I can for sure see how judgement is harming and how it's different from discerning what's going on in a situation and truly observing all that is there to be seen and acted on.
Spot on Fiona, and when there is judgement there is no room for true observation.
Holding someone to a past behaviour traps them in time and the judgement we have becomes its own condemnation.
And not only does judgment trap another in their past behaviour it also traps the one judging.
Absolutely Heather, judging someone on how they have behaved traps them in time, and is like a condemnation.
What an incredible revelation to hear that when we judge another, we add to their ability to harm. This really is quite astounding when you consider that most of us judge others almost as effortlessly as we breath.
This video has really supported me to understand the deep hurt we cause to another by holding them in judgement. And by the same token when we hurt another we equally hurt ourselves.
Yes judging always feels horrible and is so harming to both parties.
Serge Benhayon discussing various topics with Rebecca Asquith on Serge Benhayon TV is an opportunity for everyone to be inspired to live with a deeper understanding of life and expose all those accepted 'normal' things that are actually deeply harming to us. Judgement being one of these - it may appear innocuous but energetically it is actually pure poison to ourselves and others.
I do not think we yet realise how crippling our judgements on each other are and that the very act of us condemning another for their love-less ways is yet another way we enjoin that person in the lovelessness rather than observing it and bringing the understanding (true love) of why that person just did what they did, instead of us lacing the situation with the one and same poison that person is in by the very act of the judgement itself. There is so much for us to unpack and unpick here.
Agree, to bring this level of observation and understanding, while not condoning ill or abusive behaviour totally expands the nature of our collective responsibility. Inspiring beyond words.
To understand how we contribute to abuse by holding judgements of people rather than saying no to the abusive behaviours is such an important distinction. As we get to the opportunity to take responsibility of how we feed the lovelessness that is circulating.
Words of absolute clarity, and absolute responsibility… Have we truly considered how our judgment of another can contribute to how they are? That we indeed can go far deeper in our understanding of ourselves and others, than we well may have cared to? Whilst still saying a categorical 'no' to anything that is abusive to our body and being… Thank-you #SergeBenhayon Your wisdom has rocked my life in the most deeply illuminating ways possible.
So very true, judgement is felt even if it is not spoken, and it comes with a degree of arrogance which feels doubly as awful.
Absolutely agree, judgement is felt even if it is not spoken, and has no place in our lives if love is our choice.
The more we bring understanding to each relationships the more we can bring love and true support. Thank you Serge Benhayon for offering us such simplicity in what is often sold to us as the hardship of everyday relationships.
I have found that I can go into judgment as a form of protection, which means I am way off from being loving or understanding as I am focussed on myself. I have always noticed that people often behave the way you treat them or expect them to behave. If someone treats you like you are stupid or less, its common to feel like that. So it makes sense that if you judge and condemn someone as being wrong or bad, that they feel that and it can feed that behaviour.
And we can definitely feel being treated as less, stupid, and certainly judged. Understanding is one of the great healing medicines of this world.
Such simple wisdom but incredibly powerful when we can see past someones actions and not personalise it, therefore not making a judgement on them. This is super important as when we are in judgement, this energy feeds that behaviour. Therein lies our responsibility to understand where someone is and what goes on for them, by not allowing the abuse but also to have no judgement. Then we are no longer contributing to the abuse that is occurring.
I understand how we can say no to the abusive behave because it is something that is coming through that person but not to hold them in the judgment of their action. That is a great teaching for all of us
It’s a bit of an ‘ouch’ moment to realise that when we are judging another we are actually holding them in the very pattern we are judging them for. So, then it makes sense if we bring understanding to where they are in life, and to separate what we are judging them for from who they are in their essence, we are offering them the space to come to know themselves a little bit more. And in the process, we also come to know ourselves.
To truly understand that our judgments are actually imprisoning of others and adding to the lack of love and understanding in our world is an all encompassing way to look at our responsibility for the quality we all live with.
We all want love and Serge delivers love through his lived wisdom .. more and more wisdom is shared .. it always makes me ponder how he lives with so much love and understanding? … What does it take to walk in his shoes? .... thus is true inspiration!
This is such a simple but very powerful teaching that we can never hear or study to often. The faster we learn to distinguish the person from their actions, the faster we enable our selves to disarm the abuse we have allowed to run rife in our world.
Just 1.07 minutes and it totally changes how I look at judgement.
Wow this simple revelation about judgement could transform human life for everyone if we practiced it.
As I've learnt from other presentations from Serge Benhayon is that understanding comes from observing and feeling the energy of anything or a person, myself or a behaviour. Thats where understanding comes from rather than justifying or having a logical answer as to whats going on from my head only. Understanding is a whole body feeling whats going on for another or myself.
‘Understanding is the greatest form of love’. With understanding we get the whole picture, rather than our reactions and judgments - either to another person or our own behaviour. I have felt this aspect of love from Serge Benhayon, and it is very healing to be deeply understood, whilst feeling the standards of what is love and what is not.
Ground breaking .. a whole different insight into why we should not judge.
Serge Benhayon always lifts our awareness and this is no exception. Learning how to fully appreciate and confirm each through deepening our understanding is a fundamental science to successful relationship, however transient it maybe and one that when embodied builds true society.
This man shares a well of wisdom, words of gold. So much for us to hear and learn from. You can hear the compassion in his voice, you can see the care in his movements. Thank you Serge Benhayon for all that you bring.
The judgement is equal to the abuse of the other, thus it fuels more abuse from them as we give the abuse (judgement) in a different flavour but it's all one and the same.
To entertain any kind of assumption or judgment means that we have abandoned our true nature in favour of some predetermined agenda. When we resurrect our natural curiosity it empowers us to see beyond these limitations to the real essence of every person and every situation, something that Serge Benhayon is a true master of.
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