we open the door to our true nature which does hold such a greatness of love. It’s time to stop shying away from the fact, drop the walls and commit to healing what hinders the expression of our love, and let it be known."

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Rebecca Briant
11/5/2016 09:56:33 am

Thank you for your sharing Victoria, and i totally agree - in Serge I have seen a consistence of love and integrity that enables me to trust him completely in a world that does not teach true trust - just the fact we spend billions of pounds on weaponry to defend ourselves from each other is proof that not matter how intelligent we are, we are acting from a lack of trust on the small and big scales. In my degree I have been learning about the increase in gated housing and communities, as more people seek safety behind walls and security fences. And yet in doing so the mistrust is only increased, as is the separation. When a man is teaching people to have truly loving and trusting relationships I think it is worth listening to.

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Eduardo Feldman
12/5/2016 07:15:35 am

There are two classes of people: those that know everything about “walling” and who believes that this is the way things should be, everyone protected, wary of the other, mistrusting just in case, and those whose love radiates so intense that makes you stop and wonder what do you need a wall for and help you if you so wish un-walling so you start knowing more of you, sharing more of you and feeling the others who hide behind the self-created walls.
Serge Benhayon is an architect of love.

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Amina Tumi
12/5/2016 08:05:39 pm

The word trust can often bring up much in people and this is something that I too can very much relate to, as after all we live in a world where trust is not at the forefront of our relationships. One day though we will all need to come back to this way of living and it is as Serge Benhayon has demonstrated by is living way the way. Learning to trust others comes from understanding that we are all one and the same however we make different choices depending on our unresolved issues that then lead to us making choices that are not supportive of ourselves or others.

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:44:32 am

The inner trust is what we firstly need. To trust we will honour ourselves and be the person we know ourselves to be.

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Emily Newman
13/5/2016 12:37:02 pm

What you point out here Victoria is amazing. The world is filled with distrust. You can see it in everyday interaction. And then here Serge is, who lives so much love, that really, trust is a given as he reminds us all of who we are and the care that we deserve.

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Simon Voysey
13/5/2016 03:01:38 pm

“Our societies and relationships today are plagued with a congenital level of distrust.” Could it be as simply as Victoria share, that this mistrust, protection and whole way of living it creates could be a product of not trusting our feeling to discern what is really going on? Is it possible that we all do feel and know the truth, but avoid it because of existing clinging on to values and ideals that allow us to happily dismiss truth as inconvenient so we can ‘get on’ with life and is this the true reason why illness, disease and all sorts of abuse are escalating? Serge Benhayon cares enough to ask these questions. Many have cared to pursue the answers and have found them to be true. I am one of them and in no way feel special or separate from humanity. But I do feel empowered to make a difference, thanks to Serge Benhayon.

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Nico van Haastrecht
13/5/2016 07:04:37 pm

I completely agree with you Victoria that it is important to share about the enormity what Serge Benhayon is presenting in all that he is and does and nothing for himself but always in service for all of humanity. How extraordinary is that as not many people on this earth do show that level of integrity and care for humanity as a whole.

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Tricia Nicholson
13/5/2016 07:45:35 pm

Thank you Victoria for your beautiful strong and true testimonial on Serge Benhayon which I support and agree with whole heartedly. He is an amazing man who allows humanity to truly trust again by his absolute consistency,honesty, integrity and love that never falters and is steadfast strong and forever expanding to support us all . He is the world role model and reflection of who we truly are and where we come from, Allowing Trust to be restored for us all.

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Lieke Campbell
14/5/2016 12:34:08 am

"For I have been inspired to ‘get it right’ at these most fundamental levels in my life, that is, be responsible for making the real deal of love the bottom line" Well said Victoria, love is the fundament of our lives and should be treated as such with our actions and movements.

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Heather Pope
1/4/2018 10:27:39 am

Making the real deal of love the bottom line opens the door to no end of understanding, care and respect. It opens the door to a life well lived which is all any of us really want.

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Hannah Morden
14/5/2016 11:57:09 am

Victoria - you ask here if we are really willing to take responsibility in our own homes and behind closed doors, and straight away individualism pops up for me. How we have isolated our lives to prevent connecting with other people when really we are all connected first and foremost and it cannot be switched off. And in this, if we are irresponsible in the comfort of our own home, the correction that needs to happen can be to someone else, because this shows us that we are all connected and we cannot have this 'self'. What Serge Benhayon presents and lives is love and responsibility, none of which can exist in cyber abuse or smear campaigns. Your testimonial shares so beautifully the gift that we all have access too.

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Monica Gillooly
14/5/2016 12:49:13 pm

Victoria, this is such a stunning testimonial and it says much of you and your relationship with Serge - it also asks us how we live and love each other and offers a model for what true love is as exemplified by what Serge offered you and all those he meets equally. To know there is such a rock in the world who loves without question or expectation is huge for all of us, and to stand by and allow someone like this to be abuse is not on, and diminishes all of us. Thank you for clearly expressing all that Serge offers and how through him you and many of us have learned to trust in love and humanity again, and that is a miracle for many of us, one not to be lightly dismissed especially given how our world is today.

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Anne Hart
14/5/2016 08:09:50 pm

Victoria I wholeheartedly agree that what Serge Benhayon offers is worth shouting from the rooftops. You express beautifully, the many qualities that he brings, but I pause at but one phrase 'Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. Serge Benhayon brings it in spades.' Trust is something I am slowly building within myself but I can say without hesitation that I trusted Serge Benhayon from our first meeting, and every move and every movement and word I have observed in the 12 years since that time has confirmed and deepened that trust. It is not blind trust, but it is felt with very particle of my body and because of it I am rebuilding trust in God and seeing how I have walked away from Love in the past.

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Deborah McKay
15/5/2016 03:03:24 am

"Trust is built by such unwavering consistency.
​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades."
We are absolutely blessed to have such a man walking amongst us. He has absolutely by example set the benchmark of what's possible in all relationships, how to nurture and care for ourselves and others, commit to life and how to take responsibility for healing our hurts that are the basis for the harm we cause to ourselves and others, to live with vitality, joy and consistency - that all of this and so much more is possible

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Rowena Stewart
16/5/2016 12:54:58 pm

"Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take. Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs." I agree Victoria, what Serge offers us in the ability to connect to the purpose and power of our potential and restore the true values to life once more, trustworthy role models that all can look to for a solid reflection of integrity, respect and inspiration, much needed qualities in a world that is rapidly deteriorating.

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Heather Pope
17/5/2016 09:13:29 am

I observed Serge Benhayon for a long time before I could say without reservation: I trust him with my life. His consistency is beyond question and it is this exceptional consistency combined with his total love of humanity that means we have a role model for the world in Serge.

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Sylvia
18/5/2016 11:24:05 am

No matter what Serge Benhayon holds you in his deep lived love. He judgement nobody even nit when they attack him with cyberabuse. He is for sure the biggest gift humanity could wish for to walk amongst us to present us with his teachings the way forward.

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Helen Giles
19/5/2016 11:55:31 am

Thanks Victoria for such a loving and accurate testimonial on Serge Benhayon. As you and others say, the steady love and openness to all that Serge lives day in day out is remarkable and has certainly been the inspiration behind many beneficial changes I have made in my life. Studying how he lives shows us all what is indeed possible at both the individual level and for humanity.

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Joseph Barker
19/5/2016 03:02:48 pm

How is it we take so lightly the consistency and integrity Serge Benhayon brings? How is it we take for granted the simple and revealing presentation he makes? How come we let his beauty be assaulted by lies, accusations and angry 'how comes?'. Perhaps because we are yet to cherish and honour this truth in us? Its this honouring and deep appreciation I feel in your words Victoria, and the way Serge is too - it all inspires me to remember when I care for me, I naturally care and support others too.

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ARIANA RAY
20/5/2016 10:39:17 am

'Serge Benhayon – a complete game-change' and that he is without doubt. All the time it comes back to his livingness. How he lives - the integrity and love - he brings this in equal measure to everyone he meets. He is never one way for some people and a totally different way with others, his consistency and steadiness is legendary. He is a legend in his own time, for bringing truth and thank God he did, for without him the world would be bereft.

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Leigh Strack
22/5/2016 02:02:32 pm

Victoria,
It is articles like you have written here that our newspapers and other media could greatly serve humanity if they were to print them. Then to research them and print the findings. What a difference this would be to the constant barrage of articles that simple vilify humanity in one form or another. No matter what article I have read in the newspaper lately, there is a flavor of blame, with little to no responsibility, understanding or true way of moving forward and really improving the life of humanity. What Serge Benhayon presents does this and more.

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Katerina Nikolaids
24/5/2016 03:26:42 pm

This line Victoria struck me in particular re-reading your awesome testimonial today: 'How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love?' So very very few and hence the disharmony and abuse that is allowed and normalised in society today.
And then you have a man like Serge Benhayon who as you say is the absolute game-changer to this madness we have created and there are attempts to vilify him and shut everything he represents down. What this says about the society in which we live is no less than tragic. In truth we have moved on very little from the barbaric times of old. All we've really done is changed how this looks -- more polished, more high-tech, more subtle. The lovelessness however remains.

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shami
24/5/2016 09:28:32 pm

What strikes me most about cyber-abuse, which Victoria has explained very well, is how normal it has become - to the extent that is goes undefined when it is taking place. So anyone could be appearing to live a regular life, with no real drama to be seen and all the while they are at the hands of abusive behaviour on the internet. Surely this is very wrong, not only because of the abuse itself, but because of the insidious and quite secretive nature of it.

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Candida Rudd
25/5/2016 05:26:15 am

Till meeting Serge Benhayon 6 years ago, I hadn't experienced what true love and trust in a relationship was because none of my relationships, including that to myself contained this at it's core. I had levels of this yes but not the unwavering consistency that you talk of Victoria that Serge lives by, that can be fully felt on meeting him by how he is with everyone time and time again. This line really stood out to me, "such people do walk amongst us." Ahh that's beautiful. Reading this my whole body let's go and I thank God for this absolute truth, felt throughout me, that can be felt and accessed by anyone at anytime, pulling us all up to who we really are. Knowing there are those walking the earth, living a true life with love at their core, reminds me and everyone everyday, it's possible for all of us to be this way and from this consistency many, including myself are inspired daily to live our lives more and more this way. Thank you Victoria. Thank you Serge. This is the real story to print, the gold he's brings to the world. The rest is just a smoke screen.

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Sarah Schürch
25/5/2016 08:48:59 pm

Very beautifully expressed Candida and so true.

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Jonathan Stewart
26/5/2016 12:24:45 am

As you so rightly say Victoria, " it is categorically not ok that a man of such calibre, implicit integrity and deep care for all be so willfully tarnished in any way, shape or form." What Serge Benhayon brings and presents is truly amazing and challenges so many ideas and beliefs that are the foundation of so much of society today. What he presents asks us to question our way of living but he does not dictate to anyone how to be. Instead what is asked of us is to take responsibility for our actions and the consequences of them both for ourselves and others. Consequently many people do not like to hear, see or accept this as to do so it confronts their comfort, lifestyle and position of power. However, instead of questioning and challenging what is presented they make it about the person. They attack the messenger not the message and by doing so they do not have to look at their own responsibility in the situation. This is what Esther Rockett, Lance Martin and et al are doing and it is "categorically not ok'.

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Vicky Cooke
26/5/2016 10:06:31 pm

Far too long have we (humanity) stayed silent with abuse, brushed things off, not spoken up or claimed the truth we know to be true deep within. I can feel how by being in this silence it has stopped me from living fully, bringing everything I have to bring and truly expressing as well as being all the love I am. It is being submissive to an energy that has not one once of love in it and whose intentions are to keep the illusion of life going and all around in misery. I agree we should absolutely Celebrate Serge Benhayon and all true leaders who live what they teach and live in a way for the all holding true evolution in their hearts. There is no longer room for the silence to remain.

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Sandra Schneider
30/5/2016 11:21:17 pm

Really Victoria - do I TRUST in humanity? You are kidding. Off cause I don't. All this arrogant, greed, brutality, horror, misunderstanding, ignoring, illusions and glamour - how could I? But than this man came along and did let me realize how much of all of this what I thought I withdraw from lies inside of me as well. I am arrogant, ignoring and bring no understanding - so how can understanding, love, harmony, trust, honoring and so on be in the world if I do not bring it?! Serge Benhayon presents Responsibility and so as well where I do not take mine. This is sometimes very very uncomfortable, but always a blessing. I am asked to learn, asked to develop, asked to expand. My choice to do so or not. That others are reacting to this offer with bullying and hate-campaigns shows how much power lies in our choices and how much we as a society avoid to take our responsibility about this.

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leigh Matson
2/6/2016 10:03:50 pm

Serge Benhayon presents that not matter what harm may come his or another's way that love is greater than any of these expressions. Try as we might to pretend that we can be crushed by such harms what this man reflects is that we are and can choose to be who we truly are which is far stronger than the lovelessness that has thus far been claimed and falsely adopted as who we are.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 12:14:49 pm

Love does actually conquer all, but not the romantic notions of love, the love that is steady within each and every one of us.

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Kerstin Salzer
3/6/2016 02:20:36 am

'Trust is built by such unwavering consistency.
​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades.'
The world feels so inconsistant and often weak. To have a reflection what consitancy means for us and how it changes our lifes in the way Serge Benhayon is living it is deeply healing and touching. It gives a stability in the body which is worth more than any money could pay.

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Kathryn Fortuna
4/6/2016 01:06:50 pm

This testimony is an absolute joy to read and feel. Victoria your words offer us all an understanding of a deeply inspiring man and in turn reflect an amazing woman in yourself.
Serge Benhayon represents our future and as far as I am concerned I will be there. :)

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Danna Elmalah
5/6/2016 12:21:31 pm

This is amazing, thank you so much Victoria, incredible writing of truth. And what you say is 100% how I feel, the greatest love is to never measure but give your All. And this is what Serge does. No limits because of hurts, simply being him and loving all. This is the point in my life, were I got to understand and trust that harmony truly exists in human life. Thank you Serge Benhayon.

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mary sanford
10/6/2016 09:24:19 pm

The way the Serge Benhayon has conducted himself through the three years of the torrent of abuse hurled at him is quite remarkable. He has the greatest understanding of humanity and the games people play. He understands the hurt that these people are expressing from, that said we need to clean up the internet because it is becoming more and more a forum where people can just vent the anger and their abusive ways without being called to account for their actions. In other words there they are not being held responsible for their actions. Serge Benhayon has shown me that responsibility and the choices we make are hugely important in our lives,it has helped me to see that we as humanity are not being responsible for the choices we make, we are out of balance with ourselves and life.

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Caroline Francis
10/6/2016 10:05:50 pm

A joy to read Victoria. It takes me deeper in feeling my responsibility here on earth and how I am with myself or not in every single moment is reflected in the 'macro'.

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Caroline Francis
10/6/2016 10:27:33 pm

To call out lovingly that which is not love is nothing but the true meaning of the word love in action. What I have observed recently about myself is that the more I call out that which is not true in what is going on around me in my every day the more I am being offered to call out that which is not true on a slightly bigger scale which I am realising is testing my levels of comfort!

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Heather Pope
1/4/2018 10:33:00 am

The knowing of what is love and not love is a giant step, and the expression of that when needed is a path we all have open to us.

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Rowena Stewart
11/6/2016 09:36:28 pm

What I have come to deeply appreciate with Serge Benhayon is his consistent quality of honesty, care, respect and integrity, qualities he firmly embodies and holds strong to. These qualities are then supported by what he says, so that the trust that he engenders is not done so just by being true to his word, the trust arises first from the quality of his movement and actions. What he says simply confirms his trustworthiness. This is uncommon in this world, so many of us work to gain one another's trust by what we say, which leaves a gap we can all feel between the 'walking' and the 'talking'. Serge has joined up the dots and in walking his talk leaves in his wake a quality we are all longing to re-establish within our selves, a dependable safety and judgment free zone that fosters true understanding, awareness and appreciation. And he makes it his life's work to support people to restore our own trustworthiness by teaching us how to heal the hurts, dissolve the walls of protection and walk our talk once more.

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Ariana Ray
14/6/2016 11:31:50 am

The title of this blog almost sounds too good to be true, but what I know of this man tells me that is not the case. He is everything and more of what is talked about here and such truth is that
'Trust is built by such unwavering consistency.
​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades."

It's the commitment to that consistency and truth that blew me away many years ago when I first met Serge Benhayon, here was a man who walked his walk and spoke nothing that he didn't live. Still today he remains committed to consistency and truth and that he does bring in spades too. He is a man all men can be, a man of men. His sensitivity and love is unwavering and his inspiration is transformational.

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Stephanie Stevenson
15/6/2016 06:00:36 am

And what a bright and glorious beacon Serge Benhayon is, reflecting his beam 360 degrees like a grand lighthouse on a rocky and dangerous shoreline for people to see the way back to their true home.
"I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love."

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Hannah Morden
15/6/2016 09:12:22 pm

It is so true that we have a deep mistrust in humanity. That we are guarded in a sense that even our most intimate relationships can be something we might not fully surrender too 'just in case'. i am familiar with this and walked around very protected from people just in case I would get hurt or rejected. But as you so beautifully share here Victoria, Serge Benhayon is one such man that is absolutely open and delivered everything with love. A holding love that is honest and does not hold back. He walks the talk, and what an amazing reflection this has been.

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Jane Torvaney
16/6/2016 10:50:31 pm

Victoria, your beautiful testimonial moved me to tears when I read it. Through Serge Benhayon's enormous love we are offered the reflection that we too are from this same love and this is what I felt the first time I met him. No ra ra moments, just a quiet sense of coming home to something deep inside me that had been waiting patiently for my return.

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Jonathan Stewart
18/6/2016 07:57:22 pm

Serge Benhayon truly breaks the mold of the typical images of 'being a man'. Instead he is the living embodiment of being the true expression of 'being a man'. I say this as he has no external identifications, no airs or graces, no pretentions to be someone or something. He is just totally himself - tender, loving, powerful, humble, open and with complete integrity. A role model for all men.

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Kerstin Salzer
22/6/2016 07:37:58 pm

'...Serge Benhayon – a complete game-changer in this world of fractured relationships. And I do not say this lightly.'
I absolutely agree, Victoria, his presence, the way he lives life and his relationships inspires everbody. His love is so huge and includes everybody, which is the absolute foundation for any relationship.

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Luke Yokota
25/6/2016 01:28:34 am

The analogy of a waterfall consistently running to be the key factor in shaping the land in which the the stream flows.

Consistency may be one of the strongest elements on this earth...

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David Nicholson
29/6/2016 09:27:16 pm

Serge is the first person that i felt I could deeply trust, every meeting, situation and experience I've had since meeting him over 12 years ago has confirmed that trust. As a result I have made many changes in my life, built a foundation of life that is based on truth, on love and of deepening my personal connection with myself. I am in a completely different place today than the path I was treading was taking in my early 20's. There is indeed a story here that needs to be heard, a man who truly lives for humanity.

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Jonathan Stewart
30/6/2016 08:26:14 pm

You are completely correct Victoria in that it is not OK to 'turn a blind-eye' to the hate campaign by a tiny few against Serge Benhayon. If we tolerate such behaviour we are condoning and allowing hate and evil to pervade our society. It is now time to say 'no' to such behaviour, expose it where it exists and show that there is a different and loving way to be. This is what Serge Benhayon is doing - showing through a lived example that it is possible to live love openly and transparently.

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Hannah Morden
1/7/2016 09:44:15 pm

Victoria what you share here about Serge Benhayon and how he is with the world is exactly how I know him to be. We have a gift before us of someone who is paving the way and showing us the importance of transparency, responsibility and love. And that we can all be that equally so. I stand beside you to say that tarnishing his name in the media is not OK because it is so far from the truth of who I know this man to be.

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mary sanford
2/7/2016 10:06:30 pm

I have read some of the foul abuse directed at Serge Benhayon and the students from 2 of the trolls that stalk the student body. The 2 people involved pretend there are more people involved by writing under different names and they feed off each others vile out pouring trying to out do one another in how to be gross and abusive. This leads me to wonder what type of people they really are and they seem to be very hurt and angry people venting their frustration at a group of people that they secretly envy. And so the abuse is one of jealousy that there is a community of people who are living in harmony with themselves and each other, are willing to work on themselves so that they can bring love into the family life and all those around them. They are not that many people that are doing this. This way of life is bound to bring up a lot of questions within people who are looking on the outside in as it where. And many people would wish to have this love and understanding too. But it does take a lot of hard work and effort to start off with, and some people are not prepared to do this so instead try to ridicule what is a beautiful way to live. Really it's as simple as that these trolls are reacting out of jealousy of something they would love to have but cannot be bothered to put in any effort to achieve the level of love the student body has with each other and their communities.

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Kerstin Salzer
3/7/2016 10:30:46 pm

Serge Benhayon is a man who despite any attack does not stop loving everybody equally even his attackers. He is consistant and disciplined, clear and with his dedication to love a roele model for everybody. I deeply appreciate to know him and feel his immense love innall of his presentations and writings.

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Victoria Arnanz link
5/7/2016 11:29:56 pm

No matter what is saying about Serge Benhayon, bad or good, this is not relevant for him. He keeps the connection with the Source, which provides Love, Harmony and Joy to him and equally to every one is open to receive. His life is everything but personal and this is why he is so consistent. When I am going to write that I love him eternally I realize that there is nobody there to love, he is Love expressing itself through a surrended body.

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Kristy
6/7/2016 01:21:49 pm

I grew up in a religion that spoke of love but it was always something external and practical ways to bring that into daily life were never spoken of. There was this idea that those who were part of this religion were 'special' and that others who weren't were ignorant. However, I never saw true love as an expression within that church- it was rules and doctrine but not genuine warm open-heartedeness for all- which is what I knew God to be- when Serge Benhayon speaks of love it comes with the warmth of his lived expression which is in line with the truth I have always known.

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mary sanford
7/7/2016 11:10:58 am

"This is a great question to ask of us all
And so, the question must be asked, how many of us truly and deeply TRUST in humanity, in each other? How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love? Not for selfish gain, but for the raising of awareness and evolution of all – that we may actually have the opportunity of building towards getting things right, at the most fundamental levels of how we relate to each other."
I have to be honest and say I didn't trust in Humanity or myself. Finding the presentations and workshops of Serge Benhayon has changed all this. What Serge says makes complete sense to me and many others, so much so that I have found it was worth changing the way I lived my life. I could never contemplate going back to my old ways of living.

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Rebecca Briant
8/7/2016 03:03:04 am

I agree Victoria, it is not okay nor will it ever be okay for such abuse to go on - if no one says anything then how will it change and how will these people learn that they cannot lie and abuse people.

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Gina Dunlop
10/7/2016 12:06:48 pm

A heaven-sent testimonial Victoria in which you encapsulate the root cause behind the often shocking history of human life to date on earth - a lack of love then trust. An inspiring piece and powerful testimonial on a man who stands for truth and love. "Knowing Serge Benhayon has shown me the power of the capacity we all have to be committed to love with an absoluteness that can be trusted to the bone." Thank you Victoria for saying what so many wish to express about Serge and so much more. Phenomenal.

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Heather Pope
10/7/2016 02:32:48 pm

Serge Benhayon is a truly great man in every sense of the word. The life changing works he offers the world will be heralded long after he has passed, but for now they are heralded here.

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Caroline Francis
12/7/2016 10:43:16 pm

I agree Victoria, it is time to celebrate those that are leading the way and not shy away from doing so. I have kept silent and hid for too long in protection and now as I write these words I shed a few tears from the abuse of living in this way. It is time to speak up, call it out for what it is and it is inspiring blogs like this written from one's livingness in standing for truth that bring about true healing and change. Thank you Victoria.

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Simon Voysey
16/7/2016 09:55:51 pm

Shouted from the rooftops indeed, for it is remarkable for a man to be so dedicated to his fellow man and remain so humble and continue to bring such enormous love, understanding and commitment of his time and energy, despite the vicious cyber bullying campaign waged against him for over three years now.

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Naren Duffy
21/7/2016 11:26:51 pm

When you know the truth, it is your responsibility to speak out when lies are spread about that truth, otherwise we add to the lie.

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mary sanford
26/7/2016 09:27:12 pm

There is so much hurt in this world, we could say that to some degree we are all hurting, from being bullied at school not understood by our parents and family, misunderstood by our work colleagues and friends.
so to met someone like Serge Benhayon who support everyone to let go of their hurts is quite remarkable, I have been fully supported to let go of my hurts and the transformation to my life is beyond anything I could of hoped for. It hasn't been all plain sailing I have worked hard and there have been some exposing times that have been in my face and quite painful to deal with support I have got through those moments and am feeling content with myself and the world. The biggest word I am learning through this re discovery of me is Responsibility for everything I do and if I can be responsible and honest with myself which is growing into the most amazing self love affair that is naturally reflected to everyone else I meet. In just the same way that Serge Benhayon reflects to us all his deep commitment to himself and all others.

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Shami Duffy
31/7/2016 12:36:46 am

The lack of trust there is between men and women as a regular and normal way to be, need not in fact be there at all. Serge Benhayon has shown me this by how he does not play ball with the hurts and just meets each woman for the person that she is. No matter the issue they bring to him, they are met with equal regard. This is very inspiring for many men who perhaps feel that they are ill equipped to handle the pressures that can come from some women who are so hurt and distrustful that they can make it almost impossible to have a relationship with them. In addition though, the unwavering way that Serge has with meeting people is also very inspiring for women too, because how often do we feel the advances of a desiring man and feel that we have no choice? Serge shows us that man or woman, we can always remain true to ourselves.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
9/8/2016 03:51:18 am

This is a beautiful testimonial to indeed a great man who has been for so long firmly and consistently holding the beacon of love, truth and divine purpose, so that humanity can know without any shadow of a doubt that each of us are also of the same essence, equal Sons of God and we too can choose to live with that same level of love, transparency and responsibility and be a beacon that is so sorely needed in our world.

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Ariana Ray
9/8/2016 10:47:05 pm

I love that you write this blog 'in honour of a truly great man.' The inspiration he offers for us to live in a way that is true and fulfilling our potential, we can too, live in a way that shows just how much we have been inspired. He lives truth and integrity in each moment and we can do this too. There is nothing that can hold us back but ourselves. Nothing exists in this world that can hold that back. The joy of knowing that is incredible. For we can live in honour of ourselves.

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Rebecca Briant
10/8/2016 02:37:32 am

Sticking our head in the sand to the abuse that occurs in the world will never stop it, and turning a blind eye to it in our own lives is effectively dismissing it everywhere as not worth tackling. The integrity of Serge Benhayon has been felt by hundreds of people and this deserves just as much representation and air time as is being given to the lies.

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Ariana Ray
14/8/2016 06:11:16 am

It's good to ask why anyone would want to give all their energy to besmirching the Benhayon name and to attack with such vitriol and persistence . Given the phenomenal quality Serge Benhayon lives his live with, to want to 'take that down' suggests enormous jealousy. We know that this all started with the break up of a marriage to an abusive partner, and still that revengeful partner continues to live by his revenge. It appears that he is now so consumed with his need for revenge that it owns him. While his partner goes from strength to strength as do we all. It must be very galling for him. But so good to continuously expose the vitriol for what it is and tell the truth of what is going on here.

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David Nicholson
17/8/2016 10:27:34 pm

I can hand on heat say that Serge is someone that I trust completely, he has always, from the 1st moment I met him, shown me I can trust him, he has never even given me a hint of anything other than that complete trust. Just reflecting on that today shows the great inspiration I've received from him, and the resulting choices I've made to turn my life into what I have today.

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Fiona Lotherington
23/8/2016 01:44:55 pm

2. Serge Benhayon does stand as a beacon in dark times, but not as one who is brighter than we are, just as a reminder that we are all that light equally. This light is unwavering shone, despite all that comes to disturb it. I find this incredibly inspiring, as I waver and dim my light at times, but see the ease, joy and purpose in which this can be done. Years ago I recall Serge presenting that, ‘Love always wins’. I see this in the way Serge Benhayon lives, always making it about love and people. Through him I can feel that if we stay steady and true to love it cannot ever be touched or tarnished.

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Ariana Ray
28/8/2016 11:02:11 am

Imagine if someone came up to us while we were shopping, in a cafe with our children or even in our home and they started accusing us of all manner of things, swearing and bad mouthing in public, in front of everyone, what do we do? Do we say 'don't listen,' or 'turn away', no, we call the police and tell them, for such behaviour is unacceptable, but how is this different when it happens online? We allow it to happen yet there is no difference in the degree and intensity of abuse we experience. Neither on or off line line abuse is acceptable. Serge Benhayon has been attacked constantly for the past three years by online abusers, It is simply not acceptable.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
29/8/2016 09:56:14 am

Thank you for the clarity and power of this article. We do indeed have such widespread level of people harbouring hurts, distrust, being guarded and harming one another. Serge Benhayon has been a heaven sent role model and inspiration for thousands of people, not only reflecting that there IS another way, but also that "every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs."

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Karin Barea
10/9/2016 01:28:02 pm

What a true testimonial. I fully concur with all you have written. I would never have entertained trusting humanity or myself had I not met Serge Benhayon. His unwavering love of humanity rekindles the love I too have within me and inspires me to let go of past hurts and be love again.

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Vicky Cooke
25/9/2016 04:32:10 am

Indeed, this should be the headlines, how it is possible to live such integrity, responsibility and true love for others as Serge Benhayon does and this is only a small part of the amazingness he lives showing all it is possible to live in a way that is harmonious to the whole universe. Not the malicious lies that have been spread. It shows where we, humanity are at, to allow this to happen letting lies be the news instead of truth. This is also a really good question 'how many of us truly and deeply TRUST in humanity, in each other? How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love? Not for selfish gain, but for the raising of awareness and evolution of all – '. For me, and I know hundreds of others Serge has helped me restore that trust.

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Fiona Pierce
6/10/2016 01:03:02 pm

"Every one of us has the capacity to be the true role models and teachers humanity most desperately needs." - Absolutely, and to have someone in real life reflecting that capacity to us shows us that it really is possible to consistently live in connection with the love that we all essentially are - that it's not just a nice concept but a genuine possibility if we so choose.

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jenny mcgee
15/10/2016 12:45:28 am

So much better to build trust by building a confidence in my own presence and knowing from my inner heart. This is what I am forever grateful to Serge Benhayon for such a consistent reflection of love.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
22/10/2016 02:09:47 am

A stunning testimonial for a truly amazing man. I concur with everything you say Victoria, for what Serge Benhayon has brought to me and so many more is a game-changer in how I am with myself, and how I am in relationship. Love is now the baseline in my life, joy is my way every day, and I feel a vitality that years back I would have never dreamed of having. My relationships have a depth and richness to them that is forever expanding, as is the love I feel throughout my entire body. This is the life I now live, the life I now choose, thanks to Serge Benhayon.

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jennym
24/10/2016 02:42:17 am

We so desperately need a way of coming together in harmony as a society and this is what Serge Benhayon lives and presents. It is very sad and destructive where people expend so much energy in tearing down another because of their own hurts, jealousy and fury.

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Simon Voysey
21/11/2016 11:32:49 am

In a world where suicide rates are flourishing, especially amoung young people, a world in which it is considered ok to pull others down is no longer something that we can allow to be acceptable. Serge Benhayon's deep love in action for mankind is the agent of healing of this world. We can and must all see as normal pulling each other up - no longer a luxury but clearly a sink or swim scenario.

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Simon Voysey
21/11/2016 12:06:18 pm

The deepest hurt, amongst all of them, is that we are not living our true nature. Despite it being freeing, simple, joy-full and eternally loving, we choose to layer hurts and mistrust on top of that nature because of the perception that the pain of full disclosure will be too great to bear. Serge Benhayon has shown anyone prepared to be open that there is a way back to that nature and the amazing thing about it for me is how clear it becomes that it is the way back, the only one-unifying way, for all. Yet such a truth then becomes a point of contention for some who just want to hold on to their hurt. Such is the way of free will.

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Monica Gillooly
21/11/2016 10:32:40 pm

Victoria, I feel your love hugely reading this testimonial, and it touches me deeply. To live love no matter what comes, that is the most beautiful thing we can offer another and Serge Benhayon does that for everyone always and you in sharing what you have here show us how this can be lived by each of us in our own lives. I have learned and continue to do so that we all matter, everything matters and the slightest shred of abuse pollutes us all, so no we cannot stand by while another is vilified and abused and to have someone who is here with such love for all of us asks of us where we stand - do we stand for that love, for in standing for that love and saying it is absolutely not fine to have anyone treated in that way; we take what is being shown us by Serge Benhayon, to love beyond measure into our own lives and this is a love we have desperately missed forever and now have here in our midst, showing us that we are that love too.

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Stephanie Stevenson
24/11/2016 09:08:22 pm

The consistency of rock-solid love, truth, stillness and harmony Serge Benhayon and his family live with 24/7, is not only beautiful to witness and observe, but also offers a true reflection for all to bring to their daily living way, equally so with all. A humble and deeply inspiring man who also inspires a deep trust.
"Trust is built by such unwavering consistency. ​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades".

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
30/11/2016 12:03:45 am

The world in which we live is in dire mess, as reflected here. The fact that we drown our awareness with food, alcohol as well as mental, emotional and physical distractions does not make the issues go away. We just numb ourself from registering what we can sense what is going on. Society seems to thrive on and encourage us to avert our gaze and even better bury our heads in the sand so that the status quo can be maintained. But it is not all okay and we know it. Serge Benhayon’s teachings are remarkable in reminding each of us of the love, sensitivity, awareness and wisdom that is our true essence, thus inspiring a renewed sense of empowerment, commitment and responsibility – what is sorely needed to start making a true difference in our world.

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Jenny Ellis
9/12/2016 11:10:27 am

Absolutely true Victoria... "To resort to apathetic blinkered vision would offer no true way forward, for anyone." Turning a blind eye and staying quiet is certainly what most of us have done in the face of such abusive and hateful behaviour as l've witnessed throughout this hate campaign directed towards Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon. Standing up and speaking out is the only way it will ever change... thanks for being willing to be one of those who does so, clearing a way forward for others to be inspired by.

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jennym
15/12/2016 08:58:25 pm

Many of our relationships are fragmented and fractured because of our lack of trust in each other. The more we can build this trust in ourselves that is to risk vulnerability with others, the more we can rebuild our trust in each other.

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Heather Pope
8/1/2017 10:13:52 am

Serge Benhayon offers a way of living where trust is inherent. There is no other way when you are dedicated to truth and love.

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Jonathan Stewart
24/1/2017 08:18:34 pm

"I thank Serge Benhayon every day of my life for his inimitable strength, to stand as such a beacon, knowing full well all that may be hurled his way, and continuing without fail to yet hold all in the greatness of his love." Serge Benhayon is a beacon that lights the way for evolution for humanity

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hm
1/2/2017 07:08:57 pm

It seems we know how to be mean to each other - but also how to cope with abuse, being less, feeling hurt or sad. It seems a normal way of life - but is it? Serge Benhayon has reflected that it is possible to live and move in a way that does not hold onto any of the hurts - he rather holds everyone in love and reflects this everywhere he goes. So even when this is attacked because it is not the norm, he is able to stand firm in love. And in that he is a reflection for all that it is possible to love ourselves and each other.

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jennym
15/2/2017 12:57:16 pm

If we don't hold onto our hurts that we do not have to hold others to unreasonable expectations nor protect ourselves from being hurt. Serge Benhayon indeed is a role model of how to live holding others in love knowing who they are in essence even though they may not live it or behave well.

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Ariana Ray
25/2/2017 08:05:06 am

'“Brush it off” many say, and may well yet say. “Turn it off”, “don’t read it”, “don’t pay it any heed”... My response, and that of many, many others, is a categorical ‘no’ to such an approach. For it is categorically not ok that a man of such calibre, implicit integrity and deep care for all be so willfully tarnished in any way, shape or form.'
It is not okay Victoria. Why would we even consider accepting that toned down version and tarnished version of Serge Benhayon, who represents all men who have such integrity and are maligned and lied about. It is not okay and never will be. Standing up and being counted is much needed in a world that shrinks and cowers from bullies.

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Matts Josefsson
7/3/2017 07:52:11 pm

Yes this man is amazing and he meets you for who you truly are not just the person we sometimes think we are. So he inspires you to be more.

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Michael Brown
9/3/2017 01:08:41 am

Victoria you have hit the nail on the head with Serge's consistency. It is what builds trust in him, and also what allows us to trust ourselves that this is they way forth.

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Ariana Ray
9/3/2017 01:50:09 am

Giving honour to 'a truly great man' is certainly what this testimony does - it's bringing the truth about Serge Benhayon to the world and the world certainly needs Serge Benhayon.

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Stephen Gammack
14/3/2017 09:15:38 pm

From time to time I look at humanity and feel like giving up, in those moments I know that I have the wisdom that has been shared through Serge Benhayon to support me. Life can be cruel but it can also be magnificent, and I learned through him that this is always a personal choice, and that we need to share more loving ways in the face of that which is the complete opposite of love. Now many people have said such things in the past, but what feels different hearing it from Serge is that it is being said by someone who 100% fully lives this teaching.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
20/4/2017 10:36:23 pm

"We need to share more loving ways in the face of that which is the complete opposite of love." For a long time I held this concept as a desirable and somewhat impractical ideal. Yet through witnessing Serge Benhayon I now know the power and enormity of the love that holds even the furthest departure from love in the absolute knowing of its eventual return.

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Matts Josefsson
4/4/2017 10:47:10 am

Victoria, Serge is the man I would trust with my life, I would not say that about many, if any. I think that says a lot.

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sylvia Brinkman
5/4/2017 12:09:53 pm

The immensity what gets delivered by Serge Benhayon is for us to digest in all the time to come. In every single sentence he brings to us you can feel a depth behind magic. It is an ongoing delivery of divine wisdom which touches the hearts of who is ready. I had the biggest healing time this life I could wish for. The modalities of Universal Medicine and the workshops of Serge are such a true support in healing all what we are ready to heal. And because of all that healing I feel more and more me and that is a present to the world. Now I can bring all what I so much looked for around me. Thank you Serge Benhayon to hold not back any love for us with no expectation.

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leigh matson
11/4/2017 03:08:41 am

Thank You Victoria for these words. Serge Benhayon does indeed show us all that we can live and be the love that we all are in a world that has been filled with so much pain and harm. It's not bigger than the love we are and Serge is living proof of this.

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Matts Josefsson
12/4/2017 07:27:14 am

There are many teachers in the world that we may think deliver something truthful and there might be but there is no other that I know of that knows it all. First of all I have never heard of anyone so clearly explain the vast difference between spirit and soul. But Serge does. And the difference between the energies of prana and fire. Without knowing this I believe that we are just fumbling in darkness. Serge however is super solid and amazingly relatable for anyone that is interested in what is actually true in life.

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Matts Josefsson
15/4/2017 08:57:43 pm

Yes so many times we let our hurts lead our way forward in life and we avoid anything that will let us know we are being led this way. It hurts really feeling these hurts but it hurts us way more not feeling them if that makes sense. Holding onto hurts prevents us from really experiencing life in full.

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Christine Hogan link
16/4/2017 01:23:12 pm

Could it be that people are limited in what they see because it is a reflection of what they have accepted within themselves? Serge Benhayon knows who he is and the deep love of which this is made up of. This is deeply held and reflected to every other person no matter who they are, for he knows we too are that love. Serge Benhayon has made available to us the living way to re-connect to this. The choice is ours and if we choose less then the responsibility of this choosing also lays with us. What we are seeing 'hurled' at Serge is the choices of those that are not choosing to re-connect to their own love but instead choosing to live with the lies and illusion of what leaves them empty. Thank you Victoria for this 'document' of love, transparency, truth and confirmation of all we know Serge to be.

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Lieke Campbell
19/4/2017 07:58:27 am

It is true, it is time to share broadly that living love and true responsibility is possible and simple instead of enjoining in the 'normal' that indulges in the fact that life is hard but that is not open to seeing it is possible to live another way.

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David
13/5/2017 09:17:39 pm

Victoria I was pondering on your words here about how Serge can be completely trusted. This is rare and yet has been for me something that I felt from day 1 and it has never dropped, I don't even question if I can or can't trust Serge as I feel in every bone in my body and part of my being that he is representing the light of God and all of us, he is equally representing the universe and what is not to trust about that?

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Rebecca
27/5/2017 01:08:28 am

Shutting our eyes and covering our ears does not stop the abuse from being a reality, nor does it stop it from hurting others. To often in life this is our response, allowing that which is not true to take root and grow. In our response to this hate campaign we are simply standing up for the truth we know so that the lies and hate are not left as the only representation.

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Leonne Sharkey
1/9/2017 10:54:20 pm

Beautifully said Rebecca. If we stand by and do nothing we confirm a lie. I would rather be attacked for being true to myself than be left alone living a lie.

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Monica Gillooly
4/6/2017 04:44:50 am

Victoria, beautifully shared, thank you. We cannot stay silent while another is abused for if we do we acquiesce to abuse and bullying and we effectively align ourselves to this being fine in our relationships. And this is definitely not so; Serge Benhayon offers us a living example of how people can live and be true in relationship and to see him villified is telling for all of us - many are challenged by what he presents for they do not have this, but the big thing here is to see this, even to be challenged by it is a huge support as it allows us to know and understand that we can live and be another way in how we relate to each other - he offers us a gift and many have changed their lives and relationships (including me) due to this and it's a huge joy to live this way and know that everyone can live with deeply loving relationships in their lives.

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vanessa mchardy
5/6/2017 12:19:07 am

Thank you for writing this Victoria, it is so important to call out the pure hatred that has been relentlessly pursued towards him and all that he presents and shares, which is the ageless wisdom that all the great profits have shared, nothing is new - including our desire to persecute those who are the bearers of truth. Serge has been unwavering in his livingness and unfortunately these campaigns of defamation are simply proof that the livingness is the real deal.

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Monica Gillooly
22/7/2017 12:46:28 pm

To have someone in this world and to know and observe them being love no matter what comes their way is truly inspirational, and it offers us a point shows us that it is possible to live in a way that trusts others and that is willing to show others there is another way. Given where we are as a humanity today, we definitely need another way, one that cares and values each and every one of us. Serge Benhayon lives this to the nth degree without fuss or any demand that others do too, and this is something to be celebrated far and wide, it's shown many that there is another way to live, and this ripples far and wide.

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leigh matson
24/7/2017 07:54:00 am

Reading this time around I could feel how precious and appreciative you are of knowing this man. Appreciating what he brings and saying that it is not ok to treat someone, who's love is deeply inspiring, to be abused in any way, shape or form.

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Nico van Haastrecht
11/8/2017 07:36:53 pm

"There are many relationships in my life inclusive of my marriage where the trust is very deep indeed." To have trust in our relationships is so important and many relationships I have had and do see around me are not build on a commonly held trust but out of a need instead. A need that is unpredictable and can change any moment and in fact will never be fulfilled as in that need there is a need for feeling distrust instead. A way of being that needs to be healed one day and will be shown by those role models that have gone this path already before, showing that it is possible and actually not that difficult at all. Like Serge Benhayon is showing us in all that he is and does, a reflection we all love.

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Heather Pope
27/8/2017 12:07:58 pm

Being willing to speak out for truth in the face of a world that wants comfort instead of responsibility has made Serge Benhayon the target of cyber abuse. To his credit he has not diminished one ounce in the face of that abuse. He stands strong, true to his words and deeds, a role model for society.

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Nico van Haastrecht
22/9/2017 07:02:19 pm

I fully agree Heather, Serge Benhayon is a role model for society as he shows a way of living that is challenging for the one that is deeply engraved in the comfort individualism brings but for many he is the saviour that brings back truth love and harmony back in our individual lives and into our societies.

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Leonne Sharkey
1/9/2017 10:51:33 pm

Wow. What a man Serge Benhayon is and what an incredible woman you are. I can see that I have held back expressing what Serge means to me for fear of being attacked but you inspire me to simply claim and express the truth I know.

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Monica Gillooly
10/9/2017 12:44:43 pm

We badly need trust in our world among each other and for people to know there are people to trust; to have someone who brings that consistently known is very important and to have that same person lied about is abhorrent for them but also for all of us, for it affects all of us, when one who lives in a way that engenders trust is disparaged and it affects all life here. Serge Benhayon offers a beacon for all of us, let's ensure that all can see that beacon without any tarnish or shadow.

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Adele Leung
13/9/2017 04:48:05 pm

Serge Benhayon a man who reflects to us all how it could be and holding us all so deeply in love that our faults would not cripple us but rather in our imperfections we have the opportunity to surrender and feel again our humbleness and truth, from there we can make our own choices.

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Ariana Ray
21/9/2017 09:29:26 pm

'How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love?'
The answer? Serge Benhayon. He has from the very start, stood to both call to account and loves all so deeply that he makes his way of life a way that allows support for all and love for all. How many are prepared to live this way? The answer: Serge Benhayon and the few who are so inspired by his way of life that they are easily able to live such a way for all of humanity also.

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Nico van Haastrecht
22/9/2017 06:56:08 pm

The mistrust that resides in humanity is simply the result of us striving to be individual and in that not willing to feel that we actually all are one and the same.Therefore Serge Benhayon is that a great role model to watch as he is ward of this individualism but instead he live as one with us all.

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Alison Valentine
24/9/2017 09:25:13 pm

"How many of us love ourselves and each other so greatly as to see the extent of the disharmony, pain, hurt and separatism we live in – and yet continue to love, and call to account that which is not love? " Yes I can feel I have not opened my eyes fully knowing the responsibility I hold once I am willing to see the full extent of the disharmony separatism and misery that is in our world today. There is an irresponsibility in this that I can no long avoid.

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Nico van Haastrecht
22/10/2017 07:18:23 pm

Indeed Alison, when we once again are put with our both feet back on the ground and feel that we have to admit that we are actually part of the misery, disharmony and separatism that is in our world today, there is no other way than return to the love that we are and from there take on the responsibility we have to live that love we are all from to the best of our ability and from that way of living to bring this love back in all our societies.

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Josh Campbell
26/9/2017 11:12:36 pm

What can one say about a man who has literally reshaped the way that another lives simply by inspiring them to be more of who they truly are? The cliche it is “worth more than Gold” is cheap here compared to the enormity of inspiring oneself to free themselves from living in the imprisonment of the lies they have self created their world to be.

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Fiona L
28/9/2017 02:00:32 am

If we don’t back a man of such calibre, it is a heavy indictment on humanity. We say we want the world to be a better place but if we allow men of integrity to be cut down (as has happened so many times in history) we cannot complain about the results and society we end up with.

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Melinda Knights
14/4/2018 09:53:42 pm

It is a powerful and very true statement, thank you Fiona. The cutting down of those to the detriment of the whole is a common experience on both the microcosmic scale of personal relationships and the macrocosmic scale of what we see globally.

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Nattalija link
4/10/2017 02:38:39 pm

What is shared from Serge Behayon is the power to start trusting again. A forgotten art that is not learnt but felt when we reconnect within.

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Nico van Haastrecht
22/10/2017 07:08:27 pm

No wonder that there is so much aggression, violence and abuse in our societies as this is the ultimate result of the many people that have abandoned love from their lives for the many reasons that can be given but actually of which non will be acceptable in truth. As shown by Serge Benhayon once again simply by the way he lives and conduct his life, we are from love and it is our nature. And with that reflection Serge is actually remembering us of this fact and makes us too to remember our choices and is asking us to become responsible for these choices as a way to heal all the hurts that we have allowed into our lives from not living that love we all innately are.

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Shami
30/10/2017 02:15:14 pm

How true that we live in a world of fractured relationships and where there is this person, Serge Benhayon, who stands amongst it all willing to be all the love that he is and as such inspires many many more to choose the same.

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Sam
15/11/2017 11:49:15 am

"Trust is built by such unwavering consistency.
​Serge Benhayon brings it in spades."

Before meeting Serge Benhayon I found it hard to trust others, hard to trust myself and especially hard to trust men.
It is through Serge's study reflection and unwavering love that I was able to open my heart and trust again.
My heart is full of gratitude for this man who awakened my heart to again love myself and others.

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Ariana Ray
15/11/2017 11:45:37 pm

"​I write this testimonial, in honour of a truly great man, and in the wake of a hate campaign and media articles that have polluted our print and broadcast media in recent years. "
And Serge Benhayon needs to be honoured for the pure inspiration he is, for the pollution of the hate campaign has been virulent in the press, which has vilified truth.

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Willem Plandsoen
18/11/2017 09:21:42 pm

Serge Benhayon is indeed a beacon of light in the very ugly world we live in where many have lost their way. Sometimes difficult to accept, because this brings responsibility, is the life he lives is available to us all.

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David
5/12/2017 08:59:24 pm

My experience of Trust before meeting Serge was no-one can be trusted, everyone let you down and everyone hurt you. Since meeting Serge and through his steadiness I first built a deep level of trust with him and have since come to be open to the fact that life is not about holding everyone with mistrust but being loving and not lacing every person, every relationship in the same way.

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Michael Brown
15/12/2017 11:09:39 am

It's important for us all to stand up for Truth. Not is defence or justification, but in the knowing we have a responsibility to All to present what we have been blessed to be aware of.

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Michael Brown
23/12/2017 10:48:15 am

The game changes as Serge present that it is not about improving our current situation or winning this game. It is about what is there on a much grander scale or in other words, what lies outside the playing board.

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David
27/1/2018 10:17:55 pm

Trust is a really intersting word and one that when I consider Serge I not only agree he is someone that can be completely trusted but in many ways there is something deeper than trust, an absoluteness that is non-harming and supportive in every way. This leads to s settlement in the body that is deeply supportive, as their are few people that live the power of harmlessness even though they may claim they do.

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Richard Mills
30/1/2018 09:52:48 pm

Thank you Victoria Carter for 'shouting it from the rooftops' in your beautifully expressed testimonial of a man who walks the truth of love on Earth. The quality of the writing in this piece, is a testament in itself to the fact that we can all express from and with love – and is evidence of the 'game changing' offerings that Serge presents for all of us who are open and willing to listen.

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Aimee Edmonds
5/5/2018 04:09:47 pm

Richard it is also testament to how Serge Benhayon is and what he reflects for others to be inspired by, by there being only loving, supportive and appreciative replies to comments on this blog site. I don't find this anywhere else on the internet. If it isn't downright abuse from cyber bullies, it's an undercurrent of cutting down others or jealousy or comparison. This says volume for the relationships Serge has.

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Liane Mandalis
16/5/2018 08:59:38 pm

When love responds to love, a great fire ignites. Such is the joy of two hearts expressing the truth within and between them.

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Samamtha Davidson
2/2/2018 12:03:18 pm

I Love this quote ...."Serge Benhayon’s lead is one we can all take.", this is what he inspires, that we all can walk our power and Love and lead the way.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
9/2/2018 05:17:40 am

This is one of the most inspiring and empowering things about Serge Benhayon. Not only does he reflect a way of living and a depth of awareness that invites us to remember we are so much more than the limitations of the physical plane of life we have settled for, but he also provides an absolutely transparent example of how we can all return to living such a multidimensional life together with oh my goodness so much support and tips for us to learn how to support ourselves in building and expanding such a Livingness.

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Ariana Ray
5/2/2018 09:00:23 pm

'I write this testimonial, in honour of a truly great man', and honour is certainly due, for Serge Benhayon lives in such a way that inspires thousands to change their lives. His living way is pure inspiration.

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Joshua Campbell
6/2/2018 03:41:13 am

Serge Benhayon not only reflects Love he also challenges those who have sough comfort at its expense. And true love meaning true truth, this means most of the globe as most of us have done exactly that. This revealingly highlights the true discomfort of comfort and exposes its binding hold on our beingness we often as illuse of. In this way Serge helps to expose and free ourselves from a prison most do not know they are in by showing us the true get out of jail free card which is our own love, our Soul.

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Nico van Haastrecht
4/3/2018 12:48:41 am

Love in itself will always challenge that what is not love and in its activity love will reveil the prison you are talking about Joshua. And Serge Benhayon in our times is the great role model for us to experience and see how love in all its simplicity is powerful beyond measure.