Serge Benhayon made me understand that life is all about Relationships.

Life is all about Relationships

13/12/2015

Katie Walls on Serge Benhayon and living relationships

by Katie Walls | Universal Medicine Therapies Practitioner

Serge's teachings on the importance of relationships being the heart and core in life have not only enriched our family unit immensely but have also enriched all that we offer professionally.

I have trained with Serge both professionally and known him personally for over 7 years now. His consistency is remarkable, his professionalism unshakable but most importantly he is one of the most humble human beings I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.

He has always been there to support our family as an equal mentor and friend. There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup. With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher.

Our kids have a deep respect for Serge, and on this note I would like to share that kids can not be bluffed lightly, they can easily smell out someone who is just trying please them. They feel how genuine Serge is and the respect he has for them and all others. With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals.

We have had three of Serge's children stay with us in our home on a number of occasions when they have been working in Sydney. Even though each are remarkable human beings in their own right, the quality in which they have been parented is very obvious. Each at a young age living a maturity and wisdom that greatly surpasses their biological age. I have often admired Serges parenting ability, to give his children the space to be who they are so that they can live their full potential whilst always offering loving guidance when required. My husband and I have been greatly inspired to offer to our own kids the qualities Serge lives as a parent.

Our marriage and how we were as parents felt ‘good’ from the start and this was true but what we have been able to connect to as a couple through attending Serge's workshops and from his friendship has immensely enriched our lives as husband and wife and as parents in ways that we could not have previously imagined. The connection and love we now live is something I didn’t know was possible as man and wife and I can feel there is even more for us to explore together both as a couple and as parents.

I am so appreciative to have Serge in our lives and would like to say thank you Serge for consistently and unwaveringly BEING YOU.

404 Comments

Ingrid Ward

12/12/2015 12:19:51 pm

I, like you Katie, am so very appreciative to have Serge Benhayon in my life, and although I do not live in Australia I never feel that Serge is far away; in fact when I stop and connect to me, there is Serge offering such unwavering and loving support in so many ways, simply through his presence, his books, his audios, the workshops and even an answering an email if necessary. He has time for everyone, and everyone is always loved and respected as an equal; something very rare to experience in this world, but something that would change the world if lived by all.

Janet Williams

20/12/2015 07:30:30 pm

I agree, Ingrid. No matter where Serge is or what is going on, I feel he is there for me 100%, as he is for everyone - the generosity of his heart is staggering.

Gyl Rae

23/12/2015 11:10:11 pm

This is so true Janet, - no matter where you are you can feel Serge's absolute unwavering commitment, deep care, love and support.

Karin Barea

5/1/2016 01:16:11 pm

Janet each word you have expressed is what too feel and know. To feel the generosity of who Serge is and why he is here is mind blowing. And to feel him hold me and everyone as equals, where we are no different to him and all he is, well, this cannot be ignored.

Sarah Flenley

16/1/2016 10:54:33 am

And he is 100% there for all of us being himself 100% of the time. That is unheard of. There is no off switch for this incredible man. What an inspiration.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

8/4/2016 01:36:51 am

Janet I have noticed this gorgeous dedication and ability with many people who have chosen to live as Serge Benhayon does. I am at times very aware that they have committed to many times what I have committed to in life, and that they have tons more activities and responsibilities to fill up their day than me, yet whilst I have become precious about my time and anxious about it all, whenever I have gone to someone like Serge Benhayon for assistance, they have stopped and treated me as if I am the am deeply valued and precious and nothing is more important. This in itself is quite remarkable and noteworthy, and a profound lesson that there is a different way to live with a commitment to love, truth and honouring people, which expands the narrow parameters we think our lives fit within.

Josephine Bell

24/12/2015 02:54:58 pm

The absolute consistency of the love, and along with that respect offered by Serge Benhayon to every single individual is profoundly extrarordinary in today's world or in any world. I have never come across anything like this before anywhere and to experience and observe this is not only staggering as Janet says below but also mind-blowing. Yes, literally, it blows my mind of any limiting ideas I had about love and to witness true love in action and recognise this is potential in me too is a gift precious beyond words. Thank you Serge.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

28/12/2015 07:11:56 am

It is indeed a gift precious beyond words that Serge Benhayon not only reflects the most gracious, loving, wise and honouring way that we as humanity can live, but he also keeps reminding us with such humility and tenderness that regardless of any previous choices, this level of love is always our true essence.

Katerina Nikolaidis

13/1/2016 10:52:35 am

I wholeheartedly agree Josephine. It is staggering to my mind how consistent and deeply loving Serge Benhayon in with everyone. It blows out of the water any constructs I have about what love is, and what we, as human beings are actually capable of as regards to expressing and living true love. No longer do I go through life with a silent sadness of the belief that love is not really possible in this world... I know it absolutely is possible and that it exists amazingly so. An enormous thank you to Serge for that.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

15/1/2016 11:51:01 am

I am with you there Katerina. The depth of care, the honouring of and confirming the love within every one of us consistently lived by Serge Benhayon also often blows me away. Thanks to him I now know and recognise that those qualities which I used to miss when I looked out in the world are not something to be longed for, but to be lived – they are our true essence! This turns it all round. Instead of blaming life as I did, it is up to each of us to deepen our love and responsibility in life.

Amina Tumi

6/3/2016 05:50:25 am

I would have to agree here entirely Josephine, as Serge Benhayon is a deeply loving man like no other I have come to meet thus far, as his understanding of what is taking place in the world being that everything is energy and everything is because of energy, therefore means that his understanding is coming from a absolute knowing of what is energetically taking place, this I find extraordinary and something that I will always admire and learn from.

Anne Hishon

26/12/2015 11:34:30 am

Yes, I feel this too Ingrid. I love the connection we have to Serge through all these mediums- he is so accessible to us. Anytime I have emailed him he has always replied with truth and honesty even if it is not always the answer i want it is the one I need at the time!!
My relationship with myself and my family has changed immensely and I am connecting to my family in a way I did not think was possible. This I then take out into the world.

Katie Walls

22/1/2016 01:34:04 pm

Anne, what you have shared about the enrichment experienced in your family relationships is a common denominator with people that attended Universal Medicine workshops and experienced what Serge offers. This is a day were there are so many stresses and strains on family is pure gold.

Amina Tumi

13/3/2016 09:33:12 pm

I agree with that Ingrid, it would change the would very much so if we all lived this way, Serge Benhayon has been an amazing support in reflecting the absolute truth of who we are and where we are truly from.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

29/3/2016 11:07:26 pm

I love what you have shared Ingrid. Because Serge Benhayon through the way he lives and interacts with everyone IS an absolute support for so many people to deepen their awareness, appreciation and responsibility in life. It seems extra-ordinary, and perhaps many find it difficult to imagine and some may be jealous of this, because who among us deep down does not wish to be able to truly support others with ease and grace, but so few of us live like that. The thing is that Serge Benhayon is committed to live his life in a way with every detail that supports him to be a vehicle that supports everyone. There is a great responsibility in that. This is a level of responsibility that he reflects and inspires us to step up to.

Jonathan Stewart

12/12/2015 12:27:52 pm

"With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals." A truer word could not be said about Serge.

jenny m

15/12/2015 04:24:53 pm

Serge has indeed made himself and his life an open book and is transparent in all his dealings in the world. This is a very rare thing but is done so others can see that the way he lives is truly loving and sustainable.

LorrainHarris

22/12/2015 09:45:25 am

What you said Jenny m paused me to reflect on how open a book I am, or not! Maybe some chapters I would gloss over, which makes me realise how amazingly honest and transparent Serge is and yes this is a rare thing. By his example, Serge is showing us that we can be loving and open too. I am a work in progress!

Leigh Matson

3/1/2016 11:41:44 pm

Every time a pocket of myself gets exposed through the work of Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine its a great example of how that hiding is actually detrimental to us all. And this is cool because from experience and from watching Serge that transparency is a really healing and supportive way to live.

Andrew Mooney

10/1/2016 09:56:39 pm

I agree Jenny it is a very rare thing indeed to find such transparency and openness as Serge Benhayon. It really does show his commitment to living with integrity and responsibility in all facets of his life that he has nothing to hide. It is complete service to humanity via true inspiration.

Francisco C link

18/1/2016 10:25:03 am

Agree jenny m, Serge lives a life with full transparency, his integrity and love for humanity is just out of this world. He is just an amazing reflection and constant inspiration in my life.

Katie walls

22/1/2016 01:40:01 pm

Well said Jenny, Serge Benhayon does live his life in a very genuine and transparent way of being with all people, to a level rarely seen today. In feeling this level of openness in the way Serge is it reminds people to trust in themselves to also be this way with others and this is a gorgeous thing to experience.

Nattalija link

14/2/2018 02:21:13 am

No hidden agenda just a real testament of how to live the transparency we are all craving for.

Lorraine Wellman

18/9/2018 09:49:48 pm

Yes, Serge does live his life as an open book, so everyone can see that there is another way to live and be, a way that is loving and responsible.

Gyl Rae

17/12/2015 09:55:28 pm

Absolutely Jonathan, thats one of the things I love about Serge Benhayon so much, is the absolute truth and transparency, there is never any other agenda, just the absolute deep love and care of people, and supporting you to return to truth.

Danna Elmalah

4/10/2018 04:34:54 am

Which is truth is where we all are looking for.. the love of truth of things. Not all possible in the same amount but the longing to be who we truly are, always remains. The comforts of creation away from this love, is what we need to strip away. The teachings of Serge Benhayon show us that we are from that innate love and that we need to take responsibility for it, whenever we are ready.

Gyl Rae

23/12/2015 11:15:44 pm

Agreed Jonathan, and I have to say I love this, - " what you see is what you get' it is so refreshening to live in this way.

Fiona Cochran

31/12/2015 01:07:34 pm

'What you see is what you get' can often be said about others but with Serge you actually do see what you get. There is no front, no image, no facade, you get Serge. The same Serge that presented the last time, with the same loving consistency.

Katerina Nikolaidis

13/1/2016 11:20:44 am

Beautifully put Jonathan and Katie. It always astounds me how incredibly open, warm and caring Serge is, how there is never not enough time for someone, and how even with the incredible amount of commitments and work he has on, he is always open, joyful and there for you one billion per cent. It's such a healing to simply witness this and feel that this depth of love is absolutely possible and in fact natural for a human being to embody and claim.

Jessica Williams

21/2/2016 11:04:22 am

You are totally right Katerina - there are countless times I have seen Serge stay behind during a lunch break or after a course, and he also often works from very early in the morning treating people so he can give everyone his time

Amina Tumi

6/3/2016 06:01:03 am

This I could not agree more Katerina as it is amazing how important having someone such as Serge is, he is one in billions that is living truly lovingly and in and amongst all of us with no sign or retreating, what an inspiration he is.

Dean Pirera

12/12/2015 12:43:13 pm

I would never take your comments lightly Katie since knowing you as the deeply respectable and caring person you are. To offer your experience about Serge Benhayon with such high regard means that he is all you say he is simply because I know the integrity you are.

Rik Connors

17/12/2015 02:10:29 am

I agree whole-heartedly Dean with your words about Katie 'takes One to know the One'. The integrity of the students of The Livingness is just that living with true respect for all who live just like Serge Benhayon lives.

Amina Tumi

6/3/2016 06:07:02 am

This is beautiful Dean as it really highlight the quality of another is felt and seen by the simplicity of how all human beings are by nature, Serge is simply one that is living this reflection to show us all that we can also do the same, and Katie's integrity can be felt by each word she writes.

Jenny Ellis

12/12/2015 12:53:44 pm

Thank you Katie... it is very true, while children are not only a product of their parents, it is not possible to have four children turn out like Simone, Natalie, Michael and Curtis without having pretty extraordinary parents. Both Serge and Deborah Benhayon have always been very open about their approach to parenting, and this has clearly been a great source of inspiration for many.

Eva Rygg

17/12/2015 10:57:01 am

I could not agree more Jenny - each of Serge and Deborah Benhayons children are indeed extraordinary just like their parents, and as have been pointed out earlier they are still just ordinary.

Stephanie Stevenson

22/12/2015 09:44:20 pm

In full agreement with you Jenny and Eva - Serge and Deborah Benhayon's children have been parented in a way that would benefit many families to understand and know. They are totally unique and ordinary people in themselves, living with a consistency, transparency,, self-less-ness and deep regard for all others equally so.
It is a joy to see them bringing this beautiful way of parenting to their own children now.

Vicky Cooke

23/12/2015 11:37:41 am

I agree Jenny I am not even a parent and find Serge an Deborah Benhayon's approach to parenting very inspiring.

Amina Tumi

13/3/2016 09:38:06 pm

This is true Jenny and what I also see is the strength in these 4 children as they reflect an absoluteness that is rare in this world but at the same time very needed. It is an enormous support to have them as reflections.

Anne Hishon

12/12/2015 01:21:31 pm

Katie, I echo fully what you have expressed here. My relationship with my husband and children (young adults now) has been incredibly evolutionary in the last 6 years and we are all experiencing relationships within our family that we never thought possible. What Serge brings to each of us, our families and the world is beyond gratitude in its' usual many forms. To live all that we can possibly bKe in true connection to ourselves and to all humanity is the greatest gift we can share with him.

Rik Connors

17/12/2015 02:34:42 am

I love your comment Anne "To live all that we can possibly be in true connection to ourselves and to all humanity is the greatest gift we can share with him". Serge Benhayon does not need anything to make in feel good - no event, no stimulation, not even a partner, nothing. He lives in his gloriousness consistently - a true inspirational way to live. What does touch him is observing another choosing to express all that they are too.

Arianne Kasi

12/12/2015 01:22:08 pm

Katie, I completely concur. It is incredible how as a teacher Serge continuously learns and grows on a daily basis, and shares this with all. He clearly lives what he presents. Likewise, inspiring you to continue to deepen your relationships with your partner and kids and not settle at a 'fixed spot' which can lead to boredom or staleness. It is about enriching our lives.

Rik Connors

17/12/2015 02:48:01 am

It's true Arianne life and your relationships are a constant evolution always changing, always deepening. Serge is the highest point of love for me as a role model to live myself. I know I can go to him about the deepest most personal issue and he can provide the most perfect support. He provides the clarity and it is my responsibility to live his words.

JaneKeep

8/1/2016 11:36:03 am

I love what you say Arianne - 'it is incredible how as a teacher Serge continuously learns and grows on a daily basis and shares this with all'. quite extraordinary as a teacher who never ceases to be a forever student and in this encourages us to be forever students, be curious, open, aware, and learn.

Katerina Nikolaidis

13/1/2016 11:25:56 am

So true Jane -- Serge inspires the open and playful curiosity of a child that we all innately have, to approach life and its challenges with a willingness to learn from what life brings. It's such a beautiful quality to re-awaken, the childlike curiosity, wonder and innocence but this time with the depth and wisdom that comes from knowing that underpinning everything is a commitment to make life about love.

Janet Williams

11/1/2016 09:34:48 pm

Yes, Arianne, Serge does not rest on his laurels for an instant, due to his dedication to humanity and learning new ways to reflect God's love for us, so we all find our way home.

Joel Levin

12/12/2015 01:22:54 pm

"His consistency is remarkable, his professionalism unshakable" - this ALMOST says it all for me, to this list I would add, playful, wise, deeply committed to life and people, wow this list go on and and.

Rik Connors

17/12/2015 03:00:27 am

Joel, the list can go on and on. Here is some more - I love his deep understanding of everyone he meets. His ability to know the truth of the matter and person and not getting caught up on the surface drama or image being put out. I also love and admire so much the tools he has presented over the past 10 years to reconnect and come back to you. Amazing glossary!!!

Josephine Bell

24/12/2015 03:02:19 pm

I agree Rik, I love the way Serge meets me and everyone in our depths and his ability to get below the surface and to the heart of any matter with humility and grace is wonderful to experience and inspiring – as that truth runs in the veins, arteries and hearts of all men and women – we are just yet to live it in its completeness as Serge does every day.

Elodie Darwish

9/1/2016 11:39:54 am

I'm with you Joel. What a list. How often are we able to describe someone like this? Yes, everybody is absolutely amazing, it's not about making a trophy out of him, but the truth is, I know but a handful of people who choose to live an unwaveringly consistent life, solely based on daily choices - nothing tricky or exclusive about it but the difference is, the choices presented are chosen, whereas most of us continue to repeat choices that simply don't work for us. That's where the biggest inspiration lies with Serge - his ability to keep choosing love despite everything.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

6/4/2016 07:17:54 am

I so enjoy reading all the gorgeous qualities listed by various people about Serge Benhayon. I remember ages ago seeing a page with the 99 names of God which was really 99 qualities that we deeply appreciate. The fact is that we all have these qualities available within us and most of us have had at least glimpses of living most of such qualities - yet what is different is that these qualities reflected by God and by Serge Benhayon are ‘unshakable’ regardless of what goes on in life. Just like the unwavering shining of the sun, it is reassuring to observe another human being live with such consistency, because it confirms that this is actually our true essence.

jeanette macdonald

12/12/2015 01:47:24 pm

Katie, thank you for sharing what you know and feel about Serge. The qualities he demonstrates as a parent, as a teacher, as a friend and as a mentor are inspirational as you say. It is a great pleasure and joy to know him. I love this sentence:
"With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher." The greatest.

Liane Mandalis

24/12/2015 07:18:59 pm

A true teacher knows that he/she is equally a student for we are forever learning in this Earth School of ours.

Sandra Dallimore

25/12/2015 09:48:35 am

Yes Liane, and that's where Serge is very humble...there is not one ounce of arrogance or superiority in the way he presents or speaks with people...he treats everyone as an equal knowing that we (including himself) are exactly the same...what makes us different are our choices.

Sarah Flenley link

12/12/2015 05:24:56 pm

I had goose bumps reading this because it is extraordinary (yet so ordinary) the effect Serge Behayon is having on peoples lives. Thank you for taking the time to share how Serge Benhayon has enriched the lives of you and your family.

Otto Bathurst

15/12/2015 08:57:05 pm

I agree Sarah. The blog is written with such a claimed and 'normal' voice that I almost didn't fully appreciate the giganticness of what is being said. And indeed it is the normality of the voice that makes it so powerful.

Gyl Rae

17/12/2015 10:00:33 pm

Also the fact that what Serge Benhayon lives is our normal, to live in a way that is totally committed, open, respectful, responsible, honouring, deeply loving and truly caring with all people, all of the time.

Carmel Reid link

17/12/2015 10:25:52 pm

And that is how Serge presents, in a normal voice - what he presents is what he lives every day - no big 'I am' but his way of living is his normal and we can feel how that can be our normal too.

Simon Voysey

22/3/2016 10:49:59 pm

It is true Sarah an amazing effect simply through telling the whole truth. And yet Serge offers this with great humility - which I have experienced as if being just like a very loving brother.

Rachel Andras

12/12/2015 06:34:28 pm

"With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level..." This is very true and one of the biggest inspirations from Serge. The joy of life is lived by always being open to learn and connect to something true/new, knowing that we have all the wisdom already inside us and through our openness and connection with God we can connect to it.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

5/4/2016 02:10:30 pm

It is a great source of inspiration to witness someone who constantly already inspires me to deepen the level of wisdom, love, care, integrity and responsibility I live with, is himself living as a forever student of life. His example shows me that even the grandest that I can imagine is not it. There is always greater, deeper and more expansion – not as a mission, focus or a goal, but just as how life naturally unfolds when we don’t put anything in its way.

Mary Adler

12/12/2015 07:25:00 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true friend; he supports you when the going is tough and he supports you to take that next step when you are ready for it. He has inspired me to look inside of myself and feel the true love that was waiting to be reignited and lived so that I can feel the joy of being a true friend to humanity just by being me.

jennym

15/12/2015 04:28:39 pm

It is an extraordinary way of living that Serge demonstrates where he holds each person equally as a dear friend no matter what the relationship is.

Lieke van Haastrecht

12/12/2015 07:33:45 pm

Beautifully written Katie and I cannot do anything else than fully agree with what you have shared here about Serge Benhayon and his children. I have been deeply inspired by seeing how Serge's children lived together, I was deeply touched by the harmony and love they have for each other - something that is not seen much in families, it is more common to have a fight than a consistently loving relationship with your siblings!

Gyl Rae

17/12/2015 10:04:17 pm

I agree Lieke, his whole family are a true inspiration and support me to reflect on and build more honest, truthful, loving and deeply caring relationships with my family and everybody.

Janet Williams

19/12/2015 10:06:37 pm

Yes, Lieke. I too am ever inspired by the loving ways of Simone, Natalie, Michael and Curtis Benhayon - there is no jealousy or comparison, no dramas, no arguing. In my observation, they are constantly supporting each other to evolve and honour the enormity of what they are each here to bring. And they have a lot of fun together!

Gyl Rae

23/12/2015 11:22:45 pm

When you really stop and think about it, what Serge Benhayon and his family are offering the world is huge - they are living how every family, person and relationship in this world can be, and has been before. It's not something we have to strive for, or try to be, but something we can naturally all come back to if we so choose. It all comes down to very very simple everyday choices. The simplicity of it, at times blows me away.

Lucinda Bathurst

12/12/2015 09:21:23 pm

I can absolutely concur Katie, knowing Serge Benhayon has changed my life irrevocably, the sound reflection of this man and his beautiful family never ceases to inspire me. Without perfection there is today more honesty, truth and appreciation within all my relationships, from the children that i teach, the neighbours on my street, shop assistants, my precious family and indeed an ever unfolding relationship with me.

Lorraine Harris

16/12/2015 09:12:51 am

Absolutely Katie, all you have said about Serge Benhayon rings bells for me and what you have written Lucinda resonates with me too. I find I am more open to connecting with everyone I meet, be it in the surgery waiting room or in shops and I am a continuing work in progess with myself as I unfold to being more of the real me each day.

Sandra Dallimore

25/12/2015 01:01:53 pm

Serge Benhayon's reflection never ceases to inspire me too Lucinda ... he is an extraordinary man, and yet very ordinary in his way, and so very practical and down to earth.

Fiona Cochran

1/1/2016 01:10:36 pm

The relationship I now have with myself is so remarkably different to the abusive and hurtful relationship I once had. Yes I can still be harsh with myself but I can also appreciate now and that is something that I literally could not do before I met Serge Benhayon. What I have noticed is as this relationship with self has grown as have all of the relationships with others as I allow myself to be more of the love that I am.

Jo Swinton

12/12/2015 10:13:29 pm

Thank you for sharing Katie. It is very inspiring to read how a whole family has benefited from working with and sharing their lives and home with Serge Benhayon and his family. Serge is a man who walks what he talks in every step of his life and I agree, his children are living testimony to how they have been parented. Wise beyond their years and deeply respectful of every human being.

Janet Williams

12/12/2015 10:51:14 pm

Thank you, Katie. There is such joy and celebration in seeing the young ones growing up who have had consistent love and beautiful role models in their lives such as Serge Benhayon and his family. They are now showing the world how normal and natural it can be to live with an open heart.

Victoria

12/12/2015 11:35:05 pm

I also have known Serge Benhayon for over 10 years now, and consider him a mentor and true friend. One of the many qualities I find so inspiring is the generosity of this man and the consistent love and support he offers to all equally. My life is has deeply enriched knowing Serge as a presenter, a friend, and most loved human being.

Rachel Murtagh link

12/12/2015 11:59:12 pm

Katie, I agree with you life is all about relationships. Through my relationship with Serge Benhayon and observing how he and his remarkable family are with each other and their friends I have come to know the depths of what relationships can be. Serge brings a level of truth and love that very few get to experience. I am inspired to keep going with my own self-development so that I may bring the equal qualities I hold in expression to others..

rosanna bianchini

13/12/2015 02:22:56 am

You're first hand experience echos what I have witnessed too Katie, that the qualities Serge lives as a parent and as a husband, are always deepening...and they are forever being shared with us, openly and for everyone equally. Serge shows what is possible, his example is there to be used as a living proof of what we never imagined possible.

Ariel Muntelwit

13/12/2015 02:23:01 am

This is such a beautiful testimonial Katie and it's really lovely to hear how meeting Serge Benhayon has supported you in your life with your relationships, family and work.

It really is amazing how much things can change all through being inspired by one person. I also know Serge Benhayon and see him as a huge inspiration for me. He is consistent, I can trust him, I have always felt very supported to be who I am with Serge and feel very joyful each time I get to see him and say hi, or listen to him present on stage. I have a huge respect for Serge and really appreciate how much has changed in my life since meeting him. I would definitely not be where I am today if it wasn't for Serge and Universal Medicine and to clarify that, I am in a very positive place and point in my life which is not the direction I was heading beforehand. I feel as though he is a parent to me, a true guardian, leading a life of service to people, respect, responsibility, consistency and the utmost integrity, it's very easy to be inspired.

Thank you Serge for being all that you are and inspiring so many - You are a rock!

Gyl Rae

17/12/2015 10:09:53 pm

Vey well said Aerial, I agree Serge Benhayon is an absolute rock, even though I live on the other side of the world, Serge has and does support me on many occasions with work, relationships, health and much more, - my life would be a mess had I not met him.

Victoria Carter

19/12/2015 12:55:59 pm

It’s not often, is it, Ariel, that we can truly say someone is a ‘rock’. I have never met someone with the consistency in all respects that Serge Benhayon holds, never. A consistency of love , dedication, endlessly shared wisdom, and depth of true friendship and being there for people. The man has single-handedly redefined my definition of what a ‘rock’ is in this world, and what we can all be – from such a depth of lived foundation with ourselves, every one of us can be the ‘rocks’ so needed in this world that say unequivocally, ‘love can indeed be lived, and every single day’.

Martin Gladman

13/12/2015 02:28:19 am

Your story is but one of many Kate, with families all over the world reporting the same, that their lives have been greatly enriched by meeting Serge and working with him and his family. One would not be judged for thinking this is might all be too good to be true, how could one man and his family truly live this? Surely there must be some hidden investment? But such is the nature of our mistrust from being let down so many times in the past. Serge Benhayon is the real deal, and I, like you Katie, have benefited greatly from his support which has also brought me closer to my family.

Otto Bathurst

15/12/2015 09:04:40 pm

It is a good point that you make Martin. And it is a sad state of affairs that we have so much mistrust in our lives. But you meet Serge and all of that dissolves. Not because of anything he says - which the distrusting mind could easily misinterpret - but because of how he lives and who he is. He is living proof. He is the real deal. His every single movement is an inspiration and an absolute concrete and undeniable affirmation that there is another way. Thank you Serge for everything that you have, and still are, showing me. And thank you Kate for being yet another person who has had the courage and commitment to make the Way of the Livingness your everyday norm; and thus be an inspiration to me, the readers of this blog and everyone you interact with.

Lorraine Harris

18/12/2015 12:53:13 pm

It is understandable Martin and Otto that we have mistrust in the world when we see the way some of mankind behaves with so few giving the loving reflection that Serge offers. He is remarkable in his consistency. I know of no other who walks his talk 24/7 as Serge does, inspiring everyone he meets.

Victoria Carter

19/12/2015 01:05:15 pm

That is exactly the point Martin. That the depth of Serge Benhayon’s love and tireless dedication to humanity may seem “too good to be true” shows how deeply we’ve all been hurt in life. I once would have thought the same, and harboured many, many reservations – having never met someone who truly passed all my highly discerning and stringent ‘tests’. Yet, after over 14 years of knowing the man, his love, friendship, the profundity of the teachings he delivers for all… I know without doubt that he is the real deal. Serge Benhayon’s life is not ‘about him’, there is no self-gain sought in the slightest – his life is about all, and yes this is real. What an immense healing and life turnaround knowing this man offers – to be able to truly trust again, and be so deeply inspired as to offer such consistency in love and dedication to all others myself also. Wow.

Kathryn Fortuna

22/12/2015 10:35:03 am

Victoria I agree. Knowing Serge is an immense healing in itself. A God send. :)

Monika Rietveld

13/12/2015 02:53:21 am

“With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher.” I agree with you, Katie, someone who considers themselves better because they know more and don’t need to learn new things isn’t a teacher in the true meaning of the word. Serge Benhayon is the most humble man I have ever met, who keeps evolving and deepening his relation with himself, all of us and the wisdom he offers.

Monika Rietveld

13/12/2015 02:59:32 am

Attending Serge his workshops and presentations has enriched my life beyond my imagination. It has changed my relationship with myself and every single person around me to a deeper level of love. It has changed my parenting and my friendships and made them real, open and joyful. And just like you shared Katie, there is more to explore and to come.

jennym

15/12/2015 04:31:44 pm

What Serge presents and shares is indeed this ever deepening connection with our innermost and the all, an never-ending process of confirming what is and evolving further.

Kate Greenaway

1/1/2016 07:33:46 pm

Beautifully written thank you Monika. My life too has been enriched beyond words by Serge and his loving caring and very real family. I feel blessed to be as a sister, work colleague and student of Serge for 15 years and in that time I have learned to reconnect to me, and develop a true loving relationship with me and all the people in my life. My health and vitality and joy continues to increase and over these years I have seen similar changes in thousands of others all inspired by the simple loving and caring way Serge and his family live.Their love is consistent, unconditional, non judgemental and equally there for all.Serge and his family have helped me open up to myself and others and to trust again in people and in true family and brotherhood.

Eva Rygg

13/12/2015 03:06:10 am

Thank you Katie for this beautiful testimony to Serge Benhayon. This man has not only enriched my life, but inspired me to completely turn it around. The endless wisdom, love and deep care he has consistently offered in all the years I have known him is beyond what most people could comprehend. You say 'With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals.' This fact is why so many people are able to regain trust in their lives and I can definitely say to me, this has been key.

Jane Keep

13/12/2015 03:09:18 am

Well said Kate. Much of what you say resonates with my experience too. I have known Serge Benhayon for over 10 years and I have learnt so much about health, wellbeing, and life in that time from Serge - not just in the presentations and workshops with Universal Medicine but in the way Serge Benhayon lives. I too have learnt much about relationships from Serge. Many years ago if you would have met me I was cautious, closed, protective, and reserved in the way I was with people and in closer relationships. Nowadays I am open, confident, and my relationships with people have changed ten-fold. I now love being out in the world with people, and working too. I too thank Serge for the integrity and wisdom that he lives, and shares consistently with us all.

jeanette macdonald

13/12/2015 08:27:21 am

The warmth in your words about Serge is so lovely to feel Katie, I agree completely with what you have shared about him.

Joshua Campbell

13/12/2015 08:29:13 am

Thank you for writing and sharing your experiences Katie. Serge has been a great inspiration for me too in all my relationships and every facet of how I commit to life. Having met Serge and been inspired by his simple, loving and dedicated commitment to every single person in life, holding no one less, has turned my relationships round entirely just as it has inspired me to deepen my own relationship with myself. One man, One power-full and true reflection of Love!

Otto Bathurst

28/12/2015 10:00:49 pm

I agree Joshua. There is not one area of my life, not one relationship that hasn't been deeply enriched by my own relationship with Serge Benhayon. He is my every-moment barometer on life. And meeting him has been the single most enriching and wonderful thing to happen to me

Shirley-Ann Walters link

13/12/2015 10:07:33 am

Yes Katie, Serge Benhayon is a truly remarkable man, he has inspired my whole life for the past decade and I am truly thankful for all he has shown me about myself and how to be who I truly am in the world. He is a living example of every word he says, and I regard him as a mentor and a very dear friend.

Katerina Nikolaidis

13/12/2015 10:21:39 am

Awesome testimony Katie. Serge Benhayon has inspired me to reconnect to what it is to have true family and this is something I now can share with my blood family and so many more people who are also my family. I always knew when I was little that family was about people coming together in love, to learn from each other, to live in harmony and in joy, but it was only when I met Serge and his family and could see how they were with each other and with everybody else that I knew t hat this knowing in me that I had as a child was so true. Family is precious and it is not contained to one unit of brother, sister etc. Family can extend to hundreds, even thousands of people who let each other in to their hearts. That's what Serge Benhayon inspires through how he lives and in doing so he re-awakens the knowing of true family in us all.

jeanette macdonald

19/12/2015 08:48:20 am

We do know deep down what true family and connection with others means and as you say "family is precious and is not contained to one unit". To not shut others out, to be open to learn from each other, to let others in fully, to live in harmony and joy, are some of the many qualities I am learning to live more expansively. This comes from my observations of Serge and the way in which he and his family live these qualities in full.

Kathryn

22/12/2015 10:40:24 am

I agree Katerina. Family is precious and can extend as far as our hearts interconnect us. Serge has inspired us to know this and live this every day. We are truly blessed.

Amelia Stephens

13/12/2015 11:46:37 am

Through Serge's reflection, we are able to learn about all facets of human life. The way he parents, and has parented - in combination with his equal partners - is something the world can and is learning from. This is what we need in society as the root cause of so many ills comes from dysfunctional family life. If we knew and connected to how we can parent to truly support our children growing up, in this chaotic world we do live in, then life would look and feel very different. What Serge brings is inspiration and a depth of wisdom that so dearly needs to be embraced. We can each live this wisdom every day, and furthermore be examples of this inspiration. This has always been Serge's intention, as he knows we are all equal to him.

Victoria Carter

19/12/2015 02:30:58 pm

What you have shared here Amelia deserves to be a testimony – or books, books… in itself. Everything in life comes down to the quality of our relating – every single relationship matters, and that is something I have learnt and observed in Serge Benhayon more than any other. The deepest ill patterns of harm, abuse, and lack of love for ourselves and each other can be transformed in a generation.

Esther Auf Der Maur

13/12/2015 12:11:33 pm

Dear Katie, your words on Serge Benhayon are so beautiful and sharing the truth of who this extraordinary man is. His humbleness comes from his total knowing that we all are just as extraordinary as he is, many just have not made the same loving choices yet as he has. I agree, his 'children' are also extraordinary, as they have been brought up to choose lovingly and consistently, to be able to bring their amazingness to this world, as Heaven knows, the world needs them. It's inspiring to hear and feel the changes you have made in your life and with your family, and the depth you are taking your relationships to, making clear choices for you to bring your amazingness to this world as well.

Samantha Westall

13/12/2015 12:27:32 pm

The love and respect you have for Serge and his children is deeply felt in your words. What you have shared is a small but beautiful glimpse into the extraordinariness of the love and wisdom Serge lives and shares and supports us all with… inspiring all who meet him to embrace this within and for themselves… each one of us incredibly blessed by the ripple effect of this inspiration and from choosing to live this connection consistently for ourselves.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

14/1/2016 09:13:04 am

How Serge Benhayon lives is how I have always felt in my heart we as humans are destined to live, however I had never seen evidence of it happening in society. Not only is he reflecting all that we as humanity can be in grace, wisdom, responsibility in life and love of one another, through the inspiring, supportive and honouring way he relates to everyone he lets us know that is also our true essence. Very true Samantha "each one of us are incredibly blessed by the ripple effect of this inspiration and from choosing to live this connection consistently for ourselves".

Peta Lehane

13/12/2015 12:39:02 pm

So confirming to read this, Katie as I too, appreciate the way of life Serge and his family share with us all so openly. There's no falsity or pressure to be anything other than yourself, always respectful of our individual journeys through life and I feel as you say in regards to his parenting, he allows the space for all to live to their potential. He is a true gift for us all and one I treasure.

Carola Woods link

15/12/2015 01:22:10 pm

Absolutely Peta. You can truly feel that the openness lived by Serge and his family comes from a deep Love for all humanity and a knowing that all can equally live the greatness of Love, together, which is rightfully ours to live.

Nicola Lessing

13/12/2015 07:07:24 pm

I completely agree with what you have written Katie. Serge is all about people, evolution and relationships. Serge Benhayon has to be the most truly generous person I have ever met on the planet. He shares his heart and wisdom equally with everyone so like you and your husband, my husband and I have benefitted greatly from his wisdom and support. Our relationship and the love and intimacy we share has evolved to depths I would not have previously thought possible, and it is not only my relationship with my husband that has benefitted immeasurably but my relationship with my family, colleagues and everyone I meet.

jennym

15/12/2015 04:34:12 pm

So beautifully described Nicola. I too have learnt so much about true relationships from Serge Benhayon, which has allowed me to start dropping some the protection and the amour I held in order to not be further hurt.

Otto Bathurst

28/12/2015 10:04:18 pm

Yes, yes, yes Nicola. Serge Benhayon is ALL about people. And at at time when humanity is undeniably in catastrophically dire straits, we are deeply blessed to have such a beacon of service and brotherhood and true harmony amongst us.

Carmel Reid link

13/12/2015 10:15:18 pm

I have heard Serge talk about what he has done as a parent and the ways in which he helped his children to understand about the consequences of jealousy, untidiness, tardiness and all the other lessons we need to learn. In some ways it may have appeared strict, but having met all four, now adult, children, I can only say that whatever he did worked - they are people in their own right, expressing their individual selves and sharing their amazing wisdom with all of us. And in their turn, either as parents of their own children, or relating to other people's children, I can see that the deep love and respect of humanity at all ages has been passed on and allowed to grow. Serge Benhayon is an inspiration to us all.

Janet Williams

13/12/2015 10:22:43 pm

How incredible that one man can be a close friend of the family to thousands of people across the world. To me this reflects the power of love and how such quality (rather than quantity) of relationship creates deep and everlasting connections.

Otto Bathurst

15/12/2015 09:07:49 pm

Indeed Janet. Most people don't even have one relationship in their lives of that depth, equality, tenderness, loyalty, absoluteness and commitment. Let alone thousands. A undeniable testimony to the power of true love.

Helen Simkins

16/12/2015 08:36:04 am

Its true Janet. Serge Benhayon reflects the enormous power of love and its absence of judgement, conditions or attachment.

Leigh Matson

18/12/2015 11:19:46 pm

So true Janet. In a world that values quantity over quality and all the attention and recognition that comes with attempting to amass the most. Serge Benhayon stands out with no focus or energy at all being put into who he is friends with or not, to him everyone is family and treated with love and that has a larger affect than any attempts of gaining friends I have ever been witness to.

Victoria Carter

19/12/2015 02:34:23 pm

This fact cannot be celebrated and astutely observed enough Janet. How DO so many people feel so deeply held and met by Serge Benhayon? So many people feel seen for who they truly are, and not the miasma of complication we can all bring into our lives… This is astounding and absolute reality, showing the potential we all have for truly loving all.

Coleen

13/12/2015 10:36:08 pm

I have also been struck by the way Serge's parenting skills, Katie. The knowing of when to offer true space and when to offer suggestions can only, I feel, come truly from within. I have read and heard many theories on how to parent in this way but have seen only this one lived example, which indicates to me that its source is different to that of the theoreticians, the latter coming from the mind, whilst Serge's ability is from the heart.

Janet Williams

16/12/2015 09:57:56 pm

Yes, Coleen, what I have experienced and learned from Serge with regards to parenting is the power of being held with absolute love, being honoured and celebrated in my essence and reflected to unreservedly when I have lost touch with the truth of who I am. We can all do this for each other.

jane keep

13/12/2015 11:02:00 pm

Re-reading this testimonial what I also love about Serge Benhayon, and about what you say here is that wherever Serge is, whatever day it is, whether he is presenting a workshop or talking with one of us in his home, or out in the car park as we pass one another at the Universal Medicine clinic etc Serge is always consistent - never different, doesn't play roles, what you see is what you get. I love the consistency and integrity that this offers. I have seen many presenters or people who have run workshops who have a 'workshop persona' and then are different in their personal lives which feels inconsistent to me. With Serge Benhayon, there is consistency 24/7 no matter what the environment. That for me today in this busy world is absolute gold - to feel that level of steadiness and integrity is for me a truly great role model.

Vicky Cooke

14/12/2015 11:09:01 pm

I agree Jane and reading your comment made me reflect and feel that with Serge there is always an ease and flow, never a rush which goes in line with what he teaches and presents and always an absolute depth and quality of great care to what he brings in all he does. He is an incredibly beautiful man with a deep love for humanity. This is a really lovely testimonial to read.

Katie Walls

15/12/2015 12:18:43 am

Agree Jane, the absolute consistency that Serge lives regardless of what the day entails comes from the integrity in which he lives his life, the connection he has to people and purpose and that he whole heartedly lives the principals that form the foundation of all his presentations and workshops. These principles really work, are very practical and make sense hence why people all over the world are experiencing significant transformations in their overall disposition, increasing richness in their family life and relationships in general as well as experiencing professional fulfilment to a level that most have not previously felt.

Otto Bathurst

15/12/2015 09:14:47 pm

This is such an important comment Jane. And needs to be really pondered. Because it is truly, truly extraordinary. Like you I have known Serge for a very long time and in all those years have never, ever felt a wavering in his presence, absoluteness, integrity, joy and dedication to whoever he is with. That is unheard of. That is so exceptional. That is a rock of inspiration for thousands. That is a 24/7, 365 days a year shining beacon of love and consistency. EXACTLY what the world is craving.

Kristy Wood

14/12/2015 01:14:42 am

I too have been inspired by the way in which Serge has raised his kids. I first met them when they were teenagers and was blown away by their opens, maturity and sense of responsibility. It has definitely changed the way I see parenting and raising children.

Joel Levin

18/12/2015 07:17:02 pm

I agree Kristy, the definition of family and parenting get re-written for the better in the Benhayon household

Otto Bathurst

28/12/2015 10:13:07 pm

I agree with you Kirsty. The way Serge Benhayon has raised his kids is amazing to behold. But it is so much more than that; the game-changing love that he shows his kids does not stop at the boundaries of his family. I have three kids all of whom have been massively supported by Serge and indeed by his children themselves. I have heard and seen Serge interact with so many children and young adults and in every single situation his commitment and absolute love to each and very one of them is miraculous. And that is because Serge lives, breathes and moves every second of every day with true love... and true love doesn't have a volume button that you can turn up or down depending on with whom you are interacting - be it you own child or a total stranger. To coin a phrase from the seminal "Spinal Tap", Serge's love volume is at 11! The WHOLE time!

Rosie Bason

14/12/2015 11:19:08 am

I too have been greatly inspired by the teachings that Serge Benhayon has presented on parenting. Never once have I been told what to do, and as a single parent I have always felt supported and that I am not on my own which has been great.

Janet Williams

15/12/2015 06:36:34 pm

Very true, Rosie. My daughters have grown up with Serge and Miranda Benhayon as second parents, but never at any stage did I feel I was being told what to do, rather our whole family has simply been blessed and supported to bring more love into family life.

Amelia Stephens

14/12/2015 11:26:39 am

The constant willingness to learn something anew is what makes us constant Students of life. Being humble in the fact that whatever we currently are aware of or know can continually be expanded, opens us up to all the wisdom of the Universe. This is what Serge teaches, and it is what I am experiencing more and more each day, as a student of the Way, the Way of the Livingness.

Gyl Rae

14/12/2015 09:25:15 pm

Reading this testimonial confirms everything I know to be true of Serge Benhayon and what I love about him to, the what you see is what you get , there is never any ounce of judgement or imposition form him, even if you aren't quite feeling yourself, he meets you and holds you always with the same absolute consistency, integrity, care and love. I have never before felt that in my life, and find it a very rare thing to be met this way in this world.For me this has been a whole new marker as how to live and be in relationship not only with myself but everybody. It's amazing to feel and watch the level of love his whole family lives and expresses with, very inspiring and real.

jennyM

15/12/2015 04:37:46 pm

So true Gyl, I have never felt an ounce of judgement or imposition from Serge, yet he does not hold back from delivering truth nor reflecting a consistency of love.

Kylie Connors

26/12/2015 10:22:34 pm

Very true Gyl. Serge Benhayon is THE most real person I know. And I love, love, love being with the entire Benhayon family for this reason (one of many reasons actually!)

Cathy Hackett

15/12/2015 10:45:11 am

I'd go further and say that Serge Benhayon provides children AND adults alike 'the space to be who they are so that they can live their full potential whilst always offering loving guidance when required.' He does this with zero judgement and an endless reserve of patience, understanding and unwavering truth. A truly exceptional, remarkable man - one who brings integrity, wisdom and evolution to everything.

Amelia Stephens

15/12/2015 12:01:00 pm

Relationships are how we truly evolve. By forever committing to depending our expression and understanding in all of our relationships we support each other by way of knowing the keys to help another to evolve. We naturally hold these keys for those around us, so it is for us to appreciate that we never need to be on this planet alone, as there is always a brother to walk beside us and reflect something we need at that very moment. Serge Benhayon, through the teachings of the Ageless Wisdom has shown us just how power-full this can be.

Carola Woods link

15/12/2015 12:50:39 pm

What you have shared is very beautiful Katie. And this line - ‘With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals.’ – is what I have experienced to be so very true. I have only ever been inspired to be and live more of who I am as I have only ever been met by Serge held in an equal greatness that I at times I had not yet claimed for myself. With this I have also been inspired to connect to the greatness in all my relationships knowing that all bring an opportunity to grow and deepen our connection to Love and appreciation for ourselves and each other.

Simon Voysey

15/12/2015 03:01:44 pm

It was inspiring to read that the mark of a great teacher is in the way how he lives everyday open to learning and deepening awareness. Serge Benhayon is inspiring simply through the humble way he lives like this, very open and inviting of learning - yet not the mental storing of knowledge type of learning, but instead the type of learning that ignites all of your being.

Janet Williams

18/12/2015 11:02:39 pm

Yes, Simon, the teachings of Serge Benhayon ignite all of our being because they remind us of the simple loving ways that are so natural to all of us.

Shami

15/12/2015 08:49:08 pm

There is this beautiful quality to the fact that so many people are willing to put their names to this website, claiming fully how much Serge Benhayon has inspired their lives, myself being one of them. Thank you Katie for giving us such a sweet and personal testimonial.

Carmel Reid link

15/12/2015 08:49:11 pm

'he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things' this is awesome because there is never a push, Serge Benhayon simply presents and then it is our choice to open up to achieving those great and wonderful things. What he presents is how he lives, and how he knows we can all live, with access to a wisdom from deep within and a love of all humanity without exception.

Michelle McWaters

15/12/2015 09:14:50 pm

"I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher". Thank you for this Katie. This clarity has brought me a lesson today.

Steffi Henn

15/12/2015 09:52:59 pm

The humbleness of this amazing man Serge Benhayon is a constant inspiration for me too. I know Serge since 7 years now and his consistent way of living helped me trust in humanity again- besides many other facts that he supported me in. He is a gift- not only for me - for the whole world. THE world teacher of this era.

Janet Williams

17/12/2015 09:23:04 pm

Yes, Steffi, it has been very healing for me too to have Serge Benhayon as a role model in my life, who only loves, only cares for humanity and has no other agenda. This kind of a man allows you to trust again, that love truly is the answer and is there within all of us if we open up our hearts again.

Helen Simkins

16/12/2015 08:22:43 am

Serge Benhayon is my role model for how to be in relationships. My family life, friendships and work relationships are founded on love and truth (and not the emotional kind!), The unwavering reflection from Serge and his family has inspired me to take far greater responsibility for my part in them, and to develop a deep understanding and love of who I am at the same time.

Sally Scott

24/12/2015 02:04:41 pm

Ditto Helen, 'Serge Benhayon is my role model for how to be in relationships.'

Fiona Cochran

31/12/2015 01:13:04 pm

This is true for myself too and looking around the student body I see so many inspirational relationships that would not be if Serge had not been so open in the sharing of his.

Rik Connors

16/12/2015 10:35:45 am

I still have not been able to express or write just how much Serge Benhayon's teachings and love has brought a greater awareness in living a much richer life. I was in a low dismal space focusing on abusing me constantly. There was no space at all for me to deeply nurture and care for myself. I now have everything, and that is everything I have ever imagined, at my fingertips to live and appreciate. My life is amazing from so so much abuse. I will write my story when I wholeheartedly appreciate how far I have come. The world needs to understand where I was at compared to where I am now and the relationship I have with myself, my wife, my friends, work colleagues, everyone I meet. Thank you God for Serge Benhayon.

Otto bathurst

16/3/2016 03:24:32 am

The process of appreciation brings you back. So don't wait until you're back before you start appreciating! And in truth that is an ever moving set of goal posts. Each day brings a new level of appreciation, thus it is a constant flow.

Amelia Stephens

16/12/2015 10:56:51 am

Serge has inspired me to know that I need not be bound in the areas I share my authority or expertise. The fact that I am a living, breathing human being in amongst and experiencing everyday life means that I know what is going on by virtue of feeling it everywhere I go. It has been with Serge's (and many others' support) that I now feel empowered to honour my feelings, and knowings of life. This is true empowerment.

Amelia Stephens

17/12/2015 01:22:13 pm

We certainly best teach from our lived experience, and this is exactly what Serge Benhayon does." I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher."
We also never reach a static point or a summit where we can say 'I have made it'. Serge constantly reminds us of this, and that we are forever learning, forever deepening, and forever students of the life that unfolds from within us. And what amazing lives these are.

Vicky Cooke

18/12/2015 11:44:21 am

I love the title of this testimonial 'Life is All About Relationships' something I feel we all to easily or readily forget and something that Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine beautiful reflect and remind us. Since knowing Serge Benhayon not only has my relationships with others evolved incredibly but also my relationship with myself. The wonderfull thing is there is no stop point, there is always more we can love, express, share, accept, heal and deepen with ourselves and others.

Suzanne Anderssen

18/12/2015 12:05:14 pm

This is such a beautiful testimonial for Serge, Katie, words I would like to echo myself. Before knowing Serge, his family and other Universal Medicine students, we too would have considered our parenting 'good'. And I still do, however understanding more about relationships, harmony, love and equality after experiencing many presentations delivered by Serge, there is now an even more honest, deep and detailed approach we now take to parenting, and we can really feel how our child blossoms with this. We are a beautiful family unit, and will continue to learn more about ourselves and each other forever, thank you to Serge and the wisdom he shares freely.

Victoria Carter

19/12/2015 02:49:40 pm

The quality of our relating and every one of our relationships in life is everything Katie. Thank-you for highlighting this in your testimony here, to a man, Serge Benhayon, who has opened me also up to the immense possibility and reality of love (the real deal of love) that each and every one of us has to bring. It is, simply within us.
My relationships and life have been transformed by being held in the love of this man – a love that never once have I had cause to doubt, mistrust or turn away from, and that is saying something from the high level of discernment and astuteness I know myself to have.
One man chose to walk, live and relate with such magnificence of love on this earth again – Serge Benhayon – and now many such as yourself and your family, myself and my husband, are deeply inspired to walk it also.
Love is what truly transforms lives – and the power of it when someone lives with such absolute dedication to all, is the greatest gift that could ever be brought to humanity. For we are all this great in our love, and it takes but the one reflection, the one person that can be truly once again trusted, to change the tide of millennia of loveless interaction, harm, and distrust.

Leigh Matson

9/1/2016 10:36:43 pm

Thank you for this comment Victoria, I paused for a moment to feel that without this one reflection most if not all of us would still be asleep and continuing the way human life has been shaped to be thus far with all the lovelessness, harm and distrust that carries on.

Otto Bathurst

16/3/2016 03:11:15 am

Victoria. The power of your words is the perfect confirmation of everything that you write. The love and commitment in your expression is a direct reflection of the love and commitment that you have seen and felt in Serge Benhayon.

Carmel Reid link

19/12/2015 08:50:20 pm

What Serge Benhayon presents in terms of relationships is inspiring, it has helped me to understand more about myself and how I am with others, whether it be family, friends, work colleagues or a possible future partner, learning how to let go of any neediness so that together we can celebrate each other as equals.

Judy Young

20/12/2015 12:28:36 pm

When I first met Serge Benhayon almost ten years ago I felt I had met a man who lived the words he spoke. Observing him over the years I find it pretty awesome that he still is deepening his love for all since when I met him he was already living a level of love I had not previously encountered. Watching him with his family is true education and the tenderness he shares with us all is a gift. Katie I love what you have written, how Serge's parenting has given you true insight into your own family and parenting. A living example for us all of true love.

Amelia Stephens

22/12/2015 10:39:35 am

There is much to learn in observing Serge Benhayon. What is most beautiful in this learning is knowing all the qualities he displays are equally in us, there to express. He is a profound inspiration for all.

Judy Young

24/12/2015 04:34:52 am

Beautifully said Amelia 'the qualities he displays are equally in us, there to express.' Serge presents a living example of who we all truly are.

Kylie Connors

26/12/2015 10:09:38 pm

I agree Amelia. My most favourite mirror!

Eva Rygg

3/1/2016 08:27:39 am

Well said Amelia - the wisdom this man is carrying is infinite, a forever inspiration.

Amelia Stephens

22/12/2015 10:36:54 am

It inspires me more and more to know that Serge Benhayon sees in all of us our grand potential, and this is equal no matter who we are. This brings a whole new level to equality to me, and one that I will ponder more deeply on.

Sally Scott

24/12/2015 02:03:27 pm

It is remarkable really that Serge Benhayon lives equality. I know this word can be talked about but Serge Benhayon is the only person I have ever met, as well as his family members, who live this. It is incredibly inspiring.

Kathryn

22/12/2015 10:51:48 am

The moment I meet Serge Benhayon was incredible. My whole body felt alive and every cell said YES! This man is the real deal. It was a feeling before he even spoke. THEN when Serge began to share his wisdom and understanding, consistently and with such love I knew I had found a true reflection. 10 years on he has never wavered and I have felt inspired every step of THE WAY. :)

David

27/11/2018 10:47:48 pm

Ditto to all, for me it was eye opening to view the importance of true relationships in life and how a relationship is far more than just what you are sold as a "partner".

Gyl Rae

23/12/2015 10:42:33 pm

have never once in my life been in true relationship, as you have described Katie, one that is deeply loving and honouring of everybody, with no emotion or need, - that was until I met Serge Benhayon. To be in Serge's company or presence be it at workshop, presentation, in a personal conversation or email I am left feeling the absolute love, deep care and equality he holds me and all in equally. There is no love he reserves or holds for another more than anyone else - he meets and holds everybody in absolute true love. What I have also come to deeply know and feel is being met without imposition, judgement and need from another, to be given the space and appreciated for being me, and all that I bring. In offering this Serge has provide one of the greatest gifts to the world and myself, the ability and freedom to know who I am / we are and feel / live the truth of this - it is this true quality, the real me, that I have met through my relationship with myself, by the inspiration and reflection of Serge that is allowing me to bring all of me to the world and everyone I meet. Serge had provide a whole new level of what true relationship is and can be, and reminded me that normal is not the abusive relationships we often see in much of society, but our very normal and natural way to be with one another is one of true love and absolute equality.

Gyl Rae

23/12/2015 11:00:56 pm

Serge Benhayon and his family have inspired me and set a new foundation in how to be and relate with children of all ages.

Matilda Bathurst

7/1/2016 09:41:28 pm

I have floundered as a parent, oscillating between permissiveness and control. Alongside Serge and his family I have discovered the love and power in steady, consistent, clear boundaries and taking responsibility for the quality I am holding in my every interaction with mine and other children (am I really 'there' or distracted in some activity). What I love and appreciate about my path with this is that my core learning is that I am always learning.

Vicky Cooke

23/4/2016 01:19:07 pm

When I look at Serge or observe him with others it inspires me to no end to be the best I can be. I love Serge, he has opened a door and is showing all .. but look you have missed all this .. how can we forget that we are all divine equally so and part of an incredible Universe.

Gyl Rae

23/12/2015 11:06:13 pm

"he is one of the most humble human beings I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. " I agree Serge is the most humble being I have ever met. What touches me deeply is the absolute equality Serge hold us all in. He never ever holds or meets me / anyone less than who they really are.

Otto Bathurst

28/12/2015 10:15:28 pm

Serge's wisdom surpasses all others. As does his humility. That is a world-changing combination.

Karin Bara

28/1/2016 02:27:53 pm

Yes isn't it. Such a beautiful combination together with what Katie said about, 'I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher.' No pride or arrogance but ever expanding love and wisdom.

Sally Green

24/12/2015 02:01:35 pm

Katie, thank you for talking about Serge Benhayon and parenting and relationships. My families connection with each other has also deepened beyond what I knew was possible. Yesterday I worked with my 16 year old daughter in a cafe environment and the other employees couldn't believe how well we got along. They commented how lovely it was to see because you do not see it that often these days. Presently my husband and daughter are living and working together 24/7 and our love for each other grows more and more each day. We are blessed to have this time together and the joy we feel when we are all together can only be attributed to what we learn from Serge Benhayon.

Cherise Holt

24/12/2015 04:01:29 pm

So lovely and deeply touching Katie, relationships are everything and having the understanding and willingness to work on them from the point of knowing that we are all love and equally want to love and be loved brings a simplicity to life; when this simplicity is chosen it is lived and flows through the world with a natural grace.

Liane Mandalis

24/12/2015 07:14:36 pm

Serge Benhayon has been this reflection for me also Katie. A light that sparkles but never flickers, such is the consistency of the love being lived. This has helped me to see that when true love is lived it calls all others to arise to its magnificence, for all are held equal in the steadiness of its glow.

Simone Lewis

25/12/2015 12:26:33 am

Not only does Serge set a benchmark for what is possible in relationships and parenting, but he actually redefines what those words mean. I too have been inspired by Serge "the rock" Benhayon for showing what is possible in my relationship with my partner and with my daughter.

Kylie Connors

26/12/2015 10:12:48 pm

'Re-defined' is the way to describe it Simone. The level of relationship we have come to accept in the world is far from what we deserve and what is true. Serge is the living confirmation of the type of relationship we do deserve to experience and to live with each other.

Samantha Davidson

6/2/2016 09:59:27 pm

Agreed, a 'redefinition' of relationships and parenting, bringing energy, love, truth, responsibility and expression in to the language and experience of day to day life.

Rowena Stewart

25/12/2015 12:40:11 am

Thank you Katie, you have encapsulated the very qualities that we all feel and resonate with in Serge Benhayon very well. Serge is a profoundly humble and caring man who takes life very seriously in a very joyful and playful way. His dedication to supporting people to re-claim love in their lives, allow space for their children to grow and offer loving, wise guidance when required is very up lifting. I know many people, self included who have welcomed and run with this guidance, applying the wisdoms shared in order to restore true love and harmony to our lives. Thanks to Serge Benhayon we are re-building truly loving families who are in turn taking this love out into their communities and sharing it family, friends, neighbours and colleagues to great effect and so the pure love of one man travels around the world.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

28/3/2016 05:41:19 am

What is so very gorgeous is that Serge Benhayon never ever tells anyone what to do and how to live, yet the inspiring way that he himself lives, and the wisdom with which he approaches every aspect of life, provides invaluable support for each person to connect to their own wisdom and love within, to naturally approach life with a far greater understanding and responsibility and be an inspiration to all as he himself is. A precious gift.

Shevon Simon

25/12/2015 10:31:26 am

The richness that Serge Benhayon and his family bring to relationships is unprecedented. They have been and still are real life living examples of what it means to not hold back your Love of others. I have greatly benefitted from them treating me this way and with this it encourages me to remember to treat others with the same loving care.

Kylie Connors

26/12/2015 10:07:48 pm

Thank you for sharing this Katie. Since knowing Serge Benhayon, I have come to learn that just when we think that life is 'as good as it's going to get' there's always more, there's a deeper depth, a more consistently joyful joy to live. In fact, there is no limit and no end to our love, and this, Serge lives and shows me every day, ever-deepening, ever-inspiring.

Lucy Dahill

27/12/2015 11:11:07 am

Well said Katie. I have also been inspired by the way he parents and connects with young people and children. There is an equality which I feel is lacking in most adult interactions due to the way we have been brought up - be seen and not heard. Serge's children are testament to what engaging and valuing what your children have to say and how giving them space to value who they are can mean they are engaged, committed and responsible young adults who embrace all life has to offer from the get-go.

abby

28/12/2015 01:00:24 am

Serge has inspired me to keep deepening the love I bring to relationships - this means so much to me as when I am now able to really enjoy my friends & family without feeling so weighted down by hurts I have carried in the past.

Jenny Hayes

29/12/2015 12:41:31 am

Katie this is gorgeous. Everything that Serge presents shows us there is more, for even when he is not on stage he is still presenting to us. Presenting a way of living that is consistent and loving to all. The deep love and respect I have for Serge never changes despite the changes that go on in my life.

Leigh Matson

30/12/2015 11:23:59 am

Changing ones perspective on life from 'what can I do/material gain etc' to a stance based on energy, relationships and quality has not only been a life changer but at the same time familar as if its always been in the background.

Simone Lewis

31/12/2015 12:52:33 pm

I too love what Serge Benhayon has taught me about relationships, especially the importance of those that we develop in the home. I can feel my understanding of this deepening as I grow to be open, loving and appreciative of myself and the amazing family I have chosen to spend my life with.

Shami

1/1/2016 12:59:38 am

I love how very un-exclusive Serge Benhayon is. How people can write here of having personal relationships with him that feel both super supportive and potentially life changing, but also very normal at the same time. This is a great testimonial not only of Serge and his ability to have meaningful relationships with everybody, but also of the people who are humble enough and willing to see him for who is and appreciate that undeniably incredible quality that he brings as being something equal to the quality that they also bring to life.

Otto Bathurst

16/3/2016 02:15:33 am

You make a great point Shami - and that is the appreciation of those that have had the humility and courage to really see the full picture. That is something. So much easier to stay on the straight and narrow of whatever your life might be - seems so much more comfortable. And it is true, opening yourself up to looking at the choices that you have made can be bumpy ride. So huge respect for those that have and ginormous respect for the 24/7 support that Serge Benhayon and his whole family have given to those that have been willing to take the steps.

Mariette Reineke

1/1/2016 09:07:44 pm

To approach the day that you are going to learn something anew and that there is a deeper level to connect to. So beautiful and so true. Serge Benhayon is the one, just like we all are.

steffihenn

6/1/2016 10:57:07 am

Almost every sentence this man speaks is deeply inspiring- I could read every moment something, that would remind me of a truth, I tend to not listen to or make a blind eye to, because it would get me out of my comfort zone. This man is pure evolution and I am deeply grateful to get inspired by him and his way of living.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

3/1/2016 11:54:46 am

"The connection and love we now live is something I didn’t know was possible". I know exactly what you mean Katie. This phrase is something that I can keep uttering again and again because thanks to Serge Benhayon and the choices I am inspired to keep making, the connection and love that I live with keeps deepening. I have had the blessing of seeing him 2-3 times a year for the past 9 years and each time I see him my understanding about life, my appreciation of people and my commitment and responsibility deepens as a direct result of the wisdom, the insights and the inspiration he shares through his presentations and through the way he simply lives. He is a true friend, teacher and pure inspiration in life.

Sarah Flenley

5/1/2016 11:57:41 am

This one of the many things I love about Serge Benhayon - "The connection and love we now live is something I didn’t know was possible as man and wife" - he has shown us a whole new way of being and living. Possibilities that we did not even know existed.

steffihenn

6/1/2016 10:54:20 am

With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals.
A better statement could not have been made about Serge Benhayon!

Simon Voysey

6/1/2016 01:54:30 pm

I appreciate your sharing Katie about how your relationship was already good and that what you both benefited from Serge Benhayon was a deeper understanding of the essence of relationship and how that enriched your experience. It is inspiring to read of someone else's love broadening and expanding in relationship and feel how that is possible for all.

Matilda Bathurst

7/1/2016 09:33:45 pm

Yes, that is something I love about who Serge Benhayon is and how he shares his life - there is always more... not in a must achieve kind of way but in a for every moment of inspiration there is the appreciation of that and then, 'Oh my goodness imagine what else there is if we continue to open up to and deepen our relationships with ourselves and others'.

Andrew Mooney

6/1/2016 10:09:08 pm

I agree that one of the most remarkable things about Serge Benhayon is that while he is undoubtedly a great teacher and presenter, he has always seen himself as a great student also. He could have rested on his laurels and achievements years ago however he does the complete opposite, constantly refining, adjusting, learning, exploring with his own life and therefore constantly expanding his awareness and ability to love. This is a man who truly understands evolution.

Deanne Voysey

23/1/2016 11:19:53 pm

This is remarkable to observe in Serge Benhayon as I know myself and others too often want things in life to improve, be better and for the problems we encounter in life to go away and direct our efforts towards this - essentially to make life more comfortable. Serge Benhayon lives surrendered with absolute commitment to truth - this reflection calls me to look at the elements in my life I am trying to control, the expectations I am still striving to meet or holding the world to ransom for - and I might be doing this for a few lifetimes to come but would never ever have even considered that I too can work towards a life like this is it were not for Serge Benhayon and all he brings.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

26/1/2016 05:39:14 am

Yes Andrew and Deanne it is wonderful that whilst there is no perfection to be reached and life is forever expanding and evolving, we always have those among us, like Serge Benhayon, who choose such constancy of love, truth and dedication to humanity that they are like bright lights illuminating the way. It is deeply touching and of note that such individuals live with the deepest integrity, joy, humility and absolute service to people and support every single person to feel equal and precious. Serge Benhayon and those who choose to live like him are a blessing to the whole world.

Samantha Davidson

6/2/2016 09:53:19 pm

This has been my observation also, to be a 'forever student' and to share this with humanity offers an awesome reflection that there is always more to learn. I have learnt to be more understanding with myself and others through this reflection. This has meant a lot in my life, I have let go of some of the demands and pressures I used to feel about getting it 'right' all the time and about feeling let down when I perceived some one hadn't fulfilled my expectations. Life is a there to offer us evolution, making what we call mistakes and being open to what is shared is part of that experience. Life changing.

Matilda Bathurst

7/1/2016 09:28:26 pm

There is no doubt that Serge Benhayon is inspiring lives around the world and yet his humility is second to none. He embodies the power of this along with the strength of tenderness, open-ness and love.

Samantha Davidson

6/2/2016 09:47:27 pm

Agreed the humility lived and shared by Serge Benhayon is awesome to observe and I am constantly inspired.

Shami

8/1/2016 09:57:10 pm

What Katie has shown me through this blog, is how we can invest in relationships that are based on something far greater than personal desires, needs and wants. That there is something perhaps even greater than Love that is available when we all work together.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

10/1/2016 10:30:30 am

It is wonderful that you have shared that "My husband and I have been greatly inspired to offer to our own kids the qualities Serge lives as a parent." This in Serge Benhayon is such a gorgeous trait. That he lives with incredible love, wisdom and dedication in all aspects of life, and the honouring way he relates to everyone naturally inspires each person to connect to that within themselves. So he leaves a trail of empowered, loving, responsible and wise people wherever he goes.

Carmel Reid link

10/1/2016 07:38:45 pm

Serge Benhayon has helped many of us to understand about relationships, what happens in a relationship and how we can choose to evolve through our communication. Before meeting Serge I hadn't understood how two needy people can end up almost destroying each other through their expectations that neither can fulfil, and how simply developing self-love and appreciation of the qualities that each person brings can enable a celebration of love that brings true joy.

Shami

15/1/2016 01:19:41 am

We have this man amongst us living quite a simple life, but in that he is having the most extraordinary relationships. They are extraordinary because there is no harm or violence. There is actually love being lived together, even though issues may arise as they always do and sometimes things need to be worked out, but love is not compromised by Serge for the sake of drama or emotional turmoil. In my experience this takes time to learn and to begin to live, but with patience and a lot of personal understanding, dedication and perseverance, this love is actually possible for anyone and everyone.

Mariette Reineke

15/1/2016 04:49:42 am

If we would make life more about relationships, we would not have the amount of divorces, break ups, fights, discussions, broken families and abuse that we have now in the world. If we make it more about relating and less about achieving and results, life would be a whole lot more joyful, in harmonious and simple.

Ingrid Ward

18/1/2016 07:14:08 am

Katie, the word “enriched” jumped out of your first sentence as I re-read your testimonial to the wonderful Serge Benhayon, as this word sums up the change in my life since I first met him – my life and my relationships have been enriched immeasurably and continue to be so every day. My appreciation of Serge is endless.

Anne Hishon

21/1/2016 09:33:48 am

Serge has been in my life for the last 10 years. In that time the changes in my family and in myself have been immense. We live with love, commitment to being more, a deep honesty and a knowing that what we have is to be shared with all humanity.

Deanne Voysey

23/1/2016 11:02:28 pm

Living close by and knowing you for the last seven years Katie, there is no doubt you bring integrity to your relationships and role model this for others just as Serge Benhayon has been a role model for you.

Gretel Willis

28/1/2016 01:34:47 am

I feel that Serge and Universal Medicine parents all of us in a way which allows us to become mature responsible adults in the world who live from the depths of our power. We are encouraged to keep expanding, deepening and growing until the day we die. We are taught to take responsibility for our choices and for the energy we live in. We are held in love by Serge, so that we know the beauty who we truly are and are therefore not held by pictures, judgments and expectations of who we are not. I feel like I am finally growing up in my 40s thanks to Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine, becoming the beautiful, loving, divine being that I am in truth.

Carmel Reid link

28/1/2016 11:52:14 pm

Serge Benhayon, through his many presentations and books has provided us with all the tools we need to re-connect back to our innermost selves and to our soul. It is only us who are delaying that through our choices about the way we live with ourselves and others.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

30/1/2016 12:54:27 am

Witnessing Serge Benhayon in life is deeply touching, humbling, inspiring and empowering, as well as a great source of wisdom. What he shares in words is backed up by how he has already lived and never a theory. This is how Serge Benhayon powerfully teaches great wisdom about life and relationships - not just through words, but through actually how he lives.

Carmel Reid link

1/2/2016 09:27:59 pm

One of the things I have learned about relationships from Serge Benhayon is that the most important one is the one you have with yourself, and from there everything else is a reflection. As we love ourselves, so can we love and celebrate another. I grew up thinking we had to be there for everyone else and I was always looking outside and found so many ways to avoid feeling what was going on inside me, my body, myself. Serge Benhayon lives with absolute respect for his body and who he is and the same respect is accorded to everyone he meets because he is coming from that livingness. So he is there for everyone else and he is absolutely there, in full, because he is with himself, first.

Amelia Stephens

4/2/2016 12:02:22 pm

I could not agree more Katie. Serge Benhayon is a truly humble man, who is here to assist whoever so chooses to live a life of responsibility, love and joy that we may have otherwise felt to be not possible in this world we live in. His support and quality in this is unwavering, bringing us all the equality of who we truly are.

Samantha Davidson

6/2/2016 09:36:54 pm

Concerning Serge Benhayon, I have felt held in equality by him "he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup." I have never felt less around him and it is inspiring to be held to so dearly and respectfully. I have felt inspired to step out into life through Serge Benhayon's reflection.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

1/4/2016 12:24:51 pm

Serge Benhayon's reflection is indeed inspiring and empowering. Our current world is riddled with messages that keep stating we are not enough and need to keep trying to match external images and ideals. In contrast the way Serge Benhayon lives and relates to every one is a constant reminder of how empty those ideals are compared to the grandness that is within each and every one of us.

Samantha Davidson

6/2/2016 09:45:59 pm

As you say 'enriched' which is a great word for it, my life has more depth, colour, meaning, purpose, understanding, joy, love, commitment, expression, health, and many more amazing life expanding experiences through the inspiration of Serge Benhayon reflecting the way he lives "The connection and love we now live is something I didn’t know was possible as man and wife and I can feel there is even more for us to explore together both as a couple and as parents." 15 years ago I did not ‘think’ that I could feel this well and truly alive, deep appreciation is felt.

Kathleen Baldwin

8/2/2016 01:08:58 am

Wow! Just read all of the comments above and have to add my name to list of all those who not only wholeheartedly agree with every word that you have written here Katie but can actually vouch for that every word is true.

Leonne

13/2/2016 12:17:10 pm

Wow - your testimonial shows just how inspirational Serge Benhayon and his family have been. Your life and relationships sound truly wonderful and it is clear you deeply appreciate all you have been supported to choose.

Shami

15/2/2016 07:40:19 pm

There is no life without relationships, with each person taking with them their piece of the whole that we are all a part of. And Even though Serge Benhayon is truly remarkable, he is still an equal part to you or I. This is what he and his children have shown me, and although it may take sometime more for me to fully live this fact, I know it to be the real reality of life.

Otto Bathurst

16/3/2016 02:10:12 am

Shami - you write with such delicacy and power. Huge appreciation. And yes I am in full agreement - the number one thing that Serge and his family keep on reflecting back to me; over and over and over (God bless their patience!!) is that we are all equal. This coupled with the amazingness that he is and lives, is all the inspiration any living man or woman could want.

Jessica Williams

21/2/2016 10:51:43 am

"We all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup", so true, and also so obvious and yet we act as though we are all completely separate to eachother based on race, belief, sex, etc etc. What I always loved in biology was learning about the human body, and how EVERYONE has the same makeup as you say, with the same cells, the same organs, the same tissues and the same heart.

Samantha Davidson

27/2/2016 09:53:28 pm

I have also deeply admired and appreciated how humble Serge Benhayon is, it is constantly clear through how he lives that there is always more to learn, he lives as 'forever student' always open learn more. True Equality Lived.

Adele Leung link

9/3/2016 01:20:55 pm

Inspiration always take us naturally deeper when we choose to, but there is never any forcing and it is not about having to reach a perfect goal. This is how Serge Benhayon and his family inspires.

Carmel Reid link

9/3/2016 09:14:30 pm

Serge builds relationships with people and businesses in his local community and beyond. He is showing us how we can be ourselves and don't have to pretend to be anything or anyone else but simply living the truth of who we are. He inspires us to fulfil our potential at work, at home and in our own local communities.

Leigh Matson

15/3/2016 11:16:28 am

Coming back to this blog you had me at the title 'Life is all about relationships'. It makes so much sense that everything in life is related and nothing is ever separate. It is this common sense that makes sense to everyone (and allowing each person the space to choose to accept or reject these truths) that Serge Benhayon brings in spades. Everything is connected and thus everything and everyone is treated the same in the knowing that how he relates to one is how then he relates to the all. This way of life was unknown to me before coming to Universal Medicine but it makes life make much more sense than living in 'random' 'luck' 'fate' or 'just because'. Everything is related thus everything can be known and this Serge consistently lives and reflects.

Emma Danchin

17/3/2016 11:49:02 am

The immense power of what Serge Benhayon brings is the fact that he lives every detail of what he presents. He is a brilliant shining light built on the foundation of the commitment he makes to every aspect of his life. One such aspect is relationships, which is in fact the essence of human life and our evolution as a species. We focus so much on technological advancement and remain blinded to how we actually are in relationship with ourselves and with all others.

I have been immensely inspired by his family, the way in which Serge and Deborah Benhayon parented their children and the immense love, intelligence and capacity now displayed by each of them as young adults whose “maturity and wisdom greatly surpass their biological age.” They each now stand as beacons of light and strength for the community, whom many seek their wise counsel. And too, I have been deeply inspired by the relationship Serge Benhayon has with his wife Miranda Benhayon and they with Deborah Benhayon and her husband Clayton Lloyd.

My relationship with my fiancé has grown exponentially through responding to their open and wise sharing of their dynamics and simply by observing the way that they are with each other. I am now able to share this level of love and understanding in all relationships in my life, some of which were previously very difficult and others which carried a disregard that I was not aware of and I can now bring responsibility to.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

26/3/2016 01:17:08 pm

All the relationships you have mentioned Emma, among Serge Benhayon and members of his family are immensely inspiring and confirming of the highest qualities we as human beings have, as well as the depth of love, commitment and responsibility which we can offer our relationships. It would be amazing if magazines that seem to focus on gossip and relationship innuendos, instead studied these relationships and those that have been inspired by them. There would be plenty of real life amazing stories and wise insights that could be shared that would greatly benefit the public.

Emma Danchin

27/3/2016 11:05:02 am

Yes Golnaz, that would indeed be a magazine worth reading!

Vicky Cooke

18/3/2016 11:31:25 pm

What Serge Benhayon teaches and presents, particularly about relationships, is something that he very much lives to an absolute depth, that is why he can teach and present about it. Great testimony beautifull to read.

Stephanie Stevenson

27/3/2016 10:21:14 pm

Katie this is true in my own experience of Serge Benhayon over the past 8 years. He is totally consistent in this way of living and presenting to thousands of people. An ordinary family man living in an extraordinary way.
"There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup"

Carmel Reid link

4/4/2016 10:28:46 pm

Serge Benhayon is showing us a way to be in relationships that is forever deepening and evolving.

Vicky Cooke

6/4/2016 12:08:33 am

A beautifull and also very down to earth testimony of Serge Benhayon. This is so true what you have shared 'he is one of the most humble human beings I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.' I feel this too, and there is so much I can learn from and change within from Serge Benhayon reflecting and being just this.

Shami

18/4/2016 09:06:25 pm

Serge Benhayon has brought new meaning to what the quality of relationships can be, and by this he has actually re-introduced the old meaning of them. As human relationships have become so far from what we all know in our hearts, the truth that we carry around with us, an ancient truth that is there even though we are continually distracted away from it by modern life, this truth continues to live on inside of us and is something that we will always seek until such time that the re-connection to who you are is finally made and your relationships can return to the normalcy and the depths that you know they can be.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

24/4/2016 05:39:50 am

Yes Shami we have veered far from the original knowing of who we are and living every aspect of life in alignment to and honour of that. Yet that essence stays unchanged within every single one of us and available if we but choose that instead of the myriad of ways we have learned to mask and hide it even from ourself. Serge Benhayon is a welcome reflection of that true essence and an inspiration for us to remember and find our way back to the truth of who we are.

Aimee Edmonds

3/5/2016 08:05:02 pm

I have always loved listening to and being inspired by how Serge Benhayon and Deborah Benhayon parented their four children, and now the beautiful way in which their children parent their children. Also, how parenting does not only come down to the responsibility of the parents alone but to everyone in the family... aunties, uncles, grand parents etc.

Hannah Morden link

3/5/2016 09:20:44 pm

Kate, you talk about the Benhayon inspiring you to raise children - and I loved reading this. As I come to having my first child, i am approaching this with the openness of raising children who are confirmed in who they are, just as they are. Something I would never ever have considered before I choose to come to Universal Medicine. What an absolute gift we have - to know how to truly appreciate people for who they are before it is about what they do. I am also very grateful to Serge for speaking up and sharing that there is another way.

Fiona Lotherington

4/5/2016 12:35:40 pm

I have also been inspired in all aspects of my life by Serge Benhayon. I love the way he is the forever student. His constant deepening and attention to detail have gradually knocked out my idea that we evolve to get there and then you can rest on your laurels. As far as relationships go, the change in my way of relating has been immense. In the past when I ended a relationship I would be glad to let it go. Now I continue to develop those relationships. My parenting is also completely different. I was the classic self-sacrificing mum. available 24/7. I have learnt that this is not only harmful to my wellbeing but stifling for the kids. Holding the truth of who we and they are, and having loving understanding allows the kids to develop in their own way.

Jade Jamieson

4/5/2016 09:17:49 pm

What a beautiful reflection of your relationship with Serge Benhayon and his effect on your life Katie. I absolutely concur with all you have shared knowing Serge Benhayon and his family for almost 10 years now he has never wavered in treating everyone as his equal. The quality of his relationships and his parenting ability with his own children is evident in the fact that he is so well loved and all of his children have such maturity, insight and deep love for humanity. He is absolutely the real deal and deeply inspires me to be all that I am.

Danna Elmalah

5/5/2016 12:18:58 pm

Absolutely , I totally agree with this blog, knowing Serge and having met him 5 years ago.. I deeply enjoy every sharing that is made on this website - simply because its shows the truth of this work Serge Benhayon is bringing to earth.. We are his tenents to be seen for the work that can be lived through all of us. Simply by being , being our simplest selves - and accept the love we are. My eyes are opened now, simply by my choice - ready for landing and coming back to who we are. Serge Benhayon, is a real testimony to earth - we are energetic beings first and we must come back to who we are.

Amina Tumi

5/5/2016 08:32:53 pm

Serge Benhayon has a truly loving way with each and every person in the world and nothing he does says or thinks undermines this simple fact. His respect and integrity is far reaching and reflects a way of living that is pure and always evolving.

Simon Williams

5/5/2016 10:19:44 pm

'he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things' - this is a truly remarkable quality. There is no judgement even when things go pear shaped. He will always see the incredibly special person inside everyone first, and will also call out when we are being less than that.

Nicole Sjardin

6/5/2016 06:19:29 am

The consistency is one of the most valuable things I have learnt form observing Serge and his family over the last 10 years - it is truly inspiring and in turn this lesson has helped me to improve my relationships.

Fumiyo Egashira

6/5/2016 03:27:21 pm

There may be lots of great teachers, great parents, great friends – people being great at the role they play, but it is rare to see one person living the utmost quality in all facets of their life with consistency as we see in Serge Benhayon. In my appreciation of everything about Serge, I realise how many things about our society is upside down putting focus on improving the peripherals while the inner-core as the foundational basis is being overlooked/neglected, leaving us with much disharmony we see and experience.

Susan Green

7/5/2016 02:28:39 pm

I have never met anyone like Serge. I have always been amazed by how much he loves and deeply cares for people and his unwavering support for everyone he meets. I know he is always there when ever we need him and even those times when we think we don't - Serge is always there.

Rowena Stewart

7/5/2016 09:20:11 pm

Thank you Katie and its true, while we may consider our life to be fairly complete, after meeting Serge Benhayon and studying his teachings we begin to realise there are many more layers of life and love to be explored and embodied. The way Serge's children have grown and matured is a real tribute to both Serge and Deborah Benhayon's parenting abilities that have inspired thousands of adults to deepen their own abilities and not just with their own children but with one another too. And what is even more amazing is that for those adults like me who have not had my own children, even I have been inspired and empowered to improve my parenting skills, a joy I never anticipated and am extremely appreciative of. So I too join the ranks of people saying "Thank you Serge" for continually showing us how to enrich our lives with love, care and true respect so that we can once again live in a truly dignified society that cares for all equally so.

Rebecca Briant

8/5/2016 01:10:16 pm

I totally agree Katie - serge has an amazing ability to see and hold people for who they are not matter the choices or messes they might be in. His support and guidance is sought by many because his ability to see you for who you are first means he has not judgement and never tells you what to do. He truly is an inspiring man in all aspects of life.

Luke Yokota

8/5/2016 05:14:09 pm

Serge is indeed very humble as every presentation I have been to, never have I witnessed Serge putting himself above others. It is quite the contrary where discusses are around why aren't you living your potential?

A real people person, always seeing the best in people.

Jonathan Stewart

8/5/2016 09:10:27 pm

Serge's trade mark, "With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals."

James Nicholson

8/5/2016 09:29:01 pm

Thank you for sharing Katie, as you say 'With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals.' Serge is a constant support and reflection of love and what is possible, he never judges rather supports and inspires. My life is certainly much richer having Serge in it.

Felix Schumacher link

8/5/2016 10:21:40 pm

To connect to myself and to people is true food.

Rebecca Briant

10/5/2016 09:55:38 am

I love how you are sharing that there is more to life and our relationships than simply 'good' - that what Serge and his family have shown is that we can build truth which surpasses good and encompasses all relationships.

Danna Elmalah

10/5/2016 12:56:44 pm

Thank you Katie for sharing, this is a testimony of how we all can heal, and life lovingly and teach our young how to love themselves - by taking care of ourselves first. How beautiful that you have found you way..

Monica Gillooly

10/5/2016 01:26:36 pm

Katie, such a full expression of all that Serge brings, I love it you describe his humility, and how he is absolutely himself, with any affectation or airs always. And I love how you've taken inspiration from that to live and deepen your own relationship and ways of living.

Alison Moir

10/5/2016 10:25:38 pm

"I am so appreciative to have Serge in our lives and would like to say thank you Serge for consistently and unwaveringly BEING YOU." Yes absolutely, Katie the more I allow myself to be who I am, the more I can appreciate all that Serge brings by consistently and unwaveringly being him.

Heidi Crowder

11/5/2016 02:36:21 am

I have also been very inspired by Serge's parenting.

Natalie Hawthorne

12/5/2016 07:58:04 pm

I too have been blown away by Serge Benhayon's children, the way he has parented them is one that is immensely obvious in the way they are as young adults today. They each hold a strength, confidence and knowing of who they are and what they bring to the world. Not an ounce of arrogance and an openness to share this with everyone that they meet. I have been inspired by each one of them and still to this day appreciate everything that they share.

Annelies van Haastrecht

13/5/2016 07:29:56 pm

'I have often admired Serges parenting ability, to give his children the space to be who they are so that they can live their full potential whilst always offering loving guidance when required.' And all children are his children, every child, every human being is held by the love he lives on earth in a humble way. Thank you Katie for sharing your experiences with Serge and like you say 'With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals.'

Eduardo Feldman

13/5/2016 08:25:53 pm

There was a phrase in this testimony that felt especially salient. “I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher.” If life is all about relationships, Serge is reflecting through his living way that it is also about how you relate to the day it commences. This initiates a movement of specific qualities.

Lucy Duffy

14/5/2016 03:01:04 am

My life has been enriched beyond both measure and my most wishful and hopeful dreams thanks to Serge Benhayon. Thanks to his unwavering love and support and his steadfast reflection I no long have to wish and hope, for I have been inspired by him to live in a way that supports true love and joy. Every day is an opportunity to go deeper, to be more honest with myself and to live with greater and greater responsibility - as Serge himself does. Thank You Serge. You have awakened me from my slumber and taken the illusionary dreams from my eyes. I see clearly now and know what needs to be done.

Felix Schumacher link

14/5/2016 06:46:48 am

How many times have we made relationships about how we want the other to be with us? Studying with Serge Benhayon raises the awareness to allow 2 things: first a loving foundation of letting yourself and your partner be, second to support each other to be more of that. What a treasure!

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

14/5/2016 12:09:58 pm

There is something very special when we fully connect with another, a world opens up to both people that is far deeper and expands far more than the sum of the two physical individuals – and it can be husband and wife, parent or child, or friends – and it has a domino effect of touching and inspiring others along the way. What a blessing to have this truth reflected and seeing an inspiring example of it being lived by Serge Benhayon and all his family who deeply connect with everyone they meet.

Karin Barea

15/5/2016 12:23:48 pm

Serge Benhayon reflects what it is possible to live and the relationships we can have with ourselves and one another. I'd always down play who I am and though this is something I can still choose I know it's my way to not be consistently all of who I am. His humility is so genuine and lived that I feel the truth of him being no different to anyone else. And with this I can feel the love he has for humanity and his level of integrity he chooses to live by so we all get the reflection of who we all truly are because it's not hidden behind/ diluted by energy that is not love.

Naren Duffy

15/5/2016 12:57:37 pm

'There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup.' This is a truly remarkable aspect of Serge, and one that I deeply appreciate and am inspired by.

Amina Tumi

15/5/2016 08:33:31 pm

The more that I develop my relationship with myself and others the more I can say that Life is about relationships and the quality of them.

Samantha Davidson

16/5/2016 09:30:01 pm

How inspiring to feel awesome in a relationship and know still that there will always be more to learn and that this is part of life..."The connection and love we now live is something I didn’t know was possible as man and wife and I can feel there is even more for us to explore together both as a couple and as parents." We cannot underestimate the significance of people's relationships truly healing and blossoming thorough the inspiration and support of Serge Benhayon.

Samantha Davidson

16/5/2016 09:32:57 pm

My relationships have deeply benefited through the inspiration of Serge Benhayon, predominately through the suggestion that we are all responsible for our choices. The blame game does not work, although it was one like many that I used to bring out to deal with circumstances i found uncomfortable. Becoming free of blame and choosing responsibility has changed my life.

Samantha Davidson

16/5/2016 09:37:48 pm

A true teacher, is one who knows there is always more to learn "I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher." There can be no stagnation or superiority when we are open to know that there is always more to learn. This I have witnessed in Serge Benhayon and this I have been deeply inspired by.

Nico van Haastrecht

17/5/2016 07:20:55 pm

So true Katie, Serge Benhayon walks the talk. Nothing is artificial, he is totally real and although for me that is extraordinary, it is actual the ordinary and natural way to be.

Rebecca Briant

18/5/2016 01:04:28 am

The ripple effects of what Serge presents is awesome because he doesn't hold the life he lives to himself but shares it with all, allowing them to be inspired and in turn pass it along to those they know.

Natalie Hawthorne

18/5/2016 11:37:10 am

What you share Katie is so true to hundreds of the Students of The Way of the Livingness. Thanks to Serge and him sharing is way of living inspired by the Ageless Wisdom we are able to reflect this into our own lives and make everything about connection and love. Love is about living our lives with responsibility and expressing this with partners, children, siblings, aunts and uncles, cousins, work colleagues and anyone that comes into your lives. With this as our consistent way of being then we too can connect to what Serge is too.

Richard Mills

18/5/2016 09:03:59 pm

It is my experience too that Serge Benhayon is the most truly humble being I know. He is as open to learning as he is to teaching and sharing the wisdom he accesses and presents. Because of this I have never felt small in his presence but that I am his equal and hence the equal of everyone. This is a very beautiful awareness and a foundation for making new connections and building true relationships in life, deeper than ever before.

Richard Mills

18/5/2016 09:10:28 pm

It is true that life is all about relationships. Every relationship I have has been transformed through the awarenesses that Serge Benhayon shares. Very simply, meeting and connecting to people has become about what I am responsible for bringing to that meeting and not what I seek to get from it. This apparently small shift is monumental in truth and allows people to be who they are and hence make a real connection with another. The difference is impossible to calculate or even estimate. It is truly life changing.

Rowena Stewart

19/5/2016 09:44:27 pm

Serge Benhayon has revolutionised my appreciation and experience of relationships. I used to be the world's most successful hermit, very adept at hiding in a crowd, not being noticed and not engaging. Now that is a very distant memory and I love being with people in every aspect of my life. This is an enormous miracle, one that has naturally unfolded the more I have connected with Serge Benhayon and his teachings, teachings that are alive and forever expanding, evident for all to observe and learn by. Transparency, honesty, integrity, connection and respect are the best teachers in the world.

Hannah Morden

19/5/2016 11:16:09 pm

Hi Katie, I really appreciate what you have shared here about how Serge is; 'There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup.' - How many people can we truly say this about? It is so needed and rare to hear of someone who lives with no judgement, with a knowing that everyone is equal and that we are all capable of great things. This way of being is felt by every single person Serge meets. Sure - some may not like it, but many can really appreciate the value of what he delivers in every single moment.

Tricia Nicholson

20/5/2016 12:52:30 am

Katie this is beautiful and such a deep testament to the love and support of Serge Benhayon and his family to many many families all over the world. Serge Benhayon is here for humanity by his very inspiration and reflection of his own livingness and loving consistency.The truth is here and so is its reflection and inspiration for us all to appreciate and live.

Helen Giles

23/5/2016 11:00:45 am

Serge Benhayon's leadership and role modelling of how we can raise our children is a stand out for me. In this world today parenting is a minefield but here is someone who has shown and continues to lead the way in parenting. He and his family face the everyday realities that face us all in our day to day lives yet he and his family are managing to find a way to not only survive, but to live with a vibrancy that is way above what is usually seen and felt. It is very inspirational and I, along with many others I know of, have benefited enormously from such role modelling.

Emily Newman

23/5/2016 01:09:09 pm

"I have often admired Serges parenting ability, to give his children the space to be who they are so that they can live their full potential whilst always offering loving guidance when required." It is indeed something to be admired. and i love what you shared about how kids innately know what someone is about. We can learn so much from them.

Joseph Barker

23/5/2016 02:42:51 pm

When you look at it this way, the way we currently approach life is like being in a room with 50 people for a day and not saying a word. The fact is we are all waiting there with gems and jewels to share and when we take the barriers down we find deep down we are all the same. Its this connection and openness to other people and what they bring that Serge Benhayon epitomises. Thank you Katie for summing up this quality of true humanity.

Leigh Strack

24/5/2016 03:35:32 am

Katie,
Knowing Serge Benhayon has also enriched my life. I have deeper more caring relationships with people than at any other time in my life and these are deepening daily. I know without a shadow of doubt that with out the teachings that Serge offers that I would not have made the changes that has allowed for the connections I now have in my life.

Otto Bathurst

24/5/2016 09:25:52 pm

Humility and power. Two words that have been distorted in my eyes by what I have seen in the world. Humility - either a feeble submissiveness or often a disguise for arrogance. Power - a force, imposition or abuse of position. Serge Benhayon has not only totally recalibrated these expressions back to their truths but also inspired them both in me. As I embrace the equality of humanity my humility grows exponentially yet in sync with my acceptance of my own amazingness and..well, that is power.

Jonathan Stewart

27/5/2016 11:05:47 pm

"There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup." He has such a depth of knowing that is so loving because he knows we all have a potential to be far more than how we live. We come to realise this is in ourselves and we begin to aspire and live this. That is inspiring.

Gabriele Conrad

28/5/2016 08:15:09 pm

So true, no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon at all; he deeply knows that we are all from the same divine source and holds everyone he meets in that love.

Jade Jamieson

29/5/2016 12:41:57 am

Beautiful Katie, what you share reveals that what Serge Benhayon talks he walks in life - that life is indeed all about relationships and the quality of these relationships are a direct result of the quality we live. The fact that Serge Benhayon's children are such amazingly mature, vibrant and hard working people is a true reflection of the amazing man and parent Serge Benhayon is. He truly is an inspiration to so many in what it is to live a life all about relationships.

Vicky Cooke

31/5/2016 09:33:17 pm

A great teacher is indeed someone who is not only continually learning from life and how they are living but someone who understands true evolution making it about the whole, not just themselves 'With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher.' Serge Benhayon is one of these people and also a great (or should I say The Great) modern day philosopher. It is a blessing to know or meet Serge Benhayon, as you have shared, as anything learnt or reflected from him brings about true change in another's life if willing to be open, honest and heal.

Shami

31/5/2016 09:48:04 pm

As I come to understand the major importance of every single relationship that I have throughout the day with every single person that I meet, life is becoming far sweeter and more of a rich tapestry of genuine meetings between myself and everyone else, and the functionality that life can sometimes become simply falls away.

Harrison White

3/6/2016 12:33:56 am

Awesome testimony Katie! Loved reading the power and grace in your words. Serge Benhayon is indeed not someone who pleases, and is not trying to fool anyone, he is simply awesome and brings out the best in all people, everyone is equal to him!

Felix Kremer link

3/6/2016 11:14:17 am

Having Serge Benhayon as an example of how you can live life is the greatest gift I can think about. From every angle you see beauty, connection, love, humbleness, truthfulness, lightness and joy in Serge.

Natalie Hawthorne

5/6/2016 08:35:03 pm

Katie what you say here 'With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher." is a great truth that I too find absolutely inspiring. To never have the arrogance that you know it all and that you 'have got there' which Serge Benhayon not once in the 12 years of me knowing him has he ever expressed or claimed. Serge is the most humble man with the utmost respect for the work he presents. This Love and Honour that Serge has for the Ageless Wisdom is the reason why he is who he is and why hundreds if not thousands of students connect so deeply to what he presents.

Carolien

9/6/2016 08:36:02 pm

I have always been amazed at how powerful and mature all serge's children are and how they live super responsible and loving lives. He has proven that it is possible to raise children in a true way in this world and that to teach is to support and allow for what is already inside come out and blossom.

Carolien

10/6/2016 12:25:22 am

I do not feel I have ever been educated or even supported in having relationships until I met Serge Benhayon. Serge has been presenting on how to relate with each other, both in friendships and in partnerships for many years now and it has shown to me how far from the truth the average relationship has become. His teachings and his living example are deeply needed in todays society.

Hannah Morden

10/6/2016 11:15:59 pm

Kate this is a beautiful confirmation of how so many of us see Serge Benhayon. He has always shared the importance of relationships. i remember years ago - going to his relationship workshops and thinking it would give me all the answers to fix the current problems I had with men in my life. But what I walked away with was the importance of every single relationship equally so, staring with the relationship I had with myself. No one else had ever presented that to me. So I'd always been happy to be a victim and blame others rather than taking responsibility for how I was. To understand this has been so massive for me and has allowed me to let go of the needy desperation I carried around with me which was not ever truly me.

Leigh Matson

11/6/2016 08:30:46 am

While not a parent myself it feels like through the work of Serge Benhayon that parenting is not restricted to ages or if one has a child or not. It's a quality of wisdom we can present to another and to ourselves, it's a way of preparing life forward with the understanding of what has been before and how we can go forward in life. Anyone and everyone can be a parent and everyone can be the child in learning from another.

Kerstin Salzer

11/6/2016 11:05:53 pm

Serge is not only a model showing how harmony is working within the family, he has a loving relationship with everybody else as well. It is very inspiring to feel how natural it is to be truly met by him and how it is to meet people equally.

Stephanie Stevenson

14/6/2016 04:57:12 am

I have learned much from observing and listening to Serge Benhayon at presentations or simply sitting and speaking with others. He remains clearly focused and committed to what ever he is doing in the moment and delivers truth in a way that can be felt in the body and new choices can be made from there. He always refers to everything being about relationships, starting with developing a deep and loving relationship with oneself first and foremost to be able to bring this quality to another.

Sandra Schneider link

15/6/2016 08:48:40 pm

This is profound, simple and has a beauty that is deep and solid: "The connection and love we now live is something I didn’t know was possible as man and wife and I can feel there is even more for us to explore together both as a couple and as parents." - and I am so joyful that I can sign this, for my relationships are as well inspired by Serge Benhayon.

Jonathan Stewart

15/6/2016 09:17:19 pm

Serge Benhayon “lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup” Not only does he know this but he communicates to everyone from the perspective that this capability is who they are and from not how they are living if it is less then that. To be met from this place of acceptance is truly beautifully to experience

Danna Elmalah

16/6/2016 12:23:55 pm

Beautiful blog, very profound and real writing. Serge Benhayon definitely is an unshakeable professionalism. That made me re-ask the current meaning of professionalism and if it is lived in its truest sense, or that Serge is actually showing us a professionalism (integer, committed, love-filled) that is not really shown before.. Amazing, all done through one person, showing us that it is possible, to equally life an integer, committed and deeply love-filled life.

Rowena Stewart

16/6/2016 09:00:07 pm

I have never anyone before who brings such a wealth of wisdom to how to be in relationship with other people. The most essential key, which has taken some years to truly appreciate, is that relationships rely upon us not loving any one person more than another. Its a bit mind blowing to start with, but it is feasible when we realise what true love is and how being close and intimate with one person, your partner, does not exclude the ability to be honest, caring, accepting and tender with everyone else.

mary sanford

17/6/2016 01:05:53 pm

Katie I so appreciate what you have shared about Serge Benhayon
As you so eloquently express
"There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup."
Serge Benhayon saw in me my potential when I could not, he had a belief in me that I didn't have in my self. Via his support I have learnt to respect myself and more importantly to love myself and this has made a huge difference to how I am with other people much more open and honest.

James Nicholson

19/6/2016 07:58:29 pm

Katie, we are deeply blessed to have Serge Benhayon in our lives. As you say 'With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals'. He has helped restore my trust in humanity and has shown me that no matter what we are equally love, we just choose to express differing amounts! But we are no different and no one is given more than any other. So essentially there are no excuses for not being all the love that we are, and not only that but we have a responsibility to be the love that we are so we can also show others there is more to life than just the day to day activities, just like Serge has shown us.

mary sanford

24/6/2016 12:54:50 pm

I can so relate to what you have said here
"There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup. With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher."
For me he has helped me by supporting me to understand for myself just because I am a woman that does not make me less than anyone else. I have allowed my self to be a door mat for everyone to abuse. Not any more Serge Benhayon has shown me by every move he makes in every way he lives that all woman are to be adored just for the beauty that they bring to the world. To be held with such respect has re built my self confidence in my self and for that I am truly grateful.

Luke Yokota

29/6/2016 12:36:16 am

Serge Benhayon offers an inspiration that has affected people positively far and wide. Katie shares how her life has changed. The number of people that Serge has inspired positive change with is massive.

Otto Bathurst

1/7/2016 11:37:13 am

My wife and I have also been deeply inspired to evolve our relationship due to Serge Benhayon and what he has presented. It has been a very rocky, bumpy and exposing journey, which continues forever. Both of us have nearly given up. Both of us have reacted from what has been shown. Both of us have been utterly supported by Serge and other members of his family and the community and both of us wouldn't change where we are now at for anything whatsoever. We have changed our relationship beyond recognition from what it was a few years ago and for that alone (not withstanding the zillions of other things he has done for me and shown me!) I have eternal appreciation of the man.

Jonathan Stewart

2/7/2016 10:40:13 pm

"With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher." This humility and lack of arrogance is such a powerful and ever present quality of Serge that is so inspiring and inviting.

Rowena Stewart

3/7/2016 08:56:34 pm

What is so awesome about Serge Benhayon is his unerring capacity to maintain his awareness of the bigger picture alongside connecting with people and their individual journeys. This awareness supports us to see and feel our unique purpose in the world within the context of our huge family, to know that we are cherished for the quality of our essence while also being reminded of our immense responsibility to uphold our integrity for the benefit of all. We all have this ability within us, its just that there are very few people who are showing us how to re-claim it and therefore Serge stands head and shoulders above us all at present, a living example of a true man, a true parent and a true friend, innate qualities that we are all returning to.

Nikki McKee

4/7/2016 11:42:36 am

The impact Serge has is immense beyond belief. Take one area, say his parenting. His children are now adults with children of their own. As a parent I am constantly learning and I love what Serge shares on parenting, both vocally and by his lived way, and I seek the counsel of his children when I am struggling with my own parenting. What has always been clear is that I can read my child and that I know within me what is needed. Not only that, I live in a community of people who do the same and are witness to how we can parent our children in a way that gives children the space to be who they are without the accumulation of what they are not. These childrenare growing in to themselves and the world and what they offer is incredible. All of this comes from one man who showed us something different. The ripple effects are endless and each ripple creates a ripple of its own.

Sylvia Brinkman

4/7/2016 01:30:48 pm

Just to see Serge and his wife Miranda walking next to each other is something amazing to feel. The holding of love is there deeply and reflected to all around them. You know in an instant the way to go for yourself for true love. Then you know God exist and is everywhere, you just feel it. It is pure heavenly beauty. They make love without even touching other. I can very much under stand why young children go spontaneous on stage when Serge is presenting. They are going to stand next to him. They want to be close to that love which he emanates by being so humble and living in such a deep connection with heaven through him.

Loretta Rappos link

4/7/2016 05:48:15 pm

" With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals."- I remember the first time my husband met Serge, it was so evident that he doesn't change the way he is in order to win any one over. He remains transparent, and when you speak to him he gives you your undivided attention. You feel honoured and held in his amazing love.

Caroline Francis

5/7/2016 08:58:59 pm

All my relationships are changing in one way or another all thanks to Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine. They are becoming much more honest, open and genuine and I know this is only the beginning as I learn to love and connect to myself more deeply and therefore to others.

mary sanford

9/7/2016 08:38:16 am

Katie I couldn't agree more about your sentiments regarding Serge Benhayon
"There are no airs and graces about Serge Benhayon, he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things, that we all come from the same place with exactly the same makeup. With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher."
It's that knowing he has that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things. This understanding that he has, supported me enormously to pull my self out of feeling that I was useless and had nothing worth contributing to life. This false ideal was fed to me from childhood and was running very strong in me when I met Serge. I discovered that what I thought was a truth was in fact a pack of lies that I was being drip feed by my mind. I had listened to much to my mind, When I actually stop and listen to my heart and body I know that I am so very precious and so worth taking care of.

Danna Elmalah

13/7/2016 02:02:59 pm

Thank you Katie.

Simon Williams

16/7/2016 10:55:35 pm

Similarly, Serge has always been there to support our family, through the good times and the difficult ones. Through different stages. In fact he and his family have been a constant that has helped us all break down our own ups and downs and chart a course that is more true... for all of us. And I know, from this testimonial and others, that he does this for everyone he meets, no judgement, no special treatment, just a consistent quality of love for all.

Danna Elmalah

20/7/2016 10:59:06 am

A beautiful sharing about the effect that meeting Serge had on you and your family. And how you have been shown by example that living in connection and that parenting from there is absolutely possible.

Hannah Morden

24/7/2016 07:01:10 am

Serge Benhayon has been able to comment on all and every situation put to him. He can talk across any and all subjects with a depth of wisdom that is so genuine. How? Because he lives as a vessel that receives what is needed to be shared. And he has no attachment to people getting it. He shows us we can all have access to this wisdom, and it is simply based on our movements. He is the universal teacher and he does not hold back.

Nicole Sjardin

29/7/2016 03:04:45 am

A big fan club for an amazing man, showing us all that it is completely normal and OK to be amazing too.

Vicky Cooke

1/8/2016 10:11:43 pm

Your testimony feels very solid every time I read this. What I mean is I can tell how you live your life is exactly as how you say it here .. the great foundation you have with relationships. I love what you reflect it is both healing and inspiring. It was humbling to read this about Serge Benhayon as I felt this is something I currently do not do 'Serge naturally lives, I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level'.

Ingrid Ward

1/8/2016 10:53:07 pm

There are so many things that I love about Serge Benhayon, but one of them is that “he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things”, and he follows that knowing with the most wonderful support and unconditional love. I have learned more about relationships, about me, and about life in general, from Serge Benhayon in the last 11 years of my life, than I did in the previous 55 years, and I am still learning, and loving it.

Gabriele Conrad

3/8/2016 01:03:28 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true role model in everything he does; he leaves no stone unturned and gets right to the heart of a matter; his focus and dedication are second to none.And these are only a few of his many qualities.

Leigh Matson

4/8/2016 07:17:07 am

If it weren't for the consistently loving manner in which this deeply humble man lives and shares such a living way the quality of my relationships would be nothing like they are today. By simply being shown that there is another way to be in relationships with family, friends, a partner or seeming 'strangers' this inspiration has changed my complete relationship with life as people and ourselves are a large majority of what we call human life and it continues to do so.

mary sanford

5/8/2016 12:29:16 pm

My take away from Serge Benhayon is the deep respect that he treats everyone with and everyone is treated equally and he gives his time generously too, I see this at the workshops. There is always a huge queue to talk to him and he never seems bothered by it always the same with everyone he meets.
And the way he parents his children has been a huge reflection for me in how I interact with my own. Giving them the space to grow to their full potential, this will be the way all children will be parented one day.

Loretta Rappos link

9/8/2016 06:49:07 pm

"With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals."- He is such a humble, honest, caring man, who gives generously of his time -in way of personally answering hundreds of emails daily; working as a complimentary practitioner full-time, and out of normal hours in times of need; and also works on many humanitarian projects. He dedicates his life to the evolvement of humanity. Very inspiring man.

Ariana Ray

9/8/2016 10:27:09 pm

'His consistency is remarkable, his professionalism unshakable but most importantly he is one of the most humble human beings I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.' These qualities seem to be rare in this day and age of greed and trying to make a fast buck. Integrity of this nature is beautiful to experience and shows us all that living this way is not only possible but achievable for us all. It is up to us then to make this a living way for us too, that is our choice.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

10/8/2016 08:15:29 am

I have too have found the example set by Serge Benhayon and his family has had a direct impact on how I am in all relationships. This has been through how they relate to me and everyone, but it also goes further than that. I have never ever heard any of them talk about someone in a dishonouring way, and if ever I have had issues with anyone I have been inspired to reflect and understand the situation more deeply - invariably I have found that it was not the person but the energy they had chosen that was the hurt, but more importantly I have found that it tends to be my own issues being shown up by the situation as a mirror which feels uncomfortable. I have been immensely inspired to look at deepening my understanding and honouring of people, my relationships and the level of my responsibility in life.

Danna Elmalah

10/8/2016 02:05:18 pm

It is by the teachings and presentations of Serge Benhayon that I came to realize and got to truly feel how life is about relationships with all people. And how the other relationship do influence all other ones. And this science has showed me by example that everything in life matters - and that everything is because we are everything. And that life is all energy - nothing else. Even what we see is less real then the energy we can feel. So thank you big time Serge for bringing this awareness to earth and thank you God for helping us see.

Simon Voysey

12/8/2016 02:53:15 pm

One thing we can all be, is ourselves, taking on no airs and graces and meeting people from who we are, allowing them space to feel who they truly are. Many of us who have come to this simple understanding of life have Serge Benhayon to thank for it.

Ariana Ray

14/8/2016 06:14:42 am

The words 'He has always been there to support' just leap off the page, for that is exactly the truth. His support is constant and unfailing, as we learn what true responsibility in relationship is all about. No matter what that support is there - it is a gorgeous quality that helps me to appreciate myself and what I bring. This is utterly priceless..

Simon Williams

24/8/2016 08:24:37 pm

Indeed kids cannot be bluffed lighthly, and Serge is absolutely straight with them. My kids have an enormous respect for him, and have done throughout their growing up... simply because they can feel the truth in everything he lives. There is a consistency in how he lives that is tangible, real and trusted. In my experience kids do not so much listen to what you say, they observe they way you live and they learn from that.

Danna Elmalah

13/9/2016 04:07:16 pm

We do not need any hope as this testimony shows us that true potential of relationships and forever deepening in comnection with oneself and with another is possible. So we must never give up in eachother as love and connection with oneself is the way that leads to unity and Soul with All.

Kim Weston

23/9/2016 12:20:37 pm

I too find the way Serge parents his children to be inspiring, seeing his kids live all that they are, in beautiful connection and love with each other is solid proof of his way.

Leigh Matson

7/10/2016 03:17:45 am

The commitment to people and relationships that Serge Benhayon has in his approach to life is deeply inspiring and completely re-sets if not flips upside down the whole meaning of life from being all about self to all about everyone equally so. It's such a different take on life and yet one of which you can't argue with the results..well you can but the consistency of joy in which Serge lives stands up to any detraction and it's this solidness that is inspiring.

Fiona Pierce

3/11/2016 10:36:24 pm

I agree Katie - life really is all about relationships - the quality of the way that we interact and are with everyone and everything in our lives. I've learnt so much from Serge Benhayon about relationships - simple and profound truths that make a huge difference and bring a much deeper understanding to life and how we live.

Monica Gillooly

21/11/2016 01:25:21 pm

Katie, what you share is very touching and I can feel your absolute appreciation of having Serge in your life. And knowing him also I can attest to what you say and you remind me of the things I notice about him, his humility, there really are no airs or graces, everyone no matter who they are is treated with grace and respect, and he is unwavering in his commitment always. To know him and that he's there with his purpose, love and commitment to life is such a support and so inspiring.

Melinda Knights

11/12/2016 10:42:20 pm

It's ironic isn't it that our humility is key to our greatness!

Fiona Pierce

3/12/2016 12:00:32 pm

I've learnt so much about relationships and what I bring to them from Serge Benhayon. It's something that has helped me beyond words and continues to do so in all aspects of my life.

Melinda Knights

11/12/2016 10:40:40 pm

Serge is an incredible parent, I'm trained in early childhood education yet all Serge has shared on parenting has been both revolutionary and inspirational. This man has an amazing amount to offer the world on all facets of life, and parenting must be one of the most important areas.

5/1/2017 11:18:48 am

A beautiful depth of appreciation is shared here. Like you - Serge Benhayon has offered his unwavering support to us personally and our family and it is huge. He does not hold back the truth and what an amazing thing that is.

Danna Elmalah

22/1/2017 12:57:39 pm

What a blessing to read.. Knowing that so many parents struggle in giving the love to their child they wish for. I love your honesty and testimony of the work and living way that Serge lives. He is able to bring forth a way of parenting, as you described, that simply let the child be all that they are and guide them forth.. Yet this is not a trick as such. But a surrendering, and so a living by the parent, that than allows the children to be who they are. Simply because the initiator, the guiding lights, the parent(s) are allowing themselves to be. Simply and real example of lively hood parenting (truth).

Jonathan Stewart

26/1/2017 08:47:42 pm

Serge Benhayon's children are living testament to the inspiration of the qualities he lives as a parent.

Shami

30/1/2017 08:53:43 pm

To approach the day knowing that you are going to learn something new or take something already learnt to a deeper level is truly inspiring, it takes the drudgery out of life and brings in appreciation for each day, as a gift in the fact that the earth continues to spin and our hearts continue to beat for us continually so that we, collectively may wake up again and again and take each day as a re-awakening to the depths of not only who we are, but of what is on offer for us here.

Michael Brown

31/1/2017 04:11:07 am

Many parents, like you Katie, have been inspired by Serge's way of holding and supporting his children to make their own choices. I am certainly a recipient of this, experiencing the changes of parenting style that my mother went through has allowed me to become the strong, sweet full man I am today.

Matts Josefsson

7/3/2017 07:58:17 pm

Love is truly all around us and between us and if we tap into that love then we feel the amazingess of ourselves and all others.

Ingrid Ward

17/3/2017 11:53:12 am

When I read that Serge gives “his children the space to be who they are so that they can live their full potential”, I instantly was reminded that is what he does for all those who attend his presentations. He presents the truth of what he knows and then allows the space for us to accept his presentation, or not, and if we need support he is always there, unconditionally so.

Jennifer Smith

17/7/2018 03:29:34 am

and there is never an ounce of judgment in anything. As Serge says he simply presents, the rest is up to us.

Shami

18/3/2017 01:30:04 pm

In this piece of writing, I can sense that great care that is being given to each person who reads it, because you are passing on such finite droplets of gold, such as: everyone is capable of great and wonderful things. Thank you Katie.

Christine Hoagn link

20/4/2017 06:36:59 pm

Serge Benhayon has opened the way to a truth-full way of understanding, living and loving in the practice and everyday choices of life. This ‘Way’ is not new, it is ancient but the world we live in has orchestrated life in a way to separate us from this inner wisdom. Thanks to Serge it is once again there to be re-connected to. Thank you Katie for sharing you words of appreciation with us – I openly and with much love also appreciate Serge Benhayon.

Matilda Bathurst link

28/4/2017 02:17:15 am

I love all that you have shared here, Katie, particularly today the bit about Serge approaching every day knowing he is going to learn something new... there is such inspiration in this as a fresh, humble and open relationship with life.

Stephen Gammack

28/4/2017 03:14:46 pm

Great to acknowledge your love and care as a parent and a couple, and to recognise that there are always more layers to unpeel, more wisdom we can bring to our families. Serge Benhayon is always presenting at deeper and deeper levels, and it really is amazing what is there to be learnt about life and relationships when we are open to hearing it and putting this into practice.

Monica Gillooly

1/6/2017 01:39:26 pm

I can very much second your appreciation Katie, a big thank you to Serge Benhayon, for his unwaveringness and consistency being himself, and through his inspiration others are following suit. And the quality of humility that you note is so key to how we can live, to approach each day knowing we can deepen and learn, that is special. Thank you for sharing your lived experience with Serge and his impact on your life.

Fiona Pierce

12/7/2017 04:23:17 am

Relationships are inextricably a crucial part of life and something that I've seen from Serge Benhayon is how important the relationship that we have with ourself is - as it lays the foundation for how we are with everyone else...

David Nicholson

5/8/2017 11:00:33 pm

Katie what I've learnt from Serge and been inspired to connect with inside about relationships is quite incredible, I grew up with dysfunctional relationships all around and a very tense relationship with myself, yet on the outside the picture looked great. What i love in what Serge has shown me is true relationship. True relationships with everything and everyone.

Simon Williams

6/8/2017 09:16:00 pm

I love that one of the qualities you note in Serge is that he approaches every day in the certainty that it is going to teach him something. This feels like an essential quality in an ever expanding universe, and one that keeps Serge humble and approachable.

Leonne Sharkey

3/9/2017 02:30:35 pm

It is rare to find someone who can genuinely express how wonderful their life is but you do this beautifully Katie. It is clear that Serge Benhayon is a huge inspiration and support to the incredible life you lead.

Ariana Ray

4/9/2017 11:09:26 pm

'Serge's teachings on the importance of relationships' - these have changed my life as applying them and making them part of my life has broken all those old patterns of how I 'did' relationships in the past. A whole cycle broken. My relationships today are a whole different and very delicious matter.

Adele Leung

18/9/2017 06:26:55 pm

The parenting quality you have mentioned of Serge, while giving space to his children and being guidance along the way is very inspiring to me. This can be applied to everyone we meet, not just our blood children, as there is deep trust that we all have the connection with Soul and we can all access it when we choose to.

Alison Valentine

18/9/2017 09:33:55 pm

Through Serge Benhayon I got to understand the importance of relationships and this has allowed me to be more open and willing to accept and work on all the relationships I have. Before if I got upset I would withdraw, pull away or move on or dismiss the relationship, and this is the pattern I would take to everyone, friend, family or partner. I have learnt it is about being honest with myself and not going into the victim mode and blaming the other person which can be so easy to do when we feel hurt. Being willing to work on myself and accept that relationships are a very important part of our lives has supported me in becoming a more loving caring person

Michael Brown

4/10/2017 12:26:07 pm

From my time staying at your house I can see the profound effect that knowing and working with Serge has had on your family. It is a great reflection to the rest of the world of how a family is able to live.

Ariana Ray

7/10/2017 01:04:01 am

'His consistency is remarkable, his professionalism unshakable but most importantly he is one of the most humble human beings I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.' This is a stunning testimonial and one that touched me deeply to read. Thank you.

Nattalija link

5/11/2017 03:05:30 pm

Definitely no airs or graces about this man but a humbling presence that reflects the equalness of each man and woman.

Nikki McKee

18/12/2017 09:18:01 pm

"What you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals." This should be normal but in current times, is quite remarkable.

Samantha Davidson

2/2/2018 12:01:01 pm

My children have also meet Serge Benhayon and they are not push overs and very discerning about the people they have around them..."With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals." Children feel this and they know when they are treated with respect.

Richard Mills

4/2/2018 09:21:24 am

When I consider the impact knowing Serge Benhayon has had on my life it is clear that it is in relationships that one of the most powerful changes has come. It is absolutely true to say that through Serge's reflection, every relationship I have in this world has changed significantly and become more deeply loving. This is because the primary source of relationships is my relationship with myself – and when I truly embraced what it is to be self-loving and self-nurturing, there was - and is - a knock on affect on all other relationships. I no longer go into relationships with a check list of what I need from another - but with a sense of bringing all that I am to it. It is in this simple but deeply profound shift that my relationships with others has changed forever. Thank you Serge Benhayon – an absolutely priceless gift.

Joshua Campbell

11/2/2018 11:10:41 am

Serge Benhayon is one of the first men I have seen express with open loving care his endless adoration of his daughters, wife, son and family in general. The fact they have no arguments alone sets them as a living inspiration.

Golnaz Shariatzadeh

11/2/2018 08:10:27 pm

Yes this is truly inspiring and touching. And what's more is that. this level of regard and honouring is not reserved just for his own family. It is also offered to every single other person.
Serge Benhayon chooses to see past the surface layers people often present and relates to and appreciates the true essence within people which is deeply loving and supportive of each person to be and express all that they are. This is a beautiful reminder of the essence of true relationships.

Shami

26/2/2018 11:04:26 am

I feel that to have a true and deeply felt inspiration towards another person breaks down all the barriers that keeps us apart. Serge Benhayon does this very beautifully because the inspiration that he offers is simply in the way that he lives.

Samamtha Davidson

5/3/2018 01:22:26 pm

The quality that we are all parented walks with us, some of heal it, some of blossom and flourish from it, but most of us carry the hurt of it and then parent in a similar fashion. I agree relationships are where we all need to be looking, we do not place enough awareness, care of commitment into making them healthy, true and loving.

Jennifer Smith

17/7/2018 03:26:47 am

I agree Samantha an as a result we do not take advantage of the learning that is available in every single relationship. We think that because we have been hurt in the past, that we need to put our brick walls up to protect ourselves. Relationships are everything.

Natalie Hawthorne

12/3/2018 01:23:25 am

'With all the wisdom Serge naturally lives I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher.' - I absolutely agree Katie and Serge Benhayon lives and shares everything he is living with no exception with all those who so choose to know. A deeply humble and inspiring man Serge is and I am eternally thankful to have known him for 14 years and look forward to the many more years ahead. Serge is a friend for life!

Jonathan Stewart

14/3/2018 11:44:19 pm

"The connection and love we now live is something I didn’t know was possible as man and wife and I can feel there is even more for us to explore together both as a couple and as parents." This is my experience, too, as a result of choosing to meet Serge Benhayon and all that has followed since.

Gabriele Conrad

29/3/2018 05:19:37 pm

Serge honours his being deeply and brings that into daily life, from there inspiring others to equally live that potential and joy consistently so.

Melinda Knights

14/4/2018 02:20:37 am

Serge has inspired so many different people in so many different ways, and with that inspiration each person has blossomed. Love is really simple, it brings a warmth and understanding to life, as well as a genuine care and acceptance of others. Being inspired by the love Serge is and lives to live my own love and bring that to the world - there can't be a better relationship than that.

Danna Elmalah

26/4/2018 10:01:44 am

What Serge Benhayon has shown me is that we are all multidimensional beings and that we actually hold all a light, even when not lived actively, we still hold it and when we are reconnecting to it again, we can feel that we are that light instantly again. This light is multidimensional, so so are we.

Jennifer Smith

18/5/2018 02:01:43 am

What you have shared is really beautiful Katie. This just shows of ordinary Serge is but at the same town how extraordinary the ordinary really is. Inspiring all the way, but not for anyone to be like him, but for another to see who they are and live that. Exquisite.

Natalie Hawthorne

9/6/2018 12:16:54 pm

I too Katie have never meet a human being so humble as I have with Serge Benhayon, this is one of his key ways of living that is seriously inspiring and brings you back to reality in a split second yet you can feel the Universe and its magnitude all in the one moment.

Willem Plandsoen

9/7/2018 07:31:27 pm

I can feel how Serge Benhayon has influenced your life Katie, and this is touching, as I can feel how has touched my life. And it feels only as a start of so much to come...

Jennifer Smith

17/7/2018 03:17:57 am

Your first hand account Katie describes the quality of the human being that Serge Benhayon is. A quality that is something within each of us and something that he shares consistently.

Jennifer Smith

17/7/2018 03:22:49 am

Serge is a great teacher as he knows he is an eternal student of life. That makes a person worth studying with.

Fiona Pierce

31/7/2018 11:50:20 am

Everything said here truly reflects the man I know Serge Benhayon to be as well; totally transparent, deeply loving (consistently so with all) and genuinely inspiring in many ways.

leigh matson

1/8/2018 10:41:25 am

Pre-Universal Medicine I really didn't understand the point in this "born, grow up, work, TV, pay taxes, die" lifecycle. It was pretty bleak in my view. Enter Serge Benhayon and the fact that the quality of these every day life things can deepen into more harmonious and loving depths has completely changed everything.

Carola Woods link

14/8/2018 01:03:44 pm

For me a sure sign of the degree of integrity in which one walks and lives with, is reflected naturally through the quality of humbleness. This is not something that anyone can fake as it is an emanation from within that represents a way of being that is surrendered to a love that is for all and not ever for ‘self’.

Willem Plandsoen

15/8/2018 12:30:52 pm

Beautifully said, Carola, and explains why Serge is so humble.

Willem Plandsoen

15/8/2018 12:33:49 pm

Very inspirational, the way Serge Benhayon lives as a parent and also as a husband is a great example for me, for us, as well. I look at his life, and see what is possible, and know: this is possible in my life as well.

Inma Lorente

18/8/2018 09:04:55 pm

Love the simplicity of your sharing Kattie. The way Serge Benhayon lives inspires me too. Knowing someone like him who is not afraid of being open to what's next to learn is a blessing, this simple fact makes him a great teacher indeed. It invites me to do the same, accepting all my imperfections and greatness. Remaining open, vulnerable, and very loving with myself and others makes my days more rich and truthful than ever before. I appreciate deeply having Serge in my life, for all what he brings and naturally is.

Inma Lorente

18/8/2018 09:21:24 pm

As a student of the Livingness I've always felt an infinite space to make my own choices in my own pace. I've never recieved an advice but loving reminders to be applied in my life when I felt it. Allowing me the space to be who I really am is the best gift that I've never received, from that I'm knowing myself for the bundle of love that I actually am. This way of being inspires me to do the same in all my relationships.

Lorraine Wellman

24/8/2018 03:22:06 am

The consistency of love that Serge brings is incredible in the world we live in, he has time for everyone, and everyone is always loved and respected as an equal; something very rare to experience in this world, but something that would change the world if we all lived this way.

Amparo Lorente Cháfer

26/8/2018 09:47:11 pm

Love is a neverending path of reencounter that goes beyond our individuality and personal affections. Love is who we all are and this is what I have been reminded by Serge. This is the best gift I could ever receive. Always appreciating it as well as the unfathomable inspiration he constantly brings to my life...

Natalie Hawthorne

28/8/2018 06:22:27 am

Yes Katie I second that a huge Thank You to Serge Benhayon for Being all that he is, to have Serge as a point of reflection in my life I treasure as gold, he is absolute in every way, and I am yet to meet another human being that lives this level of Love, Truth, Integrity and Equalness for everyone no matter what. Such a true inspiration and reminder of what we are all possible of, in a time when it is needed the most.

Anna Douglass

6/9/2018 12:38:21 pm

Serge Benhayon has always inspired me as well to deepen the love for myself and bring this love to all my relationships. You begin to see what's possible if you embrace the fact that love is continually expanding and deepening – it is truly life-changing.

Jennifer Smith

13/9/2018 11:26:44 am

It does not equate that someone who has the quality and depth in all of their relationships like Serge Benhayon would then be able to turn around and be what has been said in the media. It simply could not happen.

Willem Plandsoen

18/9/2018 11:43:16 am

Everybody who would walk along with Serge Benhayon for even a day would be impressed by his ability to treat all people as absolute equals to him. He treats everybody the same, holding them in the amazingness everybody truly is.

Ingrid Ward

1/12/2018 07:44:17 am

I am absolutely sure that anyone who had the opportunity to walk alongside Serge Benhayon for a day would be blown away by the experience; life would never be the same. Since 2005 I have experienced some of my most life-changing moments in the presence of Serge and as a result I am now living a life that I had never thought was possible, a life that is full of purpose and one that I love living in every moment.

Lorraine Wellman

18/9/2018 09:43:11 pm

What you see is what you get with Serge, he hides nothing, I agree Katie, he has nothing to hide, he is transparent , genuine and open with everyone.

Jill [email protected]

21/9/2018 01:11:58 pm

"thank you Serge for consistently and unwaveringly BEING YOU." it is in coming into contact with the beingness of this amazing man that has the power to change our lives, the life of consistent love and equality for all mankind is reflected to us and awakened within.

Leigh Matson

9/10/2018 12:11:13 am

Being given the space to be who you truly are but lovingly supported when asked for is not just reserved for his family. Serge offers this to everyone he meets to those who take such offered space.

Sue Queenborough

13/10/2018 09:48:15 pm

‘With Serge what you see is what you get.......treats all equally.’ Yes I agree. Serge is the real deal, and after many years of meeting spiritual presenters who didn’t walk their talk I would definitely vouch for Serge Benhayon. A world teacher who will one day be known as such.

Ariana Ray

19/11/2018 12:32:05 pm

Life IS all about relationships and Serge Benhayon shows this at every turn and every step he takes.

Ariana Ray

23/11/2018 09:53:41 pm

You write that Serge Benhayon' is one of the most humble human beings I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.' This is also my experience of Serge, and this tender loving humility is the rock and foundation upon which he stands.

Monica Gillooly

30/11/2018 01:39:14 pm

Serge has this beautiful quality of knowing and being willing to always learn ... his deep humility is always there to see and he is the best friend anyone could have, supporting you to know the glory that you are, without demand, with a genuine holding and care.

Sandra Vicary

30/11/2018 01:53:14 pm

Serge's children are an absolute testament to the man himself. As you say, living wisdom way beyond their years, these young people have more love, truth and integrity between them than anyone else I have ever come across apart from Serge himself.

Ingrid Ward

1/12/2018 07:37:48 am

The fact that, with Serge Benhayon “what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals” is for me, one of the most inspiring qualities of this very wise man. But for some this appears to be quite unsettling and they will often react. Maybe this reaction is simply because they are used to dealing with people who are not as transparent and who do not treat others as they deserve to be treated? Whatever the reason, anyone who meets Serge Benhayon is always in the presence of someone who constantly lives the truth that we all deep down know.

Willem Plandsoen

2/12/2018 09:30:02 pm

One of the truly remarkable things about Serge Benhayon is the fact that he is so humble. Despite all the skills he has, the things he knows and the things he can do. It is because he knows that it is not him doing it but that comes through him. Like we all do. Like he says "we are vessels for energy to come through".

Sandra Vicary

20/12/2018 07:24:24 am

"With Serge what you see is what you get; he hides nothing and treats all as equals." This is my experience of Serge as well Katie. He is a man of total transparency, who holds nothing back.

Ariana

14/2/2019 08:33:02 am

"Serge's teachings on the importance of relationships being the heart and core in life have not only enriched our family unit immensely but have also enriched all that we offer professionally." And so too have they enriched my relationships. I thank God for Serge Benhayon and impact knowing him has had on my life.

Viktoria

14/4/2019 09:43:00 pm

Katie, I have stayed in your home a couple of years ago. I was touched by how open your family is & the level of care you have for one other. From the moment I walked into the home, I could sense that there is something different about the way the house is maintained. It is great to see where you get your inspiration from.

Viktoria

10/5/2019 11:43:18 pm

Serge has inspired many families to change the way they are amongst themselves. This is an inspiration for others because when they witness the level of respect, decency and care people can have towards one another, it really shows that things can be different.

Leigh

22/10/2019 09:34:38 pm

My family has also been inspired by the Benhayon's. If I was to look back at my family 10 years ago we are definitely not the same people. This is down to each of us doing our part to heal our hurts and be open and honest with each other.

Vicky Cooke

22/11/2019 12:27:35 pm

'he lives with a knowing that everyone is capable of great and wonderful things'. Exactly that. Serge lives greatly knowing that ALL are great and wonderfull. Now that is true love ✨

Melinda Knights

21/1/2020 11:09:49 pm

“I have observed him approach his day with a knowing that he is going to learn something anew, or connect to something on a deeper level, to me this is what makes a great teacher.” What a beautiful observation of Serge, something for us all to be inspired by. Truly it’s a childlike wonder and awe that keeps me open to learning and aware of what’s occurring in life and in nature, including the Magic of God moments that are there to remind me that this life is not just physical, and that we are all known and deeply loved.

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