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Serge Benhayon - A True Gentle - Man

19/2/2018

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by Samantha Davidson

I thank God, the stars, moons and suns in our universe for constellating in such a way that brought Serge Benhayon in to my life.

​He is a true gentleman, he holds a lived authority, gentleness and strength that is undeniable, he is a man that both men and women like to be around, and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered.

​I felt with no doubt, absolutely equal, worthy and appreciated with no imposition or underlying agenda and beyond words it offered a healing to have this reflection in my life concerning relationships between men and women. I decided that this was a quality in a man, in a human being that was worth exploring and finding out more about. And recognising this integrity, power and equality in him, brought the realisation from within me, that to see it in another I must already know it within myself. I began an unfolding path of redefining, reappraising and reestablishing of how I lived, cared for myself and expressed as a woman, and this continues to develop.
​In this world there is a general opinion that women are less then men, inferior, not as intelligent, to be feared because of their natural connection to sacredness and also subjugated and objectified. Many women such as I have grown cynical of the possibility of truly intimate relationships between the genders within society and have raged against this injustice, felt it unfair and so begun to not trust men and fight their corner with the ferociousness of a warrior…be it by being out of reach beautiful, hiding their beauty, burning bras, playing men at their own game or not allowing themselves to be open, gentle and tender … it is all part of the same issue, we are hurt and this comes out as righteousness, anger and blame. 

​Many of us women have neglected our inner connection with our true womanliness in this activity and we have also hand in hand neglected that men are our equals, but not in a way where we need to fight them, or be alike, but that we are born to complement each other, that we are all innately of the same essence, that we all want to be loved, seen and appreciated and we are all born, tender, sweet and sensitive. 

Men like women are also caught in cultural stereotypes that many do not feel are true and they also feel imprisoned by them.

How would it feel to be a young man who cares, is sensitive, gentle and yet from boyhood they are unceremoniously told to toughen up, to not cry, treat their sisters, mothers and friends as inferior and degrade and overtly sexualise and objectify women? What kind of torment lies behind a man who does not show his feelings but instead follows the cultural dictates that are so prevalent?

​They still feel, they are still sensitive they like many of us women have cloaked their tenderness and gentleness in a hardness to attempt to prevent feeling, and yet this does not work, we still hurt it only inhibits our true expression.


This toxic and destructive interplay between the genders is destroying the potential of generations after generations.
And so what is different about Serge Benhayon?

And how can a man inspire a woman to reclaim her true path and express from a her inner essence, and so not fight or follow what she is told to be from outside.
I met him around 10 years ago, I heard him speak, I listened and there was a quality in the way he talked about us all - as one humanity, how we are all equally divine, how we are responsible for our own choices, that enabled me to wade through the detritus of habits, behaviours, emotions and hurts that have weighed me down and see more clearly what was at play in my life and in many of our lives. 

When I had the opportunity to speak with him one to one, I was struck by something I had rarely if not in truth ever experienced before, he saw me equal, he appreciated me for who I am, but there was absolutely no shred, speck, spot of imposition, nothing to prove, no dismissal, superiority, sexism, gender stereotyping, protection, sexualisation – he met me with gentleness, respect, love and true care and wanted nothing from me and I felt this choice of his, like a light coming on and burning bright from within me.
I call Serge Benhayon inspiring, he is a point of light, with steadiness and clarity, he lights up the world, and this lights reach all of us. To have this initial encounter, one that has now become many, has offered me an alternative in regards to female and male relationships that is rare but very possible in all of humanity.
Through my own commitment I have begun to make changes in my life that support who I truly am without the blinkers and chains of stereotypes or ideas imposing on me, I have begun to truly claim myself as a woman, powerful, loving, gentle and deeply sensitive. 
And Serge Benhayon, a man in essence like any other, only different because he chooses another way, this man chooses responsibility and to honour that he is in essence gentle, loving and sensitive. He understands that there is an authority, grace and power that cannot be tainted by honouring how he feels and that there is no weakness in this. This transparency builds what is often called trust, a steadiness that radiates that he is the real deal.
Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another. 
This is how a man inspired a woman to exploring her true feminine ways and return to a truthful harmonious way of life.  And I am not alone in that.
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387 Comments
Rachel Murtagh link
18/2/2018 09:09:46 pm

'Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and woman relate to one another.' I agree with this statement, Sam bold as it is to make from the perspective from one who may not have met, or who does not know Serge. Yet, such is Serge's living way, an example of the truth of who we are, that his inspiration will empower us all, over time, to relate to each other in a more loving, caring and tender way.

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Michelle Mcwaters
19/2/2018 09:34:13 pm

I observe more and more how Serge's inspiration ripples outwards. For all those who have started to change their lives, who are committed to living like Serge - committed to deepening in their relationship with self and to make life more loving - thousands more are inspired in turn. In this exponential influence it won't rally take too many generations to see a shift in how we approach and relate to life.

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Amita Khurana
2/3/2018 03:22:22 am

Many have watched Serge's movements, including myself and taken them into their lives to have notice great changes and improvements in one's own life. Serge just being himself, committed to his way of living, has inspired many.

Samantha Davidson
8/7/2018 02:22:52 am

Absolutely, the ripples of a life lived truthfully, with love and care inspires others to choose and walk that path for themselves. My relationships with men and women have vastly altered though taking more responsibility and being loving and less reactive. There is real love, decency and respect there, where once there was arrangements and reactions. This has a huge impact on myself and those around me and I know many who are also choosing to be more responsibility in life and so this ripples extend. Serge Benhayon being who he is and standing with that is enough to change history.

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Ariana Ray
18/2/2018 10:12:13 pm

Serge Benhayon '​is a true Gentleman, he holds a lived authority, gentleness and strength that is undeniable,' and that is true. His presence is pure inspiration.

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Matilda Bathurst
13/3/2018 09:01:16 pm

I love the word gentleman and what it really means and tells us about the true nature of men. It helps me down the weapons of gender competition that I have collected along my way.

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Carmel Reid
19/2/2018 01:08:06 am

Powerful words from a powerful woman and beautifully put, that Serge Benhayon treats us all as his equal and with absolute respect, reflecting how we can be with ourselves, accepting ourselves as equal to everyone men and women alike and being respectful, honouring what we fell, honouring our bodies and loving who we are.

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Katerina Nikolaidis
19/2/2018 01:08:25 am

Since meeting Serge Benhayon and being around him and his sons who are equally extraordinary gentlemen, I now have a clear reference point with myself of what it is to be around men who are truly gentlemen. From that vantage point it is revealing how as women we have settled for an enormous imposition from men. Most of us would abhor at the thought of someone physically imposing on us, but what we have tacitly allowed to the detriment of all, are the more subtle impositions, that are certainly no less harmful.

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Henrietta Chang
5/8/2018 12:29:50 pm

Well said Katerina, and in our current world there are so many impositions being placed upon us all the time and we can easily place impositions on others too, often without realising it. If we truly understood these impositions and how they affect another or ourselves, then we would be horrified to know what game we have been playing or had played on us. How refreshing to have a reference or marker in this word that is imposition free - and Serge Benhayon is indeed a true inspiration on so many levels on how to be in this world and allow our innate essence to be expressed freely without any impositions or hindrances.

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Ariana Ray
9/12/2018 10:09:06 pm

"If we truly understood these impositions and how they affect another or ourselves, then we would be horrified to know what game we have been playing or had played on us." And Serge Benhayon is such a strong example of a man living without any imposition and is not a part of any game - he simply live the light inside him.

Lorraine Wellman
16/12/2018 11:53:38 pm

It is truly beautiful to feel these qualities in another, and I equally feel these qualities in Serge Benhayon, 'there was absolutely no shred, speck, spot of imposition, nothing to prove, no dismissal, superiority, sexism, gender stereotyping, protection, sexualisation – he met me with gentleness, respect, love and true care and wanted nothing from me '.

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Michael Brown
19/2/2018 02:23:41 am

You certainly are not alone Samantha. My life also has been profoundly enriched by the presence of Serge Benhayon.

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Rik Connors
19/2/2018 02:59:57 am

It's utterly unique to be held in love with absolute understanding as Serge Benhayon does. He loves you more than you do. I still have in my body judgement of my actions, a fear of I might be imposing on another. It's not true as I often think it may be the case and, Serge so gracefully holds this as a fact.

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Eva Rygg
10/3/2018 01:11:36 pm

'He loves you more than you do.' - How extraordinary is that, Serge loves us more than we love ourselves - my experience too.

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Michelle Mcwaters
19/2/2018 03:00:38 am

Wow, Samantha, this is a truly stunning blog! What you share comes with such authority and understanding. '..to have this initial encounter, one that that has now become many, has offered me an alternative concerning female and male relationships that is rare but very possible in all of humanity.' I was reflecting on this aspect of human life this morning as I was being offered an opportunity to deepen in intimacy (not sexual) with another, who I have not got to know very well but have wanted to. I was feeling the hurt of not allowing men in in full, or women for that matter, nor being transparent myself and how devastating it is in truth to put a cap on how much I allow myself to be seen, all from fear of getting hurt or misinterpreted, especially with men. In the simple truth that in essence we are the same there need not be any misunderstandings or miscommunications. In my ponderings I could feel an invitation from my body to love myself more, to deepen that foundation of self worth and love so that it becomes so solid there is no reason to not let love in or out. All of this deeper reflection (and much more healing besides) has been made possible because of Serge Benhayon's reflection. 'I Thank God, the stars, moons and suns in our universe for constellating in such a way that brought Serge Benhayon in to my life.' Amen to that.

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Leigh Matson
19/2/2018 04:43:11 am

Definitely not alone Samantha. Serge Benhayon was the first gentle-man I had encountered in my life. Inspiring me to also drop the hardness and return to my naturally delicate and sweet self.

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Lieke Campbell
19/2/2018 06:17:09 am

Yes, Serge is redifining the word ‘true gentleman’ and what it means to express as this. It goes much further than holding a door open for a woman, it is the way he lives with full integrity that is felt every time you meet him which is so lovely to feel and reminds us of how we all can be.

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Andrew Mooney
19/2/2018 12:31:59 pm

I agree Lieke that it is so amazing to have inspiring men like Serge Benhayon around who are not afraid to live according to who they are rather than what the world tells them to be. He has brought back the honour and integrity of older times in being a true gentleman.

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Nico van Haastrecht
19/2/2018 07:03:21 pm

Hi Lieke. Yes indeed, it is not that Serge is showing us something completely new, innately we know what he lives too. We only have chosen to forget about it in living our comfortable lives.

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Michelle Mcwaters
1/3/2018 10:39:09 am

It is hard to describe the level of honouring and holding I feel in the company of Serge Benhayon. You know he can read everything about you from all your contractions and hurts to the powerhouse that you are, which is innate but latent, and yet there is no judgment whatsoever of the former, only deep, deep understanding and acceptance of where you are at with no expectations at all and a beholding that recognises all that you are in truth; much much more than I allow myself yet to accept or know.

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Susan green
2/3/2018 01:14:18 am

the way we live raises gentle men. No need to dress up in a smart suit and hold doors open (as i used to see this term) it is in how we raise our children and the way Serge lives is a blueprint for this.

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Jane Keep
19/2/2018 07:29:08 am

Beautiful honest testimony of Serge Benhayon - thank you Samantha. Serge Benhayon is an absolutely tender gentle-man, the real deal in every way, and I know that as I have observed him for 14 years. The way Serge lives, and the way he is when you meet him, was a big turning point in my life too - and the start of opening myself up to people in life - as I had become distrustful regarding people due to hurts earlier in my life. When I met Serge I knew there was another way.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
18/3/2018 11:56:47 am

The love, the depth of care and honouring (not just for me but for every single person), the child like transparency, the humility, tenderness and immense wisdom - and the unwavering consistency of all of these lived day in day out. Such a reflection also reversed my deep-seated resignation to humanity falling below the values I held dear in my heart and inspired me to recommit to shining my light.

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:04:26 am

All the images of what strength is in a man were blown out of the water once I had known Serge Benhayon for some time. He is power and strength personified, and yet tenderness is his core way.

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Joshua Campbell
19/2/2018 07:58:51 am

I did not realise until meeting Serge Benhayon myself that being feminine is also a natural expression of a man. Totally flips the world as we know it on its head!

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jane keep
20/2/2018 12:10:43 am

I agree Joshua - I didn't realise that either - and now I love to feel the tenderness of a man and that there is no need for the 'bravado' or 'tough man' stuff - when tender men are divine. Tender is not a walk over either - the tender men I have met are clear about who they are and are powerful - but not by force - purely by their own true essence.

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David
20/2/2018 09:26:17 am

Joshua a great point, before meeting Serge my ideals of what I had to do and be as a man were very different from what I felt inside. I felt I was different, that something was not normal. What Serge has provided is an inspiration of what living as a true man is like.

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Michael Brown
21/2/2018 01:35:52 am

This challenges a lot of ideals and beliefs held in the world Joshua.

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Otto Bathurst
22/2/2018 12:17:46 am

Because of what I have been learning and seeing from Serge Benhayon, I am now beginning to be able to feel how deeply abusive an untrue man is; to himself, to women and to other men. It's like we are all at war with each other; locked up in our fortresses. Serge Benhayon walks through this battlefield shining the true qualities of men and women in equal measure. It is then our choice as to whether we come out of our fortresses and drink in this inspiration.

Vicky Cooke
7/3/2018 10:45:29 pm

It shows another way .. the true way ✨

rosanna bianchini
1/3/2018 11:42:12 am

It's only when we understand and allow ourselves to feel the true qualities of men and women that we know we all have them in equal measure.

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Lucy Duffy
19/3/2018 02:07:29 pm

I love that you feel this Joshua and that in living this you will be inspiring other men to know this for themselves.

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HM
19/2/2018 11:34:18 am

'...to see it in another I must already know it within myself...' - this is so beautiful - what Serge Benhayon delivers - in all the amazing, glory that he does, is a reflection that we are this too. An amazing support and foundation for us to start to discover who we are behind hurts, ideals and beliefs that may have gotten in the way.

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Natalie Hawthorne
19/2/2018 11:39:40 am

You are certainly not alone Samantha and I absolutely adore your testimonial you have shared. You are speaking on behalf of hundreds of women I suspect from the changes and beauty that I see coming out of the women that are re-claiming who they truly are by being a student of The Way of the Livingness as taught by Serge Benhayon. Each day the more I surrender to this innate sacredness that we hold as Woman I am blown away by how deeply exquisite we really are.

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Rowena Stewart
27/2/2018 10:05:31 pm

I agree whole heartedly Natalie. Samantha speaks for hundreds of women who, through meeting Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine, are returning to our inherent sacredness. This is not an intellectual process but one that requires us to treat our selves with the same integrity, respect and care shown to us in the way Serge lives his life, a multi-dimensional paradigm shift to say the least that re-introduces a very long forgotten but innate way of being back to humanity.

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Alison Pearson
19/2/2018 11:40:47 am

What an incredibly beautiful blog, Samantha, so honouring of the man that Serge Benhayon is.

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David
17/11/2018 09:38:29 pm

Agreed Alison its amazing when we express how we truly feel about another person and in the case of Serge about someone that has deeply inspired us, to then inspire others.

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Alison Pearson
19/2/2018 11:44:15 am

Serge Benhayon lives his truth, unreservedly so, being the divine man that he is, offering us all a reflection of how it is to live who you truly are and the blessing that provides for us all. A true role model for men, women and for the potential we have to co-exist together in the beholding love of God.

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Lorraine Wellman
22/9/2018 11:16:55 pm

Serge does offer us a reflection of how to live who we truly are, 'I call Serge Benhayon inspiring, he is a point of light, with steadiness and clarity, he lights up the world, and this lights reach all of us.'

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David
19/2/2018 11:51:40 am

Samantha thank you for an amazing testimonial about Serge, its incredible how many people have their own very personal but deeply life changing stories that are aligned to each other in the consistency and love that Serge shows yet specific and supportive for whom we are. Serge is a true inspiration, a true world teacher and one where everyone can not but feel just how amazing they equally are.

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Sarah Flenley
19/2/2018 11:59:54 am

There is much to respond to in this testimonial to the true gentleman that is Serge Benhayon.

What really stood out today reading this is the 'no agenda' part you spoke about with Serge. It is quite incredible to be met by someone who has no agenda and once you feel that, it invites you to look at your life more and see where having agendas plays out - be that an agenda to be seen to be good, helpful, bad, nice, loving, harmful etc...

From there you have a choice to see the effects it has and then make different choices if you so want.

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Jane Keep
21/2/2018 01:06:22 pm

I agree Sarah - there is no agenda - when you meet Serge Benhayon there is no push, force, expectation, need, judgement, just a simple beholding that holds you equally and allows you to be you.

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Danna Elmalah
19/2/2018 12:00:02 pm

Serge Benhayon is such gentle man, in the way he speaks, moves and treat people. I never felt so much cared for in my life. Knowing Serge personally well, I have learned and observed and deeply felt what care I want to have in my life and how I want to be treated by others.

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Jonathan Stewart
19/2/2018 12:05:14 pm

"And recognising this integrity, power and equality in him, brought the realisation from within me, that to see it in another I must already know it within myself." This is a truly powerful and empowering realisation.

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Rowena Stewart
19/2/2018 12:10:46 pm

Thank you Samantha and indeed you are not alone in being inspired by Serge Benhayon to restore to your self the beautiful and wise woman you are. It has been the same for me and many other women, who on being met with such an equal, clear and pristine energy have come to know once more the true expression of equality. Serge upholds a living example of how men and women can relate to one another in full honour of each other's qualities, purpose and expression, and so the grace of respect is restored to us through a man who is totally submersed in living with this immense level of integrity.

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Jonathan Stewart
19/2/2018 12:14:48 pm

Thank you Samantha for a truly evocative appraisal of Serge Benhayon who has inspired has both men and women to re-connect to and live from their true nature of tenderness, by his lived example.

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Andrew Mooney
19/2/2018 12:27:06 pm

It is amazing to consider that a man could inspire a woman to rediscover who she was simply by being true to who he is. Such is the beautiful balance and harmony that is possible between men and women everywhere.

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Vicky Cooke
28/2/2018 12:55:09 pm

Yes I agree. Serge shows when we live in line to our truth with transparency and a willingness alongside truly meeting another for who they are without any needs or imposition magic happens ✨

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:05:17 am

Inspiration from the heart need not be concerned with gender, for love is love and it is what we are all made of.

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Fiona Pierce
19/2/2018 12:51:35 pm

"And recognising this integrity, power and equality in him, brought the realisation from within me, that to see it in another I must already know it within myself." - So well said and I love how this shows that we do know these qualities from inside of us, innately so, whether we honour them or not being another factor... Serge Benhayon certainly does honour these qualities very deeply, reflecting them for all equally. His sons Curtis and Michael Benhayon have always been incredibly inspiring men to me as well.

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Vicky Cooke
18/3/2018 11:30:51 pm

It is awesome that you pointed this out Fiona and really important as this blog is about deeply appreciating someone .. Serge Benhayon and the qualities he has, lives and brings as well as how he consistently is with others it is not about putting someone on a pedestal or making ourselves feel less but instead the complete opposite. Appreciating another knowing we too hold those same qualities. And yes I would say not only are his sons Michael and Curtis inspiring too but also true gentlemen as well as many other men who are students of The Way of The Livingness.

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Regina Perlwitz
19/2/2018 02:21:41 pm

Reading your words - they could be mine. And reading the comments of everybody else - they could be mine, too. When I first met Serge, I felt so loved and held, and then so privileged and blessed that I had finally found someone real and true. Now with seeing and realising that more and more others have received the same blessing - I feel blessed all over again with each one of you, as your reflection is of that same love and holding, once ignited by Serges reflection.

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Joseph Barker
19/2/2018 03:21:23 pm

Beautiful Samantha - you could say that all that Serge Benhayon does is offer others space - not in the literal sense, but energetically. Without imposition or judgement we get room to feel that we can breathe and be who we truly are. Then we get the chance to bring this same space to others we meet - how sweet!

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Lyndy Summerhaze
19/2/2018 03:35:26 pm

Beautiful words Samantha – every one of them true. Serge Benhayon leads the world in rising out of the aeons old war of the genders, presenting the truth of the exquisite nature of both men and women and the glory we can celebrate together.

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Ingrid Ward
19/2/2018 06:38:59 pm

Even though it was 13 years ago when I first met Serge Benhayon the memories of that meeting are crystal clear as the impact he made on me was enormous; in fact, it was truly life-changing. I still remember the way he greeted me and in that greeting I felt no judgment, simply love and the feeling of utter equality. On reflection, it felt amazing but at the same time very ordinary, just his everyday way of being.

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Nico van Haastrecht
19/2/2018 06:59:07 pm

Serge is not only a role model for men, but to for women. And that is a quality in a man I have never experienced before in my life and therefore so special but too a possibility for us all.

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Mary Adler
19/2/2018 08:06:54 pm

When I first met Serge Benhayon he presented truth that I felt in my body and also offered the understanding of the purpose of life and the answer to the question 'There has to be more to life than this?'

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Rachel Murtagh link
19/2/2018 09:29:40 pm

Serge supports us all to know and reclaim our true essence, our essence that is imbued with tenderness, love, sensitivity and gentleness. Expressing from this place in our hearts is vastly different than expressing from the armour of protection most of us create.

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Jacqueline McFadden link
19/2/2018 09:55:15 pm

What is different about Serge Benhayon? Everything. Serge walks this talk and you can feel this. He reflects another way to be in this world, which is to honour self, which is hugely healing and transforming as I always had self worth issues along with all my hurts. The Esoteric modalities by Serge and Universal Medicine have been an amazing support to expose and clear those hurts from my body, but I was committed to facing myself and my past unloving choices, not always easy, but well worth it for the constant lightness I now feel in my body.

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Ariana Ray
19/2/2018 10:27:30 pm

I love how you write 'I call Serge Benhayon inspiring, he is a point of light, with steadiness and clarity, he lights up the world, this lights reach all of us.' There is a very deep truth here.

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Leonne Barker
19/2/2018 10:36:29 pm

Blown away by the way you have so powerfully presented the truth here Samantha. I have felt all of this myself and as I read your words I ponder why I have not shared my experience of Serge Benhayon with the world in this world as he is s truly astonishing human being that brings through the answers to every ill we are facing in the world.

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Gabriele Conrad
19/2/2018 11:21:18 pm

Love and Truth are gender-less and we all respond to Harmony.These are the qualities, some of them, of the many, that Serge Benhayon exemplifies, lives and magnifies.

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:06:18 am

Love and truth blow away any issue that exists between genders and offers a way of working together that sets the standard for the true meaning of harmony.

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Carmel Reid
20/2/2018 01:32:38 am

Serge Benhayon has inspired so many couples to work on deepening their relationships and many have thrived as a result. We are rediscovering self love and from there a way of being loving and understanding in all our relationships at work and at home.

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Liane Mandalis
20/2/2018 11:32:04 am

Never have I met a man that lives in equal portions the energetic qualities of the femaleness and maleness inherent in us all. To see someone live both these in full expression without compromising either, inspires the same way to breathe within me. For I feel and thus know it to be the in-breath and out-breath of God in perfect harmony – our true breath. Gorgeous testimonial Samantha, I whole-heartedly agree with all you have expressed about this exquisitely inspiring man, Serge Benhayon and I loved hearing about your experience in being able to once more claim the truth of who you are.

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Janet
23/2/2018 10:32:17 pm

So true, Liane. Just like our in-breath and out-breath, we can be an exquisite balance of the qualities of maleness and femaleness, and this is something Serge Benhayon divinely reflects to us as our future.

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Stevie Cole
20/2/2018 11:44:30 am

In a world that struggles with gender equality, Serge Benhayon inspires true gender harmony through the reflection and inspiration of his living way (and that of his family), which imposes on no-one and nothing and yet empowers us all to simply be all of who we truly are.

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Sarah Flenley
20/2/2018 11:44:48 am

"we are born to complement each other, that we are all innately of the same essence, that we all want to be loved, seen and appreciated and we are all born, tender, sweet and sensitive." I melted when I read this. We are so born to complement each other - not compete.

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Alison Pearson
21/2/2018 10:55:30 pm

Our propensity for competition shows a lack of appreciation for our selves and each other. Serge Benhayon offers a constant reflection for humanity, reminding us how truly amazing we all are. Accepting this, once we start to honour our selves and each other the competition will fall away as we will only see the potential each of us holds and can choose to bring through and share with the world. Rather than compete, our impulse will be to support each other to live our truth.

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Nicola Lessing
20/2/2018 12:02:02 pm

Serge represents pure love, Divinity and that we are so much more than our physical bodies and yet he is also very down to earth, practical and awesome at everyday life and all that involves. We are multi-dimensional beings and yes in each reincarnation on this planet we are born into a body (could be male one life and female the next) that currently has a gender. Each person and gender when expressing in their truth has a slightly different and equally glorious expression of the one source.

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Jane Keep
26/2/2018 03:09:45 am

I wholeheartedly agree Nicola - and amongst so many things I appreciate about Serge is his practical way of being - I have learnt so much about the detail of daily living, through observing Serge. And, it also means that you can talk with Serge about anything on Earth even the smallest practical detail of life. Serge is so equally accessible to all.

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Nicola Lessing
20/2/2018 12:02:34 pm

Serge being, living and expressing who is in full provides a reflection of how it looks to live soulfully on earth. That reflection has allowed countless people to reconnect to that same quality in themselves and totally transform every aspect of their life so that they in turn become love reflectors! However, not everyone sees it that way - for some the reflection of love is quite repulsive for it exposes all that is not love and not true and not everyone is ready to see that.

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Shami
20/2/2018 12:44:47 pm

It is amazing, what a show-stopper equalness can be, how it can simply be the one thing that just brings all roles and identities in to focus, giving way for the real person to shine through. And this is especially the case when you are met with equality by Serge Benhayon, because he is awesome. Thankyou Samantha for a great piece.

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Rowena Stewart
20/2/2018 12:52:42 pm

The level of respect and integrity with which Serge Benhayon regards all women has to be experienced in order to be fully understood. It is a quality that at present we rarely feel in another, especially between the genders, but a quality that thanks to Serge's impeccable conduct, is teaching us all how to restore it to our world again. What was once one man's domain is fast becoming a growing trend of genuine equality that has arisen from a living example of an ageless integrity is instantly recognisable and available for us to live in full once more.

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Alison Valentine
20/2/2018 12:55:44 pm

Serge is the ultimate gentle-man there is no man I know that is so understanding appreciative and loving to everyone he meets. He sees in others what they do not see in themselves and this inspires them to see this in themselves.

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:07:43 am

The way Serge Benhayon honours all equally, regardless of how they look or their past, is a walking example of love.

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HM
20/2/2018 12:59:10 pm

Serge Benhayon certainly is changing how men and women relate to each other. He reflects to us something sacred and ancient - something that we all already know - a way of being that is about brotherhood.

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Carmel Reid
20/2/2018 01:47:27 pm

Once we women allow ourselves to feel our natural qualities and to appreciate them, it becomes easier to see the same levels of tenderness in men. Equality comes from within, not from any political action.

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Rowena Stewart
10/3/2018 11:42:50 pm

"Equality comes from within, not from any political action." Nailed it Carmel. Equality is a lived knowing and expression. No amount of 'right action' can establish it. It arises from a connection with our divine essence that as you say, once connected to can be felt in all of us men and women alike. This is the grace that Serge Benhayon meets us all in, a humble equality that confirms and appreciates to the hilt.

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Gabriele Conrad
20/2/2018 04:06:13 pm

Serge Benhayon is an extraordinary role model in many ways and introducing women to their innateness is but one of his all-rounded qualities and living way.

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Aimee Edmonds
20/2/2018 06:11:09 pm

I can relate to everything you've shared Samantha. For me, being seen for the first time for who I am by Serge Benhayon and being met with absolute equableness supported me to see me for who I am.

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Otto Bathurst
22/2/2018 12:11:48 am

Zillions of times that absolute knowingness from Serge Benhayon has been the rock on which I have been able to stand up again. Unflinching, unwavering, undoubting support and honouring.

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Natalie Hawthorne
20/2/2018 07:17:38 pm

As a women being respected, honour and cherished for being the sacred women that we are has been incredible to feel from Serge Benhayon. So much so that I started to take the time to connect and feel that it could be possible that I was this. This is what is so remarkable with Serge, even if you don't at any point see the potential of who we are no matter what Serge will connect and communicate to you in that potential. Always asking us to be all of who we are and this is what he cherishes, the Divine Love that we are and are completely apart of.

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Rebecca Turner
20/2/2018 09:03:15 pm

A gorgeous expression from a gorgeous woman. Thank you Samantha.

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Ariana Ray
20/2/2018 09:09:36 pm

'​I felt with no doubt, absolutely equal, worthy and appreciated with no imposition.' And how many people that we meet can we say that of? Serge Benhayon has no parallel where holding people in love and equalness is concerned.

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Matilda Bathurst
28/2/2018 08:32:42 pm

Agreed, Ariana and it is this quality of equality that really inspires me at the moment... how many barriers and judgements it breaks down, how humbling and inspiring it is and how well it prepares and reconfigures us for unity.

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Rowena Stewart
8/3/2018 08:50:02 pm

Agreed Ariana, an unprecedented parallel that breaks the mould clean in half. Serge Benhayon sees deeply into everyone potential and divine essence and meets us in complete equableness, thus restoring a living example of true brotherhood. In Serge Benhayon's realm we are all special people and what is so awesome is that is it very contagious.

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Caroline Francis
20/2/2018 09:35:24 pm

Only the other day I could feel in my body a deepened sense of appreciation for Serge Benhayon and even though my appreciation is ginormous it keeps on expanding as my commitment to life evolves. A man of enormous inspiration inspiring me to make great changes to the way I am in life.

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Sandra Vicary
20/2/2018 10:25:37 pm

"He understands that there is an authority, grace and power that cannot be tainted by honouring how he feels and that there is no weakness in this." Serge Benhayon has shown so many that this is true, and very possible. He is an inspiration beyond measure and continues to deliver the absolute truth of what we all have avaialbe to us when we honour ourselves first.

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Tricia Nicholson
20/2/2018 11:13:13 pm

"I call Serge Benhayon inspiring, he is a point of light, with steadiness and clarity, he lights up the world, this lights reach all of us." So beautiful Samantha and so honouring of all we are as humanity .Serge Benhayon brings a gentleness and humility to the world for us all to feel for ourselves who we are inside by his reflection

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Shirley-Ann Walters link
21/2/2018 01:36:44 am

I agree Samantha, and I too can recollect that I have felt truly "met" and connected to as an equal by Serge Benhayon, a truly lovely experience, like being held, even when at times that has at the same time been uncomfortable and exposing for me because of the unequalness and contraction I have held myself in. I have seen that this appreciation and beholding is the same with men and women equally so. I also loved the way you remind us here that men and women have much in common, and that in our differences we are designed to complement each other, as I feel this very strongly as my own experience when we connect to the truth of who we are inside.

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Jennifer Smith
21/2/2018 02:06:00 am

Serge Benhayon is the most gentle and tender man I have met and a the same time time comes a strength that is so solid, steady, non-imposing and super consistent. Its not an outer strength but one that comes from his tenderness and loving way. It's no wonder that he inspires both men and women alike and myself very much included.

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jane keep
25/2/2018 08:29:45 am

Absolutely agree. Serge inspires men and women - of all ages, of all walks of life. It is through Serge Benhayon that I have come to realise that we are all truly equal no matter what.

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Richard Mills
21/2/2018 04:37:26 am

To me, Serge Benhayon is the power of Love in person, in action, in stillness and in beingness. His reflection offers us all the opportunity to see this power within ourselves too and to live it as he does in this world.

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Monika Rietveld
21/2/2018 10:26:44 am

What you write about Serge: 'he saw me equal, he appreciated me for who I am, but there was absolutely no shred, speck, spot of imposition, nothing to prove, no dismissal, superiority, sexism, gender stereotyping, protection, sexualisation' is also my experience and still very very rare to encounter. And yet one true gentle man is enough to change my life.

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Jonathan Stewart
21/2/2018 10:24:56 pm

And the lives of many, many, many ........ many others.

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Jane Keep
23/2/2018 12:47:22 am

I agree Monika, and Samantha. There is something truly to appreciate when you meet a man - Serge Benhayon and you feel you can drop your guard, relax, be yourself, and you are not protecting yourself - and that is what happens when you meet Serge, finally you realise you can relax, nothing is being asked of you, nor are you being imposed on in any way, you are simply allowed to be you. That brings tears to my eyes writing this as I can feel how beautiful this is, and one day, all men can and will be the same - true gentle-men, returned to their true essence.

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Melinda Knights
21/2/2018 11:24:34 am

It's a pretty incredible point that a man has helped so many women return to their true selves, as how many women can do that for each other? Usually men are unable to relate to women in a true way, as you say it's all stereotypes, inequalities and beliefs - literally people living images of who they think they need to be and relating to others in images as well. I knew the first time I met Serge in person I wanted to continue working with him, one of the key reasons was the observations I made of the women students at his workshops, they were very obviously nurtured to be their true selves and felt very powerful to me. I had never seen that before. I knew there was a power in me as a woman that needed to come out but nowhere in the world could I see that being honoured until I came to Universal Medicine. Serge is absolutely the real deal for women.

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Mary
21/2/2018 12:30:03 pm

I remember a retreat I attended in Australia and I found myself sitting between two absolutely gorgeous and sweetly tender men. Working in a predominately male environment this took me by surprise but then as the course progressed I found all the men were very tender and warm hearted, they felt safe enough to let down their guard and allow everyone to see their natural tenderness. Now when I am with men I see past the protection they encase themselves in. I am much more at ease with them all thanks to the fact that Serge Benhayon treats everyone with the most utter respect and love and this breaks down all barriers to reveal the true beauty we all are.

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Matilda Bathurst
28/2/2018 08:29:41 pm

I love this Mary, the impact of any one of us choosing to let down our guards and be the tender, open, caring beings we are, making it safe and inviting for others to explore this for themselves.

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Rowena Stewart
21/2/2018 12:42:08 pm

This is a consistent experience of many who meet Serge Benhayon and study his work. The quality of his interactions confirms a way of living we have always known and hence we are pulled back up to our original journey of evolution and integrity of expression, care and genuine love of self and one another, so clearly evident in your beautiful photo.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
21/2/2018 12:48:20 pm

You are certainly not alone Samantha. Not only have I been inspired by Serge Benhayon to explore actually living and expressing the values and qualities that have been dear to my heart, but the unwaveringly example offered by the way he personally lives keeps deepening my understanding and awareness of such qualities constantly.

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Alison Pearson
21/2/2018 12:50:17 pm

'... upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered.' Being in the presence of Serge Benhayon, in just one moment, I feel deeply honoured, appreciated and respected without any judgment or imposition. I can feel that the power of the love that I am being held in is stronger than the love I hold for myself. This feels so beautiful as it is offering me a marker of what is possible as I continue to surrender and deepen the love I have for myself. It also allows me to appreciate my own exquisiteness on a whole new level. Such is the beholding power of the love that Serge Benhayon shares with all, equally, in every moment.

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Natalie Hawthorne
21/2/2018 01:50:43 pm

Serge Benhayon is a being that is choosing the truth of who we are, he has been dedicated and committed to this no matter what. When you meet him you can't deny what you feel, the quality in which he expresses is beyond anything you have experienced and then to be meet in this and reminded that we too are just as magnificent as he is, is something you can't avoid. You feel it and then you realise you know this is what you are capable of. From that moment we have a choice too.

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Mary
21/2/2018 09:36:57 pm

I totally agree with you Samantha when you say
"I thank God, the stars, moons and suns in our universe for constellating in such a way that brought Serge Benhayon in to my life."
There are thousands of people who feel this way all around the world. Serge has this most amazing gift to look past all the layers of protection we carry around to keep the world and other people out. Serge looks to the very core of who we are and it is like a soothing balm because at last we feel another's love and understanding that we are okay that there is in truth nothing wrong with us.

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Jonathan Stewart
21/2/2018 10:23:08 pm

A wonderful testimony to the beauty and love of Serge Benhayon who truly inspires both men and women equally and a loving, intimate sharing of your own return to yourself, Samantha. You, too, are an inspiration to others.

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Ariana Ray
21/2/2018 10:25:35 pm

It's great you were inspired to begin your path to make different choices and live differently, inspired by a man who lives such a depth of integrity and love. Such a lived way is deeply inspiring for all.

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Rachel Murtagh link
21/2/2018 10:27:28 pm

'I thank God, the stars, moons and suns in our universe for constellating in such a way that brought Serge Benhayon in to my life.' Samantha, I share your sentiment. The gift of knowing Serge Benhayon goes beyond our earthly realm to the universe and back, everything in-between and then some more again!

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Otto Bathurst
21/2/2018 11:58:35 pm

Undeniable to feel in your words the work that you have put in. This is what inspires others.

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Ruth Ketnor
22/2/2018 12:05:15 am

Samantha this is a beautiful testimony. I was stopped in my tracks when I met Serge, with a deep fear of men and lack of trust in the world here was a man who was presenting something completely different, living something completely different, tenderness, respect, loving, grace and not a spec of imposition. From that day my life changed and has continued to so, a Gentle Man indeed showing us all the way it can be.

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Otto Bathurst
22/2/2018 12:07:25 am

There is a real honesty, accessibility and reality to what is written here; a tale that could be told by perhaps all of us, irrespective of man or woman. Even though you talk of your journey as a woman I, as a man, feel a real equality and brotherhood in what you write and your words ring super true in my body.

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Carmel Reid
22/2/2018 12:45:24 am

Serge Benhayon has truly helped us to break down stereotypes so that we can see each other for who we truly are, equal brothers and sons of God. No need to judge or criticise, we are each on our individual journey of return to whence we came, and we are all travelling together, no-one is exempt.

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Matilda Bathurst
28/2/2018 08:27:05 pm

I love the simplicity and practical way you have said this, Carmel. It is matter of fact that we are all returning to the unity and love from 'whence we came' and which within we know so absolutely.

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Rowena Stewart
11/3/2018 11:21:13 pm

I agree Carmel and Matilda. Serge Benhayon continues to break down all the judgments, criticisms and beliefs that keep us separated, in gender, culture, nationality, religion and political belief. He restores the essence of who we all are, holds firm to a deep respect that calls us back to our true conduct and way of being, an all inclusive package of love, wisdom and inner growth.

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Eva Rygg
19/3/2018 05:12:42 am

Serge's way of meeting any other feelow human being as equals, offers a huge wakeup call in the way it comes free of judgment and expectation.

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Caroline Francis
22/2/2018 02:42:12 am

My relationships with men and women are continuously changing. They are changing because I am changing allowing both men and women to see me for who I am and everything that comes with that. My relationships are becoming more accepting as to where another is at, more open and transparent and I owe this without a shadow of a doubt to Serge Benhayon and being inspired by him.

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Rowena Stewart
22/2/2018 12:34:55 pm

Yes Serge Benhayon is a man who both men and women love to be around, due to the quality of his company and conduct. Gentlemanly, humble, funny and very, very wise, Serge brings a gentle grace to bear all situations, a lesson in genuine diplomacy and honesty we could all do with.

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jane keep
22/2/2018 12:53:24 pm

It is deeply touching to see Serge with others, and the way he treats everyone equally and with a deep honouring and the deepest integrity I have known. When I go to a presentation by Serge Benhayon I am also struck by his movements - delicate, tender, graceful, divine - it is an absolute joy to be in the presence of Serge, and to know him. I am truly blessed.

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Janet
22/2/2018 09:58:20 pm

Yes, Samantha. When I met Serge Benhayon and every time since, I have been completely honoured and respected in my divine essence and nothing less, with equal access to God through a deepening connection with my own soul. Serge simply reminds us of what is possible.

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Ariana Ray
22/2/2018 10:32:08 pm

Claiming what is true about Serge Benhayon is so important with the amount of social media presenting all that is not true. This is a great voice speaking here.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
22/2/2018 11:20:01 pm

Because of Serge Benhayon I know through and through how every aspect of how we live has an impact on not only our own life, and not just on everyone around us, but has ripple effects that actually touches the whole fabric of life. The personal example he offers by the transparency and the unwavering dedication to love, integrity and responsibility with which he lives is a great reminder that this way of living is possible and an inspiration to go there. I also love how his presentations and books offer the understanding and support needed along the way.

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Ruth Ketnor
22/2/2018 11:46:49 pm

'I heard him speak, I listened and there was a quality in the way he talked about us all - as one humanity, how we are all equally divine, how we are responsible for our own choices' yes, this spoke volumes to me too. It felt different, I could feel that these words were lived in full, and I had found what I had been looking for, the Truth through Serge Benhayon.

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Carmel Reid
23/2/2018 01:46:51 am

Serge Benhayon is indeed a true gentleman, gentle in everything he does and yet powerful in the way he supports so many of us across the globe. He touches things tenderly, he speaks always with absolute respect regardless of to whom he is speaking, and he moves with extraordinary grace, totally unimposing, a clear example of how we too could be living, walking and moving if we so chose.

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Rachel Murtagh link
23/2/2018 07:47:01 am

Serge Benhayon breaks down all cultural stereotypes, gender ideals and false spiritual beliefs in such a loving, open and truthful way that should any investment be held it, can be let go of with the understanding that has been offered.

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Michelle Mcwaters
23/2/2018 09:16:11 am

'..but not in a way where we need to fight them, or be alike, but that we are born to complement each other, that we are all innately of the same essence, that we all want to be loved, seen and appreciated and we are all born, tender, sweet and sensitive.' So often I hear hurt and resentfulness in women's voices when they talk about the unfair way they are treated at the hands of men and so it is understandable why the fight has been on for so long and yet this anger has not really got us very far - just a whole lot harder, driven and shut down. The different way that is being suggested here is so much more unifying, open and gentle. Totally worth considering.

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David Nicholson
23/2/2018 09:19:52 am

Samantha I fully agree with you and have not only felt that love and care from Serge but its supported and inspired me to deepen the way I am in all my relationships.

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Samantha
23/2/2018 11:59:37 am

The magnificence this man brings and the wisdom Serge shares with humanity has yet to be recognised by the world, but one day many circles around the sun we all will know and understand the love he is.

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Carmel Reid
23/2/2018 12:19:16 pm

I never truly appreciated the meaning of the word intimacy when it came to relationships, forever keeping my feelings to myself for fear of being criticised for being weak, and avoiding conflict, now I am learning the importance of being fully open and transparent and sharing everything I feel regardless of anyone's reactions, but speaking in a way that is not contracted, not fearful, but simply honouring what is.

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Monica Gillooly
23/2/2018 03:28:45 pm

You speak for many in how you express here Samantha, how meeting Serge Benhayon set many of us on a path to reconnect to our true selves, to live in a way that truly honours who we are. It's changes me, changed my relationships with both men and women, and all that because I was truly met and deeply honoured and respected, and shown that it's possible for all of us to live in a way that allows all of us to be who we truly are, tender, delicate, sacred.

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Rowena Stewart
23/2/2018 08:54:51 pm

What awesome qualities to restore to us. I also deeply thank God for the day I met Serge Benhayon. What Serge offers us is very familiar, qualities we have neglected in our search for some fabled external perfection. Serge is a man who holds dear to true values that respect and honour us all and lives them without exception. Thus he embodies an aura of genuine respect that touches everyone very deeply in whatever way we engage with him.

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Mary
23/2/2018 10:33:28 pm

I have worked in a male dominated industry for most of my life and I have never come across another man quite like Serge Benhayon. I have never heard or seen him bring anyone down, or impose his views over another person, he treats everyone with such deep respect which is felt and appreciated. He has an unshakable belief in the truth and of the truth of God and that means everything to me.

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Janet
23/2/2018 10:34:29 pm

Yes indeed, Samantha. Serge Benhayon deeply honours the qualities of femaleness in equal balance with maleness, as a way to live in fullness as a soul on earth.

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Victoria
4/3/2018 03:11:46 pm

Absolutely Janet, my heart sings when I feel the restoration of our inner and outer lives when this is lived.

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Mary
23/2/2018 10:41:58 pm

Too me Serge Benhayon by the very way he and his family live their lives are showing us a way to live that we will all be living in the future. It may take a few generations but I for one look forward to a time where we will all be living with each other simply, with no abuse, war or any of the other ways of living that are so detrimental to us all as a whole.

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Otto Bathurst
24/2/2018 12:29:44 am

"A true gentleman". I like the breakdown of words here. A - one of many, for we are all equal. True - 100%. Gentle - exquisitely. Man - this is my favourite bit - because, in truth, a man encompasses all of this and so much more. And now, because of what Serge Benhayon has shown me, reflected to me and inspired in me, when I sit with the word 'man', I can feel an enormous expansiveness of what that actually means and the purpose and divinity of that expression in the world.

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Otto Bathurst
24/2/2018 12:34:15 am

Because of Serge Benhayon I am loving learning to be a man. He is the greatest role model any student of life could ever wish for.

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Karin Barea
24/2/2018 05:11:02 am

This is so confirming to read, a testament to our true ways. 'Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another. ' How I relate to myself as a woman has completely been transformed, and how I relate with men too. I was carrying around and living so many toxic beliefs and ideals, my relationships were so closed and one dimensional. Now there is great richness and I can feel so much opportunity for far greater depth and expression with others.

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jane keep
24/2/2018 08:52:21 am

Until I met Serge I hadn't really considered what 'transparency' meant. I had a mistrust of people in life, and I had rarely felt people to be consistent, steady, open, or transparent. Serge lives and breathes transparency, integrity, consistency, in spade loads - and observing Serge over the years I started to regain trust in people, and, from my discernment of Serge I had a 'marker' of what honesty and integrity is when lived consistently in life. And I knew what it felt like when someone was transparent. In this and so much more Serge is a true role model.

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Vicky Cooke
24/2/2018 01:53:56 pm

A powerful and true testimony everything you have shared regarding Serge Benhayon I absolutely concur. Serge Benhayon has supported me to love, care and respect myself more than I have ever done in my life and to start to be the woman I truly am. And this is not just a handful of people that Serge meets I would say the majority that meet Serge feel about him this way. He is genuine in all he says and does and this comes from zero want or recognition. What this has also taught me is that it is possible to live a life full of true love, rich relationships and purpose and want absolutely nothing from anyone but for it to be a joy to give your all to everyone. What if we all lived this way. It is possible.

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Susan Green
24/2/2018 09:22:40 pm

Beautiful to read this article, because everything you have said Samantha resonated deeply with me also. I have never felt so loved and cherished as I did when I first met with Serge and from there on after; he feels like a father, a best friend and an equal all in one.

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Nico van Haastrecht
24/2/2018 09:36:35 pm

Serge Benhayon does reminds us in many ways that we are so much more than the stereotypes that are prevailing in our societies as the way how to be in life. Serge does not only reminds us of the fact that we are so much more but also presents to us the true models that we can try and explore and perhaps start to live for ourselves instead.

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Janet
24/2/2018 10:09:46 pm

I could not agree with you more, Samantha - "I thank God, the stars, moons and suns in our universe for constellating in such a way that brought Serge Benhayon in to my life." This is a blessing I deeply appreciate every single day, as meeting Serge Benhayon has helped me to turn my life around and re-orientate myself back to love.

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Matilda Bathurst
28/2/2018 08:22:52 pm

Ditto to this Samantha and Janet... to be met and honoured so absolutely has invited and inspired me to embrace my qualities as a woman and bring them more and more unreservedly to life.

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Mary
24/2/2018 11:23:00 pm

This is the simplicity of what Serge Benhayon lives
'...to see it in another I must already know it within myself...' - I have come to know this as a truth for myself. The more I connect to the love I naturally hold in my body the more I know that what Serge Benhayon presents and lives is true.

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Michelle Mcwaters
25/2/2018 12:17:35 am

'What kind of torment lies behind a man who does not show his feelings but instead follows the cultural dictates that are so prevalent?' The word 'torment' here is not hyperbole but when in denial it could appear so. As a child I could feel very strongly how we had things all wrong and yet not having anywhere to go with this learned to bury and then deny the hurt I was feeling. It took meeting Serge Benhayon to feel the truth of the 'torment' I had been feeling as a girl/woman and I know that for men it is just as hard, if not harder sometimes as they are rejected so young for the naturally sweet, caring and tender people they are.

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rosanna bianchini
25/2/2018 12:19:49 am

Absolutely Samantha the way Serge holds everyone, man, woman, or child they feel his love and know that this is true equality. When we are met in this way it asks us to know ourselves equally.

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Carmel Reid
25/2/2018 12:44:49 am

'Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another.' Looking back on the relationships I have had I can see how this is definitely the case because with Serge Benhayon as a role model, many of us are approaching our relationships in a different way, with appreciation rather than judgement.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
25/2/2018 07:53:18 am

I smiled when I read how healing you found the reflection Serge Benhayon offered in his interactions and you decided that “this was a quality in a man, in a human being that was worth exploring and finding out more about“. I recognise that for myself too. I find the depth of love, integrity and wisdom Serge lives and expresses constantly inspires me similarly to explore and deepen my relationship with all aspects of life.

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Michael Brown
25/2/2018 12:00:35 pm

Such an inspiration for men all over the world, here is a living proof that we can grow into an adult and retain our tenderness and sweetness.

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Rowena Stewart
25/2/2018 08:30:27 pm

"Men like women are also caught in cultural stereotypes that many do not feel are true and they also feel imprisoned by them." And so with the wise support and encouragement of Serge Benhayon, we begin to cut our selves out of these imprisoning stereotypes freeing our true and tender natures, in the process re-discovering just how gorgeous we all are.

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Janet
25/2/2018 10:05:10 pm

Yes, it is quite the man who can support a woman to re-connect to and honour her sacredness.

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Carmel Reid
26/2/2018 12:33:28 am

Serge Benhayon helps us all to appreciate ourselves as 'powerful, loving, gentle and deeply sensitive.' both men and women

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Fumiyo Egashira
26/2/2018 04:06:48 am

“Recognising this integrity, power and equality in him, brought the realisation from within me, that to see it in another I must already know it within myself” – this is truly powerful. This is what being inspired is about, and it makes extraordinary ordinary.

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Michael Goodhart
26/2/2018 08:21:47 am

Serge Benhayon has done nothing short of set the benchmark for how we as a global community can regain harmony and brotherhood on this planet. By inspiration based on his consistent daily way of living with such a depth of love, understanding, patience and wisdom gained from his access to his soul, we can all realise that we are born with the same abilities to live this way as Samantha and thousands of others have begun to do in their own lives.

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Joseph Barker
26/2/2018 12:34:30 pm

We think we have to change and ‘improve’ but all we actually have to do is let our underlying nature out - just be us, without any of the beliefs and ideals. This is what Serge does so beautifully - thank you Samantha.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
26/2/2018 12:52:53 pm

There have been many limiting stereotypes, ideals and beliefs that for years I had not even imagined could be any different - considering them as immutable as gravity, and as constant as night and day. It is a real gift meeting someone like Serge Benhayon that poses the questions that invites you to reflect and re assess, and whose personal reflection inspires a life with far more love, wisdom and honouring of one another.

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kev mchardy
26/2/2018 09:29:57 pm

Serge opens the door to a true way of living when for so long we have been trudging along in what we have been told is true when we know deep down it is far from it. Recognising that both male and female are here to compliment each other and help us realise the we all have equally both female and male energy which will help us return to the divine beings we truly are.

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Ariana Ray
26/2/2018 09:48:53 pm

Thank God for Serge Benhayon - I do so every day, for without his living embodiment of truth walking on this earth I would be lost and in the misery I was in when I first met him. The reflection he offered me was priceless - I just thank God that I saw the truth in front of me.

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Janet
26/2/2018 11:11:19 pm

Yes indeed, Serge Benhayon lights up the world with love, and reflects the truth of how we can be in relationship with ourselves and each other.

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Susan Green
26/2/2018 11:16:38 pm

'I decided that this was a quality in a man, in a human being that was worth exploring and finding out more about.' I remember it was the enormous amount of love that I was held during the entire time of the first course I attended that I knew I wanted this in my life.

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Susan Lee link
27/2/2018 12:29:15 am

When meeting Serge the thing that struck me most was the ordinariness of this extra-ordinary man. I could feel that there was no imposition and within this there was a space for me to be me - for me to feel the equality of the moment and to appreciate all that I was being offered.

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Lucy Dahill
1/3/2018 10:15:41 am

Thank you for reminding me of this Susan. It is a quality that is rarely felt and reminds me that this is the sign of a true inspiration. The reminder that we are all extra-ordinary in our ordinariness!

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Michael Brown
27/2/2018 02:57:04 am

So many testimonials and lived proof to boot, thank you for adding to an amazing pool of writing and being part of a stunning community.

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Carola Woods link
27/2/2018 10:20:15 am

Yes to all that you have shared here. Serge Benhayon is a leading light in the world, one that inspires men and women equally so to reclaim living the power of who we innately are by way of reflection, of living in honor of this quality consistently. With this quality of living the true meaning of power is resurrected and restore. We have through the ages created a world, a culture, that has us believing that we need to overpower one another, to compete or fight one another to gain a false sense of power which leaves us still feeling unsettled, rather than empowering ourselves by connecting to and appreciating the love we are within, in order for us to truly walk side by side, hand in hand, inspiring and supporting each other to be all that we equally already are in essence.

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Amita Khurana
2/3/2018 03:45:43 am

Absolutely there is no doubt in what you share "Serge Benhayon is a leading light in the world, one that inspires men and women equally so to reclaim living the power of who we innately are by way of reflection, of living in honor of this quality consistently. " his reflection is supper powerful and inspiring.

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Rowena Stewart
27/2/2018 12:13:55 pm

"​He is a true gentleman, he holds a lived authority, gentleness and strength that is undeniable" The way Serge Benhayon conducts himself is a living teaching in its own right, one that corrects all our presumptions about what true strength is.

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Adele Leung
27/2/2018 03:42:05 pm

When someone like Serge lives what is natural it allows us to live the same with the tools offered from his presentations.

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Kathleen Baldwin
27/2/2018 08:12:32 pm

Serge Benhayon has changed my whole perspective and approach to relationships whether it is between men and women or me and anyone that comes into my sphere by demonstrating a living example of the qualities you have described so beautifully here Samantha. . . . “And Serge Benhayon, a man in essence like any other, only different because he chooses another way, this man chooses responsibility and to honour that he is in essence gentle, loving and sensitive. He understands that there is an authority, grace and power that cannot be tainted by honouring how he feels and that there is no weakness in this. This transparency builds what is often called trust, a steadiness that radiates that he is the real deal.”

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Janet
27/2/2018 11:22:17 pm

Serge Benhayon has reflected to me over the years that it does not matter what I look like (even though I am pretty gorgeous!), and that the beauty of my soul is the most precious thing in the world. The same goes for every single person equally so.

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Amita
2/3/2018 03:26:27 am

Absolutely our Soul is the precious thing in this world, and our Souls are all equal from the same one source. We are all equally beautiful.

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Carmel Reid
28/2/2018 02:43:45 am

The presentations of Serge Benhayon can feel quite challenging and we may not necessarily take on board everything he says, but at some level we can feel the truth of what he says, because deep within, our bodies recognise truth. I have gone back over notes I took years ago and the information feels fresh, because it is always relevant, there are always layers to peel back as we return to our true origins.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
28/2/2018 05:53:50 am

It is easy to look at the world we have created and react to the extent of what we know deep within us is not okay, note that hardly any of the solutions championed over the years by yourself or by the world at large have worked, and give up. And then you get someone like Serge Benhayon who lives the light of the Soul 24/7 day in day out and you see the ripple effects of such an expression. It becomes clear that throwing solutions created from the same consciousness was never going to work, it is the quality of life chosen that makes a difference.

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Willem Plandsoen
28/2/2018 12:52:59 pm

You are certainly not alone in that. Serge started off on his own, but has since 1999 touched many people's lives who have discovered that the way Serge lives is also accessible to them and can lived, without needing to be perfect. So the way Serge is living with all the equality, love, tenderness and power is spreading throughout the world. He is extraordinary but he is not alone anymore.

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Matilda Bathurst
28/2/2018 08:02:27 pm

I absolutely love and appreciate the way you explore the gender dynamic, Samantha... it is very wise and inspiring. And the way you share about Serge's qualities and the impact he has had on your life and the lives of many others, is deeply honouring and respectful. Thank you.

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Ruth Ketnor
1/3/2018 12:52:45 am

'and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man' I agree, and this I experience every time I meet Serge, his consistency is absolute, always, with everyone.

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kev mchardy
1/3/2018 01:49:49 am

It never fails to astound me how Serge is able to be as utterly amazing as he is and still be just a normal everyday bloke. Being able to see everyone on the planet as an equal and having absolutely no judgement about anyone is something I see Serge do and it is something that I will aspire to do until I have nailed it, no matter how long it takes.

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Janet
1/3/2018 04:04:11 am

Yes, Samantha. Serge Benhayon is re-writing the living standards of love and equality in all relationships.

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Samantha Davidson
1/3/2018 07:08:55 am

The wisdom Serge Benhayon shares resonates deep within us all, it has unearthed something that has been buried in me for a long time. Everything he shares is not complicated, it asks us all to step forth into our own power and potential. I say Yes to that and wow what if humanity said Yes to that....many of us live functional lives, no joy, an okayness that is debilitating, we die unfulfilled and unhealthy, Serge Benhayon simply offers another way of being in ourselves - Beautiful and humbly revolutionary.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
1/3/2018 08:47:08 am

I had not felt true honouring of women until I met Serge Benhayon. I can say the same thing about the honouring of men. In fact although such qualities have always been very dear to me, I can say with great sincerely that I did not truly know what honouring of another meant until that moment. And because of his example, my awareness about humanity's true expression and our interrelationship with one another is deepening on pretty much daily basis.

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Sylvia
1/3/2018 09:35:42 am

Serge Benhayon just doesn't walk for himself but with a love for himself he walks for all humanity to feel love again equally in themselves .

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Lucy Dahill
1/3/2018 10:12:46 am

"we are all innately of the same essence, that we all want to be loved, seen and appreciated and we are all born, tender, sweet and sensitive." When there is a focus on differences we suddenly want to own what is unique about us, and get into groups based on our differences. Yet we are from the one source, we are one humanity, we are, in fact one big bundle of love! I love Serge's commitment to reflecting who we are regardless of the push back to remain in the exclusiveness of who we are not.

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Rowena Stewart
1/3/2018 08:40:15 pm

The joy and love apparent in your photo Samantha is proof enough of the power of Serge Benhayon's ethos. Do not expect anything less than total respect and absolute integrity when it comes to meeting Serge, a man who holds strong to our innate values and reminds us constantly of how to truly live in this world.

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Carmel Reid
1/3/2018 09:01:38 pm

I have been listening to Serge Benhayon present for 13 years and it always feels like a fresh presentation every time, even though what he may be presenting is something I have heard before, somehow it comes in deeper and deeper layers as my understanding grows. I never tire of hearing him speak - he is continually evolving and inspiring us to evolve too.

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Otto Bathurst
3/3/2018 11:08:16 pm

Absolutely, the more open we become the more we can hear. Reading your comment Carmel reminds me of the infinite patience of Serge Benhayon! A patience that can only be born from an absolute love of, and an absolute knowing of the equality of, humanity. Astonishing and awesome.

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Amita
2/3/2018 03:28:41 am

Serge's reflection of light is absolutely bright, beautiful and steady, a true guiding light show us the way to who we truly are and where we are truly from. What a blessing to have such a light.

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Natalie Hawthorne
2/3/2018 10:27:58 am

The deep care, love, respect and honouring that Serge Benhayon meets and holds you in leaves you in a place where you have the choice to bring this to yourself. I had never felt that I was truly worth this and when with out question Serge did and has consistently so held me in this then I started to feel that I was and that it was also something that I could do for myself. Game Changer for sure!

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Willem Plandsoen
2/3/2018 12:48:43 pm

Beautiful Samantha. You describe the way women and men could interact together inspired, and started off by one man who chooses a different way from what society dictates how a man should live and how a man should treat women.

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Hm
2/3/2018 02:52:38 pm

Thank god for Serge Benhayon who has shown us a way of living that is truly caring and supportive
It is a joy to know him and to therefore know more about humanity

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Mary
2/3/2018 11:55:21 pm

Thanks to Serge Benhayon and his family I too am on my path of reestablishing who I am, allowing me to express as a woman with out fear of judgement or condemnation this is a continuous process. However I dread to think what my life would be like now if I had not met Serge Benhayon and his family. And the belief that they know I am worth so much more than I have allowed myself to be has been hugely supportive as I find my way back to the 'real' me again.

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Zofia
3/3/2018 12:18:23 am

"This is how a man inspired a woman to exploring her true feminine ways and return to a truthful harmonious way of life. And I am not alone in that" - You certainly are not Samantha and you can include me in this too. You share a stunning example of how one man, Serge Benhayon through living the depth of his own love re-ignites the inner flame of true truth, love, wisdom, knowingness and power within not just a woman but a man too.

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Carmel Reid
3/3/2018 01:37:08 am

It is a fact of history that men and women have never understood each other fully and it is great that Serge Benhayon is now helping us to change that

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Victoria
4/3/2018 03:00:37 pm

Yes, in essence we are genderless, yet both have the qualities of femaleness and maleness within. Our world is calling for this restoration of our true expression. Appreciating the sameness while honouring the body we are expressing through.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
3/3/2018 11:20:53 am

Whether relating to one another, to ourselves, to God or to the Universe, Serge Benhayon’s reflection reminds us of the depth of awareness that is our natural expression, and his example inspires us to re-choose and re-live the love, truth, harmony, responsibility and oneness that is our innate essence.

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Jennifer Smith
3/3/2018 05:23:00 pm

If anyone had a serious look at the work of Serge Benhayon, not only what is presented, but the quality in which he lives all of his life and how this has inspired many hundreds of people to make very supportive changes in their own lives, there would be no doubt in the quality of the work and the qualities of the man himself.

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Otto Bathurst
3/3/2018 11:05:48 pm

Serge was alongside us, a gentle hand on our back, knowing that we are all absolutely equal, imbuing us with that same knowing and thus inspiring us to walk our own true walk. This is the ultimate and true form of teaching. I have forgotten much of what I was taught at school, I will never forget what Serge has taught me.

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Jonathan Stewart
4/3/2018 11:03:20 pm

Yes, and what he teaches is the re-connection to our Soul and so once connected we cannot forgot.

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Carmel Reid
4/3/2018 01:04:40 am

'Many of us women have neglected our inner connection with our true womanliness in this activity and we have also hand in hand neglected that men are our equals,' this is what is so beautiful about the presentations of Serge Benhayon, he is calling us out for the competitive ways we have seen each other and introduced us to true equality for men and women as the men and women we truly are

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Michael Brown
4/3/2018 04:05:17 am

Appreciation is a very exquisite aspect of Love.

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Vicky Cooke
4/3/2018 05:03:35 am


This is a very accurate description of Serge Benhayon 'He is a true gentleman, he holds a lived authority, gentleness and strength that is undeniable, he is a man that both men and women like to be around, and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered.' And this is only some of what he represents he is also deeply caring and sensitive, genuinely loving, truly wise, a guiding light to humanity, an amazing teacher, funny, a loving husband, father, grandfather, son and friend and so much more, His qualities are limitless and it is beautifull to observe how these are always being refined and expanded upon. Continually unfolding. You can learn so very much about life just from observing Serge.

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Rebecca
4/3/2018 05:47:39 am

Sometimes we equate gentlemanly behaviour with being patronising or belittling of women. I often used to get my back up by the genuinely caring gesture of a man opening a door for me, not because I was less, weaker or incapable but out of a true care. Yes, there can be behaviours not truly honouring, but I have seen in Serge the lived reflection of a truly gentle man, who's every action no matter who he is with, is deeply caring and considerate.

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Michael Brown
5/3/2018 07:34:54 pm

Beautifully put Rebecca.

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Rowena Stewart
4/3/2018 12:36:54 pm

What a gift it is returning to our selves in all our grace, wisdom and integrity, enabled by Serge Benhayon who without doubt is restoring our true way of being. Once reconnected to, these qualities naturally flow through us to greet other people and so the gift from one man is shared with many.

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Victoria
4/3/2018 02:51:45 pm

This is how we truly heal, a reflection of love and truth that re-ignites the connection to that within ourselves. This is true inspiration. Its beautiful to read the appreciation you share for Serge Benhayon, I agree wholeheartedly.

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Danna Elmalah
4/3/2018 10:26:36 pm

Powerful, meaning the strength that sits within us that want to be lived and shared out with others.. we only need to re-discover how for ourselves and find this love within. All we can do is inspire others by our reflection and way lived. This is exactly what Serge has been presenting and doing over the years, he does not pretend , neither does he play games, he simply is -- and allows others to be themselves too, without any agenda whatshowever.

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Jonathan Stewart
4/3/2018 11:00:24 pm

The lived quality of Serge Benhayon and through the reflection he gives has broken the imprisonment of the stereotypes for both men and women that have held us back from being in our full glory.

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Rachel Murtagh link
5/3/2018 04:52:35 am

A true 'gentle-man' Serge is the epitome of the meaning of this word in every way shape and form.

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Eva Rygg
10/3/2018 12:05:50 pm

I agree Rachel - Serge Benhayon was the first man that ever made real sense of the word gentle-man.

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Liane Mandalis
5/3/2018 09:40:15 am

It takes two to constellate, as does it include the many others who are part of this reflection.

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Karin Barea
5/3/2018 12:43:42 pm

'...as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered.' This is so true. Without feeling this from a man I would have continued my view that men were occupied by sexual thoughts and that men and women couldn't relate without this energy muddying up the waters. I have now felt the quality of relationship between the genders that is possible, a marker that inspires me in how I relate to men and to women.

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Ariana Ray
5/3/2018 01:23:11 pm

How is it that this one man who lives all the difference of love in this world can be vilified and lied about so fouly?
The openness of living love so transparently in the world - on in some monastery, nit hidden away, with every door open for view, and yet such a powerful and grand love is besmirched.
I know for me that I thank God for Serge Benhayon in each moment, for without his reflection I would be living a very different and miserable life. Thank you Serge Benhayon for gracing my life and this planet with your love.

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Rowena Stewart
5/3/2018 08:27:06 pm

So what is restored to us is true purpose, correct conduct and authentic expression through the living expression of one very awesome and gorgeous man, Serge Benhayon, who gracefully shows us the way to return to our true nature.

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Carmel Reid
5/3/2018 08:50:09 pm

I am intrigued by the comment 'he is a man that both men and women like to be around' because this is so true - he treats everyone as absolute equals and is respectful regardless of gender, there is not an ounce of competitiveness in his body, no arrogance, only a tender, loving man who is an inspiration to us all.

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Eva Rygg
19/3/2018 04:41:45 am

I agree - we like to be around him because we feel deeply respected and met regardless of who we are and where we are at.

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Janet
5/3/2018 11:04:41 pm

Yes, Samantha, it is no surprise that suicide and eating disorder rates for men are on the rise, when we know they are as sensitive as women but lack the support to explore who they are and what they feel inside. Serge Benhayon is a true role model for all men (and women) as he reflects in every movement what it means to love and be loved.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
6/3/2018 12:37:26 pm

Most of us can recall the experience of a young child being face to face with another. There is no measuring the other up, comparison, strategizing. As a small child you see in the other the possibility of a whole world, there is a pull with every cell, here is a friend, an ally, a play mate, a companion to explore the Universe with. In that moment the other child IS the Universe, as are you. You can feel it, the invitation to join and expand together.

How come we close down and no longer tap into this as adults? The great things is that people like Serge Benhayon who are open, loving and transparent, offer a space to drop the ‘adult’ protection, strategies and games and remember the absolute delight and joy of connection.

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Rowena Stewart
6/3/2018 08:58:50 pm

And here we are, beautiful people returning to our selves thanks to the awesome grace and beauty of Serge Benhayon, a Master of Integrity.

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Carmel Reid
7/3/2018 12:43:24 am

'Cultural stereotypes' yes, we tend to judge people and make assumptions about them instead of seeing and feeling their true essence. Serge Benhayon inspires us to look deeper beyond cultural beliefs and traditions because they can limit us in our expression.

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Sandra Vicary
7/3/2018 01:09:21 pm

"How would it feel to be a young man who cares, is sensitive, gentle and yet from boyhood they are unceremoniously told to toughen up, to not cry, treat their sisters, mothers and friends as inferior and degrade and overtly sexualise and objectify women?" A great question you ask here Samantha and one that deserves some answers. Serge Benhayon is one such man that has brought to our attention the fact that all men are deeply caring, tender and loving at their essence, however conditioning has meant that these true qualities have been deeply buried in so many men. But having introduced this, Serge has and is inspiring many men to come back to their true essence.

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HM
7/3/2018 01:42:21 pm

Samantha you expose the games women play here to be less than who they are, and what a joy it is that you know who you are and what it is to be equal to others. Serge Benhayon has supported so many of us to see and be this - and it is changing the very dynamics of men and women.

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Gabriele Conrad
7/3/2018 06:26:29 pm

It is dawning on me that this is what spherical living is about – knowing and living that we are part of a greater All and that it is never about self and security but about service to all, no matter what. Serge Benhayon, in truth, does not do anything for himself as such and this despite the fact that he lives the most divine levels of self-care and self-love and way beyond. This is the true power that we all share and he has reminded us of what we know, no ifs or buts.

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Matilda Bathurst
13/3/2018 09:21:26 pm

And knowing that we are part of 'a greater All', free of self and individualisation is a point of inspiration that we can be willing students of.

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Kev Mchardy
7/3/2018 10:48:35 pm

There is no doubt in my mind that if Serge was able to give council to all the world leaders and if they would listen, a lot of the massive problems we have with health and world conflicts world be so much closer to being solved. He proves that through his absolute connection to his soul that the wisdom he is able to connect to can solve any problem by seeing it at its source.

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Eva Rygg
10/3/2018 11:48:21 am

Hear hear - we would see true change in the world.

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Otto Bathurst
15/3/2018 10:43:03 pm

Here here! Oh ye, Oh ye! Bravo! And anything else that they shout at world council meetings! When you work for humanity rather than self then anything is possible - and herein lies the source of the toxicity in politics.

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Joseph Barker
8/3/2018 02:01:34 pm

Seeing anyone choose to live the true tenderness and delicateness offers us the inspiration to live that too. As long as we don’t get jealous, we get everything to make the changes that we need. All we have to do is stay open to seeing this stuff that is not true. Thank you Samantha and Serge Benhayon for the huge inspiration.

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Ariana Ray
8/3/2018 03:40:02 pm

You write how after meeting Serge Benhayon 'I began an unfolding path of redefining, reappraising and reestablishing of how I lived, cared for myself and expressed.' The simple acts of self care and addressing the level of love we express with is so important and yet so under valued in the world, when it makes such a difference.

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Matilda Bathurst
13/3/2018 09:11:43 pm

Is it the simplicity we find so unfamiliar because we are so used to the complication and struggle we have created? So we can practise being open to a process of letting go, back to the simplicity that is our natural and real.

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Samantha Davidson
17/3/2018 10:04:41 pm

This is true and it continues, it unfolds and there is no end. I agree it is the moments we offer attention and care in how we live that establishes the quality of our life generally, this is not often considered in society as it could be and it is something that I am still grasping as I evolve and observe life.

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Rachel Murtagh link
9/3/2018 02:23:41 pm

Serge Benhayon truly inspires all he meets to live with greater love and connection to themselves and others in full equality. What more can another human inspire in another?

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David
9/3/2018 02:40:16 pm

Looking back I was always confused as to what a man is and should be, as a boy I never wanted to be a man because the men I saw didn't feel loving, caring but hard and standoffish. This meant I didn't want to grow up, because where would I fit in. How incredible to have Serge showing what a true man is and as a role model for myself someone that I deeply respect and who has inspired me to be me.

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Rowena Stewart
9/3/2018 08:46:44 pm

The fruits of Serge Benhayon's work are True People, commodities that cannot be owned or traded, living adverts for the Ageless Wisdom.

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Eva Rygg
10/3/2018 11:46:00 am

A beautiful testimony Samantha and how true what you say about the absolute respect and equality Serge Benhayon holds any woman or man - for me personally it has been impossible not to feel and be inspired by.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
10/3/2018 12:11:15 pm

So true that both men and women are at the receiving end of cultural stereotypes which they feel restricted by. At times we may not even be aware of the extent of these stereotypes. Thanks to the unwavering depth of appreciation, care and honouring with which Serge Benhayon relates to both men and women and the way he communicates about them, I have been deepening my awareness of these areas and hence deepening my relationship with myself as well as everyone else.

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Eva Rygg
10/3/2018 12:15:35 pm

When I look at your stunning photo I am reminded what a ground breaking transformation you have gone through since I first met you 7-8 years ago - YOU are a true inspiration Samantha.

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James Nicholson
20/3/2018 03:31:11 am

Totally agreed Eva, Samantha just like Serge you now are a true inspiration.

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Rebecca
11/3/2018 03:55:24 am

Isn't it amazing how in a world where the usual relationship between men and women is one of strain or fight or inequality, tolerance or indifference or lack of understanding, anything and everything true equality and true understanding and respect, that one man can inspire women to be all of who they are, can inspire men to be all of who they are? How powerful just one person can be when you get rid of all that normally gets in the way between two people.

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Susan Green
11/3/2018 01:52:37 pm

I love reading this blog again Samantha, everything you say feels like it is coming alive in me also. I recognise what you are saying for it is the same for all of us. Serge meets us all equally.

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Ariana Ray
12/3/2018 06:40:54 pm

Serge Benhayon is the model for us all on what it is to be a true gentleman

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Otto Bathurst
15/3/2018 10:39:08 pm

Serge Benhayon has made me love being a man - and the world badly needs men who love being men as much as we need women who love being women.

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Michael Brown
15/3/2018 10:46:49 pm

And it comes not from what he does or his actions, but the quality and care he brings to every moment.

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Natalie Hawthorne
13/3/2018 11:07:53 am

We are brought up and conditioned to have ideals and beliefs that keep us away from who we truly are. Until we take responsibility for confirming to these ways of living that are not us and be honest that we actually knew this but followed suit with everyone else then we will never truly be free of them.

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Carmel Reid
13/3/2018 04:37:15 pm

Sere Benhayon talks about our divinity and sacredness in such a way that it feels normal. Previously the words were saved only for saints and other religious figures, and we are now understanding that it applies to all of us as a fact of life.

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Carmel Reid
13/3/2018 04:38:58 pm

Serge Benhayon talks about our divinity and sacredness in such a way that it feels normal. Previously the words were saved only for saints and other religious figures, and we are now understanding that it applies to all of us as a fact of life.

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Matilda Bathurst
13/3/2018 09:06:19 pm

To resist seeing and living our true qualities, purpose and connection with each other is a madness that I have colluded in. To be open to the inspiration of others has invited me to explore humility and the forever learning that is on offer. Serge Benhayon leads the way with a humility that is totally awesome.

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Sarah Flenley
14/3/2018 11:48:27 am

Serge Benhayon is the steadiest 'ship' around. There is absolutely no taking him off course, no matter what you throw at him. He has inspired me to live in a way that I have gone living like I was on a knife's edge and anything could knock me off, to feeling like I am standing on a huge football field, and it takes much more these days to throw me off course. This feeling of steadiness is our divine right, and Serge Benhayon is leading the way for us to live it in our own lives.

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Kim
14/3/2018 12:55:14 pm

One of the many gifts Serge offers is equality. He does not hold back on sharing the fact that the only difference between all of us is our choices. This alone is an incredible gift when understood in full.

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Natalie Hawthorne
14/3/2018 09:51:11 pm

Serge Benhayon is deeply committed to humanity and as you share Samantha the vast list of what he shares and brings through. For one man to share and love so much is beyond mosts comprehension yet when you meet and be with Serge you can see how it is totally possible and that we are all capable of such extraordinary integrity and way of being not just for self but for all.

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Rebecca
15/3/2018 12:17:46 pm

In a world where being a 'gentleman' is becoming slowly synonymous with treating women like they aren't capable or competent, Serge Benhayon is reclaiming the word in its true meaning, living as a man in full respect of women to such an extent that his reflection is inspiring to men and women alike.

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andrew mooney
20/3/2018 11:43:49 pm

Yes the word 'gentleman' used to have a meaning of a man of honour integrity and social responsibility. A man who could be trusted to do what was true and put truth above any other temptations including self gain. We have lost this meaning and the word has almost become obsolete but like so many words we can claim it back and bring its values back into our society.

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Sandra Williamson
15/3/2018 07:51:17 pm


There is a massive shift in how I understand, embrace and live who I am as a women and how that is lived in relationship with men due to the presentations by Serge Benhayon. So many wonderful, profound and often simple things are discussed with a loving wisdom that is very often not talked about at all in general day to day family and social situations. So much on relationships between intimate partners was gleamed from the view of less than satisfactory relationships, disgruntled role models or the 'screen' with it's false images of what love and relationships should look like. Re-imprinting the truth of equality, appreciation and general openness between the genders without the imposition of convoluted thoughts is like a miracle - except that it is our true way of expressing and being with each. Serge Benhayon offers this so beautifully for everyone to feel.

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Otto Bathurst
15/3/2018 10:35:24 pm

"In this world there is a general opinion that women are less than men" And yet many years ago, it was known and lived that women were the leaders - in that they were the ones that could reflect the true sacredness and stillness from which we all come. We have totally reversed things and we call ourselves intelligent. Mmmm??

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Karin Barea
16/3/2018 03:12:57 pm

'...and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered.' This is true for me too. Such deep respect has helped me understand how possible it is to trust men and women again and to relate to another beyond any misgivings I may have and connect with who a person truly is.

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Mary
17/3/2018 12:29:53 am

As I learn to let go and surrender into my body I appreciate more the qualities of Serge Benhayon and what he has brought through for humanity. Via the Universal Medicine modalities, these modalities support us to break through the illusion we live in and reconnect back to an inner strength that is the everything we are all looking for and once reconnected we will never need for anything again.

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Michael Brown
17/3/2018 08:31:06 pm

Serge graces people with space to be themselves, not something that is common in a very imposing world.

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Samantha Davidson
22/3/2018 07:45:58 am

Yes indeed, this is what occurs...I can feel that in my meetings with him, no expectations or impositions and wow we get to connect with our own and everyones potential.

So often our heads are so occupied by our next thing on our 'to do list', agenda, opinion, emotion there is very little space / grace that we offer ourselves or each there. and while our heads do not need to empty of thoughts it is a very powerful choice to begin to check the quality of them and how they impact on our interactions with others. Grace is naturally felt when we offer space, through our responsibility in how we are with ourselves.

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Eva Rygg
23/3/2018 12:03:42 pm

How true Michael - sadly it is not common in our society to give each other the space to just be who we are.

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Matilda Bathurst
31/3/2018 04:56:08 am

I totally agree Michael and sense many times that Serge sees my qualities in their fullness when I am lost in some way and cannot.

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Rowena Stewart
17/3/2018 10:39:44 pm

Meeting Serge Benhayon instigates an amazing collaboration of will and commitment to be all we are, fragile, sensitive and powerful beings expressing our innate integrity. It is such an incredible privilege to witness so many powerful and gorgeous women claiming our truth.

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Donna Gianniotis link
18/3/2018 11:23:37 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true gentleman. When in his presence every person feels his equal no matter if you are a man or woman. As a woman I feel deeply held and respected by Serge and his beholding allows me to be the truly delicate woman that I am. I am deeply grateful to have Serge Benhayon in my life.

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Samantha Davidson
16/9/2018 09:39:35 am

To truly be meet as an equal, and an equal on a grand scale, with no limitations of potential. To be of Love equally, this is what occurs when you meet Serge Benhayon.

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Eva Rygg
19/3/2018 03:59:36 am

'This is how a man inspired a woman to exploring her true feminine ways and return to a truthful harmonious way of life.' - Beautifully said - and I know Serge Benhayon has inspired countless other men and women to let go of old and disharmonious behaviours and patterns, to now choose to live their lives based on love, truth and harmony.

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Lucy Duffy
19/3/2018 02:04:31 pm

"This is how a man inspired a woman to exploring her true feminine ways and return to a truthful harmonious way of life. And I am not alone in that." You most definitely are not alone in that Samantha. Here I sit - a woman who thanks to Serge Benhayon has gone from feeling like a person (not a woman), a workhorse thinking I had to carry the world, to knowing myself to be a delicate, beautiful, sensitive, sweet, sexy and oh so powerful woman.
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Alison Pearson
20/3/2018 01:56:59 am

Serge Benhayon is a beautiful reflection of the power of love. He is a very gentle man yet men and woman young and old all love being around him, it is thoroughly captivating to be in his presence as he holds everyone in love and sees them for the truth of who they are. There is no 'need' to be anything other than our true selves in life, as nothing could ever be more alluring.

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James Nicholson
20/3/2018 03:30:22 am

Serge Benhayon sure is a true gentleman in every sense of the word inspiring us all to live more of the love we all know and feel within just are for whatever reason afraid to show it all and let it out in full.

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Tricia Nicholson
20/3/2018 10:13:05 pm

Serge Benhayon has been my inspiration to live what I know, be who I am and love myself and everyone by his reflection and absolute commitment and dedication to humanity . He has a realness and understanding of both genders and the way we can truly relate from our tenderness and sensitivity and the honouring of this which is beautiful to feel and connect to our innate sacredness and divinity. Serge Benhayon is an amazing deeply sensitive loving man showing us who we all are and how to live this in the world.

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Ariana Ray
20/3/2018 11:01:01 pm

It is inspiring to read how after meeting Serge Benhayon that you 'began an unfolding path of redefining, reappraising and reestablishing of how I lived, cared for myself and expressed....' To consider this is something we all need to do, man and woman alike, ever changing and deepening our relationship with our inner-most.

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andrew mooney
20/3/2018 11:38:02 pm

The sense I get when I am reading this blog is that really gender is not the most important thing, but rather that we are all sacred human beings and can be honoured in that and when we connect with this essence then we all feel closer and more respectful of each other knowing that in essence we are united.

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Eva Rygg
22/4/2018 05:56:54 am

Our essence never asks which gender it is.

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Jennifer Smith
21/6/2018 12:25:42 pm

Well said Andrew I agree. I have always felt uncomfortable with "men are this way and women are that way and never the 2 shall meet" style of comments. They have never felt true because I can feel that we are the same within. There are very obvious physiological differences, which have purpose, but when we scratch beneath the surface just a little we can feel something that is there that we deeply connect us as one, rather than separate us as we have done for a very long time. Perhaps its time we asked - is this really working?

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Janet
21/3/2018 01:26:17 am

Serge Benhayon moves with the authority and grace of heaven in all its glory, and so we cannot but be touched by this exquisite quality reflected to us that re-ignites the same within us.

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Samantha Davidson
22/3/2018 07:48:39 am

It is something to be appreciated that we can support one another and complement one another gender to gender rather than find fault or be blaming. Liberation comes from a choice to live responsibly in our own lives, everything flows from that. A man can inspire that in a woman, responsibility and inspiration are genderless, they about truth and love.

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Carolien Braakenburg
23/3/2018 09:51:17 am

I am touched by your blog Samantha as it arises in me an even deeper appreciation of what I have refound because of Serge. Not only have I reclaimed myself as a woman, I have a whole new way of seeing and understanding men and I am relating very differently with both women and men. There is a wealth of beauty, love, tenderness, intimacy, connection and brotherhood to be discovered when we refind who we are in our true expression. There is no thank you big enough for that.

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Sam
23/3/2018 06:59:39 pm

I have watched in amazement over the last 7 years how many people's lives have changed immensely since meeting Serge Benhayon. This man is here to remind us the divinity we have forever inside.

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Eva Rygg
22/4/2018 05:52:56 am

I agree - the changes that are taking place are mind blowing, so much so, that it is very confronting for those who are not open for true change.

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Nattaliya link
24/3/2018 02:39:24 pm

Serge Benhayon has offered us the most simple and loving understanding that we are far more greater than we care to realise and that the depth of our quality can be lived and shown to others with the greatest levels of respect and understanding that he walks each and every day.

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Sandra Vicary
25/3/2018 08:53:15 am

"....he is a man that both men and women like to be around, and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered." I can relate to how you felt on meeting Serge for the first time Samantha. I too had never met a man who had met me in this way before either, and it opened up a whole other world of possibilities for me in terms of my relationships with other men. What Serge offers to both men and women when he first meets anyone is undeniably profound as he has no agenda other than to present all of himself with all the love that he is, and to see all others as equal to him without question.

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Heather Pope
25/3/2018 09:03:02 am

Power and sensitivity are not polar opposites, they are reflections of the heart that demonstrate a new way of living.

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Eva Rygg
22/4/2018 05:48:41 am

How true, though we live in a world that would swear they were the polar opposite qualities.

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Eduardo Feldman
29/3/2018 01:05:38 am

What Serge’s inspire is to connect to the essence of ourselves in a way that allow us to feel that we are all equal while, at the same time, feeling what is true natural in each of us. And, when we connect with that and walk in the awe of it, magic takes place.

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Samantha Davidson
7/4/2018 12:01:45 am

I agree, it awakens us from within to know and live our divine equality, I love the science of relationships and how inspiration actually works, the light fires up within us rather taking anything on or following. This is when we truly live our potential and eqauility when we know ourselves to be no less or no more from anyone else’s on the planet but understand that we are all more grand, divine and magic than our human lives can comprehend. Being with our being, our energetic awareness, fires up through this true inspiration.

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Sandra Vicary
31/3/2018 12:17:30 am

"Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another" So true. And although there are some who will dispute this, on some level it cannot be denied that they have never felt 'met' and 'held' in such love that Serge Benhayon 'meets' and 'holds' everyone in.

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Eva Rygg
22/4/2018 05:46:12 am

There will always be those who dispute truth to the 'bitter end'.

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Matilda Bathurst
31/3/2018 04:53:00 am

To have a reflection in our lives of true equality, as Serge Benhayon is, is one of the most inspiring and realising things I have ever experienced.

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Suzanne Anderssen
3/4/2018 02:10:06 pm

I love this paragraph Samantha: "...He is a true gentleman, he holds a lived authority, gentleness and strength that is undeniable, he is a man that both men and women like to be around, and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal..."
For it says it all; it describes who Serge is and the type of person that is possible for all to be too, such qualities of gentleness and strength and respectfulness.

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Michael Brown
3/4/2018 03:05:37 pm

What is felt when one meets serge is instantly undeniable. It is then whether we honour what we feel or fight it that lays the path before our feet.

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Tricia Nicholson
4/4/2018 11:02:02 pm

To have Serge Benhayon in my life is the most beautiful real and loving inspiration of true livingness love and equality there is. "Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another. "

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Rowena Stewart
7/4/2018 09:46:06 am

The sparkle and joy in your photo Samantha says it all. The grace with which we are met and celebrated by Serge Benhayon brings everyone back to our true essence and sparkle, a living master who imbues all his relationships with a deep respect, love and simple joy.

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Jonathan Stewart
15/4/2018 09:14:28 pm

So true, Rowena. The photograph of Samantha and the many other photographs of those who have been inspired by Serge are the living proof of this.

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Michael Brown
9/4/2018 02:51:27 pm

When you meet Serge Benhayon you learn more about yourself than you do about him or anything else.

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Matilda Bathurst
19/4/2018 05:52:55 pm

I love the simplicity of this statement, Michael. Met by someone who sees more of our potential than we do, it is eye-opening and revealing to walk alongside Serge and know ourselves more fully.

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Shami
9/4/2018 09:43:46 pm

I feel that it is true, that there are deep hurts living amongst women today as we struggle to feel whole and sacred with ourselves and thereby struggle to accept the absolute top levels of intimacy and respect in our relationships, settling instead for less. When Serge Benhayon however first met me, I was given the opportunity to observe that this struggle was mine but I did not have to own it and I could in fact just let it go and let love in. And since this moment it has been an uphill climb as I would oscillate between letting people in and keeping them out, but with each step the way becomes more clear and the struggle less so dominating, as feeling whole and sacred starts to become normal once again.

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Mary
11/4/2018 08:01:50 pm

Serge Benhayon walks amongst us all in such a way that inspires us that there is more to life than what we see on the surface. He seems to invite us all to look deeper within ourselves and re-discover our true intelligence this has nothing to do with the mind but what is naturally held within our bodies. I know from my own experience this is true as I have always ignored what my body was telling me for years. Now I listen to it rather than my mind and life has become much more even and joyful.

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Golnaz Shariatzadeh
12/4/2018 02:57:50 am

It is such a blessing to witness someone like Serge Benhayon walk, talk and live in every way the deepest values you hold in your heart and on top of that honouring of you as mentioned here: "absolutely equal, worthy and appreciated with no imposition or underlying agenda". This not only offers a healing in relationship to people, but also proves beyond doubt that it is possible to live those qualities in the world and worth having a go.

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Michael Brown
14/4/2018 09:21:26 am

The care on offer from Serge is very profound

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Jonathan Stewart
15/4/2018 09:06:45 pm

"And recognising this integrity, power and equality in him, brought the realisation from within me, that to see it in another I must already know it within myself." Realising that when we recognise qualities and behaviours in another are reflections of the same within us is a doorway to the potential for great healing.

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Joseph Barker
18/4/2018 12:46:13 am

Serge Benhayon is the most beautiful man - delicate, understanding, simple and wise - not because he is special but simply because he’s embraced the truth about energy and being a man. He doesn’t preach just talks his walk and inspires with his open heart. The world desperately needs more examples like Serge.

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Rowena Stewart
18/4/2018 07:53:21 pm

The way in which Serge Benhayon meets people puts us firmly back in the driving seat of our lives. From thereonin, how we want to move forward with this is our choice, to embrace it and commit to life or walk away, it is clearly up to us to choose. And as evidenced by your gorgeous photo, when we choose to embrace it, we light up with the spark of life!

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Stephanie Stevenson
19/4/2018 08:20:45 am

Samantha this is deeply inspiring blog to read that so clearly expresses the truth about Serge Benhayon that I have also experienced on meeting him.
"I call Serge Benhayon inspiring, he is a point of light, with steadiness and clarity, he lights up the world, and this lights reach all of us".

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Matilda Bathurst
19/4/2018 05:51:04 pm

A testimonial to the potential we have as men and women to inspire and support one another rather than vie, compare, judge and/or compete.

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Eva Rygg
22/4/2018 05:41:12 am

Very true - the choice is ours.

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Gabriele Conrad
20/4/2018 11:48:41 pm

Serge Benhayon has no tickets on himself and breathes and lives heaven on earth, in the full knowing that we are here to get out of here. It is to this purpose that he has dedicated countless earth lives.

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Rowena Stewart
21/4/2018 09:47:04 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true Gentleman and the exquisite quality of his conduct has enabled me to appreciate and celebrate the gentleness in all men, a true gift to us all in re-connecting to the tender essence that we have denied for far too long.

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Andrew Mooney
21/4/2018 10:41:55 pm

When we meet each other with openness and deep respect we feel connected and this connection has the power to heal many hurts from the past.

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Ariana Ray
22/4/2018 01:21:27 am

Thank God for Serge Benhayon indeed, his way of living each and every day has transformed my life. Without him I would be living in a mire.

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Eva Rygg
22/4/2018 05:39:03 am

'Men like women are also caught in cultural stereotypes that many do not feel are true and they also feel imprisoned by them.' - We have all been trapped in these stereotypes and it highly impacts the way we see and treat each other as men and women. What Serge Benhayon reflects to us is that there is another way, that we can actually get out of our imprisonments.

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Melinda Knights
5/5/2018 10:40:21 pm

Those gender stereotypes do not serve us at all, and even worse they change across generations, and in addition each country has their version. It's an ever changing mire of confusion for each gender where we are instructed from the outside on how to be. There is no truth in something so transitionary. Who we are as men and women is innately within and we would do better to let children and adults be and unfold from the inside, and show us the truth of each gender. We are not empty beings to be filled and manufactured a certain way and churned out en masse, instead we are all we are to be already within.

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Carmel Reid
22/4/2018 11:22:38 pm

Serge Benhayon is truly a gentle man - in the way he moves and also in the way he speaks, there is never a note of judgement in his voice, we are always treated with absolute respect and decency and we know that every thing he says is for our own evolution.

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andrew mooney
24/4/2018 10:44:44 pm

Serge is a true gentleman in my opinion and I am very glad to see that he is bringing this way of living as a man back into society as it is well overdue and very needed by the world. He is reintroducing a way of being as a man that I have always suspected was there and was possible but never allowed myself to live it and therefore I was constantly feeling the tension of trying to live in a way that was not natural to me. He has lifted and shifted this completely simply by claiming who he is and living true to himself as a man.

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Eva Rygg
6/5/2018 12:03:19 pm

I wholeheartedly welcome more true gentle-men into our society.

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Joseph Barker
28/4/2018 11:17:33 am

Currently our society champions wealth, popularity and knowledge. If we changed the scale to quality, the fact is Serge Benhayon would be off the charts. This is actually the true calculation of life - it’s just a matter of time till we see that the other parts are purely a distraction from us living from our heart. Thank you Samantha and Serge for showing us the way.

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Zofia Sharman
29/4/2018 10:24:24 pm

SERGE BENHAYON - A TRUE GENTLE - MAN - indeed Samantha, and if I am honest Serge Benhayon is the first gentle-man/gentleman to grace my life who has shown me (and us all) what it means what it feels like to be deeply respected, honoured (as a woman) and loved by a man unaffected or untainted by ideal, and wearing only the mark of love, truth and wisdom. He has shown me the utter gorgeousness and tenderness of a man and of all men in their true expression over society's concealing cloak.

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Eva Rygg
6/5/2018 12:00:10 pm

Beautifully expressed Zofia - I agree he has forever changed the way I see men and the true, tender potential they all have.

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Leigh Matson
2/5/2018 08:10:59 am

As you've shared Samantha Serge meets everyone with "absolutely no shred, speck, spot of imposition, nothing to prove, no dismissal, superiority, sexism, gender stereotyping, protection, sexualisation" and because of this I have felt the difference when others do approach me with one or all of these things. I now know that I don't have to accept it nor agree with it and thus I share with them that there is a different way of being with another just as Serge has with me.

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Melinda Knights
5/5/2018 11:01:34 pm

It's very noticeable in the Universal Medicine student body the absence of imposing sexual energies and objectification, instead there is a preciousness that each gender holds the other in by relating and understanding each other essence to essence. It is a very beautiful experience to truly know men and women for who they are.

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Carolien Braakenburg
2/5/2018 12:04:00 pm

If I had not met Serge in person I may have yawned or shaken my had in disbelief at reading this testimonial such was my experience with people in this world. It is hard to phantom true love existing and being embodied by a single human being and only when we get to meet him and feel his presence can we start to trust again, trust that we too can be gentle, then tender and loving.

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Melinda Knights
5/5/2018 10:23:29 pm

Serge is an amazing nurturing of both men and women, he has supported so many people to return to their essence and live what that truly means as men and women, not from the societal moulding, pressures and stereotypes. In this the equality is very powerful because we innately, men and women, are equally beautiful in the essence of who we truly are. The truth of who we are is actually within us, it can't be directed by something outside of ourselves.

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Eva Rygg
6/5/2018 11:56:47 am

'This is how a man inspired a woman to exploring her true feminine ways and return to a truthful harmonious way of life.' - Amazing - and in turn, the steps of change that you have made are mind blowing and deeply inspiring.
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Natalie Hawthorne
12/5/2018 12:44:14 pm

I have never meet a man that has so much respect and appreciation of women, more so than what most women have for themselves. What I have been deeply inspired by with Serge Benhayon is to actually connect and feel how remarkable I truly am, how precious I am and that I am worth cherishing. I has been life changing for sure and no amount of thanks can really express how appreciative I am of this.

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HM
15/5/2018 12:57:01 pm

It is so awful to feel how women have stood up against men and raged against them, when in truth we all want love. But we let our hurts get in the way and then we only see what we want to see - women having the power but doing it with games and revenge, Serge Benhayon has stared to reflect our role as women in this, and our responsibility to live the truth of the delicate ness we are.

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Fiona Pierce
20/5/2018 11:22:02 pm

The deep understanding and awareness that Serge Benhayon brings to dissolving gender stereotypes and instead supporting people to reconnect with our true essence and expression is something I appreciate hugely.

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Carmel Reid
23/5/2018 04:35:54 am

Serge Benhayon has helped many men and women to have a better understanding of themselves as men and women and also to understand the opposite sex, that we are all tender, that the hardness we developed was a survival tactic but hurt us more than the hurts we were avoiding. So many of us have developed beautiful relationships as a result attending his presentations with Universal Medicine.

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Suzanne Cox
30/5/2018 08:52:41 pm

Ah yes, the “ferociousness of a warrior” was needed no more once I met a man called Serge Benhayon!

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Shami
30/5/2018 09:26:22 pm

Considering how many options there are in the world today for women with regards to finding their strength and inner love, the fact that you have been so deeply inspired by Serge Benhayon in such a way that is truly transformative is really a great testimony not only to him for his immense respect and integrity, but also for you to be able to say yes to re-discovering your beauty.

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andrew mooney
30/5/2018 11:30:49 pm

Your testimonial here Samantha is a testimony to the healing power and alchemy of true love. Like you say when we feel love from another if we are open to receiving it or even entertaining the possibility then a light switches back on inside us. Beautiful and priceless and I would say worth more than any other gift we could possibly give or receive.

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Alison Valentine
9/6/2018 09:05:25 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true gentle-man in every sense of the word, he sees everyone as his equal and holds them in absolute love, without imposition or expectations. His love is absolute and never waivers he offers a solidness that says this is the way, this is how I live, and it is a constant reflection and inspiration for everyone to see and feel.

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Sandra Vicary
11/6/2018 10:09:51 am

"Through my own commitment I have begun to make changes in my life that support who I truly am without the blinkers and chains of stereotypes or ideas imposing on me, I have begun to truly claim myself as a woman, powerful, loving, gentle and deeply sensitive." It is with Serge's unwavering love to everyone he meets, both man and woman, that offers us all such a deep and true reflection of who we are that makes this committment to self and to life possible. Never is there judgement or criticism, only a true acceptnace of who we are, regardless of our past. He is indeed a truly gentle-man that offers another way to be that is avaialbe to all.

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Rachel Murtagh link
11/6/2018 10:56:39 pm

No one I know has been more inspirational than Serge Benhayon. The way he responds, supports and cares for others, speaks the truth with no holding back or self-identification getting in the way, is truly remarkable.

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Sandra Vicary
21/6/2018 01:04:12 am

A true Gentle-man indeed, who inspires so many to return to their own true and gentle nature.

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Jennifer Smith
21/6/2018 12:11:21 pm

With all that has been written about the relationships between men and women of late, especially the highlighting of abuses that occur, this article stands out because it says there is another way that we can be together. There is a quality that we can all live that not only builds bridges but evolves both men and women together, so that we can all live the essence of who we are - very tender, very loving, genuinely caring and deeply sensitive.

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Natalie Hawthorne
10/7/2018 01:54:59 pm

The way I am now with men is completely different to the way I used to be thanks to the inspiration of Serge Benhayon. The amount of love and respect I have built within myself has naturally blossomed towards men and I never knew it could be so open and loving without it having any sexual energy at play. I look forward to many more interactions and all the different kinds of relationships that I have with men unfolding with such care, love and respect. It's what we all deserve and deeply crave.

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Joseph Barker
24/7/2018 12:44:07 am

We have absolutely no need to consider ourselves vicious animals and corrupt bismerchers - and can claim in full our sweetness and divine beauty. This is what Serge Benhayon shows me.

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Samantha Davidson
18/8/2018 01:12:58 pm

Sweetness is exactly it, for myself also, the more I surrender to the true sweetness within, the less I seek the false taste of sugar. It is a true sweetness as you would observe in a baby, openness, innocence, joy, this feels like a true settlement and I know nothing else like it. And this is from a woman who thught herself jaded and cynical, hardened to life, amazing inspiration that is Universal Medicine.

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Kathleen Baldwin
24/7/2018 04:11:47 am

I am with you Samantha in thanking God, the stars, moons and suns and Serge Benhayon for being here now to inspire the world to wake up to who we truly are and step up and start living this so all eventually will be inspired in the very same way as we have been.

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Michael Brown
25/7/2018 04:07:13 am

The quality one feels when communicating with Serge Benhayon is that which emanates from the way he lives day in day out.

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Esther Andras
17/8/2018 10:41:40 am

This is beautifully said Michael, and that is the beauty and simplicity Serge Benhayon brings to us, its is our living way in every moment that is felt in every moment.

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Carmel Reid
25/7/2018 12:53:56 pm

Having been born in the Middle East, where is is almost a crime to be born a girl, and then brought up in the Catholic Church where women are regarded as second class citizens and the prayers of the Mass constantly re-enforce our general unworthiness, it is very refreshing to find a religion where women are celebrated as equals, as divine beings and to rediscover that sacredness is not reserved just for the Saints, but applies to all humans.

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Jennifer Smith
31/7/2018 03:50:29 am

There are many beliefs throughout the world on men and women and how we are to be together. Some quite subtle. Meeting Serge Benhayon allows all these beliefs to be recalibrated, so that we see the essence of the person first and foremost.

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Fiona L
3/8/2018 01:43:15 pm

It has been very humbling to meet a man who knows more about what being and living as a true woman means, than I or any women know. Serge Benhayon has very gently offered us support to break out of ‘playing along’ with what it means to be a woman as presented by society and the reactions to this imposition that many of us have gone into. It has been a great joy to rediscover this true woman and now support other women to find this truth for themselves.

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Fiona L
5/8/2018 12:20:09 am

Serge Benhayon has redefined gentleness for me. It is not just the precision and presence of his movements but the quality which changes in flavour depending on what is needed at that moment but always comes with the loveliness of heaven.

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Stephanie Stevenson
5/8/2018 01:34:41 am

Serge Benhayon is a man well worth meeting and studying - if scientists were to truly be open to studying him, all current and accepted standards of research and science would be completely turned on inside out and upside down..
"Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another".

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Henrietta Chang
5/8/2018 12:21:13 pm

"And recognising this integrity, power and equality in him, brought the realisation from within me, that to see it in another I must already know it within myself." - Samantha these are powerful and revelatory words indeed for anyone who reads them for it shows that what we see and feel as qualities in another must be something that we hold also within ourselves (perhaps just not as yet activated and lived to the capacity that we hold). And so it is confirming to us what next to unfold from within us.

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Jennifer Smith
10/8/2018 01:43:10 am

Serge Benhayon speaks of women like I have heard no man speak of a women. He understands the essence of women and our truth more than what we do ourselves.

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Esther Andras
17/8/2018 10:38:43 am

I love the title of your testimonial Samantha, in its simplicity it says it all who Serge Benhayon is, a true gentle-man inside and out.

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Willem Plandsoen
18/8/2018 12:33:21 pm

Beautiful Samantha. How a man can transform a woman's life to live as true woman is extraordinary.

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Henrietta Chang
19/8/2018 09:50:45 pm

Reading all the testimonials in general, I have to say that they are expressed with such heart felt and deep appreciation for this extraordinary man Serge Benhayon - it is amazing to feel that these are not mere words typed on a screen, but true feelings from people who have connected with the truth that Serge has been and is here to reflect and remind us all of.

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Lorraine Wellman
22/9/2018 10:23:47 pm

Yes, the testimonials come from the heart, with deep appreciation that words cannot express deeply enough for what Serge Benhayon brings for each and everyone of us, and all of humanity.

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jeanette macdonald
21/8/2018 11:34:30 pm

You are definitely not alone. Many women and men including myself have been inspired by Serge Benhayon to be who we truly are as men and women, letting go of the hurts which keep us all on opposite sides of the fence from each other. So beautiful to feel the open and loving space that is now there for all.

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Adele Leung
25/8/2018 05:44:58 pm

Inspiration is a point of light that shines for all to see. This is Serge Benhayon’s inspiration to me.

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Fiona L
28/8/2018 12:29:01 pm

“He is a man that both men and women like to be around, and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered”. This has absolutely been my experience too. I was wary of male practitioners when I first went to see Serge Benhayon. But I found he treats women and men with utmost respect, way more than I had ever offered myself.

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Samantha Davidson
14/9/2018 02:18:05 am

This has been very much my expreince, I know imposition and creepiness, most of us grow up encountering something of that sort along the way, but with Serge Benhayon that is not something I have ever encounter. He an upstanding example, of how men can be and he is a role model to all.

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Jennifer Smith
30/8/2018 02:04:54 pm

Serge consistently reminds us through all of those qualities you mentioned Samantha that we are more than human, these qualities come from that part of us that is more than human and that what Serge lives now every moment, we have this within us too.

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Ariana Ray
30/8/2018 10:34:29 pm

Serge Benhayon is the epitome of a true gentleman, because is is prepared to live gentleness 24/7. Nothing comes from him that he doesn't live. No course, workshop or presentation, no book or video - it all comes from his living way.

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HM
31/8/2018 09:22:03 am

Serge Benhayon reflects the equality of men and women, and how we compliment each other. it is totally possible to live this way and have relationships this way, going against the norm of fighting and competing and resisting which has been going on for eons.

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Samantha Davidson
14/9/2018 02:13:10 am

That is it, we can be true complements, there is no need to be anything but this, and it makes sense that this is what we are here to be. Growing up thinking that men and woman are from different planets, is unhealthy.

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Shami
2/9/2018 12:32:58 pm

It has been my experience too, that despite all of the roles and identities that I have tried to wear over the years, Serge Benhayon has never stopped seeing me for who I am. And as I have observed, I see him hold this way with many other women too, equally meeting them for who they truly are and not for anything else that we may present and wish to be accepted for. No, Serge goes straight to the heart and sees you, he does not pander to the whims and wishes of a desperate seeker for recognition. Serge loves. It is as simple as that.

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Stephanie Stevenson
14/9/2018 12:49:39 pm

Serge Benhayon is truly a gentle-man and is thus a naturally inspiring presenter of the Ancient Wisdom Teachings and a return to a harmonious way of living possible for all.

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Anna
16/9/2018 12:50:47 pm

Serge Benhayon – an absolute true gentlemen in every way, shape and form. Serge lives in a way that can access great truth and love so he can then support others to evolve and have equal access too. Serge works super long days and his every move is in alignment to the divinity we are all truly from.

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Joshua Campbell
17/9/2018 11:45:19 pm

Serge Benhayon is a role model for all men everywhere of what it means to live in the strength and tenderness of a true man. He shows us all how natural and power-full it is to embrace ones inner sensitivity and express from the caring and loving nature of the heart in full. It is a way of living that is innate in all of us but rarely expressed.

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Helen Elliott
21/9/2018 03:41:17 am

Reclaiming the true meaning of what it is to be a 'gentle-man' and supporting so many to release the chains of stereotypes as well as engrained ideals and beliefs Serge Benhayon is reflecting to humanity what it is to live true to one's divine essence and not compromise this. A deeply loving inspiration to all men and women.

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Sandra Vicary
22/9/2018 12:43:14 pm

"He is a true gentleman, he holds a lived authority, gentleness and strength that is undeniable, he is a man that both men and women like to be around, and as a woman upon meeting him I felt deeply respected and truly seen as an equal by a man which I rarely have if ever encountered." Samantha, I know there are many who would echo your words here, both men and women alike. What Serge Benhayon has offered and reflected to so many, is that we are all equal brothers and sisters in this world, and to acknowledge and appreciate this is to truly honour one another.

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Lorraine Wellman
22/9/2018 10:17:47 pm


Serge Benhayon is a role model for all men, to live in their strength and tenderness, he is also a role model for all of us, inspiring and leading the way of living a life of being love.

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Ariana Ray
23/9/2018 10:40:46 pm

Serge Benhayon IS a true gentleman in every respect. He was the first man i ever met who embraced me with no imposition whatsoever - he just loved me for who I am - all of who I am.

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Joseph Barker
25/9/2018 12:12:30 am

Just thinking of Serge Benhayon makes things simple for me - like just now I realised what a beautiful thing this world would see if every man lived truly gently - yet this clue has been sitting there in the word gentleman for all my life - how absurd! Serge has a way of helping us join these dots.

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Jill Steiner
27/9/2018 02:04:51 pm

Such a deeply beautiful sharing Samantha, all you have expressed has been felt by me and so many others, the amazing quality of light that Serge brings to all, " he met me with gentleness, respect, love and true care and wanted nothing from me and I felt this choice of his, like a light coming on and burning bright from within me.

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sue queenborough
1/10/2018 10:19:09 pm

"I call Serge Benhayon inspiring, he is a point of light, with steadiness and clarity, he lights up the world, and this lights reach all of us." I so agree Samantha - and feel blessed to have met Serge and had the good fortune to attend his presentations and have access to the amazing healing modalities that have enabled me to turn my life around to one of love and true purpose.

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David
24/10/2018 09:45:47 pm

Sue as you and others have shared what a different place my life would be in if i had not met Serge and turned around by out of whack behavior that was fuelled by a deep feeling of emptiness and started to embrace loving myself.

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sue queenborugh
6/10/2018 08:21:27 pm

"Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another. " So true Samantha. Serge is the first presenter/teacher I came across who walks his talk. It is easy to pronounce from knowledge, but when you live what you present - well - that's awesome, and it is felt in my body.

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sue queenborough
6/10/2018 08:25:15 pm

"I call Serge Benhayon inspiring, he is a point of light, with steadiness and clarity, he lights up the world, and this lights reach all of us." And of course as with any one in history who has offered a true way of living, there are those who - through jealousy or fury - want to tear down such beings. Serge stands true to his principles and will one day be known more widely for the true world teacher he is.

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Liane Mandalis
23/10/2018 11:31:03 am

Those who live their love and do not hold back expressing from the depth of their innermost self, not only help light the world for others to do the same, but also pose a great threat to the darkness that reigns.

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Caroline Francis
22/1/2019 10:38:19 pm

Beautifully said Liane, a great reminder of the power that lies within us all.

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Tricia Nicholson
25/10/2018 10:41:37 pm

"Serge Benhayon is a true gentleman, he holds a lived authority, gentleness and strength that is undeniable," I have observed and felt the amazing ripples of Serge Benhayon in the world in every aspect bringing a quality of lived love, honesty, integrity, appreciation and true joy to the world .

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Ariana Ray
2/11/2018 10:29:05 pm

That you '​felt with no doubt, absolutely equal, worthy and appreciated' is key here - for that is how Serge Benhayon hold's everyone.

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Tricia Nicholson
2/11/2018 11:08:27 pm

"Serge holds those he meets with this love and care which is a lived way, which will change how men and women relate to one another." So true and absolute and much needed in the world today.

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Sam
4/11/2018 12:27:03 am

The way Serge has inspired me and my husband has totally changed the way in which we relate to one another. Like many in relationships that have had the blessing of knowing Serge Benhayon our relationship has flourished from good to amazing, from mundane to divine.
For this we are deeply grateful to such a man.

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HM
19/11/2018 12:10:00 pm

You are right Samantha, every bone in Serge Benhayon's body is there to support others and as a woman I feel totally his equal. It is a joy to be around him and know that we all come from the same source.

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Leigh Matson
21/11/2018 12:09:09 am

I don't know how I lived until I met Serge Benhayon but that is the thing, I didn't. I simply existed, going through the motions of life functionally miserable. Being reminded of an shown a way to reconnect to my essence has been the single greatest gift ever received.

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Rachel Murtagh link
14/12/2018 06:21:25 am

'I thank God, the stars, moons and suns in our universe for constellating in such a way that brought Serge Benhayon in to my life.' I thank God in this way too, and if there was something more enormous than the universe I would throw it into the list as well. My appreciation of Serge Benhayon runs so deep that one universe is not large enough to describe it.

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Ariana Ray
24/12/2018 11:57:11 pm

Serge Benhayon is a true gentleman, he is respectful, tender and always supportive, unfailingly so. There is no time off or time out, just consistency with everyone.

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Alison Valentine
13/1/2019 09:39:52 pm

"This is how a man inspired a woman to exploring her true feminine ways and return to a truthful harmonious way of life. And I am not alone in that." Absolutely Samantha, returning to a harmonious and true way of living is our natural and innate way that lies deep within us, and Serge Benhayon has re-awakened this in us all to live and reflect this to the world as he does.

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Vicky Cooke
19/1/2019 01:46:00 pm

'I thank God, the stars, moons and suns in our universe for constellating in such a way that brought Serge Benhayon in to my life.' I was just reflecting on something similar driving home after seeing my mum and dad and just how beautifull actually incredible really Serge Benhayon is. I am blessed to know him and have him in my life ... anyone is ✨

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Ingrid Ward
13/2/2019 09:43:10 pm

Over the 14 years I have known Serge Benhayon I have observed many things about this very wise man, one being his consistent gentleness and another being the equalness with which he treats everyone he comes in contact with. It doesn’t matter how old you are, what gender you are, what you do in life, you are treated with a deep loving respect which asks for nothing more than for you to be all that you are, and even that comes with no expectations whatsoever.

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Gill randall link
20/2/2019 10:53:41 pm

This is such a powerful testament to Serge Benhayon and so inspiring Samantha. The gentleness of a gentle man is a power never to be underestimated, the truth of a gentleman.

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Andrew Mooney
13/3/2019 11:53:07 am

Serge Benahyon's genuine level of respect that he holds and treats women and children is something that is very obvious and clear to see to anyone who spends any time with him. He has presented many times on how precious and valued women and children should be in our societies and how important it is that we all treat them with great dignity, respect, equality and decency. There is no doubt in my mind that he practices everything he presents on this.

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Ariana
17/3/2019 07:47:04 am

Serge Benhayon is the archetype of a gentle man, he sets the standards for gentleness, integrity, truth and love.

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Viktoria
22/5/2019 08:16:02 pm

To be treated with this level of respect is something that is void in our society. Regardless of whether it's man to woman or woman to man. We all have a part to play, and we all dismiss people on some level. So to get a sense that it's possible to be different, behave differently and hold people in a different way is refreshing for those looking to change.

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Melinda Knights
25/6/2019 07:36:28 pm

There are so many dimensions to the work Serge brings to humanity and this is another very beautiful example - the way we can reconnect to our true inner essence as men and women and then relate in a totally different way to each other instead of the common stereotypes, hurts and expectations. I know for myself I've also discarded so much that I had taken on as a woman to allow the true woman I am to come out to be enjoyed, lived and expressed. And now I can feel who men truly are also underneath what they have taken on. Relationships lived from the essence feel very different, they are more picture free and based on qualities like sacredness and preciousness. It's very beautiful.

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Amparo Lorente Cháfer
8/8/2019 09:29:06 pm

'...he met me with gentleness, respect, love and true care and wanted nothing from me and I felt this choice of his, like a light coming on and burning bright from within me.' Beautifully expressed Samantha.

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